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Why Are You Single? Let’s Find Out Why You Are Alone!


peens and bennett water diving deep once
again we are out here it is really windy
so you’re probably going to see lots of
lots of leaves flying around my face
breathing in that good ass prana baby
why are you single let’s find out why
you’re alone now we got a great question
that came in someone wrote in a woman
wrote in saying that why can’t you find
any guys who are awake now she’s been a
vegan for a long time she’s been going
on a spiritual journey for a long time
and she says she’s met you guys but that
not her type and she wants to know why
can’t she find anybody she is attracted
to who is awake I feel alone is what she
says and Wayne even had breakfast yet
can I get a hello there okay single is
not a word it’s an acronym for what
sometimes it’s not good lonely evenings
oh wait a minute
sometimes it’s nice great longer
evenings can I get a Hello you got a
question
Ralph smart calm Instagram us at
infinite waters now let me share with
you what’s helped me along my journey as
a psychologist as a counselor but also
someone who’s been single for a long
time then got into a relationship and
then been single again then got back
into a relationship now look at it like
this
some people are single because they love
being single
they love the longer evenings they like
doing whatever they want whenever they
want even leaves are coming over their
face they love it like not being told
what to do oh you like that person’s
Instagram
that’s curfew for you when you’re single
you don’t have to deal with that kind of
BS you can like anybody’s Instagram
picture you like and get away with it
you can stay up as late as you want you
can go out with whoever you want right
nobody’s gonna be like where were you
you’re like look I’m doing my own thing
so I have spoken to so many people and I
get thousands of questions around this
topic a lot of people say there is
nobody for me out there because I’m a
vegan and I’m spiritual and no no forget
about that a lot of people aren’t even
those things but they still say it’s
hard to find someone who they can vibe
with here’s why now let’s just say
you’re doing the seven day vegan
challenge which a lot of people are and
you might be in a relationship with
someone but you might feel alone because
they’re just not eating what you are
eating they don’t have the same level of
consciousness as you do so even people
who are in relationships let me tell you
a secret I was in a relationship when I
was single gonna do that like that I was
single in a relationship how did that
happen because I didn’t have a
connection to that person why because we
weren’t having
the same values we won reminding each
other or certain principles to live by
so with food you say you’re a vegan
honey well not good pun at that time
okay
you say you’re a vegan what happens you
say that no vegan guys have you seen
that meme with this old guy saying he’s
a vegan and all of these chicks behind
him yeah I’ll try and pull it up
sometime
that’s really funny now it’s like this
there are so many people who are awake
and who are vegan who are waiting for
you because you’re like am I gonna be
waiting for my whole entire life no you
don’t have to do that let me share with
you a little secret ask yourself one
question are you in an environment where
you can meet a lot of people who share
your same vibe because I used to work in
the city lots of cars lots of pollution
and it was hard to meet like-minded
people who were all about becoming your
greatest version then I started to share
with the world I started to make food
videos sexology videos that I kind of
videos and I found my reflections
everywhere I look here whoa I look there
oh my goodness they were everywhere
because you find the one you love doing
what you love slow motion with the
leaves on my head you find the one you
love doing what you love do you know
people that meet their soul reflection
are so busy doing what they love they’re
not waiting around to meet that perfect
person no they are in their life purpose
living their passion every single day
wait for it
whoa breathing in that good ass prana
baby and because they are in their
natural authentic state someone spots
them and says gosh yet that’s the one or
you might spot someone and say oh yeah
that’s
one for me but if you’re not in the
right environment is going to be hard
now a lot of us we have a checklist we
want someone to look a certain way even
though I’m a vegan a lot of people say
would I date a meat eater and it depends
here’s why because I always say give
people a chance they could change but I
prefer to have relationships with people
who hold the same values as me but you
see a lot of us we’re single because we
are like beggars begging for love please
love me please love me no thanks oh I
would rather love the cat down the road
look at it like this the greatest
relationship you can have is with
yourself let me repeat that the greatest
relationship you can have is with
yourself so a lot of us like you might
be single and you might be a beggar as
well
like begging for people to love you and
that was me alone my early journey I’m
not gonna lie I wanted someone to
complete me to make me whole then I
realized wait a minute I’m half that
other person is exactly like me they’re
half so we are going to be two
incomplete halves you got to come home
baby you got to come with a full cup and
that’s why you’ve got two different
types of single people sometimes it’s
not good
lonely evenings sometimes it’s nice
great longer evenings sometimes I meet
women and I say you have got to be in a
relationship don’t lie to me man and
they say no I’m single so what yeah they
say longer evenings I’m like I’m like oh
my goodness gracious
so well-kept because
they are practicing the art of self-love
now a lot of people don’t realize this
secret people say gosh how do I find my
perfect partner how do I find someone
who is awake and it’s like this we don’t
meet people sometimes because we have
huge expectations huge expectations look
you left the house and the note the
notebook was still on you’ve been
watching all of these films of the
perfect romance and then you go out into
life and you realize it’s nothing like
that
why because nobody is perfect you got to
realize that even I know that even if I
meet someone who’s awake they are still
going to bring a lot of baggage they are
still going to bring a lot of problems
so I’ve got to work on myself first and
that’s why why I was single for a long
long time back in the day was because I
was working on myself too I was working
on myself to become my greatest version
I wasn’t ready yet you might be single
because you might know there’s something
better out there for you you don’t want
to settle for less and that is great get
to enjoy your longer evenings now like
never before it feels fantastic and some
of us we are single because we don’t
realize
everything will come to you at the
perfect time that’s what I realize along
my journey I said I don’t even have to
search anymore just by me making videos
do you know how many people I’ve met no
I’m not having orgies yet but it’s
coming I got a sense of humor baby
listen by you realizing there is never
an abundant in them there is never a
shortage of people to meet you love is
in abundance if you are doing what you
know you came here to do if you can
realize that actually I’m going to take
people with a good of with a with a bit
of good and a bit of bad and yeah no
one’s perfect
then you’re gonna see have a high
perspective of who these people you are
who are coming into contact with you if
you’re saying to yourself okay I want
someone who’s a vegan who’s awake who
wears size nine shoes it’s just not
going to happen because that person who
actually might happen but the chances
are slim but more so you put a lot of
pressure on yourself to find this
perfect person if you go with a mindset
that actually a vegan would be great
someone who is awake would be great but
I’m also going to look for someone who
has a good heart and is maybe willing to
change
now you’re going to increase your
chances of meeting that person but if
you are just very strict in and rigid in
your in your approach
they must have this and must have that
but ask yourself are you that perfect
yourself are you that perfect yourself
yes you got to know your worth yes you
got to know what you are worthy for but
you’ve also got to realize that we are
all upgrading and updating
a lot of us we are single because we are
afraid of commitment a lot of us we
enjoy having fun going to the Ocean Club
and why because commitment is a scary
thought and for me along my early
journey I was terrified of commitment
why because I had been in so many
relationships of someone setting a
curfew the relationship was about
possession ownership you see right now
on the planet as we are evolving in
consciousness we are stepping into more
heart-centered relationships with lots
of leaves blowing around us that only
means life can only get better right and
these days I’m not afraid of commitment
and that’s why people who aren’t afraid
of commitment don’t worry they no doubt
they’re not going to find a great person
to love them because they know when they
see them they are going to be so
committed to them a lot of us we don’t
even have time to brush our teeth let
alone make love to someone let alone to
hug someone so ask yourself is being in
a relationship a top priority a lot of
us we’ve got a lot of priorities but we
don’t have a priority slow motion that
sight
how important is love to you I remind
myself every single day back in the day
no no no I wasn’t ready for any kind of
relationship why because I was still in
the process of self actualization the
reason why a lot of people are single is
because we’re living in a fast food
culture of instant this instant met
great relationships are like fine wine
they take a long time and that rhyme so
well it’s going to take time to get to
know someone you got to start diving
deeper awesome the big
questions but it’s a mindset you see you
could walk around saying I’m never gonna
meet someone or you can walk around
saying I am worthy to find someone who
is gonna love me you wrote to me saying
you’ve got this fear that it’s just not
going to happen well that is the
vibration you are sending out there so
even if you do meet someone the energy
you are sending out is like oh well it’s
probably not going to happen
your attitude defines who you will find
yourself being with let me repeat that
your attitude will define who you end up
being with and that’s what’s helped me
along my journey every day I wake up
with a bunch of grapes in my mouth and
giving massages we’re giving massages to
each other
it’s the love connection baby we’re out
here whoa breathing in that good ass
prana baby getting high love yourself a
hundred percent and I guarantee you
someone will love you as much as you
love yourself no slow motion have a
beautiful day with nature baby infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy

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