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How to Deal With Negative People/Energy Vampires—You Can’t Please Everyone…Protecting Yourself!


peace infinite waters diving deep once
again accepting not everyone is gonna
like you and this is something which
I’ve come to realize on my journey you
can’t please everyone and I did an
earlier video a long time ago how to
deal with haters and this is like a kind
of continuation but when we talk of how
a lot of the times many of us we feel
that we always have to make people love
us it’s like your gladiator in the arena
saying are you not entertained
are you not happy and a lot of the time
I’ve realized even in my journey I just
let that all go I just surrendered Who I
am and I just realized that I would
rather people love me
I would rather people hate me
Who I am than to love me for who I’m not
and that’s stuck with me on my journey
and I’ve just realized that a lot of the
times when people don’t like you a lot
of the times I’ve realized that it’s
because a number of reasons one it could
be because you are mirroring back
something to them an unresolved issue to
them so a lot of times if I don’t like
someone it’s because sometimes people
show us things about ourselves and some
people just mirror that magnify it to a
greater extent so a lot of the times
people feel uncomfortable and at the
same time some people don’t like us
because there is fear where there’s fear
there’s competition and there’s anxiety
and also a lot of the times we can
sometimes people don’t like us because
we intimidate them and I’ve seen it even
on my journey how I mean a lot of the
times I connect with beautiful people
but just seeing it in other people’s
journeys as well how a lot of us we’re
still caught up in this trying to please
everyone mentality
and I’ve just accepted on my journey
which has liberated me and freed me that
except that not everyone is gonna like
you because everyone is on a different
journey everyone is having a different
experience and sometimes that’s the way
it goes please be my friend it’s like
don’t beg I don’t beg anybody to be my
friend or even to to watch my videos
because it’s like you have a lot of
people saying subscribe to me or or
watch my video to be honest I don’t care
because I’m at the stage where I love
people to have free will and I love
people to do whatever resonates with
them it’s like anybody who is even
coming across my videos they’re coming
there because they’re supposed to come
now it’s part of resonance and if they
resonate with it that’s beautiful if not
then that can’t be helped
and it just when I was doing my
psychology degree a long time ago it
made me realize there’s a great quote in
kind of guessed out counselling and it
says this I’m not in this world to live
up to your expectations you do your
thing and I do mine and if by chance we
meet that’s beautiful but if not that
well it can’t be helped and that’s
amazing
and it just shows me how more and more
that you can’t always be living up to
people’s expectations a lot of the times
you have to let things go and realize
that a lot of times many times that’s
how the universe is set up you always
need this balance and and I’m perfectly
fine with that because I realize that
this is what makes the world go round
the good the bad and the ugly and and
realizing that if the world was all the
same then it would be a very boring
world indeed sometimes we need that
resistance to almost even question
ourselves and almost to keep that
flowing traffic moves in both directions
on the motorway you need cars going this
way and cars going that way that’s what
keeps things in a divine flow the heart
the blood is going the vein the blood is
going to the heart arteries blood is
going away from the heart so this
counter at this counteract this counter
flow is really what keeps the body in
perfect homeostasis perfect balance and
it’s the same way with even our
relationships a lot of the times even if
we look on the planet a lot of the times
because so many of us we hold so much
fear in our hearts there’s always going
to be a lot of hating going on we just
see a person we don’t like them and it
shows more about ourselves just like me
a lot of the times when I realize even
sometimes because I’m still human if I
if I realize okay I don’t like this
person a lot of the times even on my own
journey I realize this it’s not really
about that person it’s really about my
own inner problems that I’m dealing with
that’s why that person is just the
and a lot of the time just like take the
cat syndrome you go to work someone
shouts at you and you come home and you
kick the cat what did the cat do it was
just drinking some milk and accepting
not everyone is gonna like you for me it
just makes me realize that you can’t
live up to people’s fantasies because
everyone we have certain fantasies of
what people are but that’s only one side
of them I’ve realized on my journey that
people only show you what they want you
to see but beyond that we are
multi-dimensional beings in this 3d
reality there are many sites that all of
us and when we talk of just different
relationships we have a lot of the times
we have to accept that when we see a
person it’s not who they are 100% some
people even they act one way to their
friends to their family and to their
parents so you’re having three different
people here but for me I just really am
striving more and more every day to keep
it 100% doesn’t matter who I’m with or
where where I am just be yourself that’s
the most important thing and on this
journey I just realized that no matter
what happens you have to do you you have
to stay true to who you are and accept
okay yes there’s gonna be road humps
along the way there’s going to be people
who are gonna have a go at you but at
the same time they’re there to test you
to see if you are really who you say you
are so they’re just doing their job
nature gives everyone a job and that’s
how it is so I embrace everything and
realize that in essence at the end of
the day all that matters is who you
resonate with and connecting with
kindred spirits because there’s always
someone for somebody out there infinite
waters in front of the Sun diving deep once again stay well stay healthy peace

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