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the following few moments may very well
change your life but I wish someone had
told me this when I was your age as I
talked with my friends I made an
astounding discovery 80% of them were
unhappy with their lives guilt and
regret kills many a man before their
time we’re gonna make mistakes you got
to own them and you got to make a mint
and you got to move on life’s not easy
life is not easy it is not don’t try to
make it that way
life’s not fair never was it is it now
and it won’t ever be do not fall into
the trap the entitlement trap a feeling
like you’re a victim
you are now get over it get off so the
question that we gotta ask ourselves is
what success is to us what success is to
maybe it’s a healthy family maybe it’s a
happy marriage maybe is to help others
to be famous be spiritually sound leave
the world a little bit better place than
you found it more money that’s fine I
got nothing against money continue to
ask yourself that question now your
answer may change over time and that’s
fine
but do yourself this favor whatever your
answer is don’t choose anything that
will jeopardize yourself
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prioritize who you are who you want to
be and don’t spend time with anything
that antagonizes your character be brave
take the hill but first answer that
question what’s my hill well for me it’s
a measurement of five things we got
fatherhood we got being a good husband
we got my health I’m body and spirit
we’ve got career and we have friendships
these are what’s important to me in my
life right now it is just as important
where we are not as it is where we are
look the first step that leads to our
identity life is usually not I Know Who
I am
I Know Who I am that’s not the first
step the first steps usually I Know Who
I am not
process of elimination defining
ourselves by what we are not is the
first step that leads us to really
knowing who we are no one who we are is
hard it’s hard give yourself a break
eliminate the who you are not first
you’re gonna find yourself we need to be
you drink too much last night
you’re too hungover to drive your son
goes 8:00 a.m. Saturday morning baseball
practice these are the crumbs they come
in the form of regret guilt and remorse
you leave crumbs today they will cause
you more stress tomorrow and they
disallow you to be creating a customized
future in which you do not have to look
over your shoulder so let slip the
script instead of creating outcomes that
take from us let’s create more outcomes
that pay us back fill us up keep your
fire lit turn you on for the most amount
of time in your future on T yourself up
do yourself a favor make the choices the
purchase is today that pay you back
tomorrow residuals get some ROI you know
what that is return on investment your
investment you customize your future
don’t leave Tron’s I find that most of
the times our obsession with what is
wrong just ends up reading more wrong
more failure the easiest way to dissect
it’s through gratitude doing thanks for
that which we do have for what is
working appreciating the simple things
we sometimes take for granted we give
thanks for these things and that
gratitude reciprocate creating more to
be thankful for it’s really simple
and it worked we try our best we don’t
always do our best let’s study the
habits the practices the routines that
we have that lead to and feed our
success our joy our honest pain our
laughter our own tears let’s dissect
that and give thanks for those things
and when we do that guess what happens
we get better at them and we have more
than I set be discerning choose it
because you want it do it because you
want to turn the page you’re gonna make
you got to own them and you got to make
a mint and then you got to move on guilt
and regret kills many a man for their
time so turn the page
get off the ride you are the author of
the book of your life
[Music] you
the following few moments may very well
change your life but I wish someone had
told me this when I was your age as I
talked with my friends I made an
astounding discovery 80% of them were
unhappy with their lives guilt and
regret kills many a man before their
time we’re gonna make mistakes you got
to own them and you got to make a mint
and you got to move on life’s not easy
life is not easy it is not don’t try to
make it that way
life’s not fair never was it is it now
and it won’t ever be do not fall into
the trap the entitlement trap a feeling
like you’re a victim
you are now get over it get off so the
question that we gotta ask ourselves is
what success is to us what success is to
maybe it’s a healthy family maybe it’s a
happy marriage maybe is to help others
to be famous be spiritually sound leave
the world a little bit better place than
you found it more money that’s fine I
got nothing against money continue to
ask yourself that question now your
answer may change over time and that’s
fine
but do yourself this favor whatever your
answer is don’t choose anything that
will jeopardize yourself
[Music]
prioritize who you are who you want to
be and don’t spend time with anything
that antagonizes your character be brave
take the hill but first answer that
question what’s my hill well for me it’s
a measurement of five things we got
fatherhood we got being a good husband
we got my health I’m body and spirit
we’ve got career and we have friendships
these are what’s important to me in my
life right now it is just as important
where we are not as it is where we are
look the first step that leads to our
identity life is usually not I Know Who
I am
I Know Who I am that’s not the first
step the first steps usually I Know Who
I am not
process of elimination defining
ourselves by what we are not is the
first step that leads us to really
knowing who we are no one who we are is
hard it’s hard give yourself a break
eliminate the who you are not first
you’re gonna find yourself we need to be
you drink too much last night
you’re too hungover to drive your son
goes 8:00 a.m. Saturday morning baseball
practice these are the crumbs they come
in the form of regret guilt and remorse
you leave crumbs today they will cause
you more stress tomorrow and they
disallow you to be creating a customized
future in which you do not have to look
over your shoulder so let slip the
script instead of creating outcomes that
take from us let’s create more outcomes
that pay us back fill us up keep your
fire lit turn you on for the most amount
of time in your future on T yourself up
do yourself a favor make the choices the
purchase is today that pay you back
tomorrow residuals get some ROI you know
what that is return on investment your
investment you customize your future
don’t leave Tron’s I find that most of
the times our obsession with what is
wrong just ends up reading more wrong
more failure the easiest way to dissect
it’s through gratitude doing thanks for
that which we do have for what is
working appreciating the simple things
we sometimes take for granted we give
thanks for these things and that
gratitude reciprocate creating more to
be thankful for it’s really simple
and it worked we try our best we don’t
always do our best let’s study the
habits the practices the routines that
we have that lead to and feed our
success our joy our honest pain our
laughter our own tears let’s dissect
that and give thanks for those things
and when we do that guess what happens
we get better at them and we have more
than I set be discerning choose it
because you want it do it because you
want to turn the page you’re gonna make
you got to own them and you got to make
a mint and then you got to move on guilt
and regret kills many a man for their
time so turn the page
get off the ride you are the author of
the book of your life
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