There is a special, acute way
One can have a social calamity
Through “over-courting”
Group reactions,
Issued by the best intentions.
Which will be annoying, in the end, like absolute insolence.
We meet “over-courting”, in the office work
He laughs at jokes from high management.
Behind the table at the hotel
Wishing the master, or the lady, a very enjoyable stay.
On the opposite side of the table
In the first Grammy
They generously praise all the “potential partner” views of the latest books and films.
Excessive person in friendliness
Guilty in three big mistakes:
First, they think they have to agree to everything.
If the other says, the world is nearing completion
Shaking their heads with approval.
If it happened after a second,
Plato foresaw the technological future
They will approve it equally.
When we say something smart, they feel thrilled.
When we say something down, they love him equally.
May suggest to us, the state of psychological peace that he lives, to be vigilant
In fact, it is a form of non-listening.
Second:
Their praise, with sick goals
Much of the beautiful praise goes on,
But it does not belong to things that we value.
They claim that they loved our rainy umbrellas,
Our bank cards from one of their favorite banks,
The chairs we own are deep beauty,
We seem to share a nice way to use the fork,
But, neither of these counts for us,
If it is not connected with our sense of what we say, and our achievement.
Everyone likes to receive praise,
But, that is done in the wrong way,
It is a special kind of insult.
Third:
Their friendly personality, optimistic without mercy.
They point out: how good our forms look to them,
How our jobs look interesting,
How perfect is our family life,
Want to feel good,
But they have seriously raised, the cost of revealing any of our dark moments,
Moments of loneliness, or more somber aspects of our personalities.
By contrast, a person with “less enthusiastic friendliness”
Thus the person who “satisfies balance” will keep three things in mind:
First:
The difference of opinion, should not be a terrible thing, at all times!
We may be thirsty because someone opposes us,
When we do not feel that our dignity is at stake.
We want to learn something of value,
From our partner in our dialogues.
Second: People want to be praised only,
On the things they really pride themselves on.
Cash value for chefs
Fully dependent,
Not to be disposed of generously.
Thus, the real friendly person. He knows they have to go through several things, silently.
When the moment itself is imposed, their words will be more resonant.
Third:
We do not rejoice very much, just because we hear the words of people who say things are exhilarating.
Compared to people who understand us,
Which often means
Sympathy with our sorrows
And to show a desire to travel with us,
To those parts, hesitant, opaque, and alien, from our psyche.
What drives a friendly person to be friendly
Is the ability to continue, in social gatherings,
– Even with strange, terrifying faces –
Ability to act intimately, to their satisfaction.
They instinctively serve their own experience as a basis for thinking about what others need.
Quite the opposite, the person over-courting,
Allows himself to forget what he likes and dislikes, under the pressure of excessive humility,
Which suggests to them that no one who is impressive will be able to share any of his psychological rules.
In the midst of magic, which is characterized by a friendly person,
Metaphysical vision
That others can not, in a profound way, feel the other.
Therefore, knowing one’s own self will be the key to understanding and understanding strangers,
Not in all cases, but in sufficient cases to bring about change.
Excessive friendliness is not limited to only a few meetings.
Is a solid ground in the modern consumer society, more generally.
This explains why the airlines wish us an ideal day
When landing on a new city.
Or why the waiter wishes us the best of times during the first meal.
And why the employee in the clothing shop,
She made a big smile with her suggestion to try out the new pants
Causing this suffocating friendliness
Is sudden humility, loss of confidence,
During the need to use the self as a guide to the mood required of the other
Companies are becoming overly fond
With their clients with clear personalities,
In addition to this, a number of themselves have been eliminated within the service context.
They avoid the idea that they are after their vacation abroad
They may be afraid of the idea that our family responsibilities.
Or that introversion and sadness may accompany us even inside a closed shop.
They behave as if they are friendly, Martian beings, meeting fragile and complex beings, for the first time.
A person’s excessive guilt can be precisely rooted: an effective humility
They are not guilty more than losing their trust in using their experience as a guide to the enjoyment of others.
Excessive patterns fail to woo
We learned that we could succeed in enjoying anyone
We must accept the risk that we do not like them.
Through our “candidate expressions”
Successful gravitation depends on the underlying sense of security
That we can survive with social failure
Repeat how things in the end will be good, if you want to seduce someone
May be the best way, is to seduce them in a decent, confident way.
We must tame ourselves to the possibility of not having friends,
Let us take every opportunity, to establish friendships
One can have a social calamity
Through “over-courting”
Group reactions,
Issued by the best intentions.
Which will be annoying, in the end, like absolute insolence.
We meet “over-courting”, in the office work
He laughs at jokes from high management.
Behind the table at the hotel
Wishing the master, or the lady, a very enjoyable stay.
On the opposite side of the table
In the first Grammy
They generously praise all the “potential partner” views of the latest books and films.
Excessive person in friendliness
Guilty in three big mistakes:
First, they think they have to agree to everything.
If the other says, the world is nearing completion
Shaking their heads with approval.
If it happened after a second,
Plato foresaw the technological future
They will approve it equally.
When we say something smart, they feel thrilled.
When we say something down, they love him equally.
May suggest to us, the state of psychological peace that he lives, to be vigilant
In fact, it is a form of non-listening.
Second:
Their praise, with sick goals
Much of the beautiful praise goes on,
But it does not belong to things that we value.
They claim that they loved our rainy umbrellas,
Our bank cards from one of their favorite banks,
The chairs we own are deep beauty,
We seem to share a nice way to use the fork,
But, neither of these counts for us,
If it is not connected with our sense of what we say, and our achievement.
Everyone likes to receive praise,
But, that is done in the wrong way,
It is a special kind of insult.
Third:
Their friendly personality, optimistic without mercy.
They point out: how good our forms look to them,
How our jobs look interesting,
How perfect is our family life,
Want to feel good,
But they have seriously raised, the cost of revealing any of our dark moments,
Moments of loneliness, or more somber aspects of our personalities.
By contrast, a person with “less enthusiastic friendliness”
Thus the person who “satisfies balance” will keep three things in mind:
First:
The difference of opinion, should not be a terrible thing, at all times!
We may be thirsty because someone opposes us,
When we do not feel that our dignity is at stake.
We want to learn something of value,
From our partner in our dialogues.
Second: People want to be praised only,
On the things they really pride themselves on.
Cash value for chefs
Fully dependent,
Not to be disposed of generously.
Thus, the real friendly person. He knows they have to go through several things, silently.
When the moment itself is imposed, their words will be more resonant.
Third:
We do not rejoice very much, just because we hear the words of people who say things are exhilarating.
Compared to people who understand us,
Which often means
Sympathy with our sorrows
And to show a desire to travel with us,
To those parts, hesitant, opaque, and alien, from our psyche.
What drives a friendly person to be friendly
Is the ability to continue, in social gatherings,
– Even with strange, terrifying faces –
Ability to act intimately, to their satisfaction.
They instinctively serve their own experience as a basis for thinking about what others need.
Quite the opposite, the person over-courting,
Allows himself to forget what he likes and dislikes, under the pressure of excessive humility,
Which suggests to them that no one who is impressive will be able to share any of his psychological rules.
In the midst of magic, which is characterized by a friendly person,
Metaphysical vision
That others can not, in a profound way, feel the other.
Therefore, knowing one’s own self will be the key to understanding and understanding strangers,
Not in all cases, but in sufficient cases to bring about change.
Excessive friendliness is not limited to only a few meetings.
Is a solid ground in the modern consumer society, more generally.
This explains why the airlines wish us an ideal day
When landing on a new city.
Or why the waiter wishes us the best of times during the first meal.
And why the employee in the clothing shop,
She made a big smile with her suggestion to try out the new pants
Causing this suffocating friendliness
Is sudden humility, loss of confidence,
During the need to use the self as a guide to the mood required of the other
Companies are becoming overly fond
With their clients with clear personalities,
In addition to this, a number of themselves have been eliminated within the service context.
They avoid the idea that they are after their vacation abroad
They may be afraid of the idea that our family responsibilities.
Or that introversion and sadness may accompany us even inside a closed shop.
They behave as if they are friendly, Martian beings, meeting fragile and complex beings, for the first time.
A person’s excessive guilt can be precisely rooted: an effective humility
They are not guilty more than losing their trust in using their experience as a guide to the enjoyment of others.
Excessive patterns fail to woo
We learned that we could succeed in enjoying anyone
We must accept the risk that we do not like them.
Through our “candidate expressions”
Successful gravitation depends on the underlying sense of security
That we can survive with social failure
Repeat how things in the end will be good, if you want to seduce someone
May be the best way, is to seduce them in a decent, confident way.
We must tame ourselves to the possibility of not having friends,
Let us take every opportunity, to establish friendships
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