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Why Old Friends Matter


There are people with whom we make friends for a major reason, but often an unethical cause
Because we are former friends and at a certain stage – may have been decades ago
We have many similarities: in school, we were good at mathematics but bad in French
And we loved tennis or our rooms were adjacent to the university and we used to –
We cooperate in duties, and we sympathize with each other in the bar when we talk about failed dates, or the madness of our parents –
Our Fathers. Or maybe we were training in the same big company with the same (as we thought earlier at that time)
The strange and excessive president. But life has taken us to radical changes
Now, they have three boys. They have gone to the Orkney Islands where they can run –
Management of fish farm. They turned into politics and became small ministers. Or maybe
They work as ski instructors in the Rockies. Our daily lives may be far away.
We may know little about their world and know little about us. If we meet today
Each of us may think that the other is happy enough but we will never come together. Later and significantly
It may be helpful but sincere to meet together for dinner (one to one)
We walk in the forest, or send mail to an event. These friends work as a channel –
As a channel that reflects the previous versions of ourselves that can not be accessed on a daily basis but contain very important scenes
At our old friend, we get shares of our trips together
We see how we evolved, what was hurting us one day, what was important to us or
Or what we enjoyed so much and forgotten by the old friend working as a memory guard
Which we may have somehow abandoned until it became destructive and weak. We need an old friend because of complexity –
The complexity of human nature. We go through stages of evolution, during this stage, we ignore –
We ignore previous concerns and develop a lack of emotions from our perspective of the past at the age of fourteen
We learn a lot about the abuse of our parents. Twenty years later, the idea changes and looks ridiculous.
And free of gratitude. Later the old friend introduces us into certain climates such as –
As if he were a novelist, he narrates the novel and brings us back to our places with the real personality that may be another
It seems impossible to reconcile with our reality. At the age of twenty-two, we see bachelorhood unbearable
We put a lot in someone, and we share very special thoughts and thoughts
At the age of forty-five with the presence of members of a young family around us, we may find ourselves increasingly curious
To return to celibacy again and fantasize of having fun in private and casual encounters. Old friend
The old friend has many crucial things to pass on to us. We have faced life with a different and successive advantage over the decades.
But we tend – conceptually – to occupy our lives only in the present scene
We forget the wisdom of the past that may be incomplete but of crucial importance.
Each stage of life passes through a distinct knowledge in one field or another – which is then – usually
It is usually forgotten to use it to succeed. Retrieve that knowledge
It is vital to grow not for what we are now. The best professors are still friends with their past.
They return to that knowledge not for their specialty
And therefore do not engage students. Best business leaders on the continuum
With their previous experience as low-ranking officials. Best politicians
They clearly call the previous times in their lives when their views were different
Now allowing themselves to be convinced and sympathetic to the electoral constituencies
Good parents continue to communicate with unfair and sensitive feelings
They passed in early childhood the rich and good remember they did not dare
To go to a fancy shop, lest they be subjected to inferiority. We are always the best lovers in the long term
If we had a way to meet ourselves when we met our beloved first time
When she was at the height of humility and gratitude. Old friends are the key to activation
Our valuable and attractive parts that we need, but are in danger of forgetting our need for them.
In the present horizon
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