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How to Find the ONE (Why Are You Single?)


Pisan Finnick waters diving deep once
again we are out here in the marvellous
art gallery baby deep divers of planet
earth shout out to you why are you
single we got a whole lot to talk about
let’s just well breathing in that good
ass prana babe you know I get thousands
of messages every single day and
recently I got one this is for you
surfer girl who said Ralph’s smart
please please please onto this why I
feel lonely why am i single and
beautiful yes you are she doesn’t get it
she’s getting worried right now you’re
looking a bit shaky baby getting scared
right now and a lot of people on the
planet are scratching their heads
wondering why are they single well alas
don’t worry baby
Ralph’s ma has got you this is sexology
water fire hot cold yin-yang we’re back
daddy’s home and we even had breakfast
yet can I get a Hello pad now let me
share with you what’s helped me along my
journey
you see I realized when I was single
what I was doing wrong when I was in a
relationship what I was doing right you
see a lot of people say Ralph smart yes
ladies say this Ralph what I want to
find my prince like that’s all I dream
about
guys say the same I want to find my
queen but do you have time for that you
see why are you single we’ve got a whole
we’ve got a whole lot to talk about
love is not your top priority let me
repeat that
love is not your top priority you see
you’ve got to make time for
relationships many people don’t even
have time to brush their teeth let alone
for the commitment of a relationship you
got to work five days a week sometimes
six days a week you haven’t got time you
have not got time and I realize along my
early journey when I was like 18 locked
my early early journey I didn’t have
time either even though I was in a
relationship I didn’t have time why are
you single sometimes you are all about
goals and that’s beautiful but you have
to be you have to be honest with
yourself you have to be real with
yourself
that I don’t have time and you have to
admit it I don’t have time for a
relationship right now because I’m too
busy
I’m overwhelming myself with work stress
I don’t even have time for myself honey
when was the last time you meditated you
gotta ask yourself that when you were at
school many many many many years ago on
your list was it to say hey teacher love
is my number one priority or was it
something else you see if you are all
goals goal orientated that’s beautiful
but realize that love requires a
different work you see true love the
water relationship is what I call the
Holy Grail
it comes to those who put in the effort
who make the time for it many times I
always say this to ladies you know Ralph
smart yes I’m with this guy and we got
together but he doesn’t have time for me
I told you because he is still in the
process of manifesting his dreams until
he does it he won’t have time for you
sometimes you can even be in a
relationship and still feel single we’ll
come to that later so make time make
love your priority and make sure you are
in that process of manifesting your
dreams because once you have manifested
your heart’s wildest desires and the
other person has then you create a
beautiful water relationship up until
that point is going to be very difficult
because you’re going to get together
even if you get together one person is
gonna be very busy and so is the other
person trying to manifest their dreams
it happens all the time from the
millions of people I inspire thousands
of consultations have done as a
psychologist as a counselor I know what
I’m talking about now a lot of people do
enjoy being alone why are you single
because you love your company you love
your own company you love looking at
yourself in the mirror and saying oh
baby I got myself all to myself and it
slow motion in this slide you love the
freedom you see there is nothing wrong
with being single let me repeat that
there is nothing wrong with being single
many people who are single have chosen
to be single because they don’t want to
be in a relationship just for the sake
of well being in a relationship they
would rather be alone and happy than
with someone and pretending so you enjoy
your independence your freedom you value
this on a subconscious level and that’s
okay
like when I was single for a long time I
realized it was because it was because I
didn’t want anybody telling me what time
to come home no no no right so you enjoy
your own company you have to realize
sometimes you’ve already chosen on a
subconscious level if you want to be
single or not many times it’s because
you enjoy being around yourself you
don’t like sometimes too many different
energies and that’s beautiful it’s okay
like when you are single you can use
this time to work on yourself growth
development mentally emotionally
spiritually and physically right so it’s
beautiful and a lot of people choose to
be single because it makes them happy
now I get it
many times when we talk of becoming your
greatest version a lot of us we haven’t
figured our selves out now the teenager
in relationships I didn’t know who I was
why was I in relationships I how was I
in relationships different relationships
I have no idea
I didn’t know who I was why you single
because you are still trying to find
yourself out figure yourself out know
yourself Who am I
these are the questions you’ve got to
ask yourself you’re trying to figure
yourself out and that’s okay you see I
say being single is like being in a
training room you’ve got to now work on
yourself you got to start figuring out
what you want in life what you have to
offer the other person you see I get it
you’re single you’re dreaming of a
prince you’re dreaming of a princess a
king and a queen so that’s a lot but
what have you got to offer that’s the
question you have to ask yourself you
see many times we think it should will
be handed to us on a beautiful plate the
person of our dreams should just take us
off our feet but what have you got to
offer are you thinking about what the
other person can give you or are you
thinking about what you can give the
other person slow motion this side so
realise many times you are single
because you still don’t know who you are
and now will take time sometimes years
sometimes decades oh my gosh you’re
getting old don’t worry about it right
not that long not that long but what
help me along my journey was to go into
the wilderness the forest meditate a lot
more get a sense of who I am so I know
what I really want why are you single
because your actions don’t match your
words slow motion this side a lot of
people say I really loved that person I
really loved that person when was the
last time you spent a day with them
I haven’t Ralph
been at work all day I’m so busy busy
nobody is too busy it is just a matter
of priorities so it goes back to you
have to make love a top priority you see
love is the Holy Grail
and I’ve gotta eat Ralph I gotta pay
bills exactly so you have put your job
higher on the list than love and finding
your soul mate your twin flame right and
that’s okay you got to admit it I did
for a long time until I started to
manifest right now I am rich for life
waking up in infinite abundance I’ve got
a lot of time for love I’ve put myself
in that position however there was a
point when I was hustling I was grinding
I was just coming up now I’ve made it so
when your actions don’t match your words
what are we talking about you say one
thing but then you do another you say oh
I want to find the person of my dreams
but your actions don’t reflect that
because you’re not actually making an
active effort to do it are you going to
social events are you putting aside time
for it are you ready to receive it
are you freeing up time well are you
still making excuses saying I’m too busy
nobody is too busy it is only a matter
of priorities I always used to say I’m
too busy for love for relationships no
the problem was the problem the problem
was with me I didn’t have my priorities
right why are you single it’s time to
start making your actions match your
words become impeccable with your words
that is one of the four agreements if
you say something then do it
commit to it
don’t be flaky with your words and
actions make them real why are you
single seven day vegan challenge now
beautiful deep divers was helped me
along my journey is to realize all my
early journey why was single for a
little while was because I had a big
checklist okay sometimes you got to be
honest you are single because you are
very very very very very very very very
very very very very picky very picky
especially when it comes to food
requirements when I was a vegan over 13
years ago starting my food journey I’m
like okay it’s gonna be hard to find a
vegan woman and it pretty it pretty much
was in the beginning not anymore
there’s a lot of people like Einstein
said vegetarianism is the future of
humanity I now say that veganism is the
future of humanity so many people are
eating a plant-based diet feeling better
about themselves stuffing a whole load
of chopped pineapples in their mouth
full of bromine vitamin C and they feel
fantastic now food requirements a lot of
people when they are changing their diet
they’re like hey I don’t want to eat I
don’t want to kiss someone I don’t want
to kiss someone who’s just eating a
certain type of food okay especially if
they are eating a plant-based diet
little things like this because this is
what you ladies write to me about you’re
like Ralph I’m doing the seven day vegan
challenge and I’m in a relationship with
someone who doesn’t care about it
they’re just eating meat all the time
and lots of dairy full of mucus okay and
when it comes to kissing the morale I
don’t want to do it okay don’t blame me
don’t blame me look that’s okay what’s
helped me along my journey is to respect
your food requirements accept them
respect them realize that you will
eventually find someone who smiles at
the menu when you do just at the same
time you look at the menu and you’re
like oh
this is so beautiful because before it
was more like you were smiling yeah and
the other person was like Oh God
right food and love go together why are
you single because you are not ready for
commitment you don’t know what you want
and I had to admit that for a long time
once again and when you are just coming
up when you are trying to make something
out of yourself it’s gonna be hard to
have that commitment for someone else
you see and we have to become brutally
honest when we talk about why are we
single many times it’s because we are
not ready to commit to someone because
we don’t know what we want and what
really helped me along my journey was to
say look if you chase two rabbits you
will end up chasing and chasing and
chasing basically you won’t catch any so
focus on someone who really warms your
heart and start building stop code
evading a beautiful tree you see a
relationship especially the water
relationship is like a plum it only
grows as much as you water it and as
much as the Sun shines on it once you
leave that plant no water no sunlight it
starts to wither away and that’s why a
lot of people have very short
relationships they just disappear into
the clouds what where did that go we
didn’t water it you didn’t take care of
it
you didn’t nurture it why are you single
is time to be ready for commitment why
are you single many times ladies you
write to me saying I don’t like my body
Ralph fellows same thing there is a part
of me I don’t like what if I told you
someone is ready to kiss your feet right
now they love all the parts of yourself
you don’t like they someone would
actually love to be in your presence
right now what you find quirky about
yourself weird they would love that give
them a chance to love it you see what
I’ve realized is that I’m not perfect
but I accept my body that’s why it’s
easier to find someone who will as well
why you single sometimes we don’t love
ourselves enough you see we are half
cups powerful waiting for another
half-full person to fill us now you have
two incomplete halves you have to become
whole first by filling your cup then you
find someone else who is whole and then
you both complete each other slow motion
this side get to love your body you do
this by staring in the mirror every
single day saying gosh you’re so fine
you blow my mind that’s a good start
that will give you the confidence to say
actually I’m worthy to be in this other
person’s presence I’m beautiful
so why not let’s have a party sometimes
your body insecurities will keep you
away from a person your soulmate your
twin flame don’t let it today
don’t let it do that why are you single
because you can’t stop thinking about
your ex oh I can’t stop thinking about
it we had a great time I’m I’m never
gonna find someone like that you’re
right you never will but you might find
someone who is even more compatible with
you who is even gonna be there for you
who is even gonna be more committed to
you it’s time to let go and it’s time to
move forward
it will take time why you single because
you’ve just been in a relationship it’s
been a bit rocky it ended badly
you didn’t go the way you want and now
you’re like I’m afraid Ralph I’m afraid
to be in another relationship I don’t
blame you
especially what you’ve been through
however give yourself time allow
yourself to have that recovery period
watch my video on that how to recover
after a relationship that didn’t go the
way you want it could have been abusive
whatever watch that video right now it’s
all connected so you have to realize
that if you can’t stop thinking about
someone if you can’t stop thinking about
them they are gonna prevent you from
meeting someone else you have to let go
of the old energy to invite the new
energy in you’ve got to make space for
new energy to enter your life why you
single sometimes it could be because we
are not making enough space for new
energy and it’s time right now you got
to realize whatever you had with your
past lover your ex that’s that that’s so
beautiful that was beautiful however you
got to say to yourself there is someone
else right now
I can’t stop living I can’t keep I can’t
keep living in the past what has been
has already gone what’s to come he’s
gonna be even better that’s the mindset
I had along my early journey and that’s
why I ended up in the water relationship
now why you single ladies you write to
me all the time saying oh he’s so
immature
fellas you do the same thing she’s so
immature because when you are evolving
when you are evolving and growing in
consciousness right now we are in in a
massive global awakening
that’s why relationships are changing
all over the place because right now the
only thing that matters is heart
connection you see physical connect
our common mental connections and hot
connections are very rare
so why you single because ladies you
write to me telling me that you don’t
have time for games
you are single because it’s everything
core is nothing everything or is nothing
you’re all laying all your hotel all out
and that’s beautiful you see that’s the
beauty of being single because sometimes
I realize I had to change my mindset
that actually it’s all in or it’s also
allowed you are single because you
respect yourself that much for the best
you realize you are worthy for the best
and nothing less you don’t want to
settle for me to yoke you don’t want to
settle for half ass and that’s beautiful
you don’t have time for games you have
time for a relationship that is gonna
help you evolve to the next level and
you gotta respect that
don’t be mad at yourself why are you
single because the time has not come you
see relationships are like the seasons
we have spring summer that’s beautiful
realize your time has not come to be
with that person right now you can’t
force anything
you can’t even force someone to love you
you never have to force anything that is
truly meant to be
[Music]
slow motion aside I have had to learn
patience why you single because
sometimes you are very impatient like I
was along my early journey always
looking out for the one when when I find
them when is it gonna happen the moment
I stop searching it all came to me so
sometimes you got to be so focused on
working on yourself in becoming your
greatest version that you have faith
that just doing what you love will help
you find one you love what’s just doing
what you love will help you find the one
you love that’s the secret I stumbled
across that moved me into the water
relationship why are you single now
let’s dive deep many times we don’t
realize we have adopted a behavioral
pattern which keeps us cut off from
potential mates ie you’re working all
the time you are not making love a
priority once again your actions don’t
match your words so it’s time to stop
being so cut off start socializing go to
events oh my gosh infinite waters
retreat we should do like a infinite
waters love retreat how about that can I
get a Hello there because there are so
many deep divers all over the place
we’re gonna do that now don’t be so cut
off be open to receive love be ready to
give love get out off your bedroom stop
talking to people don’t always wait for
love to find you sometimes is you that
has to make the move reach out to people
that’s what I’m asking you to do today
now deep divers why you single because
sometimes you are playing hard-to-get
you think you think you’re so sexy you
think you’re so amazing and that’s
beautiful but sometimes when you are
always
hard to get you’re making it too hard
for yourself you see what’s helped me
along my journey is to realize that be
real be authentic and be vulnerable okay
you are beautiful but so is the other
person
so stop playing hard-to-get stop playing
games why are you single because many
times when it comes to relationships we
play games
unnecessarily it’s time to cut the crap
be authentic and say look this is me
take me as I am I’m not gonna play hard
to get I like you I’m actually gonna say
I really like you like I really really
like you and I don’t care if you like me
back or not but I’m pouring my heart out
to you you see once people feel you
pouring your heart out to them they’re
gonna know it’s real but stop faking it
stop playing hard-to-get stop acting
like you don’t really love that person
when you really do you you think about
them every single day and all night long
right why are you single deep divers
that is it right there once again remind
yourself there is absolutely nothing
wrong with being single it all comes
down to knowing what you want and asking
yourself do my actions match my words
love isn’t always gonna come to you
sometimes you got to go out and find it
knowing that ultimate love lies within
yourself and then you’ll just say Phil
so good to be a live baby can I get a
Hello
a deep dives of planet Earth we are out
here in the beautiful art gallery just
whoa breathing in that good ass Prada
baby
beep divers have a beautiful day beat
divers forever love is a beautiful thing
love is all you need
baby infinite waters diving deep once
again stay well stay healthy peace you
love is all you need
I should get my voice tuned up a bit love is all you need baby

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