It is really a shameful, even frightening, feeling to admit that we are at times
We find ourselves caught in the imagination of a close associate with us hated!
At the heart of our minds, we may feel very comfortable when one of our partners or family members leaves the face of the earth.
As if they are run over at the intersection of a road,
Or their plane may fall, or they may have a rare disease that hastens their death without any pain.
Of course it would be very sad, but in some way it would be a great liberation and relief.
As soon as these fears slip into our minds, we tend to chase them in panic!
We feel very guilty about the corruption of our thinking.
To study these appalling fantasies from a rational perspective, we must first remember how little we know about what is going on secretly in the minds of others.
We are aware of our own evil ideas,
We rarely find the opportunity to listen to the hateful thoughts of others. That is why we often feel that these things are more rare than they actually are.
But it turned out that fierce ideas are widespread.
Practitioners and specialists who are able to find out more about craps than anyone else,
Do not be surprised when a gentle and sensitive patient, in principle,
About the accidental desire to disappear a loved one.
Getting close to someone inevitably involves a high degree of what specialists call “contradiction.”
It is a mixture of bad and positive ideas inherent.
When people play a huge role in our lives, when they have power over our emotions, and when we owe them much,
We will love them very much and resent them too in some circumstances. There will be kindness and emotion;
Suspicion and disgust. They can let us down as others do, and know our weaknesses.
They scare us but they overwhelm us. In fact, we will not do anything about it, of course.
We do not even take the smallest preparatory steps; we will never buy them a sama,
We will not encourage them to walk uphill on stormy nights.
But there is satisfaction in terms of those fierce and strange daydreaming dreams. Imaginations are not action plans.
As they do not reflect our true values and intentions, they only act as fleeting departures from strong feelings.
We imagine the death of a loved one, not because we really want their death,
But because our attachment to them represents a large part of our lives, and therefore also a difficult part sometimes.
Imagine a strange but real appreciation of the depth of our relationship with them.
Guilt is a sign that despite the real and inevitable discomforts and inhibitions that relations have with them, we still care about them a lot.
These fantasies do not mean that we are ill; it merely indicates that the love of a human being is never without frustrations.
Fortunately, we are very expected to have a family member or partner
Similar cross-imaginations,
And feel as ashamed and guilty as we do. This is not at all difficult,
But it is further evidence of the beautiful and amazing love acumen. Translation: @autrjim team
We find ourselves caught in the imagination of a close associate with us hated!
At the heart of our minds, we may feel very comfortable when one of our partners or family members leaves the face of the earth.
As if they are run over at the intersection of a road,
Or their plane may fall, or they may have a rare disease that hastens their death without any pain.
Of course it would be very sad, but in some way it would be a great liberation and relief.
As soon as these fears slip into our minds, we tend to chase them in panic!
We feel very guilty about the corruption of our thinking.
To study these appalling fantasies from a rational perspective, we must first remember how little we know about what is going on secretly in the minds of others.
We are aware of our own evil ideas,
We rarely find the opportunity to listen to the hateful thoughts of others. That is why we often feel that these things are more rare than they actually are.
But it turned out that fierce ideas are widespread.
Practitioners and specialists who are able to find out more about craps than anyone else,
Do not be surprised when a gentle and sensitive patient, in principle,
About the accidental desire to disappear a loved one.
Getting close to someone inevitably involves a high degree of what specialists call “contradiction.”
It is a mixture of bad and positive ideas inherent.
When people play a huge role in our lives, when they have power over our emotions, and when we owe them much,
We will love them very much and resent them too in some circumstances. There will be kindness and emotion;
Suspicion and disgust. They can let us down as others do, and know our weaknesses.
They scare us but they overwhelm us. In fact, we will not do anything about it, of course.
We do not even take the smallest preparatory steps; we will never buy them a sama,
We will not encourage them to walk uphill on stormy nights.
But there is satisfaction in terms of those fierce and strange daydreaming dreams. Imaginations are not action plans.
As they do not reflect our true values and intentions, they only act as fleeting departures from strong feelings.
We imagine the death of a loved one, not because we really want their death,
But because our attachment to them represents a large part of our lives, and therefore also a difficult part sometimes.
Imagine a strange but real appreciation of the depth of our relationship with them.
Guilt is a sign that despite the real and inevitable discomforts and inhibitions that relations have with them, we still care about them a lot.
These fantasies do not mean that we are ill; it merely indicates that the love of a human being is never without frustrations.
Fortunately, we are very expected to have a family member or partner
Similar cross-imaginations,
And feel as ashamed and guilty as we do. This is not at all difficult,
But it is further evidence of the beautiful and amazing love acumen. Translation: @autrjim team
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