what do you do if little man is your
relative so I got a great question for
one of my youtube viewers love you guys
sameer who wrote in to say amazing
videos thanks Evan I have a question for
you what if the little man is your
relative in my life I have many little
men but these little men are my
relatives and I love them so much what
should I do so Sameer you’re all going
to be honest with you this question
caused me a lot of stress usually when i
get a question I I can get in front of
the camera and they just started
answering this one I had to kind of walk
around and think about it for a while
for those of you watching a little man
the little man is the person in your
life who tells you you can’t make it it
tells you that you’re not good enough
who tells you to give up on your dream
it tells you to do something else and
and you can’t listen to little man you
know you got to do your own thing and we
all have these little men in our lives
who holds us back from doing the things
that we want to do what are you doing is
a family member I’m kind of hesitant to
jump on that kind of personal advice I
don’t want the guilt I don’t want the
guilt maybe I’ll just share my story I
think first of all you have to determine
who the family is if it’s your your
spouse or not I think the person who you
spend the rest of your life with should
be somebody who who believes in what
you’re doing who supports you even if he
or she doesn’t understand what you’re
doing we should be supportive of the
people who who were married to write so
hopefully the little man is not the
person who you’re you’re seeing
girlfriend boyfriend husband wife what
do you do with the other members in your
family you know there’s one person in my
life I’m fortunate that my close family
are all very supportive of what I do my
parents my siblings you know my mom
schedules in her calendar every day I
have a radio show what she listens in
and you know that’s great to have that
kind of support and a lot of people
don’t necessarily have that support
growing up there is one person kind of
my extended family who
who is just negative and as I grew up
cause tons of grief not only for me but
for everybody in the family and so I’ve
had to write this person off from my
life and if there’s family functions you
know I avoid them if I know that this
person is going to be there and it
causes a little bit of scheduling issues
i guess but but I’m so much happier
right like I don’t need more negativity
in my life running a business is hard
enough I don’t need more frustrations
and in general I eliminate people from
my life who who are the little man I and
limit the people who who are just
negative you know they’re people were
just just just negative they suck your
time they suck your energy they make you
you know you leave a conversation with
them feeling bad about yourself I don’t
want to be surrounded by those people
you know friends are easier or friends
are easy to get rid of I guess than
family members but there is one person
my life who have had to my family
extended family we’ve had to do that
with you no right or wrong decision I’m
a happier person as a result of it I
have less negativity in my life because
of it so I’m uncomfortable with that
decision you know I don’t want to tell
you I don’t know the little man is in
your life I don’t want to tell you don’t
talk to your parents because they’re the
little man in your life this is the
personal choice you have to make for
yourself but what I what I believe in
and maybe this helps is that you have to
live your own life you’re living your
life for you you can’t live somebody
else’s dream you can’t live somebody
else’s life you know if your parents
want you to be a doctor and you want to
be an entrepreneur my view is you got to
do your thing like you’re never going to
be happy living somebody else’s life
it’s just that somebody else’s dream
it’s not your dream you have to do what
excites you what gets you excited right
and there’s a point as we grow up where
you know we’re trying to please our
parents all the time and you know
through school then it’s a point where
you break off and you decide like I’m
ready to become my own person that may
mean going against what your family
wants
do you know I think of I think of it’s
harder in some cultures I think of the
founder of Sony Akio Morita his family
had been in the same business for
multiple generations and they just
expected him to take over and he didn’t
want to do that is like I I don’t like
this business I don’t want to be in this
family business it’s not for me I want
to do my own thing I want to start my
own company and they you know didn’t
agree and put huge pressure on him and
that was more than you know the culture
and just Japanese culture at the time
and and he still had the courage to go
and do his own thing and he built Sony
but one of the biggest brands in the
world and if he had just done you know
his family business he wouldn’t be happy
it wouldn’t be successful I need always
be thinking like what if I went out and
did my own thing how much happier how
much more successful would I be you got
to follow your heart you know you got to
do what you believe is the best thing
for you even if that means upsetting
people in your family who think a
different path is better for you how you
maintain a relationship if you choose to
maintain your relationship or not if
there’s a break if it’s not talking
about your business i don’t know I like
I’m not the expert on that but I
sincerely hope that you don’t let other
people’s dreams and other people’s
visions for what they think you should
do become your reality and instead I
want you to focus on what you feel in
your heart is the right thing to do do
that first focus on that big thing first
and then line everything up afterwards
that’s the most important decision and
then how everything else follows you
have to figure it out I don’t know if
that helps maybe not the most concrete
video I’ve ever put together and it did
cause me a lot of stress and thinking
about it but those are my thoughts so
believe for those you’re watching like
your video thumbs up below let me know
you think leave a comment your comments
I love your comments they make me the
fuel for me every day so please comment
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much for watching and I’ll see you soon
you
relative so I got a great question for
one of my youtube viewers love you guys
sameer who wrote in to say amazing
videos thanks Evan I have a question for
you what if the little man is your
relative in my life I have many little
men but these little men are my
relatives and I love them so much what
should I do so Sameer you’re all going
to be honest with you this question
caused me a lot of stress usually when i
get a question I I can get in front of
the camera and they just started
answering this one I had to kind of walk
around and think about it for a while
for those of you watching a little man
the little man is the person in your
life who tells you you can’t make it it
tells you that you’re not good enough
who tells you to give up on your dream
it tells you to do something else and
and you can’t listen to little man you
know you got to do your own thing and we
all have these little men in our lives
who holds us back from doing the things
that we want to do what are you doing is
a family member I’m kind of hesitant to
jump on that kind of personal advice I
don’t want the guilt I don’t want the
guilt maybe I’ll just share my story I
think first of all you have to determine
who the family is if it’s your your
spouse or not I think the person who you
spend the rest of your life with should
be somebody who who believes in what
you’re doing who supports you even if he
or she doesn’t understand what you’re
doing we should be supportive of the
people who who were married to write so
hopefully the little man is not the
person who you’re you’re seeing
girlfriend boyfriend husband wife what
do you do with the other members in your
family you know there’s one person in my
life I’m fortunate that my close family
are all very supportive of what I do my
parents my siblings you know my mom
schedules in her calendar every day I
have a radio show what she listens in
and you know that’s great to have that
kind of support and a lot of people
don’t necessarily have that support
growing up there is one person kind of
my extended family who
who is just negative and as I grew up
cause tons of grief not only for me but
for everybody in the family and so I’ve
had to write this person off from my
life and if there’s family functions you
know I avoid them if I know that this
person is going to be there and it
causes a little bit of scheduling issues
i guess but but I’m so much happier
right like I don’t need more negativity
in my life running a business is hard
enough I don’t need more frustrations
and in general I eliminate people from
my life who who are the little man I and
limit the people who who are just
negative you know they’re people were
just just just negative they suck your
time they suck your energy they make you
you know you leave a conversation with
them feeling bad about yourself I don’t
want to be surrounded by those people
you know friends are easier or friends
are easy to get rid of I guess than
family members but there is one person
my life who have had to my family
extended family we’ve had to do that
with you no right or wrong decision I’m
a happier person as a result of it I
have less negativity in my life because
of it so I’m uncomfortable with that
decision you know I don’t want to tell
you I don’t know the little man is in
your life I don’t want to tell you don’t
talk to your parents because they’re the
little man in your life this is the
personal choice you have to make for
yourself but what I what I believe in
and maybe this helps is that you have to
live your own life you’re living your
life for you you can’t live somebody
else’s dream you can’t live somebody
else’s life you know if your parents
want you to be a doctor and you want to
be an entrepreneur my view is you got to
do your thing like you’re never going to
be happy living somebody else’s life
it’s just that somebody else’s dream
it’s not your dream you have to do what
excites you what gets you excited right
and there’s a point as we grow up where
you know we’re trying to please our
parents all the time and you know
through school then it’s a point where
you break off and you decide like I’m
ready to become my own person that may
mean going against what your family
wants
do you know I think of I think of it’s
harder in some cultures I think of the
founder of Sony Akio Morita his family
had been in the same business for
multiple generations and they just
expected him to take over and he didn’t
want to do that is like I I don’t like
this business I don’t want to be in this
family business it’s not for me I want
to do my own thing I want to start my
own company and they you know didn’t
agree and put huge pressure on him and
that was more than you know the culture
and just Japanese culture at the time
and and he still had the courage to go
and do his own thing and he built Sony
but one of the biggest brands in the
world and if he had just done you know
his family business he wouldn’t be happy
it wouldn’t be successful I need always
be thinking like what if I went out and
did my own thing how much happier how
much more successful would I be you got
to follow your heart you know you got to
do what you believe is the best thing
for you even if that means upsetting
people in your family who think a
different path is better for you how you
maintain a relationship if you choose to
maintain your relationship or not if
there’s a break if it’s not talking
about your business i don’t know I like
I’m not the expert on that but I
sincerely hope that you don’t let other
people’s dreams and other people’s
visions for what they think you should
do become your reality and instead I
want you to focus on what you feel in
your heart is the right thing to do do
that first focus on that big thing first
and then line everything up afterwards
that’s the most important decision and
then how everything else follows you
have to figure it out I don’t know if
that helps maybe not the most concrete
video I’ve ever put together and it did
cause me a lot of stress and thinking
about it but those are my thoughts so
believe for those you’re watching like
your video thumbs up below let me know
you think leave a comment your comments
I love your comments they make me the
fuel for me every day so please comment
below you have a question put in the
comments to and subscribe to the channel
by clicking on my face if you want to
see more videos like this thank you so
much for watching and I’ll see you soon
you
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