How to Avoid the Perfection Trap

peas infinite waters diving deep once
again perfect people some people say
your life must be perfect because you’re
always talking about becoming the
greatest version of yourself healthy
eating positive relationships but
there’s still a lot I’m working on every
single day and I had the Epiphany that I
have never seen a perfect person I have
only seen a unique person and the more
we can stop judging other people we stop
judging ourselves maybe we are searching
for the perfect relationship the perfect
job what I’ve seen along my journey when
we talk of perfection in our society
it’s all about how we can be and reach
this level where it is greater than
other people but I have seen that is a
trap
and I was talking to a good friend and I
was speaking to them because they had an
issue and they said Ralph stop talking
to me like a psychologist and talk to me
like a friend and that hit me like a ton
of bricks
because it’s just so amazing how so many
of us we identify with these roles we
are playing in society I am a
psychologist I am a doctor I am a lawyer
I am a student but this is a function
this is what we do it is not who we are
screw your reputation that is what I
always say to myself along my journey
these days because it doesn’t matter who
we think we are who we are underneath
all of that is far more superior once we
take off this mask
which society has placed on us we are
not victims we are creators of our own
reality and our own internal environment
once we reclaim our power then we screw
our reputation because who cares what
anybody else thinks it only matters how
we see ourselves more so it only matters
how willing we are to see ourselves in a
different way and it’s freed me along my
journey because right now it’s all about
stepping into your true authenticity and
that can only be done once we move more
into a heart space because only through
our hearts can we feel the pulse of the
universe it’s hard right now on the
planet for a lot of us because we are in
competition with other people out there
and I’ve seen the secret that the only
person I am in competition with is
myself and it is the most liberating
feeling in the world because the more we
see that perfection is the last level
after perfection where else can you go
it is tapping into our uniqueness that
promotes our expansion not our search
for perfection along my journey my early
journey I was reading a lot of self-help
books and thinking to myself if only I
get all of this information I can become
illusion I had because once we see that
95% of how we learn and our behavior is
subconscious only 5% is conscious we see
that it doesn’t matter how many books
you read much of the information is
coming from programs and habits and
therefore we have to stop living and
applying the knowledge and that is
wisdom that radical action but maybe
some of us we want a different body
we’re not happy how our face looks and
I’ve seen that breaking the perfection
trap is all about making more mistakes
it’s all about seeing that the Wright
brothers who were working on the early
aeroplanes they had to make a lot of
mistakes to get to the aircraft we see
today
so I embrace mistakes and I realize that
I am unique I am not perfect and
anything I share with you it is only
coming from my perspective and I am
interested in your perspective what
perfect people show me because I only
see unique people we are here in nature
infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy