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How to Stop Believing Other People’s Opinions


peace and finit waters diving deep once
again we are out here in nature
breathing in that good ass prana how to
deal with people who are constantly
putting you down isn’t that annoying
you’re just trying your best oh that’s
crap can I get a hello there first of
all let me shout out to all the deep
divers out there much love to all the
people who are connecting on Instagram
Facebook especially on the website
Ralph smart calm because there’s a whole
lot of interaction going on there that’s
where the videos are uploaded to first
and I’m gonna soon start putting
exclusive videos just on the website I
will upload them to YouTube but the
interaction has got to be the same on
YouTube as it is right now on the
website okay I got a question from a
woman who said that she is around people
who are constantly putting her down
sweetie let me tell you to rephrase that
what you’re dealing with is you want to
know how to stop believing in other
people’s opinions of you and I went
through the same thing along my journey
let me share with you what helped me
along my journey I got a story for you
back in September 2013
I had 27,000 subscribers on this YouTube
channel
that was a big deal that still is a lot
of subscribers for a conscious channel
mind you now a guy wrote to me saying
Ralph I really love your videos but can
you take away that intro is really
starting to annoy me and I said oh hmm
maybe he has a point
for being the psychologist and the
counselor I am baby I already had the
antivirus software set up can I get a
hello I said I hear what you have to say
but I’m gonna keep doing what I have to
do the next day what happened what
happened please the next day after that
what happened peace right and so on
because I had to remind myself of why I
was doing this it wasn’t for you it was
about my own self-expression now in just
under two years this channel has over 30
million views and over 330 thousand
subscribers and every day is growing our
phenomenal rate can I get a Hello now
it’s not about the numbers it’s about
knowing in becoming your greatest
version when you believe in your vision
enough it cannot help but manifest
because you are gonna be tested oh yeah
especially when you are first starting
anything people are gonna come out of
the woodwork they’re gonna talk bad
about you they’re gonna test you to see
if you really want him you’re gonna go
through a lot of doubt I’m sharing with
you what I went through
now what you first have to remind
yourself of is asking yourself
do I know you right who the hell are you
because sometimes if we are dealing with
people who are always putting us down
they have nothing positive to say to us
yeah ask yourself have you seen them
before right because it’s easy to judge
something you don’t know whenever I see
somebody trying doing something I either
uplift them or remain neutral I have
nothing negative to say about you that’s
not gonna be constructive because that’s
what happens when you are becoming your
greatest version you got to stay
positive baby now let’s continue when
you realize you have to ask yourself
what have these people done for me
where is their intention coming from are
they here to help raise me up or are
they here to help bring me down you’ve
got to become very clear about their
motives aims and objectives right my mom
growing up she was telling me hey Ralph
go and work here go and work there but I
could tell her intention was to see her
son thrive in the world and then she saw
me doing videos in nature saying can I
get a hello there she thought I was
crazy and then I showed her the proof of
how it is working how it’s changed my
life it’s almost as if you get these
singers these celebrities who their
parents never supported them in their
dream and once they made it you see
their parents smiling in magazines yeah
I always believed in my son or daughter
right because you’re sitting in a
Bentley right now right because your son
and daughter has shown to you that their
weirdness has paid off so I’ve spoken
about owning your witness you’ve got to
prove
your weirdness you’ve got to have the
proof the evidence that the lifestyle
you are living is serving you a hundred
percent he’s helped me along my journey
I realize breathing in that beautiful
prana the world right now is in a
serious crisis why because enough people
aren’t standing up for what they believe
in there is a lot of information there
is little wisdom there is a lot of
action there is little heart there are
lots of videos on YouTube but how many
are gonna help you in your life become
your greatest version not many you see
you can laugh you can smile that’s
wonderful but you see a lot of us we’re
going through things and that’s why I’ve
got so much love all the people who are
diving deep because growing up that’s
what I needed so I said okay I’ve got to
be the one that does it and seeing other
people do the same thing is beautiful
baby but you’ve got to realize your
value does not decrease on someone’s
inability to see yourself work let me
repeat that your value does not decrease
on someone’s inability to see your
self-worth you’ve got to learn how to
validate your own existence
I talk of how everything lives in a
symbiotic relationship to everything
else you’ve heard me speak of the law of
exchange in magic money right we don’t
live alone nobody is an island so of
course we want to please people you want
to make people smile and happy and even
do a little dance or two but you see
many people who put us down they do it
out of jealousy envy fear separation so
you’ve gotta ask yourself do I know the
people in my circle I have a very small
circle of people around me that is the
only way to thrive because baby listen
it’s not about the number of people you
connect with it’s about the quality of
your interactions can I get a Hello let
me repeat that it’s not about the number
of people you connect with it’s about
the quality of your interactions right I
say all the time I don’t care if I’m
connecting with five million people if
I’m connecting with five people who are
really interested in becoming their
greatest version that means more to me
because it’s easy to get a viral video
just do a prank or something right but
to create information that stands the
test of time you’ve got to connect with
people on the heart level people say
Ralph I love your videos I fall asleep
to them I’m like thank you no they’re
like in a good way because it’s a heart
connection it’s a personal intimate
relationship
so you’ve got to learn how to become
emotionally stronger mentally stronger
by ignoring everyone that same person in
2013 who said Ralph can you change your
intro in 2000 and right now I got a
message I said Oh who’s this yes sorry
about saying that about your intro right
now it’s really grew on me I really love
it well obviously because you see
millions of other people love it right
so it doesn’t matter if someone say
something negative about you or they say
something positive about you the only
thing that matters is how you see
yourself can I get a hello there right
you’ve got to know the value you hold I
know the value I hold oh yeah because
who else is doing this
who right and that’s the mindset you
should have I see a lot of people doing
great work but they get discouraged
because they don’t have this stamina you
see to have stamina you need to know
thyself you need to know your strengths
you need to know your weaknesses you
need to really live the life you’re
talking about I’m a psychologist a
counselor a criminologist a vegan an
infinite being all all the things I talk
about I’m living day in day out that’s
why there’s only a hundred percent
confidence here back in the day in 2012
when I was just finding my bearings
I was really humble I used to speak like
I don’t really know if I should be doing
this I was consumed by fear I was afraid
of my greatness
you see when you embrace your greatness
you stop worrying about how other people
perceive you your only concern is how
you perceive yourself because that is
the only thing which is gonna matter in
the end you have to ask yourself when
people put you down what are they
bringing out of you you see if you put a
cup of water a glass of water on the
table and you bang down on it really
hard you’re gonna see how much water is
gonna fly out of that baby right so they
could actually they could actually be
helping you in your own evolution what
am I talking about
people have told me things which I
didn’t want to hear and many times I saw
within myself I’m not perfect I had a
lot of resistance in myself so it
affected me more when I released
resistance because resistance make
stronger so when somebody when somebody
strikes a nerve within you that means
you’ve got a whole lot of work to do a
whole lot of introspection has to take
place because they have pulled something
thank them they have helped you in your
evolution now when somebody tells me
something if they say Ralph stop doing
videos in nature I just laugh it off
because there is only abundance here
there is no resistance I don’t care
we’re happy here we’re having a great
time we are connecting with the most
amazing beings day in day out life is
great
can I get a hello right but when you’re
not sure you arguing you’re going back
and forth because they are bringing out
of you
insecurities which are hidden so once
again validate your own existence
surround yourself with people who share
the same values as you do take
responsibility a hundred percent of your
internal condition a hundred percent who
you surround yourself with be confident
which can only take being confident can
only come through years of mastering
your craft years of practice day-in
day-out so you know when the storm is
coming you know how to dance in the
storm you know how to breathe in that
Gurdas prana but more so you know your
role you know your purpose you know what
you came here to do and nothing is gonna
stop you know it is only gonna encourage
you to become your greatest version so
once again have a beautiful day leave
with peace walk with peace but more so
walk with knowing yourself all the
people on the website much love all the
people on youtube if you want the
exclusive videos here you’re gonna have
to interact just like the people on the
website to the people on Instagram
much love and to the people who are
dancing somewhere on a beach right now
why didn’t you invite me
have a beautiful day infinite waters
diving deep once again stay well stay healthy

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