When it comes to sex, we live in a free and liberating society – in theory
So you might think that it is easy to have some sexual desires freely.
But for most people, the world is not so tolerant of certain hobbies.
It’s a bit strange to talk about what’s causing our sexual excitement – especially talking to a partner
Our hobby may seem strange and politically incorrect.
So we choose not to say. Not just the reaction of others
Let us feel anxious, sometimes we may all worry about where we have problems
In order to be more confident, we should discuss sex in a philosophical way, and ask: What is the significance of our hobby?
Why do we have these good?
The good news is that these things that excite us are actually very logical.
Almost nothing but just weird or distorted
This is the case: every kind of good or sexual addiction
All respond to a realistic anxiety with sexual desire
Let’s take a look at some common scams in theory:
1. Uniform control. For many people, uniforms can easily cause sexual excitement, especially doctors, nurses, firefighters, pilots.
In fact, the sex website is full of uniforms.
why?
Like most cockroaches, the uniform is exciting because it reflects the related anxiety.
How often we are despised by uniformed people: ignored by busy doctors,
In front of a heroic firefighter like a fool, threatened by the pilot
Authority is often hostile to us, defeating our desires
But in sex, we can flip the situation. The uniform came to the game,
The uniform still represents authority, but now the real power is transferred to us.
Showing us the attention we want
The pilot is no longer expressionless in the control room, and happy to be with us.
She no longer drives the A380 with her face, but our companions and friends.
Busy and rational doctors are no longer just serious and responsible,
Only interested in our blood sugar and kidney function. Now he wants us to have fun
A more ideal real world is portrayed through sex: imagining authoritarianism
Help, not hinder us, let us feel at ease, not threaten us
Utopia of sexual love is power, organization, cleanliness, order
Let us feel more comfortable, relaxed, and sincere to ourselves.
2. Obey. We have been taught to be independent since we were young. Living in an individualistic culture,
Dependence is constantly being vilified, pushing us to become lonely as an ideal
But some people are excited about something completely different: obedience
Completely passive, perhaps becoming a slave to someone, surrendering all autonomy
Let others do all kinds of things to us — anything
Being a slave means that another person knows exactly what we should do.
Will take full responsibility and deprive us of our right to choose
The wonderful thing is — it’s good because we are not giving in to the elderly, but
Give in to the good people who care about our pleasure. The happiness brought by yielding,
Revealing how difficult it is to always control things — we sometimes hope that someone can
Responsible for letting us relax from stressful daily life
In real life, there are too many important things that actually depend on the ability of people not to withdraw because of suffering.
The self-abuse role in a sex game is like
Rehearsing the willingness and enjoyment of suffering in reality – even craving pain
And become powerful — because you invite someone to call you a bastard or a slut
One common point of these sex games is that they certainly cannot
Really solve the problems that cause these stimuli. But we don’t need to worry
Whether it really solves the real problem. What we want to seek from sex is just
An explanation, sympathy for these desires, and crushing sex
3. Control freak. We are usually not allowed to arbitrarily instruct others. But in the heart
We may want to stubbornly order and ask those who despise us.
Obey completely. But we know that being too strict and tyrannical is not good,
We need to be very gentle — at any time.
But in a sex game, you can vent our desire to dominate everything.
Someone gave us all the power and asked us to do anything we are happy to do. How honored!
Let us shout, bully, random commands — things we never dare to do
And now these commands are responded cheerfully. No matter how strong, harsh, and persistent you want, no problem.
Because I know that another person will be completely okay, and can do this with peace of mind.
4. Make love in public places. Why is it so exciting to have sex outside? In the park, elevator, toilet on the party…
Again, this is related to the setbacks in our daily lives.
In general, we feel that we need to show the best in public.
In elevators, plazas, shopping centers, garage front yards, and even in nature
It seems to be a bit hostile to us — there may be cold, dangerous enemies
But making love outdoors can prove that the public places are not like what we think.
So threatening. We can think about how to behave, how to behave, to show our desires and still be safe.
Even if others don’t approve it, they can’t stop us. We are strong enough to ignore them.
Open sex makes the lonely, formal places in the city become civilized
Let us feel that the world is more like our own home.
We can analyze almost all sexes and find similar structures:
An Anxiety, and Its Corresponding Solution — Linking to Sex Game
By treating sex games like this, we can explain ourselves,
And explaining to others in life, in a rather rational way
We can explain how oppressive the sense of responsibility is.
The reason why we enjoy being caught by the dog chain. Or because we are afraid of authority
And therefore feel that it is fun to have a doctor check in a sex game.
Discussing like this, we hope that sex can be less shameful,
Not so threatening — our sex games,
In fact, they have their logic and rationality.
So you might think that it is easy to have some sexual desires freely.
But for most people, the world is not so tolerant of certain hobbies.
It’s a bit strange to talk about what’s causing our sexual excitement – especially talking to a partner
Our hobby may seem strange and politically incorrect.
So we choose not to say. Not just the reaction of others
Let us feel anxious, sometimes we may all worry about where we have problems
In order to be more confident, we should discuss sex in a philosophical way, and ask: What is the significance of our hobby?
Why do we have these good?
The good news is that these things that excite us are actually very logical.
Almost nothing but just weird or distorted
This is the case: every kind of good or sexual addiction
All respond to a realistic anxiety with sexual desire
Let’s take a look at some common scams in theory:
1. Uniform control. For many people, uniforms can easily cause sexual excitement, especially doctors, nurses, firefighters, pilots.
In fact, the sex website is full of uniforms.
why?
Like most cockroaches, the uniform is exciting because it reflects the related anxiety.
How often we are despised by uniformed people: ignored by busy doctors,
In front of a heroic firefighter like a fool, threatened by the pilot
Authority is often hostile to us, defeating our desires
But in sex, we can flip the situation. The uniform came to the game,
The uniform still represents authority, but now the real power is transferred to us.
Showing us the attention we want
The pilot is no longer expressionless in the control room, and happy to be with us.
She no longer drives the A380 with her face, but our companions and friends.
Busy and rational doctors are no longer just serious and responsible,
Only interested in our blood sugar and kidney function. Now he wants us to have fun
A more ideal real world is portrayed through sex: imagining authoritarianism
Help, not hinder us, let us feel at ease, not threaten us
Utopia of sexual love is power, organization, cleanliness, order
Let us feel more comfortable, relaxed, and sincere to ourselves.
2. Obey. We have been taught to be independent since we were young. Living in an individualistic culture,
Dependence is constantly being vilified, pushing us to become lonely as an ideal
But some people are excited about something completely different: obedience
Completely passive, perhaps becoming a slave to someone, surrendering all autonomy
Let others do all kinds of things to us — anything
Being a slave means that another person knows exactly what we should do.
Will take full responsibility and deprive us of our right to choose
The wonderful thing is — it’s good because we are not giving in to the elderly, but
Give in to the good people who care about our pleasure. The happiness brought by yielding,
Revealing how difficult it is to always control things — we sometimes hope that someone can
Responsible for letting us relax from stressful daily life
In real life, there are too many important things that actually depend on the ability of people not to withdraw because of suffering.
The self-abuse role in a sex game is like
Rehearsing the willingness and enjoyment of suffering in reality – even craving pain
And become powerful — because you invite someone to call you a bastard or a slut
One common point of these sex games is that they certainly cannot
Really solve the problems that cause these stimuli. But we don’t need to worry
Whether it really solves the real problem. What we want to seek from sex is just
An explanation, sympathy for these desires, and crushing sex
3. Control freak. We are usually not allowed to arbitrarily instruct others. But in the heart
We may want to stubbornly order and ask those who despise us.
Obey completely. But we know that being too strict and tyrannical is not good,
We need to be very gentle — at any time.
But in a sex game, you can vent our desire to dominate everything.
Someone gave us all the power and asked us to do anything we are happy to do. How honored!
Let us shout, bully, random commands — things we never dare to do
And now these commands are responded cheerfully. No matter how strong, harsh, and persistent you want, no problem.
Because I know that another person will be completely okay, and can do this with peace of mind.
4. Make love in public places. Why is it so exciting to have sex outside? In the park, elevator, toilet on the party…
Again, this is related to the setbacks in our daily lives.
In general, we feel that we need to show the best in public.
In elevators, plazas, shopping centers, garage front yards, and even in nature
It seems to be a bit hostile to us — there may be cold, dangerous enemies
But making love outdoors can prove that the public places are not like what we think.
So threatening. We can think about how to behave, how to behave, to show our desires and still be safe.
Even if others don’t approve it, they can’t stop us. We are strong enough to ignore them.
Open sex makes the lonely, formal places in the city become civilized
Let us feel that the world is more like our own home.
We can analyze almost all sexes and find similar structures:
An Anxiety, and Its Corresponding Solution — Linking to Sex Game
By treating sex games like this, we can explain ourselves,
And explaining to others in life, in a rather rational way
We can explain how oppressive the sense of responsibility is.
The reason why we enjoy being caught by the dog chain. Or because we are afraid of authority
And therefore feel that it is fun to have a doctor check in a sex game.
Discussing like this, we hope that sex can be less shameful,
Not so threatening — our sex games,
In fact, they have their logic and rationality.
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