Pisan senate waters diving deep once
again we are here how to recognize
someone’s worth holding on to
or is better to leave them alone that’s
the question that came in we got a whole
lot to talk about
let’s just whoa breathing in that good
ass prana baby now I get a lot of
questions like this and this is sexology
water fire hot cold yin-yang daddy’s
home we’re back and we even had
breakfast yet
can I get a hello is that happening to
you right now someone wrote in saying
they’re in a situation where they really
love someone but at the same time
something seems to be going quite wrong
and they’re not sure if they should stay
or they should leave so let me share
with you what’s helped me along my
journey in the past beside whether or
not someone’s worth holding on to
or is better to dump them off at the
nearest exit so sorry about that hey no
listen these questions are so important
the first question to ask yourself does
this person make me feel better about
myself and the answer is then then no
yes not sure okay
we’re getting somewhere you see how
someone makes you feel about yourself is
everything many times we are in
relationships where people don’t really
appreciate us them also they don’t make
us feel good about ourselves they don’t
support our mission our life purpose
they’re always nitpicking always
pointing the finger always trying to
bring you down if that happened then
you’ve got to really ask yourself what
am I doing here
and if they do make you feel great about
yourself say gosh what was I thinking
it’s all about how they make you feel
how do you feel when you are in their
presence ask yourself this question help
have my consciousness have my
consciousness grown since I’ve been
around them if the answer is no I’m
actually a lot worse off well then you
want to you really want to put a big
question mark as to what you’re doing in
that kind of relationship or situation
because when we talk of the water
relationship if you are around someone
your awareness should be growing as you
are interacting with them more and
therefore you’re not going to be the
same you should have changed for the
better since you’ve been around them not
for the worse
that’s how to know ask yourself this
question are you always now be honest
looking for that someone in other people
is that happening to you you’re like
okay I’m not with them but I’m always
finding myself looking for them in every
single person I mean now when this
happens you still have a lot of fond
memories of them you still haven’t
gotten over them completely and there
still might be something there you don’t
want to kid yourself like you don’t love
them you don’t have feelings for them
you want to be brutally honest and learn
to wear your heart on your sleeve you
see many times we’re not afraid to love
someone
we’re afraid to be hurt by them slow
motion miss lights true love is never
afraid of being cut because it’s
vulnerable that’s why it is so rare so
if you keep looking for them in other
people chances are you still love them
so communication is the key to a great
relationship is time to meet them face
to face it’s time to talk with them see
if you can work things out and there
probably is a whole lot there that both
of you have been kidding yourself by
living in your egos that actually yeah
yeah we do really love each other and
then you just go and have a whole load
of babies something like that ask
yourself this question do you find
yourself thinking of them do you find
yourself thinking of them when you’re
not together are you always thinking of
them when you’re like 5,000 miles apart
then once again chances are there is
still something there we often forget
people who really don’t mean much to us
or maybe they do it’s just that they
haven’t really stolen our heart someone
who really captivates your heart you are
going to be thinking about them a lot
sometimes in a quiet moment sometimes
even in a loud moment sometimes even
when you’re on the toilet seat you’re
going to be thinking of them every
thought you have of someone
now this is where you want to get very
you want to pay attention to your
thoughts when you think of them how do
you feel what comes to your mind do you
see them in a favorable way or
does it make you really queasy when you
think of them when you think of someone
and you have this burst of euphoria
within inside of you that’s a sign that
this is someone that you want to hold on
to because these people are rare if you
think of them and then you never ever
think of them again or chances are you
can’t remember anything they’ve ever
done for you okay if you think of them
and sometimes it doesn’t make you feel
good once again you want to put a
question mark to say okay why not all
yourself this question what that person
know would i 7-day being challenged by
the way how are how is it going for you
beautiful deep divers out there I see
lots of snaps delicious food and stuff
would you share your last meal with them
be honest and then think to say would
they share their last meal with me now
the reason why this question is so
important because food is love food is
so connected to love in every single way
how we eat is very similar to how we
love how we eat is very similar to how
we love so I realize this because there
was times when I just wanted to eat by
myself and when I was in a relationship
I realized that I ate a lot less and I
wanted the person I was with to enjoy
what I was enjoying you see if someone
is willing to share their last meal with
you on planet Earth then they really
love you because some people will be
like look I’m eating this vegan mint ice
cream all by myself and you’re not
getting any offence in your life oh my
gosh they’re like I love you
right so
it comes down to how generous are they
with you
generosity is everything because if
someone is very generous it shows they
actually care about you a lot a lot of
people are generous so you have to ask
yourself when I’m around them
do I feel appreciated do I feel what
they are giving to me can I receive it
to all you solve this question to
recognize if someone is worth holding on
to
or it’s better to leave them alone would
you pick them up at 3 o’clock in the
morning from the airport would you do
that would you really do that no okay
yes okay look the reason why I ask these
questions because when it comes to the
crunch what you are prepared to do for
that person in a very testing time and
situation or even circumstance shows how
much you care about them 3 o’clock in
the morning you’re probably still
wanting to sleep a bit longer and then
you get a call pick me up from the
airport okay now obviously you don’t
have to do it but if you really are
really in love with someone you probably
would do it and sometimes you got to
always say what am I prepared to do for
this person when it comes to the crunch
now actually I’m going back to sleep
okay well I actually I want to show this
person how much I care not just through
all yourself this question do they bid
oh my gosh
do they belittle me cause of that
question do they belittle me if someone
is constantly belittling you making you
feel small and that can only happen
through your permission by accepting to
be around then you got to put up a big
question mark why are you allowing
yourself to be around someone who treats
you like junk you are so much better
than that you’re worth more than that
you are royalty so if someone is
constantly laughing at you maybe they’re
laughing at the mistakes you’re making
constantly then why are you around but
if they are uplifting you and praising
you and supporting you in your life
purpose in your life mission then why
are you around them more why are you
around them all okay these are the
people that we want in our lives the
people that cheer us on every single
step of the way not the people that are
always bringing us drum we don’t need
that we can’t come looks like we don’t
need that ask yourself this question are
they proud to be seen with me be with
someone who is proud to have you 100%
[Music]
slow motion insight if you are worried
what other people think about them then
you got to put up a big question mark
can you really handle this person are
you ready to be committed to that when
you’re still worried about what other
people think when we talk up the water
relationship you are 100 percent proud
to be around that person and when you’re
proud when you are proud to be around
someone you don’t care what other people
think because you’ll love overpowers
other people’s opinions and that’s the
water relationship ask yourself this
question do I love them genuinely a lot
of people settle for the mediocre love
you’re just getting by but there’s no
real passion there sometimes you meet a
person and your heart is like oh my gosh
I love this person so much okay
and it could have even only been for a
brief period where your heart is longing
for them you have one of that sometimes
will with someone for 10 years but
there’s no real passion there you’ve got
to put up a question mark to say okay do
I love this person genuinely not because
they pay my rent
not because they can help me with this
do I love them 100% in my heart space if
the answer is yes then you want to stay
around that person you want to grow old
with that person if it’s no when you
want to ask yourself why not and why
aren’t I with someone who I love 100%
can I have it why not
and then all starts become clear
of yourself this question now this is
probably the most important question
when it comes to how to recognize if
someone was holding on to or it’s better
to leave them alone can I be vulnerable
with them that is the ultimate question
many times we can’t many times we around
people and we just can’t open up it
takes a very special someone to really
open us up crack us open like a walnut
and then eat us eat wanna eat it right
that takes a very special person because
a lot of us we’ve got so many layers so
many defenses and when you are around
someone that can really enter your
defenses and you can be vulnerable to
them they can be vulnerable to you you
can see and appreciate each other
shadows and your beautiful luminosity
then that’s someone definitely
definitely definitely work holding onto
because when two people are vulnerable
in a relationship that is the key to a
greater relationship why so because our
vulnerability means there is going to be
more communication but not just any kind
of communication more honest
communication I’m a lot of people
writing to me saying that we’re together
out but we hardly ever talk question
mark you want to be around someone where
you can really just be on the toilet and
talk to them while they’re brushing
their teeth and say hey look something
like that okay that is vulnerability
when you can really wear your heart on
most people are not afraid to love they
seeing if someone is worth holding on to
or it’s better to leave them alone
realize there is no rush you don’t want
to give yourself a deadline okay if I
don’t decide by next week then it’s over
it’s never over because whatever is
meant to be with you will eventually
find its way and that’s what I’ve seen
all of my journey that’s why I trust the
process
I trust the universe I trust myself and
I also realized that what you feel in
the heart what you feel in the heart for
someone it can’t be faked
okay it’s very specific it’s like the
shoe fit talking about Cinderella effect
here so once again realize what is meant
for you will always find its way and
then you just say we also get to be a
live baby can I get a Hello okay and
then you just have a beautiful day we’re
here much love beautiful deep divers
infinite waters diving deep once again
[Music]
you [Music]
again we are here how to recognize
someone’s worth holding on to
or is better to leave them alone that’s
the question that came in we got a whole
lot to talk about
let’s just whoa breathing in that good
ass prana baby now I get a lot of
questions like this and this is sexology
water fire hot cold yin-yang daddy’s
home we’re back and we even had
breakfast yet
can I get a hello is that happening to
you right now someone wrote in saying
they’re in a situation where they really
love someone but at the same time
something seems to be going quite wrong
and they’re not sure if they should stay
or they should leave so let me share
with you what’s helped me along my
journey in the past beside whether or
not someone’s worth holding on to
or is better to dump them off at the
nearest exit so sorry about that hey no
listen these questions are so important
the first question to ask yourself does
this person make me feel better about
myself and the answer is then then no
yes not sure okay
we’re getting somewhere you see how
someone makes you feel about yourself is
everything many times we are in
relationships where people don’t really
appreciate us them also they don’t make
us feel good about ourselves they don’t
support our mission our life purpose
they’re always nitpicking always
pointing the finger always trying to
bring you down if that happened then
you’ve got to really ask yourself what
am I doing here
and if they do make you feel great about
yourself say gosh what was I thinking
it’s all about how they make you feel
how do you feel when you are in their
presence ask yourself this question help
have my consciousness have my
consciousness grown since I’ve been
around them if the answer is no I’m
actually a lot worse off well then you
want to you really want to put a big
question mark as to what you’re doing in
that kind of relationship or situation
because when we talk of the water
relationship if you are around someone
your awareness should be growing as you
are interacting with them more and
therefore you’re not going to be the
same you should have changed for the
better since you’ve been around them not
for the worse
that’s how to know ask yourself this
question are you always now be honest
looking for that someone in other people
is that happening to you you’re like
okay I’m not with them but I’m always
finding myself looking for them in every
single person I mean now when this
happens you still have a lot of fond
memories of them you still haven’t
gotten over them completely and there
still might be something there you don’t
want to kid yourself like you don’t love
them you don’t have feelings for them
you want to be brutally honest and learn
to wear your heart on your sleeve you
see many times we’re not afraid to love
someone
we’re afraid to be hurt by them slow
motion miss lights true love is never
afraid of being cut because it’s
vulnerable that’s why it is so rare so
if you keep looking for them in other
people chances are you still love them
so communication is the key to a great
relationship is time to meet them face
to face it’s time to talk with them see
if you can work things out and there
probably is a whole lot there that both
of you have been kidding yourself by
living in your egos that actually yeah
yeah we do really love each other and
then you just go and have a whole load
of babies something like that ask
yourself this question do you find
yourself thinking of them do you find
yourself thinking of them when you’re
not together are you always thinking of
them when you’re like 5,000 miles apart
then once again chances are there is
still something there we often forget
people who really don’t mean much to us
or maybe they do it’s just that they
haven’t really stolen our heart someone
who really captivates your heart you are
going to be thinking about them a lot
sometimes in a quiet moment sometimes
even in a loud moment sometimes even
when you’re on the toilet seat you’re
going to be thinking of them every
thought you have of someone
now this is where you want to get very
you want to pay attention to your
thoughts when you think of them how do
you feel what comes to your mind do you
see them in a favorable way or
does it make you really queasy when you
think of them when you think of someone
and you have this burst of euphoria
within inside of you that’s a sign that
this is someone that you want to hold on
to because these people are rare if you
think of them and then you never ever
think of them again or chances are you
can’t remember anything they’ve ever
done for you okay if you think of them
and sometimes it doesn’t make you feel
good once again you want to put a
question mark to say okay why not all
yourself this question what that person
know would i 7-day being challenged by
the way how are how is it going for you
beautiful deep divers out there I see
lots of snaps delicious food and stuff
would you share your last meal with them
be honest and then think to say would
they share their last meal with me now
the reason why this question is so
important because food is love food is
so connected to love in every single way
how we eat is very similar to how we
love how we eat is very similar to how
we love so I realize this because there
was times when I just wanted to eat by
myself and when I was in a relationship
I realized that I ate a lot less and I
wanted the person I was with to enjoy
what I was enjoying you see if someone
is willing to share their last meal with
you on planet Earth then they really
love you because some people will be
like look I’m eating this vegan mint ice
cream all by myself and you’re not
getting any offence in your life oh my
gosh they’re like I love you
right so
it comes down to how generous are they
with you
generosity is everything because if
someone is very generous it shows they
actually care about you a lot a lot of
people are generous so you have to ask
yourself when I’m around them
do I feel appreciated do I feel what
they are giving to me can I receive it
to all you solve this question to
recognize if someone is worth holding on
to
or it’s better to leave them alone would
you pick them up at 3 o’clock in the
morning from the airport would you do
that would you really do that no okay
yes okay look the reason why I ask these
questions because when it comes to the
crunch what you are prepared to do for
that person in a very testing time and
situation or even circumstance shows how
much you care about them 3 o’clock in
the morning you’re probably still
wanting to sleep a bit longer and then
you get a call pick me up from the
airport okay now obviously you don’t
have to do it but if you really are
really in love with someone you probably
would do it and sometimes you got to
always say what am I prepared to do for
this person when it comes to the crunch
now actually I’m going back to sleep
okay well I actually I want to show this
person how much I care not just through
all yourself this question do they bid
oh my gosh
do they belittle me cause of that
question do they belittle me if someone
is constantly belittling you making you
feel small and that can only happen
through your permission by accepting to
be around then you got to put up a big
question mark why are you allowing
yourself to be around someone who treats
you like junk you are so much better
than that you’re worth more than that
you are royalty so if someone is
constantly laughing at you maybe they’re
laughing at the mistakes you’re making
constantly then why are you around but
if they are uplifting you and praising
you and supporting you in your life
purpose in your life mission then why
are you around them more why are you
around them all okay these are the
people that we want in our lives the
people that cheer us on every single
step of the way not the people that are
always bringing us drum we don’t need
that we can’t come looks like we don’t
need that ask yourself this question are
they proud to be seen with me be with
someone who is proud to have you 100%
[Music]
slow motion insight if you are worried
what other people think about them then
you got to put up a big question mark
can you really handle this person are
you ready to be committed to that when
you’re still worried about what other
people think when we talk up the water
relationship you are 100 percent proud
to be around that person and when you’re
proud when you are proud to be around
someone you don’t care what other people
think because you’ll love overpowers
other people’s opinions and that’s the
water relationship ask yourself this
question do I love them genuinely a lot
of people settle for the mediocre love
you’re just getting by but there’s no
real passion there sometimes you meet a
person and your heart is like oh my gosh
I love this person so much okay
and it could have even only been for a
brief period where your heart is longing
for them you have one of that sometimes
will with someone for 10 years but
there’s no real passion there you’ve got
to put up a question mark to say okay do
I love this person genuinely not because
they pay my rent
not because they can help me with this
do I love them 100% in my heart space if
the answer is yes then you want to stay
around that person you want to grow old
with that person if it’s no when you
want to ask yourself why not and why
aren’t I with someone who I love 100%
can I have it why not
and then all starts become clear
of yourself this question now this is
probably the most important question
when it comes to how to recognize if
someone was holding on to or it’s better
to leave them alone can I be vulnerable
with them that is the ultimate question
many times we can’t many times we around
people and we just can’t open up it
takes a very special someone to really
open us up crack us open like a walnut
and then eat us eat wanna eat it right
that takes a very special person because
a lot of us we’ve got so many layers so
many defenses and when you are around
someone that can really enter your
defenses and you can be vulnerable to
them they can be vulnerable to you you
can see and appreciate each other
shadows and your beautiful luminosity
then that’s someone definitely
definitely definitely work holding onto
because when two people are vulnerable
in a relationship that is the key to a
greater relationship why so because our
vulnerability means there is going to be
more communication but not just any kind
of communication more honest
communication I’m a lot of people
writing to me saying that we’re together
out but we hardly ever talk question
mark you want to be around someone where
you can really just be on the toilet and
talk to them while they’re brushing
their teeth and say hey look something
like that okay that is vulnerability
when you can really wear your heart on
most people are not afraid to love they
seeing if someone is worth holding on to
or it’s better to leave them alone
realize there is no rush you don’t want
to give yourself a deadline okay if I
don’t decide by next week then it’s over
it’s never over because whatever is
meant to be with you will eventually
find its way and that’s what I’ve seen
all of my journey that’s why I trust the
process
I trust the universe I trust myself and
I also realized that what you feel in
the heart what you feel in the heart for
someone it can’t be faked
okay it’s very specific it’s like the
shoe fit talking about Cinderella effect
here so once again realize what is meant
for you will always find its way and
then you just say we also get to be a
live baby can I get a Hello okay and
then you just have a beautiful day we’re
here much love beautiful deep divers
infinite waters diving deep once again
[Music]
you [Music]
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