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How To Stop Being Controlled By People


peace and finit waters diving deep once
again well.here nature baby breathing in
that good ass prana how to stop being
controlled by other people
we even had breakfast year can I get a
hello there okay do you have someone
right now in your life who is so
controlling to the point where they’re
making you feel uncomfortable right
nervous anxious someone wrote in saying
this I have a hard time being me because
other people are trying to mold me into
something I’m not and I don’t know how
to deal with this right let me share
with you what’s helped me along my Jenny
I’ve been making videos for a long long
long long long long time right
and over the years I’ve learned a lot
about myself and other people and what
you got to remind yourself is it’s not
as personal as we think right when I
first started infinite waters I was
doing the intro years ago peace and some
people said please stop saying that but
no I didn’t stop right I I kept saying
it I kept saying peace cuz you see they
want you to stop so it can make them
smile but you got to remind yourself why
are you doing whatever you’re doing
ultimately we do it for ourselves that
is where we find our greatest
empowerment when you don’t do it for
others you start to do it for yourself
that is the catalyst to helping you
become your greatest version so I didn’t
stop and over the years these same
people came back saying oh I love peace
thank you so much once again I didn’t
listen because I don’t care whether or
not people like it or not why because
I’m not doing it solely for them this is
part of my own creative expression to
stop being controlled by how other
people perceive you ask yourself today
where is my focus am i focusing on
people who don’t serve me or am i
focusing on people who do now for a long
time I used to always think about people
who were sometimes trying to control me
oh they’re doing this to me they’re
doing that to me then I realize that
actually no no I am giving them my power
by thinking of them right we think about
60,000 thoughts a day
don’t spend 50 9999 on someone that is
not serving you but that’s what a lot of
us do I never speak about people who
don’t serve me people who are
controlling me because my only focus is
on the people who inspire me my early
mentors right these are the people i
reprogrammed my subconscious mind to
think about extensively that is why we
are thriving right now and that is why
we are growing right now and that is why
we are going to be gigantic
we’re already gigantic but even more
right because once again we changed our
focus let people talk they don’t control
us because we don’t focus on them but if
you focus on people who want serving you
then they control you
nobody has power unless you give them
power let me repeat that
nobody has power over you unless you
give them power now I was talking to a
discernment meaning the ability to judge
well right when I see something I
realize it’s coming from my own
perception therefore I have to use
discernment if I see someone maybe
making a video
maybe writing an article I have to take
in consideration my whole life
experience before I judge that person
and realize it’s going to be filtered
through my own life experience to stop
being controlled by other people you got
to start taking responsibility that you
actually have power who are these people
first and foremost right where did they
come from
ever notice why and this is what really
helped me along my journey that you see
if you are successful maybe you’ve got a
business maybe you are creating a brand
right now talk to people who are really
successful in that field right and ask
them for advice and what they’re going
to tell you is to keep pushing forward
you see because people who are at the
top of their profession they don’t have
time to bring people down they only have
time to lift people up that is how you
know you’ve made it right and that’s why
when people ask me for advice because
I’ve been doing videos for a long time
we connect with millions millions of
people we connect with millions of
people every single day I always say
look keep on going if I don’t like
something about someone it doesn’t
matter the question is where is the
proof is working for you
show me the proof right that is how to
stop being controlled by other people
you’ve got to show yourself the proof
that what you are doing is the bomb
right I know because over years and
years there are no accidents right the
people were connecting with we’re here
to stay because the work is solid the
information is solid and we inspire
people every single day right because
the numbers don’t lie
we’re growing but more so we trust
ourselves right if you don’t trust
yourself you don’t believe in yourself
someone’s just gonna knock you down
they’re gonna say something which is
gonna ruffle your feathers look at it
like this it only strikes you because
you’ve got something to learn it only
strikes you because you’ve got something
to learn if somebody say something maybe
it’s a family member maybe a friend who
says don’t do that do this if that
really angers you
it is now highlighting an unresolved
issue within yourself so as a
psychologist and counselor I always tell
people you got to thank people who
sometimes can bring some little what I
call some little lover out of you right
out of the volcano that’s good because
now it actually gives you an opportunity
to see what’s really inside when people
say Ralph I don’t like infinite waters I
say I don’t care because what we’re
nearly like half a million subscribers
right so life is great we’re having a
great time
because the numbers don’t lie
so there are more people working for you
than against you you got to remind
yourself
that where were you
right you gotta say that where were you
many people who try to control you they
do it because it makes them have some
kind of power it makes them feel happy
but you got to ask yourself people who
really support you I said a long time
ago connect with those who remind you
who you are people who really support
you they are helping your evolutionary
process so focus on creation instead of
destruction we all want to control
people
I want to control people I want to
control the cat down the road for
goodness sakes but I can’t do it right
cats have a mind of their own for a
reason that’s a lesson there I’m gonna
do a whole video on dogs and cats right
you can’t control a cat the cat does
whatever the cat down the road wants to
do and the more you let go of resistance
within yourself you realize that nobody
can control you and the words of others
begin to dissolve when you have more
respect for yourself more appreciation
for yourself and more harmony within
yourself you see if you are in chaos
within yourself somebody’s gonna come
along and say something to you like
maybe go and get a job here right pushy
parents or whatever or maybe a partner
who says you shouldn’t be doing that and
there is so much chaos within you that
it pushes you off the edge see once you
are in harmony I meditate every single
day been doing it for years feels
fantastic on my seven day vegan
challenge right which millions of people
are doing eating good getting live
enzymes from the blueberries the papaya
the mangos the grapefruit
people can’t control you when you’re in
the higher vibration only when you’re in
the lower vibration right that’s when
you become prey when you are in a lower
vibration I had to learn all of this
from my mentor I’d to learn it all from
nature that we have phenomenal power
people are going to talk they’re gonna
test you they’re gonna challenge you but
it’s all a matter of focus right I only
focus on success abundance love
happiness health and those are all the
things that flow to me the results speak
for themselves you see a lot of us who
are being controlled by other people we
don’t take time to meditate so we are
over thinking we are ruminate us we’re
ruminating we’re thinking of people who
don’t serve us instead of thinking of
people who do mmm slow motion mmm
you see people love the butterfly but
there would be no butterfly if it wasn’t
for change people would love to see you
remain a caterpillar right a lot of
people say Ralph gosh your old videos
were a bit different well of course they
were I was nervous as hell of course
they were I was just in the beginning
stages right of course they were because
I was at one level
Ralph you freeline scale as well as
being a psychologist of course used to
be not so good yeah two years later you
were doing new tricks of course what we
call evolution right Ralph used to eat
meat 11 years ago then you became a
vegan 11 years ago well cool
is called evolution and change is the
only constant in the universe that means
to stop being controlled by other people
you’ve got to see them even other people
are changing because you are as well
right so you realize that okay you see
whenever I see someone trying to control
me I always realize they’re not happy in
their lives sometimes people do wish us
well but a lot of people who are trying
to control you they want they want to
bring you down with them I’m flying I’m
way up there right but in my early
journey just like you I didn’t have the
strength to deal with it it’s like crabs
in a bucket so I’ll give you an example
if someone says gosh you should do this
route I say okay who is this person how
can I learn from this person I’m never
stubborn right maybe they can actually
help me but you see here’s the funny
thing people who are once again really
successful let’s just say in helping
people become their greatest versions
right they rarely try and control you
and criticize you they just are so into
what they’re doing and they they get it
right they get it because people who
criticize you go and look at their
profiles these are a bunch of nobodies
right
show me your body of work that’s what I
want to see I want to see your body of
work right show me you impacting
millions of people then we can have a
conversation before that point we ain’t
got nothing to talk about
can I get a hello there so that’s how to
deal with it in a nutshell you got to
have humor I don’t take myself so
seriously right because I’ve been doing
it for a long time years I’m a veteran
at this not being cocky so
I call humble confidence and I will
continue to do this why because it was
written in the stars there are no
accidents or coincidences in the
universe everything is in divine order
you’ve got to start living your life
purpose today you got to start letting
off the fear which is only generated
because we are not in alignment with
what we came here to do life is good
right I’m not in control of anything
around me
that’s the secret the universe is right
in god we trust’ I say in the universe I
trust right in the cosmos because we
live in a complex universe we think
we’re in control no we’re not at all we
didn’t even choose to be born or some
people did right look at it like this to
stop being controlled by other people
you got to stop giving other people your
power which is your attention which is
your energy you can’t please everyone
even if you try I learnt that by being a
vegan of over 11 years I had friends who
are going to eat at burger joints
chicken joints and I realized I had to
make a choice to change my circle of
friends because people would say gosh
you should be eating this and doing this
and doing that that’s why sometimes I
meet I meet people who have a very
different lifestyle to me but once again
I’m so busy doing what I love creating
abundance changing the world impacting
millions I don’t have time to focus and
start judging people because I realize
that nerds run the world
Bill Gates said be careful how you treat
nerds you might end up working
for one nerds run the world people don’t
get it right computers all of this
technology is coming from people who
have gone on the inward journey people
like Steve Jobs they’ve had a lot of
opposition but they’ve pushed forward
because they realize the secret that to
achieve greatness you are going to be
judged but to be great you have to
overcome that let me repeat that to
you have to realize you’re going to be
judged right and when you are great it
is because you have overcome them right
it’s very difficult to inspire people to
impact millions of people and do this
kind of stuff that’s why a lot of people
aren’t doing it at the high level
because you meet a lot of resistance but
the longer you are in alignment with
your true life purpose you realize
you’ve got nothing to worry about so
once again fall into the harmony of
yourself surround yourself with people
who respect you with people who love you
I don’t make videos for people who don’t
want to dive deep I couldn’t care less
there are a million other channels out
there life is good
I’m going to be rich forever abundant
forever because I was rich before doing
this and I’m not doing it for people who
are trying to control how I do it I’m
comfortable at this confident in this
feeling
serene in this that’s the mindset
reprogram my subconscious mind to
realize nobody can control me unless I
allow them to we don’t focus on the
people who aren’t serving us we only
focus on the people who are and that is
how we have created supreme abundance
and watch the space because we’re only
going to grow larger
there you have it be you be authentic be
weird because at the end of the day
these are the people who leave a legacy
these are the legends the innovators the
creators the most successful people the
people we all are inspired by but it’s
not going to be easy you got to take
time to go on a retreat meditate get
your mind right and realize if someone
is saying something trying to control
you
and it’s striking you you got lessons to
learn thank them but realize that once
you are confident in yourself
don’t even give them any attention
you’re better than that
have a beautiful day whoo breathing in
that Gurdas prana baby infinite waters
diving deep once again stay well stay healthy peace

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