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“Those boys STOLE my HEART” – #UnlockingLily Ep. 21


had to say yes to this I might say yes

to more experiences but we’ll see hey

everyone welcome to another episode of

unlocking lily if I believe that this

world would be a better place if we all

just embrace who we truly are Evan is

currently an investor in my business and

he’s mentoring me to help me build my

coaching and speaking practice and it’s

such an honor to invite all of you guys

to join me on my startup journey as an

entrepreneur you will go through tough

times whether if it’s in your personal

life or your business life so I was

going through a dip in my life and when

that happens I rely heavily on people

who care about me so I was speaking to

my best friend a couple of weeks ago and

out of nowhere she just said why don’t

you just come to Mexico to visit me and

out of nowhere I just said yes without

even thinking about it and that’s

unusual for me because usually I would

make up some kind of excuse why I can’t

go but something came over me and I just

said yes and I realized that I’ve been

saying no to too many things I’ve been

saying no to opportunities no to new

experiences so I decided that while I’m

in Mexico I’m gonna spend the entire

week saying yes I don’t know what’s

going to happen during the trip because

I’m gonna be saying yes to everything um

but I’m hoping that I’m gonna learn a

lesson from this I don’t know I I don’t

know what’s gonna come out of it but it

feels good it feels good to say yes and

it all started from my best friend

asking me to come to Mexico and the

amazing thing is guys I’m gonna bring

all of you with me as I spend my entire

week in Mexico saying yes

I got to the airport so my week of

seeing yes begins right now

I was randomly selected and they asked

me if I wanted to go into the party yes

look they had to do screen my laptop but

anyway always well because I ended up

skipping the line so that was really

good so so far that that’s yes number

one okay

I’m also a good start we’ll see

and finally here I wasn’t able to film

before I passed customs bypass customs

and it’s kind of quiet it’s looking

sunny outside I’m going to go find my

friend my phone is about to die so

hopefully I’ll be able to record some

fun stuff before it dies but if not I

will charge it up and at her place and

then show you guys around so I’m here

with my friends say hello what’s your

name

Amir there’s Olivia so apparently olivia

so I’m nicely settled in my friends

place and everyone just left so I’m

gonna get back to work

[Music]

all right so I finished doing some work at home and now I’m going out for a

at home and now I’m going out for a night out of town with the girls my yes

night out of town with the girls my yes counter is looking kind of sad I think I

counter is looking kind of sad I think I need to say yes to more things we’re

need to say yes to more things we’re gonna go to this hip restaurant and

gonna go to this hip restaurant and we’ll see it’s been very tame very very

we’ll see it’s been very tame very very tame not not much going on with a yes

tame not not much going on with a yes maybe I should start a guest counter

maybe I should start a guest counter underneath super dark alright guys see

underneath super dark alright guys see you guys in the restaurant

it’s like that yes tis especially but I’m sure it’s something

I’m sure it’s something Hey hi I’m Bruce Wayne you should come

Hey hi I’m Bruce Wayne you should come too through here yes and you’re at the

too through here yes and you’re at the right place to say yes oh every good

right place to say yes oh every good morning guys today is the first full day

morning guys today is the first full day in Mexico we are going to Tulum we’re

in Mexico we are going to Tulum we’re going to go to the beach and I think

going to go to the beach and I think there’s some fun surprises I’m gonna be

there’s some fun surprises I’m gonna be saying yes to the beach I’m gonna say

saying yes to the beach I’m gonna say yes to playing on the beach

yes to playing on the beach look over there so hey we could play

look over there so hey we could play frisbee yes they were finally on the

frisbee yes they were finally on the road and off to the beach

road and off to the beach [Music]

[Music] Seve is my is my co-star spent about 45

Seve is my is my co-star spent about 45 minutes to an hour on the beach there’s

minutes to an hour on the beach there’s only so much of Beach I can do I’m going

only so much of Beach I can do I’m going to explore Tulum and look at the local

to explore Tulum and look at the local vendors and the local businesses and see

vendors and the local businesses and see if I could do some shopping and maybe

if I could do some shopping and maybe bring back some souvenirs for my friends

bring back some souvenirs for my friends I just taking a moment to take a rest

I just taking a moment to take a rest before I go back and do some work at the

before I go back and do some work at the restaurant there it’s so beautiful here

restaurant there it’s so beautiful here every single store is carefully crafted

every single store is carefully crafted a so much attention to

a so much attention to detail it’s a really a beautiful place

detail it’s a really a beautiful place lots of creativity and beauty all around

lots of creativity and beauty all around it’s nice I’m gonna head back and do

it’s nice I’m gonna head back and do some work answer some emails try to find

some work answer some emails try to find some reliable Wi-Fi which is hard to

some reliable Wi-Fi which is hard to come across these days so it’s about

come across these days so it’s about evening time we’re going to a restaurant

evening time we’re going to a restaurant but apparently we have to follow a path

but apparently we have to follow a path and the kids are calling The Secret

and the kids are calling The Secret Garden Way see it’s all a new experience

Garden Way see it’s all a new experience for me right now

for me right now [Music]

[Music] along our discover we found the

along our discover we found the gratitude tent

gratitude tent apparently so what do we do here do we

apparently so what do we do here do we do we do we say what we’re grateful for

do we do we say what we’re grateful for is that what it is Ahmir what are you

is that what it is Ahmir what are you grateful for today

grateful for today right behind me there you go the other

right behind me there you go the other ones running away nice

ones running away nice gravity is very important

Paul you kinda it’s on the beach and I don’t know what I’m gonna eat I think we

don’t know what I’m gonna eat I think we ordered something interesting for me we

ordered something interesting for me we shall see okay so I just got back to my

shall see okay so I just got back to my friend’s place after spending time in

friend’s place after spending time in the beach I couldn’t actually record the

the beach I couldn’t actually record the nighttime stuff because it was just so

nighttime stuff because it was just so grainy it’s pitch-black everywhere but

grainy it’s pitch-black everywhere but it’s a second day of my trip and second

it’s a second day of my trip and second day of my week of saying yes and so far

day of my week of saying yes and so far the one that really stood out to me by

the one that really stood out to me by saying yes as saying yes to playing with

saying yes as saying yes to playing with the kids I think there’s so much that we

the kids I think there’s so much that we can learn from children that they are so

can learn from children that they are so present and I was forced to be present

present and I was forced to be present and that’s something that I try to do

and that’s something that I try to do but I feel like I need to do more as far

but I feel like I need to do more as far as like the food stuff is concerned it’s

as like the food stuff is concerned it’s okay you know I’m not too concerned

okay you know I’m not too concerned about that but really seeing yes to

about that but really seeing yes to playing for the kids is the one that’s

playing for the kids is the one that’s like right up there for me

like right up there for me I still have another five days to go and

I still have another five days to go and we’ll see where it takes me so far so

we’ll see where it takes me so far so good so today I said yes to doing a

good so today I said yes to doing a Reiki appointment I have never done

Reiki appointment I have never done anything like this before but it comes

anything like this before but it comes with rave reviews so I’m going to try

with rave reviews so I’m going to try this out and let you guys know how this

this out and let you guys know how this goes

goes I just finished an amazing session with

I just finished an amazing session with my new friend today Mari

my new friend today Mari mega bunny hmm yeah she she brought up a

mega bunny hmm yeah she she brought up a lot of things in me she said I’m highly

lot of things in me she said I’m highly analytical which is true I don’t connect

analytical which is true I don’t connect with my heart enough money what what is

with my heart enough money what what is some what do you love about doing this

some what do you love about doing this type of work you know that um this is

type of work you know that um this is energy treatment more than physical

energy treatment more than physical therapy so because if if your energy is

therapy so because if if your energy is not good you know and you’re physically

not good you know and you’re physically you are not good but if I just treat

you are not good but if I just treat your physical level you you cannot

your physical level you you cannot remove the real reason that you have its

remove the real reason that you have its energy level so I try to you know detox

energy level so I try to you know detox the negative and the heavy energy

the negative and the heavy energy instead of you to treat you and so if

instead of you to treat you and so if the energy level it’s good you are

the energy level it’s good you are physically and mentally you’re gonna be

physically and mentally you’re gonna be good so this is what I do and I love it

good so this is what I do and I love it thank you thank you so much and I’ll put

thank you thank you so much and I’ll put a link for your website given Ireland so

a link for your website given Ireland so you guys could give her some love as

you guys could give her some love as well

well hey everyone so today is day 3 of my

hey everyone so today is day 3 of my week of saying gas so far it’s been okay

week of saying gas so far it’s been okay I’ve been saying yes to a lot of

I’ve been saying yes to a lot of different kinds of food and I think the

different kinds of food and I think the night before I talked about the one

night before I talked about the one thing that I feel really good about

thing that I feel really good about saying yes to is playing with the kids I

saying yes to is playing with the kids I think in this midpoint of my journey

think in this midpoint of my journey it’s important to note something saying

it’s important to note something saying yes to random things that don’t really

yes to random things that don’t really align with your values is not

align with your values is not necessarily the best thing because I

necessarily the best thing because I knew myself really well

knew myself really well and I know what it is that is good for

and I know what it is that is good for me it’s a saying yes to certain types of

me it’s a saying yes to certain types of food or certain type their drinks may

food or certain type their drinks may not really align

not really align my healthy way of living however seeing

my healthy way of living however seeing yes to things that are meaningful like

yes to things that are meaningful like seeing yes to children and playing with

seeing yes to children and playing with them and really being present for them

them and really being present for them and those moments is so hard to get back

and those moments is so hard to get back so that’s why I’ve learned if you

so that’s why I’ve learned if you wouldn’t say yes to something see yes to

wouldn’t say yes to something see yes to things that I do you feel like you put

things that I do you feel like you put off but you know it’s gonna bring you

off but you know it’s gonna bring you the utmost fulfillment and saying yes to

the utmost fulfillment and saying yes to random things that don’t really align

random things that don’t really align with your values is probably not the

with your values is probably not the best way to go today is a very half work

best way to go today is a very half work half vacation kind of day I’m going to

half vacation kind of day I’m going to be meeting with Evan today I’m going to

be meeting with Evan today I’m going to be doing some coaching calls and some

be doing some coaching calls and some work so even while on vacation you know

work so even while on vacation you know I don’t like losing momentum at all I

I don’t like losing momentum at all I like to keep it going so it’s a work

like to keep it going so it’s a work life type vacation for me I am going

life type vacation for me I am going into town and we’re going to explore

into town and we’re going to explore some fun local arts and crafts just want

some fun local arts and crafts just want to show you guys this crazy crazies

to show you guys this crazy crazies couch wondering if I should get it for

couch wondering if I should get it for my house it’s a giant

my house it’s a giant dragon couch so we’re in Mexico yes we

dragon couch so we’re in Mexico yes we are and Lilly’s doing something illegal

are and Lilly’s doing something illegal she’s like I had to say yes I had to say

she’s like I had to say yes I had to say yes to this she hijacked the UH the

yes to this she hijacked the UH the camera so let me over here thinks I

camera so let me over here thinks I should buy this what do you think this

should buy this what do you think this could be great for your clubbing notes

could be great for your clubbing notes for my clubbing of it because that’s

for my clubbing of it because that’s what I do I go I go clubbing all the

what I do I go I go clubbing all the time maybe I should get it I’ll say yes

time maybe I should get it I’ll say yes do it I’ll pull it off what do you guys

do it I’ll pull it off what do you guys think leave in the comments below what

think leave in the comments below what do you think yes okay fine I’ll say yes

do you think yes okay fine I’ll say yes [Music]

[Music] apparently I had to try out this ice

apparently I had to try out this ice cream

cream in town look at they put in extra effort

in town look at they put in extra effort and everything that they do I’ll show

and everything that they do I’ll show you how the ice cream looks like looks

you how the ice cream looks like looks like on the flowers now that gelato

like on the flowers now that gelato what definitely looked better than it

what definitely looked better than it tasted but you know what I’m glad I went

tasted but you know what I’m glad I went everyone told me that I had to go and

everyone told me that I had to go and that’s the thing you know you do

that’s the thing you know you do something that is memorable because you

something that is memorable because you could buy gelato anywhere and they’re

could buy gelato anywhere and they’re just like pile it on but they put in so

just like pile it on but they put in so much effort actually make a flower out

much effort actually make a flower out of it it’s an important lesson learned

of it it’s an important lesson learned you know always over deliver in value

you know always over deliver in value hey everyone so today is day four of my

hey everyone so today is day four of my week of saying yes in Mexico today I’m

week of saying yes in Mexico today I’m primarily doing a lot of work so every

primarily doing a lot of work so every single Tuesday I do different live

single Tuesday I do different live events with different youtubers and we

events with different youtubers and we speak about entrepreneurship and

speak about entrepreneurship and personal development and later on

personal development and later on tonight I’ll be doing my school of life

tonight I’ll be doing my school of life coaching as well so it’s a lot of work

coaching as well so it’s a lot of work and at the same time I get to look at

and at the same time I get to look at this beautiful scenery and that’s a

this beautiful scenery and that’s a thing you know it may seem to you guys

thing you know it may seem to you guys that I’m working a lot while I’m on

that I’m working a lot while I’m on vacation and at the same time I really

vacation and at the same time I really love what I do and I hate I hate losing

love what I do and I hate I hate losing momentum so that’s why that’s why I

momentum so that’s why that’s why I continue to do it and I don’t like

continue to do it and I don’t like breaks in between I’m trying to find the

breaks in between I’m trying to find the balance between having some fun spending

balance between having some fun spending time with my friend and her kids and her

time with my friend and her kids and her family and doing work at the same time

family and doing work at the same time and I think I done a pretty good job so

and I think I done a pretty good job so tomorrow’s gonna be a little bit more

tomorrow’s gonna be a little bit more fun and today is work and fun at the

fun and today is work and fun at the same time

same time [Music]

[Music] so I’ve completed all my live hangouts

so I’ve completed all my live hangouts and I’m sitting down right now and about

and I’m sitting down right now and about to start my school of life course so

to start my school of life course so this started last week where I work with

this started last week where I work with nine people for nine weeks and I cover

nine people for nine weeks and I cover three important topics number one is

three important topics number one is self-awareness knowing what you stand

self-awareness knowing what you stand for and knowing the things that drain

for and knowing the things that drain you knowing the things that bring you

you knowing the things that bring you life and creating an environment that is

life and creating an environment that is really supportive of you stemming from

really supportive of you stemming from self-awareness

self-awareness the second thing is clearing out any

the second thing is clearing out any limiting beliefs and just replacing all

limiting beliefs and just replacing all those negative thoughts with positive

those negative thoughts with positive patterns and the last part is the

patterns and the last part is the contribution peace is knowing what it is

contribution peace is knowing what it is that you want to contribute out in this

that you want to contribute out in this world what I find really unique about

world what I find really unique about this course in comparison to any of the

this course in comparison to any of the other course I have done is that it’s

other course I have done is that it’s completely live and there’s a huge

completely live and there’s a huge accountability piece that is throughout

accountability piece that is throughout the entire course I realized a while ago

the entire course I realized a while ago is that most online courses has a 96%

is that most online courses has a 96% dropout rate which is huge and this is

dropout rate which is huge and this is something that I don’t want for the

something that I don’t want for the courses that I do because the reality is

courses that I do because the reality is the reason why I want to do this is

the reason why I want to do this is because I want people to make a change

because I want people to make a change in their life I want to make sure that

in their life I want to make sure that people come out transformed and that

people come out transformed and that cannot be done if 96% of my students are

cannot be done if 96% of my students are dropping out so I made the commitment to

dropping out so I made the commitment to spend this nine weeks

spend this nine weeks intensely working with every single

intensely working with every single person in the group through the live

person in the group through the live group coaching as well as doing the

group coaching as well as doing the accountability and we have done one week

accountability and we have done one week and so far it’s been amazing the people

and so far it’s been amazing the people in the community there are so supportive

in the community there are so supportive of each other and that’s exactly what I

of each other and that’s exactly what I wanted out of this course so it’s the

wanted out of this course so it’s the second week right now and let’s see how

second week right now and let’s see how everything unfolds but I feel like it’s

everything unfolds but I feel like it’s going to be an amazing amazing journey

going to be an amazing amazing journey it is 11:03 p.m.

it is 11:03 p.m. and I’m about to jump on Coach’s Corner

and I’m about to jump on Coach’s Corner usually I do these episodes in the

usually I do these episodes in the morning on my youtube channel but today

morning on my youtube channel but today it’s just been such a full day running

it’s just been such a full day running around but I’ve made the commitment to

around but I’ve made the commitment to do daily content on my youtube channel

do daily content on my youtube channel so here it goes

so here it goes I’m gonna go live right now all right

I’m gonna go live right now all right everyone I am extremely exhausted but

everyone I am extremely exhausted but feeling so grateful and so happy for the

feeling so grateful and so happy for the day of had on Tuesdays I have a very

day of had on Tuesdays I have a very full day it starts off with my YouTube

full day it starts off with my YouTube live hangouts and then it ends with my

live hangouts and then it ends with my school of life course so I’m gonna go to

school of life course so I’m gonna go to bed

bed and tomorrow I have an exciting day

and tomorrow I have an exciting day because I will be taking some pictures

because I will be taking some pictures with a photographer friend of mine here

with a photographer friend of mine here in Mexico so I will see you guys

in Mexico so I will see you guys tomorrow morning good night we’re off to

tomorrow morning good night we’re off to see Vincent for my photo shoot last

see Vincent for my photo shoot last little while my social media presence

little while my social media presence has been kind of you know kind of weak

has been kind of you know kind of weak this is a mirror Hector I’m thinking of

this is a mirror Hector I’m thinking of doing an upgrade of of all the images

doing an upgrade of of all the images that I have I only have one picture that

that I have I only have one picture that I post all the time I met Vincent about

I post all the time I met Vincent about ten years ago or eight years ago no

ten years ago or eight years ago no eight years ago at these lovely people’s

eight years ago at these lovely people’s wedding and what I really loved about

wedding and what I really loved about him is that he’s one of the most

him is that he’s one of the most inspired people I’ve ever met everything

inspired people I’ve ever met everything that he sees he sees through beauty and

that he sees he sees through beauty and awe so yeah and that’s what you want in

awe so yeah and that’s what you want in a photographer anyway you want

a photographer anyway you want photographers who could actually capture

photographers who could actually capture the beauty in people and the things

the beauty in people and the things around you so we’re here Vincent’s place

around you so we’re here Vincent’s place and my friend has told me that he is the

and my friend has told me that he is the number one wedding photographer in

number one wedding photographer in Mexico and he’s rated one of the top 10

Mexico and he’s rated one of the top 10 with wedding photographers in the world

with wedding photographers in the world just kind of cool right here we have

just kind of cool right here we have some ladies doing a yoga outside which

some ladies doing a yoga outside which looks beautiful as I wait for him he’s

looks beautiful as I wait for him he’s held up at the bank see

held up at the bank see [Music]

[Music] so I’m here with Vincent and as we were

so I’m here with Vincent and as we were talking about my photoshoot we kind of

talking about my photoshoot we kind of started sharing different messages about

started sharing different messages about entrepreneurship and Vincent has a

entrepreneurship and Vincent has a really good message so what do you have

really good message so what do you have to say to all the entrepreneurs out

to say to all the entrepreneurs out there

there well well familiar I think I tried to

well well familiar I think I tried to make it as simple as possible but I

make it as simple as possible but I really for me to really add value to the

really for me to really add value to the society and to really be happy you just

society and to really be happy you just have to find something that you love and

have to find something that you love and then have great ethics the know just be

then have great ethics the know just be good to your word and work through your

good to your word and work through your heart and connect as blessed as you can

heart and connect as blessed as you can with every person because no yeah money

with every person because no yeah money is great money can come and go the most

is great money can come and go the most important thing is the value in the

important thing is the value in the connection that you have with your

connection that you have with your clients because that that real

clients because that that real connection is is and how much love you

connection is is and how much love you feel and you’ll give and you’ll get back

feel and you’ll give and you’ll get back whilst you whilst you work and that’s

whilst you whilst you work and that’s ultimately what keeping makes you happy

ultimately what keeping makes you happy and then people see that and then when

and then people see that and then when you provide that value that they want

you provide that value that they want more of it and you just have you end up

more of it and you just have you end up with wonderful relationships that all

with wonderful relationships that all thrive and and yet if you stay on that

thrive and and yet if you stay on that path connecting doing something that you

path connecting doing something that you enjoy you love and you provide a real

enjoy you love and you provide a real valued experience then people will then

valued experience then people will then you’ll be happy and everyone else that

you’ll be happy and everyone else that around you will be happy too it’s really

around you will be happy too it’s really not that complicated

not that complicated it’s more about what you do well if

it’s more about what you do well if you’re asked and money what does money

you’re asked and money what does money will he bring you you know if you don’t

will he bring you you know if you don’t know how to handle it you could lose it

know how to handle it you could lose it then you have fear of loss and and yes

then you have fear of loss and and yes not really consistent then money comes I

not really consistent then money comes I think once you provider

think once you provider great service to society and a heartfelt

great service to society and a heartfelt experience yeah for me that’s what I’ve

experience yeah for me that’s what I’ve always tried to do and and I think

always tried to do and and I think that’s how you create a variable society

that’s how you create a variable society different people really connect and and

different people really connect and and you know business is all about fair

you know business is all about fair exchange so if you could provide a

exchange so if you could provide a service you get a fair monetary exchange

service you get a fair monetary exchange back and yeah we don’t want to be in the

back and yeah we don’t want to be in the in the business of ripping people off or

in the business of ripping people off or anything like that you know and I see

anything like that you know and I see it’s far too much in the world today lot

it’s far too much in the world today lot of people doing things that they’re not

of people doing things that they’re not really happy doing they don’t really

really happy doing they don’t really like but they don’t really know what

like but they don’t really know what they like either so they kind of be a

they like either so they kind of be a bit lost and yeah and so you’re the best

bit lost and yeah and so you’re the best way to do something that you connect

way to do something that you connect with that you enjoy doing work at that

with that you enjoy doing work at that as hard as you can and keep on you keep

as hard as you can and keep on you keep on creating being as creative as you can

on creating being as creative as you can with that connect with people around you

with that connect with people around you that also do that task will do that

that also do that task will do that hobby or whatever and then keep on

hobby or whatever and then keep on working hard at it and then people

working hard at it and then people you’ll end up becoming very good at it

you’ll end up becoming very good at it and then people pay you for that because

and then people pay you for that because yeah because you do it well and that’s

yeah because you do it well and that’s what people way yeah it’s true we are

what people way yeah it’s true we are done the photo shoot so we’re gonna go

done the photo shoot so we’re gonna go off to breakfast apparently there’s this

off to breakfast apparently there’s this place called ladder Lucca which everyone

place called ladder Lucca which everyone talks about so that’s where we’re gonna

talks about so that’s where we’re gonna go

so tonight is my last night here in Mexico so I’m just waiting for my best

Mexico so I’m just waiting for my best friend to come she’s putting the kids to

friend to come she’s putting the kids to bed and we’re gonna go in

bed and we’re gonna go in town and have some fun have some food go

town and have some fun have some food go do some shopping so I decided to stop

do some shopping so I decided to stop the week of saying yes midweek because I

the week of saying yes midweek because I just didn’t see the point of it I think

just didn’t see the point of it I think when you have a lot of self-awareness to

when you have a lot of self-awareness to know what it is that really pushes you

know what it is that really pushes you forward and what it is that you really

forward and what it is that you really enjoy there’s really no point in saying

enjoy there’s really no point in saying yes to random things that you don’t feel

yes to random things that you don’t feel like it’s aligned with your values so

like it’s aligned with your values so here I was offered a lot of things that

here I was offered a lot of things that I probably cannot even mention in front

I probably cannot even mention in front of you guys on camera that I just didn’t

of you guys on camera that I just didn’t feel like was aligned with my value so I

feel like was aligned with my value so I decided to say no to all of those things

decided to say no to all of those things and what I did say yes to was a lot of

and what I did say yes to was a lot of wonderful experiences saying yes to

wonderful experiences saying yes to getting to know people who are like

getting to know people who are like hearted people who are creatives people

hearted people who are creatives people who are entrepreneurs this afternoon I

who are entrepreneurs this afternoon I had the amazing opportunity in doing

had the amazing opportunity in doing some photos with a friend that I met

some photos with a friend that I met approximately 10 years ago and just

approximately 10 years ago and just sitting down with him and asking him

sitting down with him and asking him about his journey and what is the advice

about his journey and what is the advice that he has for entrepreneurs and

that he has for entrepreneurs and there’s just so much passion inside of

there’s just so much passion inside of him and and that’s what I wanted to say

him and and that’s what I wanted to say yes to really connecting with people and

yes to really connecting with people and being present for them and not saying

being present for them and not saying yes to random experiences that could

yes to random experiences that could potentially put me in danger

potentially put me in danger so this is my last night we’re gonna go

so this is my last night we’re gonna go out you never know we still have the

out you never know we still have the night is still young things might happen

night is still young things might happen I might say yes to more experiences but

I might say yes to more experiences but we’ll see

we’ll see [Music]

[Music] so right here I’m in Playa del Carmen

so right here I’m in Playa del Carmen and I’m in the main street it’s called v

and I’m in the main street it’s called v and it’s a hundred percent pedestrian

and it’s a hundred percent pedestrian people walk around it looks pretty

people walk around it looks pretty lively right now and coffee shops here

lively right now and coffee shops here lots of shopping lots of tourists we’re

lots of shopping lots of tourists we’re gonna lower a little bit I’m giving some

gonna lower a little bit I’m giving some shopping look I love being found what is

shopping look I love being found what is that you got there

that you got there be extraordinary do you think I should

be extraordinary do you think I should buy it I think so I think I should buy

buy it I think so I think I should buy it I have to say yes to him III say yes

it I have to say yes to him III say yes to being extraordinary that’s true

to being extraordinary that’s true [Music]

[Music] hey everyone so I am back home after

hey everyone so I am back home after spending the night out with my best

spending the night out with my best friend Olivia in Playa del Carmen we

friend Olivia in Playa del Carmen we went shopping we bought lots of food I

went shopping we bought lots of food I am full and hard but very content and

am full and hard but very content and look what I found

look what I found I found a sweatshirt that says be

I found a sweatshirt that says be extraordinary because extraordinary is

extraordinary because extraordinary is my one word because I believe that every

my one word because I believe that every single human being is capable of

single human being is capable of extraordinary things

extraordinary things so speaking of extraordinary I’m gonna

so speaking of extraordinary I’m gonna jump on Coach’s Corner right now I know

jump on Coach’s Corner right now I know it’s so late it’s like midnight right

it’s so late it’s like midnight right now but I made the commitment to put out

now but I made the commitment to put out daily content every single day on my

daily content every single day on my youtube channel where I hop on and I

youtube channel where I hop on and I share an amazing tip or suggestion to

share an amazing tip or suggestion to help people become even more

help people become even more extraordinary so right now I’m gonna hop

extraordinary so right now I’m gonna hop on I’m going to talk about how to

on I’m going to talk about how to command respect yeah anyways guys

command respect yeah anyways guys tomorrow is my day to fly back to

tomorrow is my day to fly back to Toronto I’m so excited to go back home

Toronto I’m so excited to go back home as fun as this has been I’m missing home

as fun as this has been I’m missing home so I’m gonna go back

so I’m gonna go back and I’m looking forward to that have an

and I’m looking forward to that have an amazing night and I will see you guys

amazing night and I will see you guys tomorrow morning alright everyone so I’m

tomorrow morning alright everyone so I’m on my way to the airport to go back home

on my way to the airport to go back home to Toronto and as I’m driving I’m kind

to Toronto and as I’m driving I’m kind of looking back to this entire week and

of looking back to this entire week and what has happened I think originally I

what has happened I think originally I had all of these ideas in my head how

had all of these ideas in my head how the week would go I was I thought that I

the week would go I was I thought that I would do some crazy things and I would

would do some crazy things and I would say yes do a whole lot of things that

say yes do a whole lot of things that scare me

scare me but the reality is it didn’t happen

but the reality is it didn’t happen because those opportunities actually

because those opportunities actually didn’t come by because I spent the

didn’t come by because I spent the entire week spending time with people

entire week spending time with people who I really cared about people like my

who I really cared about people like my best friend and her kids her husband

best friend and her kids her husband spending time with you guys spending

spending time with you guys spending time on YouTube spending time answering

time on YouTube spending time answering your comments spending time Lewis my

your comments spending time Lewis my lovely people from the school of life my

lovely people from the school of life my coaching clients and really taking care

coaching clients and really taking care of that and I said yes to opportunities

of that and I said yes to opportunities one thing that I said yes to that I’m

one thing that I said yes to that I’m really really grateful for is is a Reiki

really really grateful for is is a Reiki healer I’ve never really done any Reiki

healer I’ve never really done any Reiki healing before and she was so

healing before and she was so interesting that she she was so

interesting that she she was so intuitive in what I was feeling I felt

intuitive in what I was feeling I felt like there was so much energy inside of

like there was so much energy inside of me that I wanted to put out in the world

me that I wanted to put out in the world but I’m highly analytical so I have a

but I’m highly analytical so I have a tendency of overthinking things

tendency of overthinking things and it’s interesting how she picked up

and it’s interesting how she picked up on that because that’s something that

on that because that’s something that I’ve been trying to do for the last

I’ve been trying to do for the last couple of months because I have the

couple of months because I have the self-awareness to actually know that

self-awareness to actually know that this is something that that’s challenges

this is something that that’s challenges me a little bit

me a little bit the second thing that I was really

the second thing that I was really grateful for that I said yes to is doing

grateful for that I said yes to is doing an impromptu photo shoot with a good

an impromptu photo shoot with a good friend Vincent I met him about 10 years

friend Vincent I met him about 10 years ago and I’ve always had him in the back

ago and I’ve always had him in the back of my mind that if I ever wanted to take

of my mind that if I ever wanted to take pictures I would definitely go with him

pictures I would definitely go with him and not only because he’s an incredibly

and not only because he’s an incredibly talented photographer and he’s one of

talented photographer and he’s one of the highest rated photographers in the

the highest rated photographers in the world is the fact that he has this

world is the fact that he has this beautiful energy about him and this

beautiful energy about him and this personality just sparkles and I couldn’t

personality just sparkles and I couldn’t pinpoint what that was and I came to the

pinpoint what that was and I came to the realization is that he based his entire

realization is that he based his entire company’s entire business around giving

company’s entire business around giving back giving back to people and really

back giving back to people and really going from a place of connection so he

going from a place of connection so he takes pictures and as I was talking to

takes pictures and as I was talking to him I felt there was so much empathy and

him I felt there was so much empathy and connection when he was taking the images

connection when he was taking the images and I think that’s something that you

and I think that’s something that you can’t bottle that’s something that you

can’t bottle that’s something that you can’t learn from books it’s something

can’t learn from books it’s something that you just don’t feel and that’s what

that you just don’t feel and that’s what makes him so incredibly magical and the

makes him so incredibly magical and the third thing is probably the most

third thing is probably the most important one is spending time with my

important one is spending time with my best friend and her family I think in

best friend and her family I think in life we have all have a tendency of

life we have all have a tendency of making excuses and not spending time

making excuses and not spending time with the people that we truly care about

with the people that we truly care about it’s been almost a year since she left

it’s been almost a year since she left Toronto and we’ve been trying to

Toronto and we’ve been trying to schedule in time to see each other and

schedule in time to see each other and we’ve seen each other here and there but

we’ve seen each other here and there but we haven’t really gotten the time to sit

we haven’t really gotten the time to sit and chat

and chat so took a couple of nights I was able to

so took a couple of nights I was able to really sit with her and have

really sit with her and have conversations with her and really kind

conversations with her and really kind of get her caught up in what’s going on

of get her caught up in what’s going on with my life which was really nice and

with my life which was really nice and those two little boys that really truly

those two little boys that really truly have stolen my heart they are the

have stolen my heart they are the sweetest kindest most giving little boys

sweetest kindest most giving little boys I’ve ever met in my entire life and I’m

I’ve ever met in my entire life and I’m really looking forward to them coming

really looking forward to them coming back to Toronto they are coming back to

back to Toronto they are coming back to visit us in two months so yeah so those

visit us in two months so yeah so those are the things that I learned during

are the things that I learned during this trip and it wasn’t so much about

this trip and it wasn’t so much about doing wild crazy things as it was really

doing wild crazy things as it was really connecting with human beings who were

connecting with human beings who were aligned with my values and what I

aligned with my values and what I believe in and really taking the time to

believe in and really taking the time to have conversations with them and the

have conversations with them and the question of the day is who are the

question of the day is who are the people in your life that you want to

people in your life that you want to spend more time with write in the

spend more time with write in the comments below and I’ll join in on the

comments below and I’ll join in on the discussion and I have a special shout

discussion and I have a special shout out for Jordan Mitchell Phil it’s key

out for Jordan Mitchell Phil it’s key thank you so much for writing that

thank you so much for writing that awesome comment in my last video and

awesome comment in my last video and that is right let’s make this world

that is right let’s make this world extraordinary and look at my t-shirt

extraordinary and look at my t-shirt right here be extraordinary perfect fit

right here be extraordinary perfect fit to this shout out and guys thank you so

to this shout out and guys thank you so much for watching and more importantly

much for watching and more importantly being on this journey with me it’s been

being on this journey with me it’s been over 10 months and I feel like I’m

over 10 months and I feel like I’m growing changing and going on this wild

growing changing and going on this wild journey look at this as I’m talking

journey look at this as I’m talking about a journey I’m going on my journey

about a journey I’m going on my journey and going to the airport and sometimes

and going to the airport and sometimes you know I feel like it can be lonely

you know I feel like it can be lonely when you are on the journey of personal

when you are on the journey of personal development and growing your business

development and growing your business but it gives you the comfort and knowing

but it gives you the comfort and knowing that you guys are all there with me so

that you guys are all there with me so thank you so much again and I will see

thank you so much again and I will see you guys there

you guys there very soon by Bellini people would see

very soon by Bellini people would see diamonds what would the small community

diamonds what would the small community have the most important work ever if you

have the most important work ever if you had to think of one word that’s most

had to think of one word that’s most important to you or that sums you Apple

important to you or that sums you Apple that would be collect a little beacon

that would be collect a little beacon pay believe nation if you want to know

pay believe nation if you want to know what the most important one word is for

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