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How to Stop Negative People Affecting Your Mood And Energy


peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again beautiful deep divers it’s a
gorgeous day out here but it’s someone
in your life right now who is making it
very miserable for you they’re affecting
your mood and energy as well oh how to
stop negative people negative people
affecting your mood and energy let’s
just whoa breathing in that good oz
prana baby now I got a great question
that came in if you’ve got a question
don’t email me I get thousands their
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someone else Ralph yes I love your
videos but please help I’m in university
stuck in a room full of flatmates and
there’s this one flatmate Ralph who is
really getting on my nerves they’re
making me feel angry oh oh
furious Ralph oh oh I could really wait
a minute
don’t do it put the pot down you don’t
want to hit them with a pot there are
Pisces okay so they’re like Ralph you’re
a Pisces as well please help a sister
out so we got a whole lot to talk about
we’ve got a whole lot to talk about okay
they’re like should I meet fire with
fire should I be passive should I just
ignore it
how do I deal with someone who is really
starting to affect my mood and energy
and I live with them Ralph has that ever
happened to you deep divers uh-oh you’re
looking a bit shaky baby and when even
now let me share with you what’s helped
me along my journey I’ve met I’ve met a
lot of people who have affected my mood
and energy but I’m always reminding
myself this whatever somebody brings out
of you was already there slow motion
this side that’s why I say negative
people and to stop allowing because you
give people’s permission you give people
permission to affect your mood and
energy nobody can do that without your
authority first without your go ahead
first without you accepting the
invitation so ultimately you have all
the power is time to take it back if
someone said something to you that what
you really angry oh oh you’re mad right
now you want to stop pulling out your
hair right now okay that means there was
something already there inside you you
got triggered that’s why I said negative
people these so-called negative people
are actually teachers showing you
unresolved issues that have to be healed
along my early journey when I was first
starting on him
Finnick waters on infinite waters I was
doing my intro like peas peas peas peas
and someone in the comment section kept
saying Ralph stop saying your boring ass
intro
and I was furious I’m like I’m mad right
now how are you gonna diss me like that
don’t you know that’s all I’ve got
they were making me feel a certain way
they were affecting my mood and energy
because I let them listen very closely
if you feel fire that means you agree
with them
what say it again real slow motion this
side if you feel fire angry that means
you agree with them so when I first was
starting infinite waters I wasn’t I
wasn’t sure I wasn’t really sure I was
like a little lamb lost in the woods and
I’m like I’m angry because maybe they’ve
got a point I wasn’t really confident in
myself now fast forward like 12 months
from that time I was really confident in
saying peace that when the same person
made that comment I was calm just like a
true Pisces okay I didn’t feel the fire
because I didn’t agree with him so
realize if you have a flatmate who’s
making you feel a certain way if they’re
triggering you if they are saying stuff
to you you have to now ask yourself do I
really agree with what they’re saying do
I really agree with what they are saying
okay but realize ultimately you have the
power and it’s time to take it back stop
putting up with it stop putting up with
it okay you don’t have to be in the
presence of someone who is affecting
your mood or energy just to prove how
strong you are no you don’t have to go
through all of that hassle and I learn
that the hard way because I’m I’m like
okay I always talked about becoming your
greatest version I’m gonna be in the
presence of this person who’s really
getting on my nerves just to prove to
the world that I can with
and this very uncomfortable person you
don’t have to do that that’s advice from
the cat down the road you can walk away
from anything any person any energy that
no longer serves you that’s the best
be very mindful of how you are feeding
other people be very mindful of the
attention you are giving undesirable
entities be mindful of where you place
your focus whatever you focus on gross I
was spending a long time focusing on
that comment many many years ago right
Ralph please change please change the
intro at the same time I had like 50
other comments which were like Ralph I
absolutely love your videos I love your
intro I was choosing to focus on energy
which was not serving me I didn’t want
to take responsibility for that to stop
allowing negative people to affect your
mood and energy stop feeding them with
your attention they call it paying
attention for reason they call it paying
attention for a reason because every
time you focus on a negative person
you’re actually giving them a bit of
your energy it’s time to start focusing
on people that actually matter have you
ever noticed this that we spend way too
long thinking about people who are
so-called negative we don’t like okay
but so little on people who’ve always
been there for us to scratch our back
and rub our toes okay so I have what I
call five seconds five minute rule you
spend five seconds thinking about a
negative person and five minutes
thinking about someone you love because
right now you are spending five minutes
or maybe five hours thinking of that
negative person and only five seconds of
thinking about the cat down the road and
someone else you love it’s time to swap
it around and stop focusing every single
day practice and practice and practice
practice focus on a friend who’s always
been there and now you will feel their
whole entire energy permeate your entire
being because you’re like oh my gosh I
really love this friend and that
negative person won’t even exist anymore
realize the moment some people see that
they’re getting a lot out of you
they’ve triggered you they now feel like
they have power over you once again
whatever they bought out of you whatever
they bought out of you
was already inside you it’s time to stop
reacting and it’s time to learn how to
respond okay cuz when people tell me
stuff and you said you’re a sensitive
Pisces I’m a sensitive Pisces – hold my
hand baby but I’m very strong and a lot
of Pisceans a super strong right that’s
why everybody tells us their problems
look I was reacting when even growing up
people would tell me to do stuff and do
it like this do it like that I was
reacting because I’m like no and then it
would affect my mood I’ve learned I’ve
learned how to respond responding to a
situation literally has the power to
change the entire situation itself
reacting is just getting triggered you
lash out I’m angry responding is to ask
yourself what’s the best way to act in
this situation because if I get angry at
this negative person it won’t change
what’s happening in fact it will only
make me
SiC it will only take my energy away
responding is all about meeting people
not fire with fire but thinking smart to
say okay even if I live with a negative
person who’s affecting my mood I used to
record in Malibu one time okay
in fact I’ll give you an example about
Hawaii okay in Hawaii right now and I’m
staying in this massive house okay and
someone’s like okay please stop
recording stop making these videos okay
and I’m like no and they kept saying
that okay and I’m like no I like doing
it and I was getting very angry because
I’m like do you know how many deep
divers are waiting for these videos and
then I started to smile and say I love
making videos and they really didn’t
know what to do then they just zipped it
right so sometimes you got to meet love
with fear mmm
slow motion this side because that’s all
what negative energy is it’s all fear so
you have to come from a place of love
you got to smile at people who you feel
a negative towards you who are affecting
your mood and energy even if you live
with them even if you live with them
okay someone didn’t do the dishes you
just got a smile and say right make sure
you are harmonious make sure make sure
you are harmonious make sure you are
harmonious you are harmonious within
yourself that’s key and paramount okay
so I’ve learned a seven day vegan
challenge the only way to really become
harmonious within yourself is to start
eating of healthier a healthier
plant-based diet that’s what I call
purify your body mind and soul with III
live blue
Algy maca powder smoothie with banana
dates pistachios pine nuts and figs and
dates and acai and ginseng oh my gosh
that’s like a power smoothie with a
little bit of ginger now you feel now
you feel so strong to really look
anybody in the eyes okay many times we
get affected by negative people they
affect our mood and energy when we’re
not really eating at our best okay once
again it all starts with us you have the
power to control the outside world by
changing your own energetic vibration
the only reason why this negativity is
affecting you is because you are
vibrating at the same frequency what
slow motion in this side in other words
you want to argue with them because they
started to argue you want to play their
game it’s not working because now it’s
affecting your mood the problem is you
are actually very sensitive they may not
be so stop playing other people’s games
and start really honoring your true
heart okay but always realize you have
to be at a different frequency a
different frequency and a different
vibration so they can no longer affect
kick the cat okay let’s just say someone
shouts at you and you’re like why did
you do that and they’re like because I
don’t like you they really mean they’re
really nasty and now this is affecting
your mood and energy many times we have
what we call kick the cat syndrome
someone shouts at you so then you shout
out other people you go home and you
shout at your mom and your dad your
brother your sister even the cat down
the road even though I was smart what
did I do
I know nothing right so you don’t want
to pass on that same energy that same
insalubrious energy that same
contaminated energy that’s why it’s so
important seven day vegan challenge to
constantly purify to constantly purify
your energy through a healthy
plant-based diet so even when you are in
the midst of a negative person you don’t
transfer their negativity to someone
else okay just because they gave it to
you you have to learn how to neutralize
the energy by not being at their same
frequency and therefore they can no
longer affect you so you don’t have to
kick the cat down the road just because
someone was mean to you know you want to
hug the cat down the road I’ve learned
this that many times what happens when
we are in the midst of someone who is
draining our energy okay they are taking
the way our life for small Ralph they’re
making me feel a certain way it’s only
happening because we are choosing for it
to happen we are allowing it to happen
okay realize this step
ultimately you have to say stop not only
to them but to yourself to say no I’m
gonna really start moving to a place
which really nourishes my soul I don’t
care even if I have to move house okay
because you don’t have to put up with
this madness okay I’ve learned this
along my journey to stop allowing
negative people to stop allowing
negative people to control your energy
in your mind and your aura you have to
realize this first and foremost stop
allowing people who do so little for you
to take up such a large space in your
mind what slow motion this side stop
allowing people who do so little for you
to take up such a large space in your
mind and that’s why I always say you can
choose who you really want to focus on
you can choose who you really want to
think about but make sure it’s people
that are actually serving you and adding
some beautiful magic into your life you
see I’ve realized that you are like
should I just stay passive or should I
talk about it I’ve learned this oh you
really have to call people out you are
not a bad person
if you address people you are not a bad
person if you speak up for yourself
speak even if your voice shakes you see
what’s helped me along my journey plain
and simple is to realize this you have
to find your voice in these situations
many times we hand over our power
because we are silent when we should
really speak up sometimes you got to
learn how to say no enough enough you
are not going to
me go through another day of just crying
feeling miserable and then you will find
that the more you can really voice how
you feel the more you express yourself
they no longer affect your mood and
energy learn how to speak up and then
really start to rearrange okay your
friends your friends circle that we all
have rearranged them in my address book
I got no people they don’t love our
smart you want to surround yourself with
people who root for you and that’s how
to stop that’s how to stop negative
people affecting your mood and energy
only hang around people who root for you
even if you live with someone who is
negative what you do is go about your
business and realize you are not
responsible for how other people behave
or how other people treat you slow
motion this site
stop ascribing intent stop feeling
whatever they are doing is because of
you they will like that before you came
on the scene you are not their problem
some people just need a hug you may not
be the one to give it to them it’s time
to stop it’s time to stop feeling
responsible for other people’s poor
behaviors and attitudes towards you
because as a Pisces you’re very
sensitive but also you’re very strong
and you have to find this strength right
now to say actually even if I’m even if
I’m living with them okay I get to see
them every single day I’m gonna focus on
my own business and let them do them
okay and then that’s how to stop
negative people affecting your energy
and mood and then you’re just sick they
also get to be a live baby can I get a
hello beautiful deep divers we are out
here chillaxing in the heart of nature
just whoa breathing in that good ass
prana baby have a beautiful day deep
divers infinite waters diving deep once
again stay well stay healthy peace you
you got to brush it off brush them off
brush them off the shoulder just like that now they’re gone

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