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How Can I Be More Normal?


Most of us really want to be normal,
We want to belong, and worry about the conditions in which we do not feel belonging.
No matter how much we have preserved our individuality and our distinctiveness,
In many areas of our lives, however, we are busy integrating.
So it is unfortunate that our perception of what is normal
Does not agree in many cases with what is normal and already known!
Many of the things we think are strange or pretend to be unique
They are in fact normal, and practiced and characterized by everyone.
All that matters is that these issues are not addressed by public gatherings that tend to be official and conservative.
The idea currently circulating about what is normal does not correspond to what really fits with the human nature,
Each one of us nervous and anxious and sexually motivated and hostile views and lame and generous and fun and estimated and Mhtar and dispersed,
But no one is sufficiently encouraging to admit this.
One of the reasons for our lack of understanding of our nature is due to a simple fact about our minds,
We know directly what we think, but we only know what others are telling us about
It is usually an improved version of the real.
We know what we did at three in the morning, but imagine others sleeping in deep sleep
We recognize our shocking desires, but we can only guess the wishes of others as their faces tell us, which is not much.
This gap between what we know about ourselves and what we know about others is the cause of our unity
We can not be sure that there is a similarity between us and those we meet, and therefore we are silent and desperate.
This gap is shameful, because we can not believe that the ideal strangers we meet have the same flaws and commit the folly we commit
The role of ideal culture is to bridge this gap by strengthening our true vision of others
By introducing us to the real life of others in a fun way,
This is what novels, films, songs,
To show us the mental and psychological states that we thought we were going on alone,
To rid us of the sense of shame and loneliness.
We do not understand that suffering and grief are normal.
To take relationships as an example, we usually believe that others’ relationships are ideal,
Thus reducing the viability of our efforts to maintain our imperfect relations despite differences.
It is hard for us to understand that everyone suffers from grief and are rarely worried!
Despite the mask of joy and satisfaction that he wears.
We are also embarrassed by our sexual desires and seem to be more deviant than the wishes of others
But it is not. All the same, others did not tell us their wishes.
Art is supposed to give us the facts of Toussina great consolation,
Reassure us that our worries and our hidden anxiety that we love with our breasts, our strange thoughts and our emotions do not make us strange.
On the contrary, these things make us natural.
For example, a novel about love is intended to embody the truth of love and long relationships,
So that the trials we experience in our relations do not become a sign of the weakness of our relations.
Our culture is trying to build a sophisticated and organized idea of ​​what most people are,
We must get rid of this myth!
Most people tend to be like us in fact,
Not like the fancy models we draw around them and draw for themselves in our social life.
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