How to Make Difficult People Easy People

pekes infinite waters diving deep once
again we’re out here we’re nature here
those birds over there breathing in that
good ass prana baby how to make
difficult people easy people someone
wrote in saying that they’re dealing
with someone who’s making their entire
existence a living nightmare they can’t
go to sleep they feel they’re being
manipulated I say you have so many
emotional and mental manipulators out
there you better recognize and these are
people that do whatever they can to get
whatever they can however they can
whenever they can if ever they can and
we an even had breakfast yet can I get a
Hello let me share with you what’s
helped me along my journey make
difficult people easy people you’re
gonna meet someone who is really really
really gonna piss you off what are you
gonna do about it
apart from throwing a tantrum now let me
give you an example you’re walking down
the road really carefree and your friend
is next to you who’s a kind of difficult
person they trip up
and they say you did it and you’re like
no I didn’t you tripped up and they’re
like no you did it because you said
something which distracted me when I was
walking and now I’m on the ground why
did you why did you say that why did you
we’re not friends anymore
sometimes extremely difficult people
will place the blame on you
and that’s how they can manipulate you
in a subtle way here’s what to do do you
remember when you were younger and maybe
your parents said if you don’t finish
your homework
you’re not gonna get these biscuits if
you don’t clean your room you’re not
gonna go to so in Seoul’s house and
later on in life your boss probably
whispered in your ear if you don’t do
this job properly you’re gonna get
sacked okay let’s let’s talk about
difficult people and what to do
solutions you got to know your rights
like Bob said you got to stand up for
your rights right you got to stand up
don’t be a pushover for mental and
emotional manipulators you’re better
than that
how do you know your rights if someone
blames you
you don’t have to take on that blame you
can actually show people raise your
voice speak the truth even when your
voice is trembling and say wait a minute
no I’m not gonna tolerate this oh my
gosh that’s what they’ll be like
because you see a lot of difficult
people are difficult because they know
you are an easy pushover I’m a Pisces
and a lot of Pisces we’re like super
generous super kind people but we’re no
pushover we’re no joke seven day vegan
challenge okay let me share with you an
experience from the past with a
difficult person when I was becoming a
vegan I had a lot of people telling me
don’t do it
okay I’m a vegan for a month now let’s
go back into time Oh Ralph you’re
looking really skinny
we’re egit where are you gonna get your
protein from and at that time I didn’t
really know how to deal with this so I
was silent nowadays I’m like I’ve been a
vegan over 11 years I get my protein
from chia seeds you got a problem with
that and they’re like moving on stand up
for your rights realize that also you
got to start taking responsibility for
your internal condition we don’t want to
do that a lot of the times we feel that
someone is manipulating us bullying us
nobody can do that without your
permission
so you got to start taking
responsibility to say actually I’m not
gonna allow this person to steal my joy
right now
slow motion in the heart of the canyon
Topanga it’s not gonna happen so once
you start realizing actually maybe just
maybe the universe sent this person
that’s really annoying that really
pisses me off
to help me become my greatest version it
could be a blessing in disguise because
sometimes really difficult people they
get us really angry so we now know what
pushes our buttons so thank them because
it’s a test it’s all a test but you see
to make a difficult person easy you got
to realize that hey you don’t have to
give them your attention instead of
spending the whole day thinking about
people who don’t serve you why not think
about me for a change
why not think about the cat down the
road for a change
why not think about people that actually
care about you for a change that’s how
to make difficult people easy people
don’t give them that label I don’t have
any difficult people in my life they’re
all because I don’t see them as
difficult if I see them as difficult I’m
externalizing my power mm-hmm slow
motion
we’re externalizing yeah it’s not gonna
happen
you see a lot of people want to make
your life miserable
nightmare but once again these people
don’t have power unless you think about
them when you confront people look them
in the eye and say it’s not gonna happen
today especially not when I got this
beautiful purple on especially when I’m
just about to go to gratitude to go and
eat some beautiful kale and stuff mucho
beau it’s not gonna happen you are not
gonna ruin my day okay now I’ve got that
off my chest
it’s time for some pineapple many times
we don’t realize the true enemy lies
sometimes there’s a battle going on and
it’s not happening outside it’s
happening within our own mind I used to
work in a place where there was this guy
who would just always wear black now I
wear a lot of black I love black it’s
beautiful but this guy always used to
wear and he was really horrible he would
always say do the job like this Ralph
you’re not doing it right
and I was doing it and for a second I
felt really scared to say okay I better
shut up I thought I was being
manipulated then I realized wait a
minute I have rights I have a voice and
I’m gonna stand up to this person and I
said look Sonny who the hell do you
think you are
he got real scared and ever since that
day he didn’t give me any more problems
we’re out here baby
we’re in Topanga California one of my
favorite places to breathe in whoa that
good ass prana baby and that’s how to
make a difficult person an easy person
have a beautiful day
well here infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy