Shh peace and finit waters diving deep
once again beautiful deep divers we are
out here in the heart of nature baby
I’m sending you tons of great energy
take that take that take that
now has someone left you in a
relationship do you know someone who is
afraid of commitment right now did
someone just disappear out of the blue
and you’re like Ralph where did they go
they’ve stopped calling me they don’t
reply to my text messages anymore what’s
happened why men and why women have
doubts about committing to someone deep
divers less just whoa breathing in that
good ass piranha baby
this is sexology deep divers water fire
hot code yin-yang daddy’s home I’m back
now this is gonna be a beautiful video
because we are really gonna die deep
into commitment issues into commitment
issues
into why men leave good women into why
women leave good men why men have doubts
about commitment why women have doubts
about commitment I got a question that
came in someone wrote to me Ralph I love
your videos I was in a relationship with
a guy and it was going great I thought
he loved me he said he always loved me
but one day he stopped replying to my
text messages and he changed his number
so why did he just vanish why did he
just vanish because it was going so good
now this happens to a lot of people many
times we are in a relationship and then
someone disappears they leave
sometimes they don’t even bother to text
us back I mean even had breakfast yet
can I get a hello there many times
people are afraid of commitment many
times people do have doubts and where
does this emanate from so over the years
I’ve done a lot of relationship
counseling and I’m gonna give you a
great explanation why men and women
sometimes and the cat down the road
sometimes have doubts about commitment
when we talk off the water relationship
which is the harmonious relationship it
can only manifests when alignment is
there when the time is right alignment
can happen when both of you are
vibrating at the same frequency
alignment can happen when both of you
are resonating at the same frequency
alignment can happen until then
alignment will not be made hmm
slow motion this side mm-hmm in other
words for someone to be truly committed
to you both of you
have to be on the same page why men
leave good women why women leave good
men why people have doubts about
commitment in this modern age what’s
happening men have a different set of
programs to women women have a
biological clock and the time the clock
is ticking away a lot of women write to
me Ralph I want to start a family I want
to meet a good man
I want to meet someone who’s gonna be a
good father and that’s fantastic
a lot of women will be looking for that
a lot of men are also looking for that
but what’s real
a pressing concern for a lot of men is
how am I gonna be able to provide how am
I gonna be able to provide for this
wonderful woman okay a lot of men have a
lot of pressure from society that
actually wow I’ve got to be a provider I
got to be a provider I have to be a
provider all the time so a lot of men
are like even though I love you if I
haven’t got my share together it’s gonna
be hard for me to be with you a hundred
percent this is what I call men of
purpose women of purpose until a man has
established himself until he has really
come to know more about himself it’s
gonna be very hard for him to commit to
you I know what it’s like lady sometimes
you see a guy he’s in his early 20s and
you’re like well we were so in love what
happened he got caught up that’s what
happened he started to realize actually
wait a minute I got to go out there I’ve
got to be a man I’ve got to be a
provider and even though he may love you
it’s just that he doesn’t have anything
to give you right now
the psychology that’s why a lot of women
growing up what do they say oh I like an
older guy a guy who’s established
himself a guy who can provide
financially a lot of men have a
financial clock the time is ticking gosh
I got to stop getting out there working
that happens he won’t be able to give
you a hundred percent because once again
you are not his main priority that’s why
many times people have doubts about
commitment it’s not that they don’t love
you it’s because they haven’t come into
their true selves they haven’t really
come to know who they truly are and they
haven’t really accomplished anything to
the masculine energy guys are dreaming
of love but in a different way two women
a guy wants to love you but he wants to
be able to give you
at the same time you wants to be able to
give you something that is stable he
wants to be able to give you a stable
foundation and that’s why sometimes
you’re in a relationship and what
happens one of you leave because once
again in the guy’s mind he’s like what
am I gonna be able to provide right what
am I gonna be able to provide for you
he hasn’t got anything right so many
times ladies and fellas don’t take it
personally if someone is having doubts
about commitment it means they are not
ready and sometimes that’s a blessing in
disguise
because why would you want someone who
is not ready if someone is having doubts
about commitment it’s time for you to
start finding someone who is sure who
doesn’t have any second doubts who is
truly ready but living in this 3d world
it’s natural people are gonna have
doubts about commitment many times some
people are immature some women immature
some guys are immature okay same thing
many women leave good men if a woman is
seeing actually win on the same page can
you be a good father to my children
forget about if the lovemaking is good
are you gonna be a good father to raise
our children that’s what women are
thinking of that’s why even though the
relationship the relationship could be
going great if she can see that you’re
gonna be lazy you’re not gonna be a good
father she’s out of there right so why
do people have doubts about commitment
why the men have doubts why do women
have doubts it emanates from uncertainty
many times people aren’t sure is this
the one okay many times people will
still be thinking like I’m still not
sure I want to commit 100% because I
still need time to know more about who
you are
because I’ve only seen one side of you
and that’s why a lot of people are just
holding off just for a little bit
because they want to see you in a
different environment they want to see
more emotions they want to see both of
you together in different experiences
and how you deal with these experiences
okay many times what happens people have
a lot of work to do
and that’s why that’s the biggest reason
why many people have doubts about
commitment men have commitment issues
women have commitment issues because
people don’t know who they are they’re
still not ready
they still haven’t worked on themselves
enough I remember when I was 17 I was in
a relationship it was amazing I loved
her I was happy right but then I
realized I got a lot of problems and yes
we can work with them we can all both
work on them together that’s cool but
many times the self work has to be done
alone many times you want to be able to
give the best to that person and that’s
why a lot of people bail out of
relationships that’s why people have
doubts about commitment because they
know deep down they want to be able to
give you better than what they can give
you right now they go to work on
themselves they go to work on themselves
they got to get their money right they
got to get their mind right they got to
get their health right right seven day
vegan challenge seven day vegan
challenge and it happened to me along my
journey I was in a relationship with
someone and I was going vegan and she
was still a meat-eater and I was giving
her all of this information oh yes just
he’s so amazing this plant-based
lifestyle and she didn’t want to hear it
right so it was a case where she was
having now doubts about commitment I was
ready but I was also eventually having
doubts about commitment
but she was having doubts first cuz
she’s like I don’t want to hear anything
about this plant-based lifestyle I like
my kabobs I like my steak and all of
that and I was shifting I was changing
my diet and that’s why she in that
circumstance was having doubts about
commitment with me because she wasn’t a
vegan like me she wasn’t eating the
plant-based lifestyle for the water
relationship to work two people have to
be on the same page you got to be
thinking in a similar way you got to be
eating similar foods you got to be
making the same effort to see each other
in a great light okay you want to make
sure you’re with someone and you look at
them and you’re like yes cuz you’re
gonna be across the table from them I
love eating this juicy mango with you
because when I was in that relationship
I would be eating plant-based and she
would be eating a lot of she would be
eating a lot of meat a lot of dairy and
it was hard for me to be there I was
having doubts about commitment and
that’s why it’s so essential that two
people are eating in the same way and
that’s the secret to the water
relationship why man and why women have
doubts about committing to someone many
times once again people are caught up
and that means people don’t place a lot
of value on love on commitment on a
relationship they have invested their
energy elsewhere you want their top
priority their top priority could be to
go to college it could be to start
working in this job and start working
themselves up right and that’s why
commitment comes when two people know
themselves when two people are truly
established and when two people have
more to offer each other
okay many times people will leave a
relationship they will leave a great
connection if they haven’t got the time
for it if they are too busy if they are
preoccupied if even if they love you
they have just got too many things going
on right now and that’s why I always
advise people for the water relationship
you need time you need to water this
love pond you need to cultivate it you
need to give it some light you need to
give it water and that’s how the love
plant blossoms mm-hmm slow motion this
side mmm
why men leave good women why women leave
good men why people have doubts about
committing to someone I’ve seen along my
early journey when I wasn’t sure when I
was like actually I need more time now
I’m a lot more established I know what I
want many times you are meeting someone
who doesn’t really know what they want
they don’t know if they want to be with
you or they want to be with that other
person sometimes they have lust they
have a roaming guide they want to test
the waters and that’s natural but when
we talk of the water relationship it’s
all about alignment you will never ever
have to force someone who is truly meant
to be in your life when the time is
right the alignment will be made and who
is meant for you will never reject you
either so I learned how to instead of
forcing everything to happen I learnt
how to allow things to happen I know
what it’s like you really want that guy
back you really want him to reply to
your text but that’s just a good thing
he’s not because now you’re seeing that
he’s not really invested in this a
hundred percent you want someone who’s
gonna be sure of you all the time why do
people have doubts sometime about
committing are you on the same
consciousness level are you on the same
consciousness level can you talk about
anything and everything without feeling
ashamed of yourself many times people
have doubts about commitment because
they know they can’t really express
themselves a hundred percent to that
other person they call be themselves so
they’re doubting like I don’t know if
this is the right one if because once
again they don’t feel relaxed they don’t
feel comfortable they’re havin they’re
havin second doubts and you have to
respect that and say actually okay is
the alignment right or am i trying to
force it
trust me whoever is meant to be in your
life will find their way into your life
we’ve got to start saying actually if
someone is having doubts about
commitment it’s all about me being in
alignment when you are in alignment that
one you seek will now come into
alignment with you it may not be that
person but it will be someone who is on
the same page as you so people do have
doubts about commitment and it means
many times they’re not ready it means
many times they’re caught up it means
many times that they want to make
something of themselves first so they
have more to give you it’s a matter of
patience I’ve seen time and time again
that a can work even if two people are
doubtful about a relationship or having
commitment issues it can work with
patience
many times people bail out just when the
great relationship is about to take
place
because people get impatient ok many
times you got to really sometimes give
people space even when they are having
commitment issues when they’re doubting
everything because in that space they
can actually they can actually reflect
and say wow this is a good man this is a
good woman what am i doing and now you
become a priority and
they also become a priority in your life
okay why people have commitment issues
effort not everyone is gonna put in the
same effort as you so once again you
have to be clear about what it is you
want that’s what stopped my commitment
issues I had to be clear of what I want
what I want a person to give me what I
want to give to a person so you have to
really know who you are and every single
day always say I’m choosing to be with
this person
once again deep divers if you are the
person who’s doubting to be with someone
that’s okay if their doubting to be with
you that’s okay because what is meant
for you will never miss you
mmm no slow motion deserves one though
what is meant for you will never miss
you and once you realize I deep divers
well you just say so get to be a live
baby can I get a hello many times as
well people want to compete the
masculine energy wants to compete with
the feminine energy I’m better than you
that’s why people have doubts about
commitment what’s really freed me along
my journey deep divers is to allow the
feminine energy to be the feminine
energy allow the masculine energy to be
the masculine energy we’re not here to
change people so we’re not here to
compete with each other either we are
here to support each other and accept
keyword accept how each other live and
that’s a secret to the great water
relationship beautiful deep divers shout
out to everybody who’s been diving deep
getting the wonderful good are honest
shirts I won one Ralph Ralph smart comm
slash clothes check them out giving a
few away on Instagram and infinite
waters check out the new book deep
divers feel alive by Ralph smart on
Amazon have a beautiful day
take a lot away from this video infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well
stay healthy peace you what is meant for
you will never miss you he didn’t miss me was it was meant for me
once again beautiful deep divers we are
out here in the heart of nature baby
I’m sending you tons of great energy
take that take that take that
now has someone left you in a
relationship do you know someone who is
afraid of commitment right now did
someone just disappear out of the blue
and you’re like Ralph where did they go
they’ve stopped calling me they don’t
reply to my text messages anymore what’s
happened why men and why women have
doubts about committing to someone deep
divers less just whoa breathing in that
good ass piranha baby
this is sexology deep divers water fire
hot code yin-yang daddy’s home I’m back
now this is gonna be a beautiful video
because we are really gonna die deep
into commitment issues into commitment
issues
into why men leave good women into why
women leave good men why men have doubts
about commitment why women have doubts
about commitment I got a question that
came in someone wrote to me Ralph I love
your videos I was in a relationship with
a guy and it was going great I thought
he loved me he said he always loved me
but one day he stopped replying to my
text messages and he changed his number
so why did he just vanish why did he
just vanish because it was going so good
now this happens to a lot of people many
times we are in a relationship and then
someone disappears they leave
sometimes they don’t even bother to text
us back I mean even had breakfast yet
can I get a hello there many times
people are afraid of commitment many
times people do have doubts and where
does this emanate from so over the years
I’ve done a lot of relationship
counseling and I’m gonna give you a
great explanation why men and women
sometimes and the cat down the road
sometimes have doubts about commitment
when we talk off the water relationship
which is the harmonious relationship it
can only manifests when alignment is
there when the time is right alignment
can happen when both of you are
vibrating at the same frequency
alignment can happen when both of you
are resonating at the same frequency
alignment can happen until then
alignment will not be made hmm
slow motion this side mm-hmm in other
words for someone to be truly committed
to you both of you
have to be on the same page why men
leave good women why women leave good
men why people have doubts about
commitment in this modern age what’s
happening men have a different set of
programs to women women have a
biological clock and the time the clock
is ticking away a lot of women write to
me Ralph I want to start a family I want
to meet a good man
I want to meet someone who’s gonna be a
good father and that’s fantastic
a lot of women will be looking for that
a lot of men are also looking for that
but what’s real
a pressing concern for a lot of men is
how am I gonna be able to provide how am
I gonna be able to provide for this
wonderful woman okay a lot of men have a
lot of pressure from society that
actually wow I’ve got to be a provider I
got to be a provider I have to be a
provider all the time so a lot of men
are like even though I love you if I
haven’t got my share together it’s gonna
be hard for me to be with you a hundred
percent this is what I call men of
purpose women of purpose until a man has
established himself until he has really
come to know more about himself it’s
gonna be very hard for him to commit to
you I know what it’s like lady sometimes
you see a guy he’s in his early 20s and
you’re like well we were so in love what
happened he got caught up that’s what
happened he started to realize actually
wait a minute I got to go out there I’ve
got to be a man I’ve got to be a
provider and even though he may love you
it’s just that he doesn’t have anything
to give you right now
the psychology that’s why a lot of women
growing up what do they say oh I like an
older guy a guy who’s established
himself a guy who can provide
financially a lot of men have a
financial clock the time is ticking gosh
I got to stop getting out there working
that happens he won’t be able to give
you a hundred percent because once again
you are not his main priority that’s why
many times people have doubts about
commitment it’s not that they don’t love
you it’s because they haven’t come into
their true selves they haven’t really
come to know who they truly are and they
haven’t really accomplished anything to
the masculine energy guys are dreaming
of love but in a different way two women
a guy wants to love you but he wants to
be able to give you
at the same time you wants to be able to
give you something that is stable he
wants to be able to give you a stable
foundation and that’s why sometimes
you’re in a relationship and what
happens one of you leave because once
again in the guy’s mind he’s like what
am I gonna be able to provide right what
am I gonna be able to provide for you
he hasn’t got anything right so many
times ladies and fellas don’t take it
personally if someone is having doubts
about commitment it means they are not
ready and sometimes that’s a blessing in
disguise
because why would you want someone who
is not ready if someone is having doubts
about commitment it’s time for you to
start finding someone who is sure who
doesn’t have any second doubts who is
truly ready but living in this 3d world
it’s natural people are gonna have
doubts about commitment many times some
people are immature some women immature
some guys are immature okay same thing
many women leave good men if a woman is
seeing actually win on the same page can
you be a good father to my children
forget about if the lovemaking is good
are you gonna be a good father to raise
our children that’s what women are
thinking of that’s why even though the
relationship the relationship could be
going great if she can see that you’re
gonna be lazy you’re not gonna be a good
father she’s out of there right so why
do people have doubts about commitment
why the men have doubts why do women
have doubts it emanates from uncertainty
many times people aren’t sure is this
the one okay many times people will
still be thinking like I’m still not
sure I want to commit 100% because I
still need time to know more about who
you are
because I’ve only seen one side of you
and that’s why a lot of people are just
holding off just for a little bit
because they want to see you in a
different environment they want to see
more emotions they want to see both of
you together in different experiences
and how you deal with these experiences
okay many times what happens people have
a lot of work to do
and that’s why that’s the biggest reason
why many people have doubts about
commitment men have commitment issues
women have commitment issues because
people don’t know who they are they’re
still not ready
they still haven’t worked on themselves
enough I remember when I was 17 I was in
a relationship it was amazing I loved
her I was happy right but then I
realized I got a lot of problems and yes
we can work with them we can all both
work on them together that’s cool but
many times the self work has to be done
alone many times you want to be able to
give the best to that person and that’s
why a lot of people bail out of
relationships that’s why people have
doubts about commitment because they
know deep down they want to be able to
give you better than what they can give
you right now they go to work on
themselves they go to work on themselves
they got to get their money right they
got to get their mind right they got to
get their health right right seven day
vegan challenge seven day vegan
challenge and it happened to me along my
journey I was in a relationship with
someone and I was going vegan and she
was still a meat-eater and I was giving
her all of this information oh yes just
he’s so amazing this plant-based
lifestyle and she didn’t want to hear it
right so it was a case where she was
having now doubts about commitment I was
ready but I was also eventually having
doubts about commitment
but she was having doubts first cuz
she’s like I don’t want to hear anything
about this plant-based lifestyle I like
my kabobs I like my steak and all of
that and I was shifting I was changing
my diet and that’s why she in that
circumstance was having doubts about
commitment with me because she wasn’t a
vegan like me she wasn’t eating the
plant-based lifestyle for the water
relationship to work two people have to
be on the same page you got to be
thinking in a similar way you got to be
eating similar foods you got to be
making the same effort to see each other
in a great light okay you want to make
sure you’re with someone and you look at
them and you’re like yes cuz you’re
gonna be across the table from them I
love eating this juicy mango with you
because when I was in that relationship
I would be eating plant-based and she
would be eating a lot of she would be
eating a lot of meat a lot of dairy and
it was hard for me to be there I was
having doubts about commitment and
that’s why it’s so essential that two
people are eating in the same way and
that’s the secret to the water
relationship why man and why women have
doubts about committing to someone many
times once again people are caught up
and that means people don’t place a lot
of value on love on commitment on a
relationship they have invested their
energy elsewhere you want their top
priority their top priority could be to
go to college it could be to start
working in this job and start working
themselves up right and that’s why
commitment comes when two people know
themselves when two people are truly
established and when two people have
more to offer each other
okay many times people will leave a
relationship they will leave a great
connection if they haven’t got the time
for it if they are too busy if they are
preoccupied if even if they love you
they have just got too many things going
on right now and that’s why I always
advise people for the water relationship
you need time you need to water this
love pond you need to cultivate it you
need to give it some light you need to
give it water and that’s how the love
plant blossoms mm-hmm slow motion this
side mmm
why men leave good women why women leave
good men why people have doubts about
committing to someone I’ve seen along my
early journey when I wasn’t sure when I
was like actually I need more time now
I’m a lot more established I know what I
want many times you are meeting someone
who doesn’t really know what they want
they don’t know if they want to be with
you or they want to be with that other
person sometimes they have lust they
have a roaming guide they want to test
the waters and that’s natural but when
we talk of the water relationship it’s
all about alignment you will never ever
have to force someone who is truly meant
to be in your life when the time is
right the alignment will be made and who
is meant for you will never reject you
either so I learned how to instead of
forcing everything to happen I learnt
how to allow things to happen I know
what it’s like you really want that guy
back you really want him to reply to
your text but that’s just a good thing
he’s not because now you’re seeing that
he’s not really invested in this a
hundred percent you want someone who’s
gonna be sure of you all the time why do
people have doubts sometime about
committing are you on the same
consciousness level are you on the same
consciousness level can you talk about
anything and everything without feeling
ashamed of yourself many times people
have doubts about commitment because
they know they can’t really express
themselves a hundred percent to that
other person they call be themselves so
they’re doubting like I don’t know if
this is the right one if because once
again they don’t feel relaxed they don’t
feel comfortable they’re havin they’re
havin second doubts and you have to
respect that and say actually okay is
the alignment right or am i trying to
force it
trust me whoever is meant to be in your
life will find their way into your life
we’ve got to start saying actually if
someone is having doubts about
commitment it’s all about me being in
alignment when you are in alignment that
one you seek will now come into
alignment with you it may not be that
person but it will be someone who is on
the same page as you so people do have
doubts about commitment and it means
many times they’re not ready it means
many times they’re caught up it means
many times that they want to make
something of themselves first so they
have more to give you it’s a matter of
patience I’ve seen time and time again
that a can work even if two people are
doubtful about a relationship or having
commitment issues it can work with
patience
many times people bail out just when the
great relationship is about to take
place
because people get impatient ok many
times you got to really sometimes give
people space even when they are having
commitment issues when they’re doubting
everything because in that space they
can actually they can actually reflect
and say wow this is a good man this is a
good woman what am i doing and now you
become a priority and
they also become a priority in your life
okay why people have commitment issues
effort not everyone is gonna put in the
same effort as you so once again you
have to be clear about what it is you
want that’s what stopped my commitment
issues I had to be clear of what I want
what I want a person to give me what I
want to give to a person so you have to
really know who you are and every single
day always say I’m choosing to be with
this person
once again deep divers if you are the
person who’s doubting to be with someone
that’s okay if their doubting to be with
you that’s okay because what is meant
for you will never miss you
mmm no slow motion deserves one though
what is meant for you will never miss
you and once you realize I deep divers
well you just say so get to be a live
baby can I get a hello many times as
well people want to compete the
masculine energy wants to compete with
the feminine energy I’m better than you
that’s why people have doubts about
commitment what’s really freed me along
my journey deep divers is to allow the
feminine energy to be the feminine
energy allow the masculine energy to be
the masculine energy we’re not here to
change people so we’re not here to
compete with each other either we are
here to support each other and accept
keyword accept how each other live and
that’s a secret to the great water
relationship beautiful deep divers shout
out to everybody who’s been diving deep
getting the wonderful good are honest
shirts I won one Ralph Ralph smart comm
slash clothes check them out giving a
few away on Instagram and infinite
waters check out the new book deep
divers feel alive by Ralph smart on
Amazon have a beautiful day
take a lot away from this video infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well
stay healthy peace you what is meant for
you will never miss you he didn’t miss me was it was meant for me
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