what can I do to be happy that’s a big
question for a lot of people that you
have a system of five steps I wake up
every day and I think isn’t this great
I’m as happy every day as I was the day
before would you is happy if you weren’t
worth millions and millions of dollars
I’ve been pretty happy guy yeah you know
I think that’s one of the keys to
success I read an article that the
difference between successful people and
people that struggle are successful
people exude joy Jeff if you’re not a
happy guy and other people don’t want to
hang out right why would they hang out
with right if you’re miserable and
nobody wants to spend time with you how
no matter who you are what walk of life
you’re in number one you have to own
your own happiness take it away from
other people demanding that they make
you happy people need to do this
challenge their own story because people
torment themselves by how they see their
life they’ve told themselves a story as
if it were the truth when it is really a
perspective truth and sometimes you
narrated a story that you beat yourself
to death with challenge your own story
change the way you talk to yourself
about who you are and what happened to
you and what you’re going to do in your
life you won’t the script change the
story so if we don’t come out of our
mama’s noon running why should we think
things are gonna be easy they’re not
gonna be easy we’re gonna crawl we’re
gonna walk we’re gonna fall we’re gonna
gonna fall but man once we figured out
the balance with the right feet and left
feet nothing can stop us
I believe that if you can learn to focus
on what you have you will always see
that the universe is abundant and you
will have more if you concentrate and
focus in your life on what you don’t
have you will never have enough be
grateful you have a life that’s better
than 95% of the people in this planet
most of the people in this planet do not
have the luxury that you have right now
to watch somebody on a video on YouTube
and be able to benefit from that and
receive information that could actually
improve and better your life most people
don’t have that luxury most people do
not have a frickin computer and the
Internet where you can have access to
this your brain is a record of your
environment so record an artifact of
your past so if you believe this then
then does your environment control your
thinking or does your thinking control
if you don’t see yourself as valuable
nobody else will
all of us have within us this amazing
capacity to manifest and attract
anything that we want into our life now
your personality your personality
creates your personal reality that’s it
it’s that simple and your personality is
made up of how you think how you act and
how you feel
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you’ll also agree then if you wanted to
create a new personal reality that on a
fundamental level you would have to
change the thoughts that you are
thinking the behaviors and habits that
you’re demonstrating and the emotions
that you’ve memorized as become part of
your identity and most people try to
create a new personal reality as the
same personality and it never works we
have to become somebody else you say I
will attract into my life what I am not
what I want and I am capable of
attracting all things that that the
source is capable of attracting so
that’s the difference it’s like you get
what you are rather than what you want
so you want to become you can’t go
around and ask these divine beings you
have to you have to become like they are
that when you’re when you become angelic
when you become a divine being yourself
when you are giving when you are serving
when you are in that place they will
come to you happy beautiful people
you’ve heard it right you were to be
vibrant people we’re to be happy people
we’re to be joyous people but that
doesn’t happen by itself
what we have to do is we have to try and
the reason we have to try is because
life gets in the way
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keep positive energy around you and
that’s how you gonna be happy you’re
saying and I notice in my life when you
keep certain negative energy around you
you don’t want it around you but
sometime this is there and you have to
be a man or a woman and say you know
what let me take the trash out learn you
know say one day you got to wake up and
say that and it’s the hardest thing in
the world because you know you don’t
just do that you know I’m saying you
sometimes have to walk away from
situation teach people that you are
loved you are divine put that into your
imagination I am I am well I am happy I
am content I am fulfilled even if your
senses tell you that you’re depressed
you need to start giving the vocabulary
of happy to your families you have to
start giving a vocabulary of happy to
your teens your happiness is very
important just like yourself identity is
important just like how you want to
treat people all of that is incredibly
important a lot of us delay our
happiness when I get to this level when
I get my degree when I get the kids when
I get married I’m gonna be happy enjoy
the journey enjoying the whole step the
whole process every day that you get up
to strive for whatever it is you’re
after you know I’m a goal-oriented got
ya so you don’t celebrate when you get
to the finish line celebrate all along
the way you’re not supposed to go around
solemn serious all the time burdened
down by problems taking time to laugh to
have fun that reenergize is you it helps
keep you in balance if it’s all work all
stress all dealing with problems that’s
if you have not had that role of
happiness get therapeutic support but
also at the same time start practices
that will help make you happier and you
have to teach your family to start
practices to be your habit you have to
get some joy in your life some Vong some
laughter that’s what helped balance out
you are full of gifts talents potential
but if you plant yourself in unhealthy
soil if you hang around friends that
compromise pull you down if you’re in an
environment that’s limited with people
that tell you what you can’t become you
won’t see the growth that you should you
have a choice yeah it’s like if you want
to be happy be happy and it’s so hard to
do sometimes but it’s something that I
just have come to terms with more than
ever lately in my life and I think
people just see that this is it guys
right now this is the moment that if
you’re not happy right now
right in this moment right as you’re
watching this video there’s no other
time guys there’s no other moment this
is is if you’re the most successful you
need to get a larger circle don’t be
intimidated by people that are further
along be inspired find some good Mentors
connect with dreamers people that have a
bigger vision glean from them that’s
good soil
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not sometime in the future not when you
got everything sorted out not when your
problems are done not when you make the
money not when you find a partner not
when you get the body not when you have
a family not where you get a car not
when you whatever go on that trip retire
whatever it is that’s not it
this is this right now in this moment
this is the only moment that you have
and if you’re not happy right now in
this moment and there’s no reason to
believe they’re gonna be happy in a
moment in the future if your friends are
prejudiced you’re going to become
prejudiced if your friends have limited
thinking they don’t have any goals no
motivation that narrow-minded mentality
is going to rub off on you you’re going
to become like the people you
continually associate with don’t hang
around people that don’t have anything
you want if they’re not making you
better if they’re not inspiring you
causing you to grow then you need to
make some changes you need to pull up
those weeds
by placing into your imagination what
you want and assuming the feeling of
that wish has already fulfilled you go
through your life feeling that when
enough of us do that we will transform
this planet I’m telling you it can be
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