One of the most important characteristics of human beings
Is their amazing ability to learn.
We always get new things
And correct our old mistakes,
But there is something inside us
It is difficult for us to acquire new knowledge or change it.
Our emotional life
Those that start from childhood,
Where we live from the first day until the age of about eight,
It is the hard disk in which we store our feelings,
We learn many things like: Can we trust others?
Can we love ourselves?
Can we be open?
Who is responsible?
What do we do when we suffer in our lives?
How far can we tell others about our sorrows?
What degree of openness can others accept?
And to what extent others can forgive us
What did we say of insolence or rush?
Unfortunately, things are going disastrously for many
Despite all the progress
Which occurred in the field of early childhood care
Since the last century,
Without anyone having intended to do so
Still very easy
To pass some bad experiences
In his early years,
Before we even realize what is going on around us.
We can suffer from a lack of self-confidence
Or from excessive fear of humiliation
Or feeling very ashamed of our bodies
It is a form of indirect physical communication,
And the inability to determine whether we should approach someone
Or allow a distance between us,
We may assume that such failures can simply be corrected
Just as in the second-order mathematical equations,
But we often will – especially as we age –
How these mistakes have been rooted in our subconscious mind.
It may seem ridiculous and humiliating,
Many have become tired of the view
That we have to go beyond what we went through in childhood.
We may be upset about these people
Who are close to 50 years of age
They are still talking about their parents
– who have died since time –
Because they spoke with them a bit of insult for decades,
But dealing with so much rudeness
With childhood images inherent within us
Does not work.
It may be wise to accept
That sometimes controls us from within
He is that five-year-old mad angry child
Which refuses control and creates chaos.
We have to realize that we will always suffer the wounds of the past
So we should try as much as possible to find the right words
Let us know who cares for us
That what lives within us means a lot to us.
The most important study of psychology in the twentieth century,
Which have not been sufficiently absorbed
She says that the first years of life
Everything represents us emotionally.
It could have been easier
If this were not the case
But it is over and the past can not be reshaped.
We are all, to varying degrees, prisoners
To those dynamics that have been placed within us for half a century
By our fathers, they did not do so out of a sense of folly,
But influenced by internal pressure.
These are positions of reality that require humility and tolerance
And the ability to adjust our actions permanently
With some polite alerts to others,
And keep the sense of humor sharp.
Translation team translated @autrjim
Is their amazing ability to learn.
We always get new things
And correct our old mistakes,
But there is something inside us
It is difficult for us to acquire new knowledge or change it.
Our emotional life
Those that start from childhood,
Where we live from the first day until the age of about eight,
It is the hard disk in which we store our feelings,
We learn many things like: Can we trust others?
Can we love ourselves?
Can we be open?
Who is responsible?
What do we do when we suffer in our lives?
How far can we tell others about our sorrows?
What degree of openness can others accept?
And to what extent others can forgive us
What did we say of insolence or rush?
Unfortunately, things are going disastrously for many
Despite all the progress
Which occurred in the field of early childhood care
Since the last century,
Without anyone having intended to do so
Still very easy
To pass some bad experiences
In his early years,
Before we even realize what is going on around us.
We can suffer from a lack of self-confidence
Or from excessive fear of humiliation
Or feeling very ashamed of our bodies
It is a form of indirect physical communication,
And the inability to determine whether we should approach someone
Or allow a distance between us,
We may assume that such failures can simply be corrected
Just as in the second-order mathematical equations,
But we often will – especially as we age –
How these mistakes have been rooted in our subconscious mind.
It may seem ridiculous and humiliating,
Many have become tired of the view
That we have to go beyond what we went through in childhood.
We may be upset about these people
Who are close to 50 years of age
They are still talking about their parents
– who have died since time –
Because they spoke with them a bit of insult for decades,
But dealing with so much rudeness
With childhood images inherent within us
Does not work.
It may be wise to accept
That sometimes controls us from within
He is that five-year-old mad angry child
Which refuses control and creates chaos.
We have to realize that we will always suffer the wounds of the past
So we should try as much as possible to find the right words
Let us know who cares for us
That what lives within us means a lot to us.
The most important study of psychology in the twentieth century,
Which have not been sufficiently absorbed
She says that the first years of life
Everything represents us emotionally.
It could have been easier
If this were not the case
But it is over and the past can not be reshaped.
We are all, to varying degrees, prisoners
To those dynamics that have been placed within us for half a century
By our fathers, they did not do so out of a sense of folly,
But influenced by internal pressure.
These are positions of reality that require humility and tolerance
And the ability to adjust our actions permanently
With some polite alerts to others,
And keep the sense of humor sharp.
Translation team translated @autrjim
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