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WHAT IS YOUR PURPOSE – Motivational Speech For Success By Grant Cardone


most people don’t want that what most

people want is they want to be happy

okay you can’t be happy without a

purpose and you can’t have a purpose

that’s not measurable and if you have a

purpose and it is measurable and you

can’t achieve it you’re not gonna be

happy you know good morning to everybody

how’s everybody doing so good to see you

on whatever day this might be whatever

day it might be is it Wednesday is it

dirty I don’t know what it is it doesn’t

really matter

somebody made up what it was gonna be

called so I’m like man they can make up

words and days numbers assembles all

these things mean something different

than other people you know today it’s

Wednesday in America and it’s know

Australia is probably still Tuesday

but that’s not what I’m here to talk to

you about today I’m here to talk to you

about why you have to stay motivated why

you have to stay motivated okay

I mean all the time oh yeah jacked up

completely before you can even take

actions okay like you gotta get super

jacked all the time why cuz look man if

you’re not excited all the time you’re

just not gonna be in like I want to run

my car into the ground okay like I’ll

tell you a story I was I had a birthday

years ago in Los Angeles idea maybe it

was six seven years ago and this couple

thought me just you would know him

they’ve done a lot of TV

but I don’t want to drop your name just

create a little mystery there and they

bought me this wonderful little racecar

it’s a you know one of those model race

cars you can drive it around you it’s a

remote control it’s probably four or

five thousand dollars and I was so blown

away with the president I was like dude

is this really badly and I got really

excited about it right they’re like yes

yours can I do anything I want with it I

took it out of my tennis court in LA and

I drove that thing around around in

circles and hit walls ran it into posts

ran it into steps

ran it into the house until I had

completely destroyed

the car took me about 20 minutes I took

that present they gave me and totally

obliterated it now

what does that have to do with anything

I’ll tell you what dude that’s the kind

of freedom you want man you want the

kind of freedom or you tear the Machine

up CC for me I want to be motivated all

the time I want to be excited all the

time I love listening to your streams I

love good coming in listening to one of

your streams and somebody saying dude I

did this and this happened I love

hearing those stories about people that

it went from nothing to something I

don’t like I don’t like the stories

where people rip people off I don’t like

the story where the guy gets famous

because he went out and ripped people

off for you know millions of dollars and

then starts a career and says he’s

turning his life around but it still

hadn’t paid the people back I don’t like

the stories I like the motivation

stories I like the Will Smith story

where he’s making four or five hundred

phone calls a day and he finally gets

through a lot I like the wall street the

story but Charlie Sheen’s making phone

calls and he finally gets into the guy I

don’t like the part where he goes bad

see I’m not going bad I’ve been doing

this 32 years did I’ve had one lawsuit

in 32 years okay it was completely

frivolous it’s because I got it I got

hooked up with the wrong people

and I can just tell you from personal

experience I had a divorce I was married

for one year had a divorce it wrecked me

man it was like wow you want to stay

motivated okay anybody that tells you

not to stay motivated look you’re not

gonna take action you’re not gonna turn

it around you are not going to take the

actions you need to take until you get

super jacked up every day and learn how

to build that muscle of motivation now

certainly you need skills no doubt about

it everybody knows that come on man we

all know I need skills I got to know

what I’m doing I got to know what I’m

gonna say I posted a video this morning

on YouTube it’s an unedited unscripted

phone call I was in the Internet

Department in my office I took a phone

call cuz nobody else answered the phone

so I was livid answered the phone you’re

not gonna even believe this call when

you watch this call go down I’ve taken

an incoming customer call I don’t know

what it’s gonna be

and I basically answered the call hey

cuz I’m motivated jack but my skills are

so grooved in like I have no attention

on really the call I’m not fixed on a

scrip or a pitch or I have my my my

skills are so grooved in that I’m able

to be free and be myself and do almost

anything like when you hear this call

when you watch this call you can find it

on my Facebook page this morning it’s a

link to YouTube but grant cardone

I think it’s Grant Cardone fan page on

Facebook

was a completely unscripted unedited

untouched a video where this guy calls

up and I said hey what can I get you I

mean you’re never gonna believe you

liked it there’s no way I could treat

anybody like that of course not

you can’t treat anybody like that

because you have not been staying

motivated at high enough levels every

day to get used to your to this thing

right to this to this almost obsessive

compulsive made manic Cece a guy told me

once he’s like dude I think you’re manic

did I think you’re freaking okay I think

you’re freaking little man you think I’m

a manic I think you’re depressed you

think I’m a mannequin I think you what

else you want to do here okay look you

don’t know dude what if what if what if

I could actually stay motivated

90% of the time what if I could act will

change like like okay I’m gonna be

excited now no matter what’s happening

okay I’m losing deal after deal after

deal after deal no matter how good I do

it I’m just I’m in this moment where

everything’s going bad for two or three

or four days or three weeks or man what

about a couple years dude not that years

that were bad a commedia how you doing

buddy I’ve had years that were awful

okay weeks months from the age of 15 to

25 it was an awful existence for me I

wish I knew at that time dude I didn’t

these skills I need a motivation I need

a discipline I needed the ability to

wake up motivate it every day turn it on

when I wasn’t stay up late be motivated

when I’m losing deals getting deals dude

skills don’t matter if you’re not

freaking motivated

so whatever you can go wherever you can

go to get a little freaking fuel man

it’s just a little fuel it’s just a

little bit okay yeah I can do this look

I went from me and worth nothing to in

my career I’ve made hundreds of millions

not just made hundreds of millions of

dollars I’ve kept hundreds of millions

of dollars so you know to keep that much

money you got to be doing something

right over long periods of time when you

meet somebody has done that I didn’t go

public I didn’t sell stock on Wall

Street you know no I never got paid 25

million dive never been paid a salary in

my life it’s well I guess I’m Pat was

paid a salary when I was one month when

I was 28 years old so you know these

guys on Wall Street that run these big

companies the Carly fiorina’s that

worked for hewlett-packard ran it into

the ground she was making 30 million

dollars a year man

30 million a year okay because she got

that big push job with 40,000 employees

good for her man good for her

it’s not how I made my money that’s all

I’m saying so look you got to get

excited you got to get excited and Jared

what’s up Jared Jared plant guys I don’t

know if you know this but Jared glandt

told me to quit running the special he’s

told me three times the more he tells me

the more I want to run we put this

special on my site card on University

comp large slash holiday

Cornell University Concord slash

holidays a $13,000 program and we put it

up for nine hundred ninety five dollars

so Jarrod says hey man you gotta quit

running that guy

we got companies calling me freaking out

yeah that’s your problem

I’m helping lots of people okay so then

he called hey Clearwater Florida how you

doing buddy and then he calls me again

hey great you gotta eat and tell me I’m

begging you man I’m getting so many

phone calls from companies that pay this

thirty grand for the program and we’re

selling it to nine ninety five for

individuals he’s like you got to stop it

I said not only am I not gonna stop it

Jarrod I’m gonna add another program I’m

gonna give people that sign up before

before Christmas Eve I’m gonna give them

the cold call program Pensacola what’s

up I’m gonna give them the cold call

program dude that’s $1,500

Jared cherry calls me back man please

man I’m telling you man I’m getting

cause I said dude you need to figure out

what to do on the corporate program to

up that program so those guys don’t have

a problem cuz let me tell you what I’m

doing I’m gonna give them it for nine

ninety five I’m gonna give it to them

for one year for nine ninety five I’m

gonna give them the cold call program

and I’m gonna give them a webinar every

month when they sign up before Christmas

Eve Orlando how you doing man I love to

laugh dude I love to get motivated I

love to market I love to pitch I love to

promote don’t you and if you’re not

gonna be frickin jacked-up when you do

it you know I remember meeting the car

dealer years ago Larry Van tal this guy

was the highest motivation guy I’ve ever

met in my life I don’t know what he just

sold his company for I don’t know three

or four billion maybe five billion

dollars this guy could grab your hand

put it didn’t matter when you met him

ten o’clock at night ten o’clock in the

morning where it didn’t matter if it was

in a bar or in a car dealership it

didn’t matter whether

was in a grocery standard the guy would

never see motivations by it all in

yeah we all know I got to do something

dude I gotta brush my teeth I got to

take a leak

I got to make the call I got to drive

the car

but who are you I mean look around look

around in the world name I just got just

got noticed the first 10 just count to

10 10 people today that you run across

you get within three feet of ten people

and I want you to rate them on a scale

from one to two you know ten day and

they’re like super objective right now

give me a ten right now give me an eight

anyway right it doesn’t really matter

what you give me what what am I feeling

inside but you go out and meet these

people in the day watch how few people

even look at you

watch how few people say hello to you

watch when they do say hello how

depressed and down they are okay look

look at people look at people and just

just see if there’s any freaking glitter

in her eyes you know any excitement

what’s their smile like is there any pop

is there any stars baby like like what

is it man

look the whole freaking world is average

we have been reduced to to a damn

medicine Society four billion

prescriptions of drugs last year just in

America

four billion you understand that is 12

prescriptions

I’m sorry thirteen prescriptions for

every individual in America you think we

got a gun problem Willie got like 300

million guns we got a gun for every

person we got 12 to 15 prescriptions for

every

living human registered in America that

includes the babies man I mean that’s

every number that’s a freaking

ridiculous

you got people walking around robots

lithium going through their bodies

lithium is a metal man okay if I put a

metal in your breath bloodstream right

now I’m a slow everything down what are

these other drugs Prozac okay these are

class five narcotics more dangerous

they’re spend they’re created they’re

manufactured you think I’m not freaking

motivated did I motivate you tell me

about kids getting drugged you tell me

about kids getting drugged I’m motivated

you tell me about some crook some guy

ripping off people in Wall Street okay

and then and then and then wants to make

a career out of speaking to people after

he ripped a bunch of you that I get

freakin motivated I’m like dude that’s

wrong there’s no way I would send that

cat a nickel all right you show me some

one of these speakers that has one

employee and he’s telling people how to

grow business and how to hire people I

get freaking motivated man this is

criminal it’s criminal

you know you sell me somebody doing the

same old thing over and over and over

and over dude I don’t like that I don’t

like in Justices I don’t like people

that are ripping people off I don’t like

charlatans I don’t like people stealing

you know I get excited man you know

you show me – you show me a guy you show

me Isis going out killing people do you

know what I did I get motivated first

thing I do is I go gun up okay I see I

see these whacks going into schools

killing kid kids and these soft targets

I get motivated do you know what I do I

get motivated first thing I do is I get

motivated you understand what I’m saying

everything I look at for me is

motivation everything I watch TV I get

motivated i watch politicians i watch

mark Rubio can’t pay his bills

i watch Carly Fiorina talk about she’s

gonna be better in the White House

because she’s a woman

i watch Hillary lie to the public the

way she does dude I get motivated

TUC not to ever vote for another

politician again I vote I’m going to the

DIMM I’m going to the post I boat

against these jacks so you know my dad

died when he was 52 years old that

motivates me my mom my mom lived in a

state of almost poverty poverty fear and

she had money good Apple how sick is

that you have money and you’re terrified

did that motivates me I’m like I ain’t

living that life dude I’m gonna get so

much freakin Bank I’m gonna get so much

paper I’m gonna get that you money

so I don’t have to do business with some

wack I don’t want to do business with

okay I don’t I get to say whatever I

want when I want how I wanted that

motivates me man you guys better find

something to get motivate about I’m not

talking about I’m talking about freaking

sick motivation where you’ll run through

walls run over the enemy okay

dominate the competition if there is any

left yeah

baby that’s what I’m talking about when

you market and promote long after

everybody the haters have said all he

markets and promotes too much and they

start admiring you for your marketing

promotion yeah no apologize to anybody

every stream I get on I tell you about

my special I never apologize to anybody

anybody that has a problem with me

marketing and promoting needs my program

because clearly you don’t understand how

much you got to say something to get

people that aren’t motivated to do

something see some of you are hearing

this message for like the freaking tour

20th time finally you’re like you know

what I need to go do that thing Cardone

University com4 slash holiday I promise

you tomorrow okay you’re gonna go try to

pull the trigger on this thing on

Christmas Day and you’re gonna see era

dead link you can’t buy for 9.95 anymore

so you guys are still in that thing

you’re getting a $13,000 individual

tuition

okay I’m gonna launch this full-blown

next year for 13 grand

it’s cheaper than Carnell is cheaper

than Harvard is cheaper than any

business school any Community College

you can go to it’s cheaper than that

Hill the book so cost your freakin two

grand chemistry book that big cost you

$139 this thing’s nine ninety five right

now okay Christmas Day it’ll be over

you’re gonna go and you’re gonna go in

there you’ll be dead link and you’re

gonna be like goddamn I can’t believe I

didn’t do it do you know why you didn’t

do it because you don’t believe in you

because somebody crawled up in your

and told you couldn’t do it you know

you’ve had years and years of people

saying you can’t do it you don’t need to

make money just relax take it easy

settle down get a wife get some kids

you’re gonna be happy get an education

get a job do you you you and I have been

banged so hard for so long

you should listen to motivation every

day and with that motivation that you’re

listening to every day you need to add

skills clearly you need to add skills

there’s some awesome people out there

average cost of books for college

student for four years is 1,200 bucks

and the books are freaking garbage man

you know the program I’m telling you

about it’s not even books it’s all video

content why would I want to read a book

dude when I can watch video you know

where I can watch not not this not this

what I’m doing down now this ramp but

very specific very specific problem

oriented solutions so hey the payments

are to out the prices – I got to talk to

my wife I got to think about it don’t

call me back and call me too much see

that kind of stuff how do I create a

lead how do I get a lead how do I get a

referral how do I call somebody back

told me not to call him back to noon how

do I close the deal when I know there’s

a deal but there’s a price objection and

they can buy cheaper down the street you

understand what I’m saying those are the

things you need every day but look don’t

perfection do you need it every day your

kids need it every day everybody needs

hey there grant cardone here somebody

asked me if I ever take a break ever

take a vacation just want to show you

that I do and then how do I take

vacations what do I do when I’m on them

by the way what is it guy

it started from nothing literally 25

years old broke brought up in a

middle-class family dad died when I was

10

what’s he doing how did he figure out

how to go on vacation in Deer Valley

it’s been eight days here in this

beautiful place I’m going to show you a

little I’m gonna give you a couple of

things that I’ve done that put me in a

position to do this but I want to show

you this joint while I do it is an

amazing look at this place it’s called

40 I think it’s called 40 Red Cloud I’m

gonna share a couple things with you

that I did it might work for you I say

Mike just cuz I know some of you are

I’ve not been a person that’s been

typically very skeptical I’ve always

looked for people that were successful

and said how do I do that how do I get

what they got this guy that owns this

place I’m renting from him this week I

don’t own this it’s a rental which is

perfect by me I’ve been out in the Sun

skiing every day we’ve been here three

or four days he’s now brought my whole

staff out she’s an appletini let’s call

it just left I don’t know where she is

she is but look I’m gonna share three

things with you you have to do if you

want to get in a position where you can

take your staff your family spend eight

days at one of the biggest houses in

Deer Valley look at these views man with

the top of the run

I think it’s Quincy Express two kids

with me here all the executive staff

but bring bring you out to the views

this is a ski in ski out some more house

than we needed way more house and we

need it something I never imagined when

I was 25 20 15 10 I was not brought up

two feet like this rule number one okay

she’s the CEO the company they’re

hanging out

look rule number one you could you

cannot get anywhere in life if you’re

trapped by your up brains okay look

everybody I’m not talking to you about

money today I’m talking to you about

choices for your family let me get down

this without falling down choices for

your family for your freedom for your

time for the ability to create new

things new ideas look you need to be

able get a retreat in every once in a

while we’re gonna spend eight days here

working with staff this is a ten bedroom

house ten or eight because ten sleeps 20

ski-in ski-out I wanted to show you

that’s a ski room right there maybe the

kitchen that’s a big grill our universe

get wasted the Britt first brisket burn

it have to conclude a $40 brisket when I

grew up man we never bought a $40 piece

of meat ever in my

my mom died or my dad died when I was 10

and left my mom to bring me up to raise

five kids one rule if you’re trapped by

your up breeds okay the way you were

thought the neighborhood the zip code

the thinking it’s what I call it and

refer to as the middle class mentality

okay

safe grow old get a job take your time

don’t take any risk if you were brought

up anything like I was then you probably

didn’t have a poker table a game room

with a pool table big wine cellar a big

plasma TV on the wall okay some dude

owns this place thirteen million dollars

this is one of his homes okay one of his

homes I’m over here just using it okay

so me and that dude though have a couple

of things in common okay number one we

both somehow figured out how to think

different cigar room wine cellar think

different okay this took me 40 probably

40 42 years of my life to figure my trap

my problem was nothing it was about my

skills and was it my skills was it my

abilities first I mean those things need

to be improved

it’s um one thing I’ll be talking to you

about in a second that my eyes are all

beat up from the goggles all day we’ve

first thing you got to do is change your

mental zip code

okay you got to change your mental zip

code you got to start thinking abundance

prosperity affluence you got to start

thinking like where it’s people I’m not

talking about you getting rich cuz you

want money I’m talking about you need to

figure out how to get rich so you have

choices period people constantly say to

me but money will make you happy grant

is the master bedroom

money won’t make you happy grant oh my

dude I know how about being happy your

head

I’m talking about having own socks I’m

talking about wasting money on my family

to give my great experience see how to

breath I yeah I’m talking about giving

my family my loved ones my business and

myself a shot and enjoying life and if

you can’t go on great experiences if you

can’t invite friends out hold on let me

get some of this oxygen it’s killing me

man four days I’ve been here and I still

I’m on the second floor I got one more

floor to go up and you’re gonna see a

sick master bedroom maybe I’ll get up to

I gotta catch my breath verse number one

change change the way you think number

two okay and by the way number one like

God wrote this book called a millionaire

booklet and playbook to millions it

literally starts reconditioning you to

thinking millions and hundreds of

millions rather than a $60,000 job Accio

and a college degree okay so first thing

you have to change you got to start

thinking in terms of millions tens of

millions hundreds of millions not for

yourself not because you want money but

you want choices choices you want an

experience you want to build a you know

help for the people last year I

personally was responsible for raising

and contributing to over 107 million

dollars to charities that took money

took skills into know how it took the

right contacts but number one first

thing it took do you got to think

different you can’t raise a hundred

million make a hundred million

build a 500 million dollar real estate

portfolio if you’re thinking about a

$60,000 job if you think about saving

money on groceries if you think the way

you and I were brought up look if you

were brought up poor middle class you

are trapped by your education I’m not

talking about school I’m talking about

when your mama said don’t buy the big

old mill willen gonna be here eight days

you don’t need all that get the stuff on

sale okay don’t buy the sugar sugar was

for the brisket so I can burn the $40

brisket I burn it to the bone then when

you got another $40 brisket to the next

day again your mom and daddy didn’t

teach you that I don’t I didn’t need

four Hershey bars but we bought them

just in case the kids want to do the

s’mores thing you understand what I’m

saying

the rental equipment the hats the the

goggles the lost gloves okay oh I forgot

we water cuz everybody’s dehydrated up

here you need money to give you choices

you don’t need money to make you happy I

don’t want to be happy right now okay if

you’re struggling with money I want to

be happy but I want to get my family

choices first okay I’ve never thought

about great grades got to be happy Oh

grades got to be happy look when you’re

broke you don’t have any money you can’t

help your mom you can’t take care of the

people in your life you’re not thinking

about being happy you’re thinking about

how can I help my mom okay how am I

gonna live the rest of my life every

single day worried about money

Happy’s not what you’re thinking about

okay every time you go to the grocery

store and you got to put back something

or you got to look at the price of

something you’re not happy don’t kid

yourself

that’s not happy that’s unhappy that’s

somebody kidding themselves that they

are happy as somebody has trapped

themselves saying okay it can’t be me I

can’t make it I can’t be a big shot I

can’t have choices that’s a guy or a gal

mom or dad and uncle or an aunt somebody

in your family that’s giving up on what

money spar and money the millionaire

booklet playbook to millions Cardone

university all this was created okay to

help me show you how to get out of this

middle class low life save your pennies

save the pennies a penny saved is a

penny earned you know that lesson dude a

penny saved is a penny number one rule

you got to do change what you’re looking

at change what you think about money

prosperity and affluence start thinking

about making millions hundreds of

millions of dollars not a sixty thousand

job $60,000 your job and a key over and

growing old one day and having your

retirement taken care of number two rule

by the way most people don’t even live

long enough to take advantage of their

retirement number two rule ready you

gotta get some skills you want to get

knows how to sell things cat that owns

that house by the way dudes only here

about six weeks at a year he’s here four

both these dudes learned how to sell

products how to market how to promote

that’s what cart on you yes cart on you

was the first break I got in my whole

life was 25 years old broke and my uncle

said you look you need to learn how to

sell because nobody else is hiring I’m

like I didn’t go to college to learn how

to be a Salesman and he’s like dude you

didn’t go to college to be out of work I

said okay let’s go get that job cuz that

makes so much sense to me I just spent

almost five years in college and and I

am out of work and he says you did not

go to college to be out of a job out of

income and in an unemployment line so I

we got me a sales job and then I learned

how much I hated sales in fact I hated

losing cuz I didn’t know how to sell and

another man told me that he’s like you

don’t like sales dude cuz you don’t know

how to do it I said what do you know

what he made you say if you if you were

selling something every day if you were

making a commission every day if you

were successful with people every day if

you know how to communicate to people

and get people to say yes to you if you

know how to turn a yes into a no oh

sorry

a no into you yes it’s the altitude okay

if you knew how to turn every no and a

yes every objection into a closed every

problem stall and you had a rebuttal

professional rebuttal that didn’t sound

salesy that didn’t make you sound like a

uh you know car salesman dude if you are

professional with every customer this

said no to you and you got all of them

to say yes to you you would love it your

problem granted you don’t have any

skills son you’re trying to sell off a

personality the truth is I was a bit of

an introvert scared of people didn’t

know how to say anything to him in the

in the beginning the opening was the

hardest thing for me that is until I got

to the close and then that was the

hardest thing

and so for the first two years that I

was in sales damn door still locked

didn’t somebody notice that first two

years I was in sales I hated every

second of it

and then I skilled up then I got on a

program it wasn’t court on University at

that time but I got on the guys program

see look at this this would have driven

my mom crazy what are we doing wasting

an apple eat that food

somebody starving somewhere in the world

about this program $3,000 program hey

buddy I was crazy I was like dude it’s

only 3,000 no sir no way I didn’t have

any money I had to borrow money for my

mom she’s like that’s a lot of money I

said I just spent five years in college

five years in college I owe the

government over 40 grand

how is $3,000 for a program that I can

get through in 30 days a lot of money

when I just spent I don’t know what we

spent a hundred grand

part of it was tuition ridiculous three

grand was not a lot of money to turn my

life around my entire life turned around

because this one guy on a program on an

old Betamax tape 12 tapes taught me the

importance of selling communication

controlling communication controlling

people how to turn objections into

closes how to turn one close into two

deals how to upsell how to follow up

professionally how to become a

professional salesperson that no one

would do anything except say man you’re

good at your job oh oh you’re good

I didn’t plan on buying anything you’re

smooth you know and that was the first

level the second level was nobody even

knew they were buying anything okay

that’s how we raised one hundred and one

hundred plus million dollars in charity

last year selling that’s how I started

buying real estate convincing people to

sell the property to me that’s how I got

a loan on a real estate deal okay Oh

Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac about three

hundred and eighty million dollars today

we tell you something you got to be a

Salesman you don’t need good credit you

need to be able to convince Fannie and

Freddie that they should lend you money

on the deal okay so one change the way

you think

because I know people I know some good

salespeople that never change the way

they think and they never become

financially free sales people they

become good sales people and make a

couple hundred grand here and I think

they’re freaking killing it if they

could never take a trip like this okay

no this would be one of two trips that

we take this year I don’t need a 20

bedroom house

I don’t need it we didn’t have 20 people

Connor there’s one reason I thought I

rented this place cuz this place had two

bunk beds captain Ron by the way it’s

the one that told me kept this captain

Ron okay look if you know if you don’t

know captain Ron you want to know I’m

doing that video you told me to Dawson

okay and I’m telling her the three

things they need to know captain round

by the way he flies a plane happens to

be mob 20 happens to be my plane sent on

passenger plane now I’m bragging right

now I’ll tell you right now Brian okay

because nobody told me my mom my dad

died when I was 10 so he couldn’t teach

me this I don’t know that he would have

just taught me this if he de lift but

nobody in my household in my entire

lineage in 200 300 years ever thought

about to ever mentioned hey you should

fly private

you should go where you want when you

want get there when you want leave when

you want on your terms go where you want

change your schedule if you want to

bring your family and your staff stay as

long as you want to stay ski as much as

you want or don’t buy a week or the

tickets and use them and don’t use them

see that’s freedom that’s what you want

money okay so number one change the way

you think you got to undo that that’s

what would what I talked about a

millionaire booklet i talked about in

playbook to millions second thing you

have to do is you got to get skills

Cardone university is basically that

program that I bought when I was 25

years old

they taught me how to become a master

salesperson but it’s that program on

steroids it’s how to sell in the

internet how to market how to promote

how to follow up how to do it one call

close how to do cold calls how to do

warm calls how to get referrals how to

build a pipeline how to negotiate how to

close how to work one dollar deals in

one hundred million dollar deals fifteen

hundred segments of content sit there

okay so if you’re an entry level

salesperson sooner or later you’ve got

to learn how to do this okay the Wi-Fi

at me she’s an actress she’s hot she’s

amazing she didn’t know I would because

that wasn’t accurate so what did I did I

put my sales skills on her it was a

sales job when I get my kids to do

things it’s the sales job right when I

buy an apartment building it’s a sales

job about thirty million dollar deal I

pay twenty six million part there was

another guy online

that’s a sales job how do you negotiate

save yourself money at the beginning of

a deal and then sell the deal for more

money later that’s how you make money

that’s how you create freedom the third

thing you got it number one change your

mind number two

you got the learn of the sales game you

got to learn the sales game at some

point number three things okay do you

got to surround yourselves with some

great people okay that’s why I do these

retreats I want great people around me

removed from my crazy environment the

third thing you must do and you’ve heard

it over and over and over again has

changed your friends and how do you

change your friends okay you’re gonna

change your friends because you gotta

get some money okay you can’t hang

around broke people and expect to be

rich you can’t hang around people that

are just getting by and expect to live a

rich life you cannot help your church or

your favorite charity if the people

around you are broke you could be rich

and still be broke because everybody

around you is broke I measure my success

today

by how many people around me are doing

well I don’t want my wife worried about

money I don’t want captain worried about

money I don’t want my CEO worried about

money I don’t want the people that work

in my company worried about money I want

them to bill to come on a trip with me

and be productive while they’re gone not

go home to money problems because a

person is having money problems who will

about I haven’t always been a respected

consultant

businesses you know years ago didn’t

call me and say hey come fix my business

sure come help me with my business or

come help me grow my business nobody

knew me I was actually what I want to

talk to you about today is

inconsistencies and how look if you’re

inconsistent in your life right now if

you’re having trouble showing up on

Mondays or Tuesdays or Wednesdays or

Thursdays or whatever day right or

you’re having trouble staying consistent

you’re having trouble staying with it or

you’re going up and down if you’ve ever

been labeled a DD or ADHD or bipolar I

mean somebody might think I’m bipolar a

DD or something just because I pulled

over today I was on my way to the office

and I’m like I had this kind of knowing

sense of I don’t know a little light

gray depression and it reminded me I’ve

experienced this most of my life

experience like a little bit of

unsureness I don’t know what you call it

exactly you know one morning you wake up

you’re ready I’m gonna take on the world

and the next day you’re like I don’t

know what to do today what’s gonna

happen today I wasn’t leaving I was

leaving today and a guy that works with

me said hey have a great day today and I

was like yeah I’m gonna try to make

something happen you know and I was

aware at that moment how many times in

my life

I’ve woken up like not sure I think it

started happening for me years ago

like like probably around 12 or 13 I

didn’t know what to do every day what’s

what today gonna bring I think maybe

it’s after watching so much TV and

eating so much sugar you know I think

our diets definitely have a lot to do

with all that but look I want to give

you something today about how to get out

of the funk the funky hunk dunk when I

by the time I was 25 this thing went on

from 12 to 25 at 25 years old I was in

so much depression every day I was using

drugs alcohol I was self-medicating

constantly making bad decisions I lived

in a 275 I mean I just remember how much

it was it was $275 a month and every

other month I couldn’t make the bill

with the payment I was late today I live

in this joint right here

live up on the 33rd floor of this place

and a completely different life today

than I had then 25 I went to a treatment

center for 20 28 days for drug addiction

I was using drugs every day hated it

let me tell you something worse than

drugs it’s how you feel about yourself I

hated myself every time I did a drug

every time I smoked weed every count

every time I did any drug the moment I

put the pill in my mouth the weed to my

mouth something in my nose

I needed myself I never felt good about

using drugs

and so by the time I was 25 I had been

using drugs for 10 years but my problem

started before that my problems didn’t

start with the drugs it started with my

inability to manage this light grade

chronic depression this for lack of

better words this this idea that I

that I didn’t love myself you know that

that you know my mom gave my mom quit on

me my mom told me hey don’t come around

here anymore my twin brother pretty much

was done with me my sisters both nude

that I was in trouble and we’re like oh

my god you know we’re gonna get a call

on him today the people I worked with

the principal at high school I went to

said I couldn’t couldn’t windall catcher

in my eleventh and twelfth grade told my

mom that my student my PE teacher said I

would amount to nothing I wrecked my car

on my driver’s ed test I failed my

driver’s license test I was fired from

my first six jobs wouldn’t leave the six

one dude I’m telling you I was

loser okay I’m telling you loser and I

didn’t have to ask other people nobody

had to tell me I was a loser I knew I

was a loser so look if you’ve ever been

there I know there’s people watching

this right now maybe you don’t even know

who I am you’re like who’s this dude

talking about himself you know I’ve come

from that where I was bankrupt

spiritually financially physically I

weighed 134 pounds that’s 40 pounds less

than I weigh today I was broken every

way possible I didn’t have any money I

was in debt but worst the worst thing

the worst of the worst of the worst was

how I felt about myself

I got a treatment center the counselor

told me on the way out of the treatment

center if you read my last book be

obsessed or be averaged it was the first

book that I really shared anything about

my life of all seven of my books that

that one gives you a kind of a look

inside my life more than anything and

maybe what I’ll do is in this maybe what

others I’ll have my guys give you give

you a chapter of that book free and it’s

not what I came here to give you I want

to do I do want to give you something

but maybe my guys could put a couple of

different links in here for you so I got

on that treatment center the counselor

said to me I think his name was Philip I

don’t remember the guy he said to me guy

was really confused he was more confused

than I was he said now that I look back

he said to me he said to me he said hey

if you leave here

if you leave here and you don’t give up

you know cuz when you’re there you spill

your guts tell them everything and I

told him I wanted to be rich and famous

and help people write books and you know

be known all over the world he says if

you don’t give all those ideas up here I

think he called it grandiosity if you

don’t give up all these grandiose ideas

changing the world being rich being

famous if you don’t change all those

ideas you’ll never ever ever make it you

will never stay would he call it you’ll

never stay dry and sober my problem

wasn’t without call it was with drugs

but you know when you’re drugging your

alcohol and so I left there I left that

place and I said dude I’m gonna make it

I’m gonna show this guy I’m gonna show

this guy I’m gonna get rich I’m gonna

get famous I’m gonna change the world

I’m gonna be known for somebody doing

something I’m not using anymore drugs

I’m gonna show this guy fill up whatever

his name was I forgot his name I’m gonna

show this dude and I’m gonna show

everybody else but most importantly I’m

and I can make it and I’m gonna make it

big and when I make it big one day I’m

gonna help people I’m a pull over on a

Monday morning like I’m pulling over

right now

and tell people how I got how I made it

okay now today just so you understand

the sit so Asian today I have remember

where I was at when I was 25

today I’m on for businesses we do about

a hundred million dollars a year in

sales I have 500 million dollars for the

real estate

I bought installed three-quarters of a

billion dollars where the real estate

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and written seven books 13 business

programs I’ve traveled all over the

world speaking to audiences we had a 10x

growth conference last year with 2,500

people

guys like Daymond John Kevin Harrington

all the Sharks were there I mean I have

an unbelievable life today two beautiful

children a beautiful wife that somehow

convinced to be with me and unbelievable

customers and clients and and friends in

my life I live in Miami I live in this

place called regalia’s 33

I live on a thirty third floor it’s 40

and I think it’s 42 floors every floor

somebody owns a floor the whole floor I

mean it’s unbelievable I live I got this

great car right here you can see the

little little are ours on it

get a friend balmy by the way okay you

know what nobody knows about this car I

didn’t buy a buddy bought it for me I

mean how good a friend is that so why am

I telling you all that I’m telling you

all that to say look I’m still waking up

this morning saying hey what am I gonna

do today okay look it’s not depression

it’s not you you don’t have a disease

you’re not powerless and you’re not

unmanageable like they told me in that

treatment center they said I was

powerless unmanageable my life was out

of order I could never have control that

I was just a manic bipolar ATD ADHD

I was manifesting addictions and

symptoms of addiction and it was because

of all my losses in my life and Lala

ah and I’m like man dude look come on me

you know it can’t like is that it I’m

just gonna throw my hands up and I’m

done

I left that treatment center and this is

what I did to solve my problem okay if

you if you are or ever have been where I

am right now

you’re you’re kind of a menace to

yourself your family and society you

know and I know the feeling of that it’s

like what are you gonna do every day

okay my depression came from one thing

this is gonna blow your mind when you

hear this okay this is what my

depression came from no purpose I didn’t

have a purpose I wasn’t working my

purpose out okay now now that seems like

kind of esoteric like hey how do I find

out my purpose okay here’s the trick to

the purpose thing you don’t need to know

what your purpose is you need to throw

yourself completely into something that

you can measure throw yourself into

something that you can actually affect

and move anything anything like throw

yourself into something where you can

score now when I was 25 I know I don’t

know how many different things there are

to do this I just know that sales as

much as I hated sales I hated meeting

people greeting people talking to people

handle the people’s injections calling

on the phone cold calling

I’m actually an introvert by nature you

know if I’m not around my my buddies or

an environment where I know everybody or

I’m being paid to speak it’s very

difficult for me just to walk up and

talk to people I know that might seem

hard to you today or hard for you to

believe because I’m sitting here doing

this video it’s not easy for me

you know don’t assume that just because

somebody can talk or do a video

or get on stage that it’s easy for them

to do that it might be somebody

completely different off stage it might

be a little awkward it’s always been

awkward for me but you know you speak in

front of you do 2000 presentations one

at a time

and at some point you get used to it

you’re like oh I’m not gonna get eaten

you know I remember the first time I

went surfing in California and I was I

was paddling out there I started

worrying about the sharks you know by

the time I had served 50 times I didn’t

think about him anymore because I had

fifty experiences where they didn’t eat

me

same thing with speaking to people same

thing with our text reverting you know

getting outside of yourself talking to

people the same thing with getting sober

you know you put one day second day

third day fourth day next thing you know

you’re like dude man I got this dog I

got this I ain’t gonna use drugs again

so when I was 25 the problem was what am

I gonna throw myself into what is my

purpose so I was I had a sales job at

the time hated it and decided dude I

hate that fill up dude more than I hate

sales I’m gonna use sales to show fill

up phillipe the counselor dude whatever

his name was I’m gonna show that guy I’m

gonna show my mom I’m gonna show my

brother I’m gonna show myself more

importantly I’m gonna show myself I’m

gonna show everybody I’m gonna show mr.

Crawford the principal from high school

most of what everybody wants in life is

come on I gotta start acting like a

decent decent member of society

I’ll break the ball so most of us what

most of us want most of us don’t care

about look you don’t care about living

in a high-rise most of you don’t even

want that okay you don’t want two

rolls-royce you don’t want to but you

most people don’t want that what most

people want is they want to be happy

okay

you can’t be happy without a purpose and

you can’t have a purpose that’s not

measurable and if you have a purpose and

it is measurable and you can’t achieve it you’re not going to be happy

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