We feel desperate to avoid this, certainly, but, we will not, for many good reasons
We do not understand ourselves
We are all crazy in very special ways: people with neurological, mentally unstable and immature diseases
But we do not know the details
Because no one strongly encourages us to discover, our friends just want to be good
And to be kind to us, our enemies do not want us to get rid of our trouble
So in the end we at this low level of self-understanding, have no idea who we will be compatible with
The usual question at any dinner date should simply be: “To what degree are you crazy?”
But it is very hard to know
We do not understand other people
It is very difficult to deal with the madness of other people. They just make a good appearance
Initially
What we need in a perfect way to send them and to ourselves a set of psychological questionnaires
And four years of intense psychotherapy, individually and double – before we arrive
To a decision.
By 2100, this is not a teaser – people will be wondering why
Humanity took a long time before reaching it
We are not used to being happy
We think we want happiness, but what we really want is what we used to – which is usually
It does not involve much happiness at all
We grow up, most of us had mixed love, with others, dark things: inhibited
In a sense of humiliation, exposure to abandonment or abuse, in short, suffering. And now, no matter what
We might say, that’s what we’re looking for mostly abroad
This explains why we rejected all these candidates, the hawkers, the mature and the trustworthy
One way or another “boring”
And why should we instead go secretly toward characters in an obscure way we know
They will cause us chaos in warm and familiar ways
Being alone is terrible
You have to be very harmonious with the empty Saturday evenings, the constant alienation and the lack of intimacy
In order to choose correctly
No wonder most of us close half his eyes and take a look at what is outside
The instinct has an excessive advantage
Marriage has to be rational; every relationship with your parents is like a piece
Land with neighbors, it is annoying cold and cautious
So we have our romantic marriage, where everything is supposed to revolve around your feelings, and you should not
Think too much, to analyze your decision, only feelings associated with romance
In fact, the most romantic thing you do may be just a sudden suggestion, perhaps
A few weeks later – in a chapel in Vegas at 3 am
Madness would seem like a contradictory relationship, marriage itself would be a reasonable idea.
We do not go to the school of love
We do not have any information
We do not take lessons, we do not talk to married people and take guidance from the absolutes
We go to it, without knowing what makes marriages fail – except what we take just to be
Just a stupid example of those other couples we do not like anyway.
Frozen happiness
You want to make many beautiful things: be in Venice, on the lake, with no responsibilities
The golden sun at sunset floating on the surface of the lake, the dinner scene at
A small fish restaurant with the person you love and wearing a woolen sweater between your arms
Get married to make this feeling lasting
But all that goes and all that is lasting only in the partner – a completely different mood
You want to stop thinking about love
It’s only pain: grief, dating, .. At night, you want to stop
all of that. Get married to stop thinking about love all the time
These are the reasons why you will marry the wrong person – or you already did
But this is not your fault, no one has already taught us how to do this thing, and all
Confirm we are broken
We, as a kind, know in the end, indifferent madness can not go on, many people
They are hurt
In a few centuries at least, we will learn how it works – certainly.
We do not understand ourselves
We are all crazy in very special ways: people with neurological, mentally unstable and immature diseases
But we do not know the details
Because no one strongly encourages us to discover, our friends just want to be good
And to be kind to us, our enemies do not want us to get rid of our trouble
So in the end we at this low level of self-understanding, have no idea who we will be compatible with
The usual question at any dinner date should simply be: “To what degree are you crazy?”
But it is very hard to know
We do not understand other people
It is very difficult to deal with the madness of other people. They just make a good appearance
Initially
What we need in a perfect way to send them and to ourselves a set of psychological questionnaires
And four years of intense psychotherapy, individually and double – before we arrive
To a decision.
By 2100, this is not a teaser – people will be wondering why
Humanity took a long time before reaching it
We are not used to being happy
We think we want happiness, but what we really want is what we used to – which is usually
It does not involve much happiness at all
We grow up, most of us had mixed love, with others, dark things: inhibited
In a sense of humiliation, exposure to abandonment or abuse, in short, suffering. And now, no matter what
We might say, that’s what we’re looking for mostly abroad
This explains why we rejected all these candidates, the hawkers, the mature and the trustworthy
One way or another “boring”
And why should we instead go secretly toward characters in an obscure way we know
They will cause us chaos in warm and familiar ways
Being alone is terrible
You have to be very harmonious with the empty Saturday evenings, the constant alienation and the lack of intimacy
In order to choose correctly
No wonder most of us close half his eyes and take a look at what is outside
The instinct has an excessive advantage
Marriage has to be rational; every relationship with your parents is like a piece
Land with neighbors, it is annoying cold and cautious
So we have our romantic marriage, where everything is supposed to revolve around your feelings, and you should not
Think too much, to analyze your decision, only feelings associated with romance
In fact, the most romantic thing you do may be just a sudden suggestion, perhaps
A few weeks later – in a chapel in Vegas at 3 am
Madness would seem like a contradictory relationship, marriage itself would be a reasonable idea.
We do not go to the school of love
We do not have any information
We do not take lessons, we do not talk to married people and take guidance from the absolutes
We go to it, without knowing what makes marriages fail – except what we take just to be
Just a stupid example of those other couples we do not like anyway.
Frozen happiness
You want to make many beautiful things: be in Venice, on the lake, with no responsibilities
The golden sun at sunset floating on the surface of the lake, the dinner scene at
A small fish restaurant with the person you love and wearing a woolen sweater between your arms
Get married to make this feeling lasting
But all that goes and all that is lasting only in the partner – a completely different mood
You want to stop thinking about love
It’s only pain: grief, dating, .. At night, you want to stop
all of that. Get married to stop thinking about love all the time
These are the reasons why you will marry the wrong person – or you already did
But this is not your fault, no one has already taught us how to do this thing, and all
Confirm we are broken
We, as a kind, know in the end, indifferent madness can not go on, many people
They are hurt
In a few centuries at least, we will learn how it works – certainly.
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