peace infinite waters diving deep once
again we’re here this is sexology water
fire huh called yin yang what women
think versus what men think now I see
that relationships are evolving around
the planet
it’s not about possessing someone it’s
not about being in control of someone
it’s about breaking these stereotypes
because we exist within each other but
this interaction we have I find that so
many of us we have problems and when we
can dissect the problems we can thrive
together yes lately I’ve been thinking
more and more about this topic of what
men want versus what women want and it’s
easy to fall into these ideas simplified
ideas of this is what men think about
this is what women think about but one
thing I’ve been feeling more and really
reflecting on is this idea of
recognizing the potential that a
relationship between a man and a woman
can really arrive to or come to I think
more often we tend to look at the
physical attraction or the desire to
want to engage the a man or a woman in a
romantic relationship and we see that as
the ultimate or that the peak of what
that relationship could be about and if
we are not ready or willing to engage in
such a relationship than we see we see
what the point that we arrive to as a
stall some kind of a stop in that
relationship and one thing I’ve been
feeling more and more in thinking about
is that we really need to move beyond
those categories and beyond those
limitations and recognize that the
universe is really smart
so as men or as women we have
relationships with the complementary sex
whatever it is that we may be
for wanting for it’s going to come to us
through different people and it’s really
a matter of thinking and feeling with
our heart what is it that we truly want
I think the ultimate question from the
universe is what is it what is it that
you want what is it that you ultimately
strive for and if we constantly keep
externalizing our power and thinking
that that something is going to come
through a relationship from a man or a
woman and we put all of our hopes and
ideas and desires into that and it
doesn’t come into fruition and that’s
when we run into major disappointments
and heartbreaks and sort of like
breakdowns and in friendships that
haven’t really had the true potential to
blossom that’s what I’ve seen I just see
it like this that relationships they are
mirrors we are learning from each and
every one we come into contact with what
happens in a lot of 3d relationships and
the beauty of it is that we are evolving
and changing how we see relationships is
that many of us we get stuck on seeing
just what’s in front of us when there
are so many layers to attraction not
just the physical because we are not our
minds underneath it all we are pure
energy we are pure consciousness and
this is the most attractive thing about
the one we are in love with yes we also
have to broaden how we see love because
I always say you can’t just limit your
love to one person you have to love
everyone resonating on the same
frequency as yourself and that’s why we
have to let go of possession it’s not
about putting the one you love in a cage
it’s about letting them free to explore
the true depths of the universe
and I know this may sound cliche and we
often hear people saying you know
communication is so important
communication so important relationships
but beyond just feeling like
communication is this responsibility
that we owe to another person that we
are in a relationship with communication
is a great way to discover what you
truly truly desire and what you truly
want to unburden yourself and to
confront your fears because we all have
constructed certain walls and fears
around letting someone down you know
we’ve been socialized we’ve been raised
to want to please certain people whether
it’s our parents as our elders you know
so that sense of like oh I’m gonna let
someone down through my communication
through expressing to the person I’m in
a relationship with that I have certain
feelings that I have attractions that
I’m thinking certain thoughts but
there’s something very liberating and
very it’s like a gateway into
discovering yourself more and what you
truly desire because once you share once
you are burden yourself and you share
from a place of true love and not not
fear not thinking like I’m gonna control
the outcome of this communication I’m
gonna censor certain information I’m
gonna withhold because I don’t think my
partner is ready or willing to handle
that well if they are not ready or
willing to handle it if they’re if it’s
gonna cause a breakdown in a
relationship then that’s where the
relationship is headed and there has to
be a total surrendering to whatever
comes out of that communication right
because this is what can I help you
essentially also connect more with what
you truly desire what you truly want
versus censoring yourself censoring the
outcome of that communication within the
relationship and really constructing
this whole modify rigid structure that’s
not resting on any truth or transparency
right and all men are dogs all women
love shopping where did we get these
ideas from from our parents our
grandparents but the secret is I’ve
found it’s not about
thinking is about feeling because when
we look at someone we may see a bank
account
we may see an opportunity but we have to
feel them in our heart at the end of the
day it’s all about expansion to learn
more about each other we are here in
nature the wind is blowing feels great
have a healthy relationship infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay home
again we’re here this is sexology water
fire huh called yin yang what women
think versus what men think now I see
that relationships are evolving around
the planet
it’s not about possessing someone it’s
not about being in control of someone
it’s about breaking these stereotypes
because we exist within each other but
this interaction we have I find that so
many of us we have problems and when we
can dissect the problems we can thrive
together yes lately I’ve been thinking
more and more about this topic of what
men want versus what women want and it’s
easy to fall into these ideas simplified
ideas of this is what men think about
this is what women think about but one
thing I’ve been feeling more and really
reflecting on is this idea of
recognizing the potential that a
relationship between a man and a woman
can really arrive to or come to I think
more often we tend to look at the
physical attraction or the desire to
want to engage the a man or a woman in a
romantic relationship and we see that as
the ultimate or that the peak of what
that relationship could be about and if
we are not ready or willing to engage in
such a relationship than we see we see
what the point that we arrive to as a
stall some kind of a stop in that
relationship and one thing I’ve been
feeling more and more in thinking about
is that we really need to move beyond
those categories and beyond those
limitations and recognize that the
universe is really smart
so as men or as women we have
relationships with the complementary sex
whatever it is that we may be
for wanting for it’s going to come to us
through different people and it’s really
a matter of thinking and feeling with
our heart what is it that we truly want
I think the ultimate question from the
universe is what is it what is it that
you want what is it that you ultimately
strive for and if we constantly keep
externalizing our power and thinking
that that something is going to come
through a relationship from a man or a
woman and we put all of our hopes and
ideas and desires into that and it
doesn’t come into fruition and that’s
when we run into major disappointments
and heartbreaks and sort of like
breakdowns and in friendships that
haven’t really had the true potential to
blossom that’s what I’ve seen I just see
it like this that relationships they are
mirrors we are learning from each and
every one we come into contact with what
happens in a lot of 3d relationships and
the beauty of it is that we are evolving
and changing how we see relationships is
that many of us we get stuck on seeing
just what’s in front of us when there
are so many layers to attraction not
just the physical because we are not our
minds underneath it all we are pure
energy we are pure consciousness and
this is the most attractive thing about
the one we are in love with yes we also
have to broaden how we see love because
I always say you can’t just limit your
love to one person you have to love
everyone resonating on the same
frequency as yourself and that’s why we
have to let go of possession it’s not
about putting the one you love in a cage
it’s about letting them free to explore
the true depths of the universe
and I know this may sound cliche and we
often hear people saying you know
communication is so important
communication so important relationships
but beyond just feeling like
communication is this responsibility
that we owe to another person that we
are in a relationship with communication
is a great way to discover what you
truly truly desire and what you truly
want to unburden yourself and to
confront your fears because we all have
constructed certain walls and fears
around letting someone down you know
we’ve been socialized we’ve been raised
to want to please certain people whether
it’s our parents as our elders you know
so that sense of like oh I’m gonna let
someone down through my communication
through expressing to the person I’m in
a relationship with that I have certain
feelings that I have attractions that
I’m thinking certain thoughts but
there’s something very liberating and
very it’s like a gateway into
discovering yourself more and what you
truly desire because once you share once
you are burden yourself and you share
from a place of true love and not not
fear not thinking like I’m gonna control
the outcome of this communication I’m
gonna censor certain information I’m
gonna withhold because I don’t think my
partner is ready or willing to handle
that well if they are not ready or
willing to handle it if they’re if it’s
gonna cause a breakdown in a
relationship then that’s where the
relationship is headed and there has to
be a total surrendering to whatever
comes out of that communication right
because this is what can I help you
essentially also connect more with what
you truly desire what you truly want
versus censoring yourself censoring the
outcome of that communication within the
relationship and really constructing
this whole modify rigid structure that’s
not resting on any truth or transparency
right and all men are dogs all women
love shopping where did we get these
ideas from from our parents our
grandparents but the secret is I’ve
found it’s not about
thinking is about feeling because when
we look at someone we may see a bank
account
we may see an opportunity but we have to
feel them in our heart at the end of the
day it’s all about expansion to learn
more about each other we are here in
nature the wind is blowing feels great
have a healthy relationship infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay home
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