peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again beautiful deep divers we are
out here in Jurassic Park bugs
everywhere whoa breathing in that good
ass prana baby
now let’s talk about relationships let’s
talk about if you’ve been in a
relationship but you’ve been Hut did
that happen to you and now you’re afraid
of hopping into another one somebody
wrote to me and they’re like Ralph I
love your videos they’ve helped me so
much but please help me out what’s up
they’re like Ralph I’ve had a lot of bad
experiences in relationships and I’m not
sure how I should approach a new one is
that you Deep Diver you’re like I’m not
sure if this is gonna work out because
all the other ones didn’t how to
approach a new relationship with hope
even if you’ve had a lot of bad
experiences in the past with people and
we even had breakfast yet can I get a
Hello after so many bad experiences how
do we go about approaching a new
relationship with new hope this is
sexology deep divers water fire hot cold
yin-yang daddy’s home and bad
now this is such a great question
because a lot of people are dealing with
it what do most people write to me about
relationships Ralph my boyfriend my
girlfriend my husband my wife my boy
might go by the way you don’t own them
you can take off the my mm-hmm slow
motion this side mmm
let’s dive straight into it deep divers
was help me along my journey is to
realize this not everyone is the same
and we have to bring this in to a new
relationship we have to come in with an
open mind a lot of us our mind is way
too full when we are approaching the new
relationship we feel it’s going to be
the same and therefore that actually
changes our biochemistry to have
flashbacks of a relationship which was
terrible so you are actually bringing
your old biochemistry into the new
relationship so how do we change that
first of all take time out if you’ve
been in a relationship which was
traumatic for you I always tell people
my clients take time out some people
need a week then they’re in another
relationship some people need a month
some people need a year just to take
that time for yourself to get to know
yourself until you establish
a better relationship with yourself
until you establish the correct way to
love yourself you see the greatest
relationship we can have is with
ourselves hmm slow motion this side mm
how to approach a new relationship with
hope after bad experiences if you can
look at it like this deep divers that
the key is to see new relationships with
new eyes so many of us we may be
entering a new relationship but we are
looking at that person with old eyes we
are interacting with that person with
old energy and therefore it’s not
helping us and it’s not helping the
other person say it to this person right
now I’m sorry if I’m bringing old energy
into this beautiful new space because
they don’t deserve that neither do you
so you have to learn how to respect the
person you are with to say actually this
is a new relationship and I’m not gonna
spoil it by bringing old crappy energy
into the new relationship what you have
to do is to really say I owe it to them
to not judge them I owe it to them to
not say it’s gonna be like the last one
because everybody comes from a different
background is bringing new experiences
into this interaction and that’s what
the water relationship is all about even
in the new relationship it’s not going
to be easy there are going to be
arguments disputes sometimes both of you
are gonna get on each other’s nerves but
a relationship is when two people
consciously decide to make it work
consciously if you’ve had a bad
experience from a previous relationship
many times we blame ourselves many times
we think is something that we did and
therefore we don’t even feel worthy the
amount of people I meet who don’t feel
worthy to enter another relationship
because they’re like I screwed up the
last one it never works with me we have
to start changing our vocabulary to say
actually it will work because I said so
because I said so and the cat down the
road said so too it will work and it’s
amazing what you do when you set that
intention to say actually I’m gonna give
my best to this new relationship that’s
how to approach a new relationship after
a bad experience set that intention to
say actually I’m gonna do everything in
my capacity to bring the best energy to
this relationship what happens to so
many of us we’re still having flashbacks
of a bad relationship of a bad
experience when we got hurt we’re afraid
of heartbreak I’m here to tell you that
you cannot fully love someone if you are
in a perpetual state of fear let me
repeat that you cannot fully love
someone if you are in a perpetual state
of fear of being heartbroken true love
is when you put everything on the table
you’re like I don’t care if I get hurt
because I love that person that much mmm
what slow motion this side so realize
you’ve got to come in to the
relationship with a soul or nothing
how to approach a new relationship after
a bad experience it’s time to check
yourself to say actually what did I do
in the past which may have ended a
potentially good relationship so learn
how to work on yourself to say actually
for the next one I’ve got more to bring
to the table a lot of us we’ve got a lot
of internal healing to do and the more
you work on yourself the more whole you
become within yourself the more magical
your relationship will be what happens
when a lot of people have had bad
experiences and they are heading into a
new relationship this happens we
sometimes bring old habits into new
energy fields I’ll give you an example
many times people write to me they’re
like Ralph I just ended this
relationship I’m in a new one but then
they tell me they’re doing the exact
same thing many times what happens is
that people are trying to change people
all the time that was the issue in the
last relationship and guess what it will
be an issue in your current relationship
so I always say this it’s about
accepting people not changing them
slow motion this side so you have to be
honest with yourself to say actually am
I ready to enter a new relationship am I
ready to make that commitment if you’re
not it doesn’t matter take time out to
recharge get your mind right get your
body right so when you meet that supa
dupa lovey dovey person you got so much
love love love love to give them okay
it’s about acceptance people have to
feel accepted so that’s how to approach
a new relationship after a bad
experience make sure whoever you are
with you accept them and then deep
divers learn this I’ve realized what do
most people crave in a relationship in a
beautiful water relationship it’s
respect
it’s transparency it’s being seen being
heard so if you have just come out of a
bad relationship and you’re wondering
how should I approach a new one realize
this deep divers to see someone and to
be seen that can only happen when your
ego dissolves your ego the three-letter
word that can destroy a 12-letter word
called relationship is the destroyer of
potentially good relationships as soon
as your ego gets involved it’s over why
because the ego creates a separation
between you two
so in entering a new union say ego get
to the backseat and put your heart space
in front okay that’s how to approach a
new relationship after a bad experience
and seven-day vegan challenge make sure
you both have the same food values like
we are eating so much grapes
avocados lemons pineapples full of
vitamin C I’m doing it to approach a new
relationship after a bad experience
make sure both of you have similar
tastes if you are eating a plant-based
diet make sure they are also on the same
page as you they also like green juice
because trust me it’s gonna make your
relationship a whole lot better and then
you’ll just say feel so good to be a
live baby can I get a hello beautiful
deep divers we are out here in the heart
of nature baby just wolf breathing in
that good oz prana baby
shout out to everybody who’s been
getting the good are honest shirts I won
one Ralph Ralph smart come slash clothes
you look amazing a lot of people send me
their pictures in the good asperatus
shirts if you’ve got a question follow
me on instagram at infinite waters deep
divers have a beautiful day infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well
stay healthy peace you see new relationships with new eyes
once again beautiful deep divers we are
out here in Jurassic Park bugs
everywhere whoa breathing in that good
ass prana baby
now let’s talk about relationships let’s
talk about if you’ve been in a
relationship but you’ve been Hut did
that happen to you and now you’re afraid
of hopping into another one somebody
wrote to me and they’re like Ralph I
love your videos they’ve helped me so
much but please help me out what’s up
they’re like Ralph I’ve had a lot of bad
experiences in relationships and I’m not
sure how I should approach a new one is
that you Deep Diver you’re like I’m not
sure if this is gonna work out because
all the other ones didn’t how to
approach a new relationship with hope
even if you’ve had a lot of bad
experiences in the past with people and
we even had breakfast yet can I get a
Hello after so many bad experiences how
do we go about approaching a new
relationship with new hope this is
sexology deep divers water fire hot cold
yin-yang daddy’s home and bad
now this is such a great question
because a lot of people are dealing with
it what do most people write to me about
relationships Ralph my boyfriend my
girlfriend my husband my wife my boy
might go by the way you don’t own them
you can take off the my mm-hmm slow
motion this side mmm
let’s dive straight into it deep divers
was help me along my journey is to
realize this not everyone is the same
and we have to bring this in to a new
relationship we have to come in with an
open mind a lot of us our mind is way
too full when we are approaching the new
relationship we feel it’s going to be
the same and therefore that actually
changes our biochemistry to have
flashbacks of a relationship which was
terrible so you are actually bringing
your old biochemistry into the new
relationship so how do we change that
first of all take time out if you’ve
been in a relationship which was
traumatic for you I always tell people
my clients take time out some people
need a week then they’re in another
relationship some people need a month
some people need a year just to take
that time for yourself to get to know
yourself until you establish
a better relationship with yourself
until you establish the correct way to
love yourself you see the greatest
relationship we can have is with
ourselves hmm slow motion this side mm
how to approach a new relationship with
hope after bad experiences if you can
look at it like this deep divers that
the key is to see new relationships with
new eyes so many of us we may be
entering a new relationship but we are
looking at that person with old eyes we
are interacting with that person with
old energy and therefore it’s not
helping us and it’s not helping the
other person say it to this person right
now I’m sorry if I’m bringing old energy
into this beautiful new space because
they don’t deserve that neither do you
so you have to learn how to respect the
person you are with to say actually this
is a new relationship and I’m not gonna
spoil it by bringing old crappy energy
into the new relationship what you have
to do is to really say I owe it to them
to not judge them I owe it to them to
not say it’s gonna be like the last one
because everybody comes from a different
background is bringing new experiences
into this interaction and that’s what
the water relationship is all about even
in the new relationship it’s not going
to be easy there are going to be
arguments disputes sometimes both of you
are gonna get on each other’s nerves but
a relationship is when two people
consciously decide to make it work
consciously if you’ve had a bad
experience from a previous relationship
many times we blame ourselves many times
we think is something that we did and
therefore we don’t even feel worthy the
amount of people I meet who don’t feel
worthy to enter another relationship
because they’re like I screwed up the
last one it never works with me we have
to start changing our vocabulary to say
actually it will work because I said so
because I said so and the cat down the
road said so too it will work and it’s
amazing what you do when you set that
intention to say actually I’m gonna give
my best to this new relationship that’s
how to approach a new relationship after
a bad experience set that intention to
say actually I’m gonna do everything in
my capacity to bring the best energy to
this relationship what happens to so
many of us we’re still having flashbacks
of a bad relationship of a bad
experience when we got hurt we’re afraid
of heartbreak I’m here to tell you that
you cannot fully love someone if you are
in a perpetual state of fear let me
repeat that you cannot fully love
someone if you are in a perpetual state
of fear of being heartbroken true love
is when you put everything on the table
you’re like I don’t care if I get hurt
because I love that person that much mmm
what slow motion this side so realize
you’ve got to come in to the
relationship with a soul or nothing
how to approach a new relationship after
a bad experience it’s time to check
yourself to say actually what did I do
in the past which may have ended a
potentially good relationship so learn
how to work on yourself to say actually
for the next one I’ve got more to bring
to the table a lot of us we’ve got a lot
of internal healing to do and the more
you work on yourself the more whole you
become within yourself the more magical
your relationship will be what happens
when a lot of people have had bad
experiences and they are heading into a
new relationship this happens we
sometimes bring old habits into new
energy fields I’ll give you an example
many times people write to me they’re
like Ralph I just ended this
relationship I’m in a new one but then
they tell me they’re doing the exact
same thing many times what happens is
that people are trying to change people
all the time that was the issue in the
last relationship and guess what it will
be an issue in your current relationship
so I always say this it’s about
accepting people not changing them
slow motion this side so you have to be
honest with yourself to say actually am
I ready to enter a new relationship am I
ready to make that commitment if you’re
not it doesn’t matter take time out to
recharge get your mind right get your
body right so when you meet that supa
dupa lovey dovey person you got so much
love love love love to give them okay
it’s about acceptance people have to
feel accepted so that’s how to approach
a new relationship after a bad
experience make sure whoever you are
with you accept them and then deep
divers learn this I’ve realized what do
most people crave in a relationship in a
beautiful water relationship it’s
respect
it’s transparency it’s being seen being
heard so if you have just come out of a
bad relationship and you’re wondering
how should I approach a new one realize
this deep divers to see someone and to
be seen that can only happen when your
ego dissolves your ego the three-letter
word that can destroy a 12-letter word
called relationship is the destroyer of
potentially good relationships as soon
as your ego gets involved it’s over why
because the ego creates a separation
between you two
so in entering a new union say ego get
to the backseat and put your heart space
in front okay that’s how to approach a
new relationship after a bad experience
and seven-day vegan challenge make sure
you both have the same food values like
we are eating so much grapes
avocados lemons pineapples full of
vitamin C I’m doing it to approach a new
relationship after a bad experience
make sure both of you have similar
tastes if you are eating a plant-based
diet make sure they are also on the same
page as you they also like green juice
because trust me it’s gonna make your
relationship a whole lot better and then
you’ll just say feel so good to be a
live baby can I get a hello beautiful
deep divers we are out here in the heart
of nature baby just wolf breathing in
that good oz prana baby
shout out to everybody who’s been
getting the good are honest shirts I won
one Ralph Ralph smart come slash clothes
you look amazing a lot of people send me
their pictures in the good asperatus
shirts if you’ve got a question follow
me on instagram at infinite waters deep
divers have a beautiful day infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well
stay healthy peace you see new relationships with new eyes
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