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How to Deal With The Loss of A Loved One


peace infinite waters diving deep once
again we’re out here first thing in the
morning is beautiful the sun is shining
on my face feel so good how to deal with
the passing of a loved one how do we
deal with grief with loss with death
I said passing that is a euphemism for
death but so many of us we’ve had
someone we know who has passed away it’s
tough it’s not easy along my journey
I’ve had friends who have died I’ve even
had some friends who have commit suicide
I’ve had my grandma who died everyone
knows someone who has passed away and it
can leave many of us numb it can leave
many of us feeling life is not worth
living but let me tell you life is worth
living dealing with the passing of a
loved one I always say we have to
embrace whatever nature throws our way
we have to accept death we must not
suppress our emotions at this time the
first thing that happens when someone
dies for a lot of us is we enter a state
of denial I can’t believe it
okay who cares Yolo you only live once
too bad I can’t do anything about it I
don’t want to know don’t talk to me we
do anything apart from observing waters
just taken place when you become silent
and embrace tune in 100% to what has
taken place it frees your soul because
many of us on the planet are
desensitized therefore we suppress our
emotions suppression is depression
therefore when you cannot express
yourself a hundred percent all of the
emotions are stored within your body
therefore you could erupt at any time in
essence all of the pain is trapped
within you and you take on that burden
in essence let the tears roll down your
face if you want to cry a lot of men in
our society we are told do not express
emotions women are allowed to cry them
we have to see that death is a passing
it is a transition in essence along my
journey I have seen that no one ever
really dies we are comprised of energy
if I was to ask you how old are you you
tell me you’re 34 you’re 50 years old
you’re 17 but how old is the energy
within you
the energy is infinite because energy
cannot be destroyed it can only be
transferred there is no death in nature
when we can see this it liberates us
because we realize there is only life in
nature nature is forever blossoming
flowers with beautiful colors nature is
the alchemist nature is the great
transformer and when we talk of passing
States such as when people die their
body will be used by nature to create
whatever nature once that’s how I see it
of course everyone sees things in a
different way and that is the beauty of
life but we have to remember that by
ignoring what has taken place in essence
only creates more confusion within
ourselves because we haven’t addressed
the issue we haven’t actually come to
life and death are connected in essence
they are brother and sister they are
night and day they are two sides of the
same coin if you love life there is no
fear of death if you do not embrace life
you will not embrace death along my
journey I do not fear death at all
because I do not fear life I embrace
life 100% I realize that yes we are
infinite we are immortal but in essence
in this 3d reality we live in a flash of
light
therefore we have to make the most of
life we have to do everything we came
here to do we cannot rest on our laurels
we cannot say in an afterlife I will do
this no there is only now everything is
happening right now the past present
future are all interconnected in essence
life is one big moment life is the only
gift you have to return to sender and
that’s how I deal when someone I know
passes away I say life is a package we
were given this great gift but in
essence we have to return it we are made
from the same fabric as the universe
therefore once again show me where there
is death in nature because whenever
something dies the next couple of
seconds it is transformed into something
else so nature is the alchemist you have
the seasons it’s winter spring summer
autumn life is a continuous process
there is no stop we are infinite
whatever we do now echoes into eternity
so we have to see when we are dealing
with someone who has passed away a loved
one this should make us reflect on what
we are doing with our lives how can we
learn from this passing what is nature
attempting to communicate to us do not
turn a blind eye we have to also
connect to someone else that can help us
through this time build a support
network if there’s someone you know who
has passed away do not suffer in silence
because the universe always sends
someone form a group meet with friends
talk over what has happened because all
of that helps us heal ourselves when we
do not talk to anyone in essence we
don’t even know how we feel it’s not
about burdening someone with our
problems it’s about sharing because how
we talk about life should be how we talk
about death many of us were on the run
from ourselves
therefore by not observing death it
becomes the skeleton in the closet
it becomes fear fear is the greatest
energy vampire once you see them embrace
that there is no death there is only
transformation and your life will be
transformed we have a wonderful world
it’s up to us how we are gonna live on
this planet when we talk of the passing
of a loved one we have to enjoy their
beautiful moments they shared with us on
earth celebrate their amazing life as
opposed to looking at how tragic the
situation is because everything is based
on perception is based on how we see the
world make sure you go out because many
people who are grieving who are mourning
a loved one stay indoors they suffer
from anxiety and depression however once
you go into nature you feel , you learn
from nature you realize that nature is
our true home and being free is our
birthright
so at this difficult time take a walk in
the park be around animals because
animals are great teachers and masters
we have to learn from animals how they
can just exist in the now with no fear
of death
because in essence life and death are
one in the same it’s beautiful to see
that nobody has got out of life alive
there is no escape because we don’t need
to escape we don’t need to run away from
ourselves we have to see that life is a
great mystery as is death but when we’re
talking of someone we know so close to
us who has just passed away see that it
is in essence how we see their lives
that is all that matters the memory we
have of them the good times and the bad
times and the funny times death makes
all of us equal from the Papa to the
millionaire no one can run away from
this transformation this transition we
all must take because in essence this is
the metamorphosis from one state to the
next we are moving from a caterpillar
into a butterfly in some cultures some
indigenous cultures in Africa and South
America when a baby is born they cry
because they see the baby is dying the
baby has died because it has gone from a
state of innocence
the baby was in source energy and now
the baby which is being born is actually
dying because it is losing its essence
being connected to a higher vibrational
energy so everything is based on how we
see it some people celebrate remember
whatever you focus on grows if you focus
on this event being a tragedy
then that’s what grooves if you focus on
this loved one being such an amazing
person
that’s what grows that’s what creates
your reality you envision them in a
beautiful light and in turn you receive
a beautiful calm energy it pervades your
whole being because you see it is not
something to be sad about just as life
is not something to be sad about you
embrace the totality of existence you
see that we have to appreciate the
living as well when someone dies what
happens there’s a massive funeral people
spend thousands of pounds on a gold
casket however when the person was alive
how did we treat this person so we have
to remind ourselves how are we treating
people who are living right now because
that is all that matters nothing is
but the people who are alive today treat
them how you are treating that person
who has just passed away give them
flowers don’t pick a flower which is
living
because now you’re killing the flower
tree everyone with respect make sure
that you see the death as just a process
of universal intelligence because nature
is intelligent nature is structured to a
tee
nature is the perfect structure where do
you feel we got all of ideas for
architecture for building for creating
so we are part of nature’s creation we
are nature’s artwork smile when someone
has passed away but in essence do what
comes natural to you because everyone
has a different way of expressing
themselves do not suppress yourself
allow your emotions to flare if you want
to scream scream if you want to smile
smile do whatever comes naturally to you
because in essence the power lies within
the answers lie within you
life is an extraordinary gift
let’s talk of universal mind control
when you go to the cinema what do you
see we see people getting shots people
getting killed we have to ask ourselves
is this the sign of an advanced
civilization when we can pay money to
see people getting murdered and tortured
on the big silver screen therefore all
of this desensitizes us to death
therefore when someone passes away we
don’t know how to deal with it because
in essence we are not embracing life
people who are very calm who are seeing
the processional cycle of life know how
to deal with life because they see that
death is nothing to be worried and
feared in essence without death there
can be no life because death makes room
for life when someone we know has
transitioned we have to plant our feet
back into mother earth to absorb the
healing energies now is a time for
meditation healing rest it is a time for
connecting back to the elements of our
true authentic being it is a time of
inner cleansing that is how to deal with
a passing of a loved one
we must heal ourselves we must in
essence make sure we are raising our
vibration to a higher frequency because
on ruminating on what we think is a
tragedy only feeds our own pain
therefore making us dwell in anger
frustration and turmoil the first thing
that happens when someone dies for a lot
of us is that we become angry we say why
did it have to happen to them what is
the reason why why why we ask these
questions and that is beautiful because
it helps us cope with a situation but
anger can only help us so far because in
essence the more angry we become the
more that anger has to pass through
ourselves therefore we end up becoming
sick and that’s why a lot of people they
end up dying when someone else has died
some people have died of shock just
hearing the news has left many people in
a great discomfort some people have had
so we have to see that it is about
flowing it is about breathing it is
about being thankful for your life and
being grateful for every single day of
your existence that is how to deal with
the passing of a loved one at this time
many people don’t feel they should be
enjoying themselves they don’t feel they
should be having fun no when we’re
talking about dealing with the passing
of a loved one have as much fun as you
can enjoy life to the maximum because
your loved one would not want to see you
grieving they would not want to see you
depressed they would want to see you in
the best light they would want to see
you happy
free enjoying yourself having a
wonderful time so we have to live how
our loved one would want to see us in
this particular point in time life is a
rollercoaster ride it’s not easy but at
the same time once you embrace this
transformation this transition it allows
you to enjoy life to a greater extent we
are out here remember you are not alone
the universe always send someone life is
a package with the bird singing are the
birds afraid of dying or passing away I
wonder infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy

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