peace and finit waters diving deep once
again beautiful deep divers we are here
I hope your day is going good beautiful
day here but are you in the presence of
a wolf in sheep’s clothing yes and
you’re like should I trust them or not
how to recognize if someone’s worth
trusting less just whoa breathing in
that good ass piranha baby that’s the
question that came in fantastic question
if you’ve got a question add me on
instagram at infinite waters I just
might pick yours so honest
Ralph how can i really trust if someone
is who they really say they are I’m
feeling strange inside whenever I’m
around them but they’re telling me
they’re like that but I feel like this
about them deep divers has that ever
happened to you too I mean even had
breakfast yet can I get a hello hey
so let me share with you was helped me
along my journey recognized if someone’s
who they say they are to recognize if
someone’s worth trusting
now I meet all kinds of people I’ve had
so many experiences I thought okay this
person is really trustworthy and then
they screwed me over okay I remember
doing a commercial for a for a soccer
team and they were supposed to pay me
and they’re like I’m gonna pay you in
installments I rang them you’ve reached
so and so’s answer phone okay they
scammed me and this happens sometimes we
meet people who are scammy
they’re scamming you they are tricking
you they’re conning you but sometimes
we’re around someone and we’re still not
sure about them sometimes in a
relationship can i really trust this
person to be honest with me to keep it
real with me right and I’m gonna share
with you
how I’ve learned to know if someone’s
worth trusting
or not should we keep them or shall we
let him go right your gut trust your gut
it never lies
why Ralph because your gut knows
everything your gut is actually your
second brain neuroscience tells us that
our gut has a hundred million neurons
okay it knows a lot so when they say
trust your gut they actually saying
trust your brain mmm
slow motion this side yikes
you see I’ve realized that you never
want to discredit your gut your body
picks up bad vibrations if you feel
inside of yourself that something isn’t
right about a person or situation trust
it trust your gut trust your intuition
you’re not paranoid you’re not going
crazy no that’s your gut saying you
better watch out now or your gut could
be saying relax this person is very
trustworthy because they are the cat
down the road how to recognize if
someone’s worth trusting now I’ve
realized this that there’s a great book
called The Four Agreements and I
remember reading it and one of the
agreements was be impeccable with your
word okay that’s how to know if
someone’s worth trusting
are they impeccable with their word do
they say what they mean and mean what
they say or are they flip-floppy they’re
like yeah I’ll meet you tomorrow and
they never turn up right and they keep
doing it they keep making the same
mistakes and apologizing when they keep
doing the same thing again and we don’t
even have breakfast yeah okay it doesn’t
mean they’re a bad person it just means
that you can’t keep trusting and living
in false hope
okay someone who is impeccable with that
word you can trust them so stop seeing
if they’re not only talking but they’re
actually backing it up by their actions
okay they’re not just they’re not just
saying oh I love you they’re actually
proving it by flying across the world to
come and see you
that’s how to recognize if someone’s
worth trusting because sometimes people
say one thing then they do another thing
okay and this world is full of beautiful
people but it’s also full of people who
want to take advantage of you and that’s
why you have to be aware that not
everybody is like you just because
you’re gonna do that for them it doesn’t
mean that they’re gonna do that for you
hmm
go easy on them Ralph slow-motion this
side mm not everybody is a good-hearted
person like yourself okay I trust I’m a
Pisces like a lot of Pisceans we just
trust everybody but I’ve learned over
time that you got to be careful because
not everybody was raised with a bunch of
grapes in their mouth
some people are hurting inside they want
to use people and abuse people okay so
you’ve got to be careful with who you
spend your precious energy with baby
baby I’ve learned this deep divers that
if someone’s actions and their words
have a great coherency meaning that they
are in harmony a great congruence
meaning that they are in harmony then
you can trust that person but if there
is no coherency between their actions
and their words no congruency between
their actions and their words you got to
let them go let them go let them go cuz
we don’t need that we don’t need that we
don’t need that deep divers how many
times have you been around someone who
is all talk they always tell you about
what they’re gonna do but they never
deliver the goods you can’t trust them
okay because to recognize if someone’s
worth trusting they
have to be able to prove that Trust to
you
this is proving grounds right now okay
so I’ll give you an example many times
people are like Ralph your videos have
changed my life let me do something for
you let me help you I’m like okay help
me how they’re like Ralph I just want to
help you I’m like I’m okay so I’m like
okay just show me what you’re gonna do
and they never do that they just talk
they’re like Ralph I want to help you
I’m like how though right
and then some people genuinely do help
me because they’re like Ralph come to my
house I’m gonna feed you some delicious
vegan food seven day vegan challenge and
that really helps me out okay so to know
if someone’s worth trusting ourself
right now if you’re not sure about
someone in a relationship can I trust
them realize that all you need to know
is have they proven themselves to you
have they showed you that hey you better
trust me because I’m worthy if you trust
and they do this by not repeating the
same mistakes over and over and over and
over and over again right I’m no saint
sometimes I even let people down but
I’ve learned over time that if you
really want to win someone’s trust you
go to prove that you are worthy of their
trust mmm
slow motion this side and that means
honesty that means transparency and that
means being a good hearted person and a
real person right how to recognize
someone’s worth trusting look at their
eyes the eyes never lie okay sometimes
when people are lying they kind of look
to the left they look to the right
they don’t do a little son of a baby
they kind of look to the sky but they
can’t look you in the eyes because they
know if they are lying they’re telling a
big fib II so to know if someone’s worth
trusting stare them in the eyes when
you’re talking to them and then see ask
yourself is this is some sayin is this a
sincere person is this a sincere person
or are they lying to me deceiving me
trying to take advantage trying to take
advantage of me right so stare people in
the eyes and what you will often find is
that people who are very trustworthy can
look you back in the eyes people who are
trying to scam you do you dirty they
haven’t got the guts to look you in the
eyes because they know what they’re
about to do to you right the eyes are
the windows to the soul
trust your gut when you look at someone
say do I feel a kind of warmth in their
eyes or a kind of coldness in their eyes
okay if you feel a warm mess about them
then you can trust them if you don’t you
better run for the hills baby
it’s that way how to recognize someone’s
worth trusting 7 day vegan challenge go
out and eat with them now this is
probably one of the best ways I found
out to actually know if someone’s worth
trusting I’m like yeah just come to Cafe
Gratitude with me let’s go to raw food
daily let’s let’s eat together and I’m
watching them eat that beautiful quinoa
and they’re telling me stuff and I’m
like I can’t trust this person but
sometimes I’m like I can’t trust this
person right because over food right
people say stuff you can kind of get a
feeling of their energy a lot more
because they’re kind of more relaxed
they’re in a less kind of acting mode
more in a being mode so you can really
start to pick up their vibrations okay
and it happens over food okay you can
really start to feel that person’s
energy to know if you can trust them or
not over a delicious avocado brown rice
kale meal right 7 day vegan challenge ok
so go and eat with someone who you’re
not sure about
with them and then after you leave see
how you feel if you get bad vibes
you better run for the hills which is
that way if you get good vibes eat with
them again and invite the cat down the
road and I and I’m gonna bring you a
mango smoothie full of vitamin A how
about that how about that how about that
how to recognize someone’s worth
trusting baby baby we are here they’ve
always been there for you they’ve never
let you down
you see it’s even hard for me hard cuz
I’m meeting a lot of people I’m like I’m
not sure if I can trust this person
because we just we just met right but
people who I know I can trust I’ve known
them for a long time it doesn’t mean
that all the people I’ve known for a
long time a trustworthy because time is
just an illusion but we’ve got
experience together like I’ve got good
friends who have been with me for years
so I can trust them because we’ve got
shared experiences okay I can count on
them when I need them not all of them
some people will let me down but that’s
okay but there is right there is always
there is always one friend that you can
count on and sometimes if there isn’t
you got to count on yourself mmm slow
motion this side mmm that’s why the
greatest relationship you can have is
with yourself but think for a minute
right think for a minute of someone who
has always been there for you that’s the
person you know you know you can trust
because that’s the person who was there
with you before the money before the 1
million subscribers before the fame
before you blew up okay they’ve been
there when you were picking your nose at
school they were high school sweetheart
to you that’s how you know you can trust
them because they don’t want you for
anything other than your essence mmm
slow motion this side how to recognize
someone’s worth trusting time man-made
time time reveals everything when the
grass is cut the snakes will show let me
repeat that when the grass is cut the
snakes wash
when the grass is cut the snakes will
show when times get rough and hard
people’s true colors will be revealed
you see once you’re doing good in your
life everybody wants to be a part of
success but when you’re down and out
will they will they still be there
chances are probably not you can’t trust
that person you better get rid of them
real fast now to know if you can trust
someone give it time
give it a few months give it a few years
and then see if this person is still the
same towards you they’re still bringing
you positive energy or have they changed
because now they’re like you can’t do
anything for me so bye we don’t need
these kinds of people in our life we
need real people authentic people people
who are gonna be there in the good times
the bad times and the downright ugly
times so realize this deep divers time
reveals everything you don’t have to do
a lot to know if you should you don’t
have to do a lot to recognize if
someone’s worth trusting
let time reveal itself let time be the
greatest teacher because everybody is
exposed in time the truth gets revealed
in time time reveals everything and
people’s true intentions sometimes I’ve
trusted people even recently like hey
yeah you can help me on infinite waters
do this that but then I realize they’re
snakes in disguise and I love snakes
snakes it why do why do we always blame
snakes okay wolves in sheep’s clothing
right wolves actually kind of beautiful
but we’ll just use that as a reference
how to recognize someone’s worth
trusting discernment is essential
discernment is the ability to judge well
and that’s why being a Pisces I’m very
intuitive I can usually know very
quickly if I should trust this person or
not
and it’s because I’m using discernment
I’m paying attention to details how
caring is this person to other people
because that determines how they’re
gonna treat me how caring is this person
towards themselves because that
have they are they a trustworthy person
to other people
let me repeat let me repeat that are
they a trustworthy person to other
people that’s how to know if someone’s
worth trusting like what does the cat
down the road say about them okay I’ve
learnt is that you have to use
discernment which is the ability to
judge well don’t be so quick to trust
people give it time
I have in the past I’m lucky I trust you
but when I use discernment I’m not
analyzing you I’m just peeling away the
layers until I see the authentic you mmm
what slow motion this side mmm
Ralph’s Peck that’s right I’m a Pisces I
know everything kind of about energy and
reading it because I’m naturally
intuitive but it’s only because I’m
using discernment that’s how to know if
someone’s worth trusting don’t be so
quick to trust peel the layers first how
to know someone’s worth trusting you see
what’s helped me along my journey plain
and simple is that many of us we have a
very naive mindset okay
we’re like seeing the good in everybody
and that’s me like I’m always doing that
and that’s why sometimes I get screwed
over because I’m like I would do this
for them they should do that for me I
don’t even like growing on I never
actually thought like they were bad
people in the world until I met really
nasty people I’m like oh my gosh that
that exists in the world so start to
realize that everybody you meet has a
different agenda let me repeat that
everybody you
me has a different agenda okay so you
have to realize that not everybody’s
intentions are pure okay not everybody
wants the best for you but to really
know if you should trust someone give
them a chance first
don’t just be so quick so quick to judge
and assume right don’t be so quick to
judge and assume give them a chance and
if they prove themselves you give them
another chance but if they don’t
immediately then you let them go because
once again we have no business hanging
on to people who don’t serve us is time
to make space for people who actually
will hmm slow motion this side so there
you have it beautiful deep divers that’s
how to know if you should trust somebody
once again Trust takes time it takes it
takes time it takes experience it takes
really not being so quick just to judge
someone okay because we all have let
people down in the past but it doesn’t
mean we aren’t worthy of a second chance
mmm-hmm slow motion this side and once
you realize that beautiful deep dive as
well you just say fill so get to be a
we’re just whoa breathing in that good a
sprout a baby have a beautiful day deep
divers infinite waters diving deep once
again stay well stay healthy peace you
or you could just pick petals of a
flower I trust you I trust you not I
trust you I trust you not keep doing
that I trust you and then see which one
you land on I trust you know okay I
don’t trust you let me do it again I
trust you [Laughter]
again beautiful deep divers we are here
I hope your day is going good beautiful
day here but are you in the presence of
a wolf in sheep’s clothing yes and
you’re like should I trust them or not
how to recognize if someone’s worth
trusting less just whoa breathing in
that good ass piranha baby that’s the
question that came in fantastic question
if you’ve got a question add me on
instagram at infinite waters I just
might pick yours so honest
Ralph how can i really trust if someone
is who they really say they are I’m
feeling strange inside whenever I’m
around them but they’re telling me
they’re like that but I feel like this
about them deep divers has that ever
happened to you too I mean even had
breakfast yet can I get a hello hey
so let me share with you was helped me
along my journey recognized if someone’s
who they say they are to recognize if
someone’s worth trusting
now I meet all kinds of people I’ve had
so many experiences I thought okay this
person is really trustworthy and then
they screwed me over okay I remember
doing a commercial for a for a soccer
team and they were supposed to pay me
and they’re like I’m gonna pay you in
installments I rang them you’ve reached
so and so’s answer phone okay they
scammed me and this happens sometimes we
meet people who are scammy
they’re scamming you they are tricking
you they’re conning you but sometimes
we’re around someone and we’re still not
sure about them sometimes in a
relationship can i really trust this
person to be honest with me to keep it
real with me right and I’m gonna share
with you
how I’ve learned to know if someone’s
worth trusting
or not should we keep them or shall we
let him go right your gut trust your gut
it never lies
why Ralph because your gut knows
everything your gut is actually your
second brain neuroscience tells us that
our gut has a hundred million neurons
okay it knows a lot so when they say
trust your gut they actually saying
trust your brain mmm
slow motion this side yikes
you see I’ve realized that you never
want to discredit your gut your body
picks up bad vibrations if you feel
inside of yourself that something isn’t
right about a person or situation trust
it trust your gut trust your intuition
you’re not paranoid you’re not going
crazy no that’s your gut saying you
better watch out now or your gut could
be saying relax this person is very
trustworthy because they are the cat
down the road how to recognize if
someone’s worth trusting now I’ve
realized this that there’s a great book
called The Four Agreements and I
remember reading it and one of the
agreements was be impeccable with your
word okay that’s how to know if
someone’s worth trusting
are they impeccable with their word do
they say what they mean and mean what
they say or are they flip-floppy they’re
like yeah I’ll meet you tomorrow and
they never turn up right and they keep
doing it they keep making the same
mistakes and apologizing when they keep
doing the same thing again and we don’t
even have breakfast yeah okay it doesn’t
mean they’re a bad person it just means
that you can’t keep trusting and living
in false hope
okay someone who is impeccable with that
word you can trust them so stop seeing
if they’re not only talking but they’re
actually backing it up by their actions
okay they’re not just they’re not just
saying oh I love you they’re actually
proving it by flying across the world to
come and see you
that’s how to recognize if someone’s
worth trusting because sometimes people
say one thing then they do another thing
okay and this world is full of beautiful
people but it’s also full of people who
want to take advantage of you and that’s
why you have to be aware that not
everybody is like you just because
you’re gonna do that for them it doesn’t
mean that they’re gonna do that for you
hmm
go easy on them Ralph slow-motion this
side mm not everybody is a good-hearted
person like yourself okay I trust I’m a
Pisces like a lot of Pisceans we just
trust everybody but I’ve learned over
time that you got to be careful because
not everybody was raised with a bunch of
grapes in their mouth
some people are hurting inside they want
to use people and abuse people okay so
you’ve got to be careful with who you
spend your precious energy with baby
baby I’ve learned this deep divers that
if someone’s actions and their words
have a great coherency meaning that they
are in harmony a great congruence
meaning that they are in harmony then
you can trust that person but if there
is no coherency between their actions
and their words no congruency between
their actions and their words you got to
let them go let them go let them go cuz
we don’t need that we don’t need that we
don’t need that deep divers how many
times have you been around someone who
is all talk they always tell you about
what they’re gonna do but they never
deliver the goods you can’t trust them
okay because to recognize if someone’s
worth trusting they
have to be able to prove that Trust to
you
this is proving grounds right now okay
so I’ll give you an example many times
people are like Ralph your videos have
changed my life let me do something for
you let me help you I’m like okay help
me how they’re like Ralph I just want to
help you I’m like I’m okay so I’m like
okay just show me what you’re gonna do
and they never do that they just talk
they’re like Ralph I want to help you
I’m like how though right
and then some people genuinely do help
me because they’re like Ralph come to my
house I’m gonna feed you some delicious
vegan food seven day vegan challenge and
that really helps me out okay so to know
if someone’s worth trusting ourself
right now if you’re not sure about
someone in a relationship can I trust
them realize that all you need to know
is have they proven themselves to you
have they showed you that hey you better
trust me because I’m worthy if you trust
and they do this by not repeating the
same mistakes over and over and over and
over and over again right I’m no saint
sometimes I even let people down but
I’ve learned over time that if you
really want to win someone’s trust you
go to prove that you are worthy of their
trust mmm
slow motion this side and that means
honesty that means transparency and that
means being a good hearted person and a
real person right how to recognize
someone’s worth trusting look at their
eyes the eyes never lie okay sometimes
when people are lying they kind of look
to the left they look to the right
they don’t do a little son of a baby
they kind of look to the sky but they
can’t look you in the eyes because they
know if they are lying they’re telling a
big fib II so to know if someone’s worth
trusting stare them in the eyes when
you’re talking to them and then see ask
yourself is this is some sayin is this a
sincere person is this a sincere person
or are they lying to me deceiving me
trying to take advantage trying to take
advantage of me right so stare people in
the eyes and what you will often find is
that people who are very trustworthy can
look you back in the eyes people who are
trying to scam you do you dirty they
haven’t got the guts to look you in the
eyes because they know what they’re
about to do to you right the eyes are
the windows to the soul
trust your gut when you look at someone
say do I feel a kind of warmth in their
eyes or a kind of coldness in their eyes
okay if you feel a warm mess about them
then you can trust them if you don’t you
better run for the hills baby
it’s that way how to recognize someone’s
worth trusting 7 day vegan challenge go
out and eat with them now this is
probably one of the best ways I found
out to actually know if someone’s worth
trusting I’m like yeah just come to Cafe
Gratitude with me let’s go to raw food
daily let’s let’s eat together and I’m
watching them eat that beautiful quinoa
and they’re telling me stuff and I’m
like I can’t trust this person but
sometimes I’m like I can’t trust this
person right because over food right
people say stuff you can kind of get a
feeling of their energy a lot more
because they’re kind of more relaxed
they’re in a less kind of acting mode
more in a being mode so you can really
start to pick up their vibrations okay
and it happens over food okay you can
really start to feel that person’s
energy to know if you can trust them or
not over a delicious avocado brown rice
kale meal right 7 day vegan challenge ok
so go and eat with someone who you’re
not sure about
with them and then after you leave see
how you feel if you get bad vibes
you better run for the hills which is
that way if you get good vibes eat with
them again and invite the cat down the
road and I and I’m gonna bring you a
mango smoothie full of vitamin A how
about that how about that how about that
how to recognize someone’s worth
trusting baby baby we are here they’ve
always been there for you they’ve never
let you down
you see it’s even hard for me hard cuz
I’m meeting a lot of people I’m like I’m
not sure if I can trust this person
because we just we just met right but
people who I know I can trust I’ve known
them for a long time it doesn’t mean
that all the people I’ve known for a
long time a trustworthy because time is
just an illusion but we’ve got
experience together like I’ve got good
friends who have been with me for years
so I can trust them because we’ve got
shared experiences okay I can count on
them when I need them not all of them
some people will let me down but that’s
okay but there is right there is always
there is always one friend that you can
count on and sometimes if there isn’t
you got to count on yourself mmm slow
motion this side mmm that’s why the
greatest relationship you can have is
with yourself but think for a minute
right think for a minute of someone who
has always been there for you that’s the
person you know you know you can trust
because that’s the person who was there
with you before the money before the 1
million subscribers before the fame
before you blew up okay they’ve been
there when you were picking your nose at
school they were high school sweetheart
to you that’s how you know you can trust
them because they don’t want you for
anything other than your essence mmm
slow motion this side how to recognize
someone’s worth trusting time man-made
time time reveals everything when the
grass is cut the snakes will show let me
repeat that when the grass is cut the
snakes wash
when the grass is cut the snakes will
show when times get rough and hard
people’s true colors will be revealed
you see once you’re doing good in your
life everybody wants to be a part of
success but when you’re down and out
will they will they still be there
chances are probably not you can’t trust
that person you better get rid of them
real fast now to know if you can trust
someone give it time
give it a few months give it a few years
and then see if this person is still the
same towards you they’re still bringing
you positive energy or have they changed
because now they’re like you can’t do
anything for me so bye we don’t need
these kinds of people in our life we
need real people authentic people people
who are gonna be there in the good times
the bad times and the downright ugly
times so realize this deep divers time
reveals everything you don’t have to do
a lot to know if you should you don’t
have to do a lot to recognize if
someone’s worth trusting
let time reveal itself let time be the
greatest teacher because everybody is
exposed in time the truth gets revealed
in time time reveals everything and
people’s true intentions sometimes I’ve
trusted people even recently like hey
yeah you can help me on infinite waters
do this that but then I realize they’re
snakes in disguise and I love snakes
snakes it why do why do we always blame
snakes okay wolves in sheep’s clothing
right wolves actually kind of beautiful
but we’ll just use that as a reference
how to recognize someone’s worth
trusting discernment is essential
discernment is the ability to judge well
and that’s why being a Pisces I’m very
intuitive I can usually know very
quickly if I should trust this person or
not
and it’s because I’m using discernment
I’m paying attention to details how
caring is this person to other people
because that determines how they’re
gonna treat me how caring is this person
towards themselves because that
have they are they a trustworthy person
to other people
let me repeat let me repeat that are
they a trustworthy person to other
people that’s how to know if someone’s
worth trusting like what does the cat
down the road say about them okay I’ve
learnt is that you have to use
discernment which is the ability to
judge well don’t be so quick to trust
people give it time
I have in the past I’m lucky I trust you
but when I use discernment I’m not
analyzing you I’m just peeling away the
layers until I see the authentic you mmm
what slow motion this side mmm
Ralph’s Peck that’s right I’m a Pisces I
know everything kind of about energy and
reading it because I’m naturally
intuitive but it’s only because I’m
using discernment that’s how to know if
someone’s worth trusting don’t be so
quick to trust peel the layers first how
to know someone’s worth trusting you see
what’s helped me along my journey plain
and simple is that many of us we have a
very naive mindset okay
we’re like seeing the good in everybody
and that’s me like I’m always doing that
and that’s why sometimes I get screwed
over because I’m like I would do this
for them they should do that for me I
don’t even like growing on I never
actually thought like they were bad
people in the world until I met really
nasty people I’m like oh my gosh that
that exists in the world so start to
realize that everybody you meet has a
different agenda let me repeat that
everybody you
me has a different agenda okay so you
have to realize that not everybody’s
intentions are pure okay not everybody
wants the best for you but to really
know if you should trust someone give
them a chance first
don’t just be so quick so quick to judge
and assume right don’t be so quick to
judge and assume give them a chance and
if they prove themselves you give them
another chance but if they don’t
immediately then you let them go because
once again we have no business hanging
on to people who don’t serve us is time
to make space for people who actually
will hmm slow motion this side so there
you have it beautiful deep divers that’s
how to know if you should trust somebody
once again Trust takes time it takes it
takes time it takes experience it takes
really not being so quick just to judge
someone okay because we all have let
people down in the past but it doesn’t
mean we aren’t worthy of a second chance
mmm-hmm slow motion this side and once
you realize that beautiful deep dive as
well you just say fill so get to be a
we’re just whoa breathing in that good a
sprout a baby have a beautiful day deep
divers infinite waters diving deep once
again stay well stay healthy peace you
or you could just pick petals of a
flower I trust you I trust you not I
trust you I trust you not keep doing
that I trust you and then see which one
you land on I trust you know okay I
don’t trust you let me do it again I
trust you [Laughter]
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