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The Importance of an Unhappy Adolescence


To be miserable is not entirely recommended, but if there is a stage in life
Temperament can be justified or somehow important
This gets strongly in the age of between 13 and 20. It is hard to imagine that you will be successful or you may be cheerful
In the next six decades if not one who is in deep pain
And the severe confusion associated with this period
At the root of the grief and anger of adolescence is the realization that life is harder and less satisfying
From what we have imagined to this day or derived from the adult world
The emotional protection of childhood has fallen on us
On the other hand, we have discovered a number of disturbing but very important conclusions
As a beginning, the person concludes that no one understands him. Which is not entirely true
But of course, the more complex a person is, the easier it will be to understand him directly
So, as the child develops into an adult, the chances of empathy with the ocean will be severely reduced
And quickly understand his internal psychological state
The first thought of a teenager would be that he is particularly cursed
But the ultimate insight is that the real link with another person is possible but surprisingly rare
Leading the person to a number of important steps. First, give more gratitude to anyone who understands it
Secondly, do more to make ourselves understood
The frown of the early adolescence allows for the flow of poetry, notes and songs
In subsequent adolescence. The most beautiful works of communication produced by humanity
It was the product of people who did not find in their surroundings who they could talk to
The end, feeling different from others
Although at the time it is a troublesome problem
It is a defining moment when a new generation begins to scrutinize and selectively improve the existing system
To be in the sixteenth and find that everything is perfect as it is, will cause a situation very infertile and difficult to adapt
Refusing to accept foolishness, mistakes and evil in this world is a prerequisite for later accomplishment
It really seems that there is no alternative to unhappiness in the middle of adolescence
If a person has a chance to start the rest of his life
Another key to understanding adolescence is a person’s hatred of his parents
It is a real achievement in exchange for the love and understanding of the parents that their teenage son expressed his voice over his hatred for them
It is not a sign of speeches
It is evidence that the child knows he is loved. The annoying teenager is not the one who misbehaves with his parents
And he despises himself
But those who worry about being unpopular do not do what is wrong
In order for a person to develop genuine trust in others, it may be important to test a few examples
To tell them the worst they can think of and witness their survival and forgiveness
You will have to try to break the love a few times before you trust its hardness
Of course, a person’s parents may be really annoying on several levels
But this in itself is an important realization
We will not be able to leave the house and become a religion unless we are at some point in the way of problems
And the mistakes and flaws we knew in our parents when we were fourteen and a half
Another source of adolescent unhappiness is the number of big questions that fill the mind suddenly
The biggest: What is the significance of all this? This question is deadly
The kind of questions teens ask may get a bad name, but that’s how we answer them
More than what the questions themselves are. What is the meaning of life? Did not we suffer?
Why not capitalize people more justly? Adolescents are philosophers of nature
The actual end of a teenager is not usually said to stop a person from asking big questions
And is used in the form of daily life. But when the person acquires sufficient resources and intelligence
To build a full life based on the great questions he was obsessed with at the seventeenth
Finally, and dramatically, adolescents tend to hate themselves
They hate their form, their way of speaking and their way of expression. It may seem to be the opposite of the feeling of love
But in reality, these moments of isolation and self-hatred are the beginning of love
These feelings are what will one day be the cornerstone of the joy we will feel
With the rare partner who will accept and want us
The tenderness does not mean anything unless we spend the beginning of the nights crying alone before sleeping
Nature seems to have arranged things so that we do not get to the essence of things without suffering
The real difference is whether we are suffering for a goal or for a vacuum
Despite all the horrors of adolescence, one aspect of her apprehension is that the suffering that afflicts her
Are often deeply rooted in the most important developments and perceptions of puberty
These wonderfully harrowing years must be celebrated
Because it gives us the best suffering
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