peace infinite waters diving deep once
again can I get a hello there how to
allow people to love you we got a
question in from the comment section
from a woman saying she doesn’t let
people love her she is closed off
blocked and she doesn’t know how to let
love find her and she wants to allow
people to love her how to receive how to
win friends and influence people I
tapped into the secret along my journey
in becoming your greatest version we
cannot control whether people love us or
not when you are trying to impress
people I’ve seen that the harder you try
the harder it is it wasn’t until I
started to let go a hundred percent that
I started to attract the right people
into my life people that I appreciated
and they appreciated me I hope so
where should we start in my toolkit I’ll
share with you was help me
it starts with changing how you see
yourself a lot of people feel they are
not worthy for anyone else’s attention
or love because they don’t feel they are
worthy of their own attention and love
how we see ourselves is everything
because the internal eyes are far more
powerful than the external ones
if we have this vision of ourselves in
our minds that we are wasting other
people’s time it is because we see that
we are a waste of time
it all starts by changing how you see
yourself that way you allow people to
love you because in essence you have to
love yourself first and I talked of
loving yourself a hundred percent
there’s a difference between self-love
and being a narcissist self-love is
where you don’t disregard other people
being a narcissist is where there is not
enough to go around you have to have the
spotlight you can’t hate yourself and
expect people to love you you can’t hate
yourself and expect you to love you
because it starts with speaking your
truth that is how loving yourself a
hundred percent starts to develop I put
myself out here I say things and it is
not my concern whether or not people
love it or hate it it is only my concern
to express myself a hundred percent and
guess what it works wonders because when
I talk about things like decalcifying
the pineal gland I talk about a lot of
different stuff different things that
some people love and some people may not
resonate but guess what now I am weeding
out people
people that are here just to appreciate
you see because if you are always just
trying to please people you will never
know who are the real ones when you
start moving into your true authenticity
now you will see who really loves you
not just the outer shell but your inner
energy your truth and it’s not about
suppressing how you feel you see because
a lot of us we are suppressing our
emotions the emotion is the energy in
motion we’re afraid to say no we’re
afraid to say yes speak whatever is on
your mind now the right people will come
into your life the people that can
assist you in becoming your greatest
version because a lot of us within
ourselves we are blocked energetically
therefore we don’t allow people to love
us also childhood trauma if we are
living in the past we have to start
moving into the now to start healing the
past because the future and the past is
all happening right now
therefore it’s about mindfulness
meditation going into nature becoming
more intimate with yourself so you can
accept yourself and now you can accept
other people you can allow you can
receive you can become more confident
within yourself
clapping yourself also we have to ask
ourselves are we open to other people in
the first place a lot of us we are
closed off because we have gotten into a
routine that other people are dangerous
we don’t trust
I am open to anyone who is about
elevation and becoming their greatest
version and because of that I have met
some of the most incredible people in
the world at the same time it’s about
depth to be open to people and to allow
people to love you you have to show
people who you really are a lot of
people say Ralph you’re really positive
and then when I talk about society being
free not everyone may resonate with that
information because it is making people
feel uncomfortable once you tap into
your authenticity it is not about just
being positive
it is about also being negative in
essence becoming balanced and people say
oh I love that video Ralph Thank You
Ralph
that was really positive Thank You Ralph
that was really positive but what
happens when they don’t say thank you
anymore what happens when you put out
something there that shakes people now
they may not say that but you have to
see that the secret is realizing that if
you just show people one side of
therefore the side of you people are
loving it’s only one side it’s not the
truth of who you are because I love to
keep it positive at the same time
I’m gonna dive deep that’s what loving
yourself hundred-percent is all about
we’re not sugarcoating anything here
baby
I say the universe works in mysterious
ways when someone pays you a compliment
a lot of people say uh no I say thank
you infinite love because the universe
works through other people to remind us
of what we have done to receive them so
I embrace it all I just open up to it
and because of that you receive
abundance we never think of giving
ourselves a big hug because the
beautiful thing about self care is that
now you see that how you treat yourself
is how other people are going to treat
you because everything is connected for
instance when you are nervous
everything around you makes you feel
like it’s an anxious atmosphere out
there why because it is coming from our
mind you see therefore the energy we
approach the world with is the same
energy we receive back I’ve seen along
my Jenny I put out a lot of uplifting
energy and I connect with a lot of
uplifting kindred spirits that way I
allow people to love me because they are
my reflections a lack of self-love is
the root of all suffering
what say it again a lack of self-love
is the root of all suffering to allow
people to love us we have to turn that
around and say what is the attitude we
have to ourselves
it’s about being mentally strong
emotionally within ourselves that’s a
secret to never give up because when
people can see you are embodying your
truth that is what draws us to people
when people are mentally strong they are
resilient they are fearless they are
brave they have courage we love them but
it’s not easy to do because we have to
become there and I always say that when
you are becoming confident within
yourself you’re going to be tried you’re
going to be tested but it’s about
trusting yourself a hundred percent all
the time and also if you are around
people
once again we may say oh they don’t love
me assumptions make bad conclusions it
is none of my business whether you love
me or not
in fact unfriend me on Facebook right
now oh why because your reflections will
always remain going through life over
they think um like this or they think
I’m like that drains your energy let
them do the thinking give that work to
them and you will start to attract your
reflections and also I have just seen
that to allow people to love you more so
it’s about not just playing it safe
moving out of your comfort zone all the
time because it all starts with this
mindset we have within our minds I can’t
do it I’m not good enough we talk to
ourselves through negation we talk to
ourselves with disrespect
therefore it’s all about changing how we
speak to ourselves what are we focusing
on and is that resistance in terms of
what we won you can’t please everyone
I’ve seen along my journey and therefore
I don’t take nothing personally because
when we want people to love us
sometimes we feel that how people treat
us says something about ourselves know
how people feel about us is a reflection
of their experience not us so we have to
keep on doing what we know we came here
to do more so we have to learn from our
mistakes if we were closed off in the
past now we have to open up more take
move forward so there you have it I say
don’t concern yourself with whether or
not people love you love yourself a
hundred percent and the right people
will find their way into your life we
are here infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy peace
again can I get a hello there how to
allow people to love you we got a
question in from the comment section
from a woman saying she doesn’t let
people love her she is closed off
blocked and she doesn’t know how to let
love find her and she wants to allow
people to love her how to receive how to
win friends and influence people I
tapped into the secret along my journey
in becoming your greatest version we
cannot control whether people love us or
not when you are trying to impress
people I’ve seen that the harder you try
the harder it is it wasn’t until I
started to let go a hundred percent that
I started to attract the right people
into my life people that I appreciated
and they appreciated me I hope so
where should we start in my toolkit I’ll
share with you was help me
it starts with changing how you see
yourself a lot of people feel they are
not worthy for anyone else’s attention
or love because they don’t feel they are
worthy of their own attention and love
how we see ourselves is everything
because the internal eyes are far more
powerful than the external ones
if we have this vision of ourselves in
our minds that we are wasting other
people’s time it is because we see that
we are a waste of time
it all starts by changing how you see
yourself that way you allow people to
love you because in essence you have to
love yourself first and I talked of
loving yourself a hundred percent
there’s a difference between self-love
and being a narcissist self-love is
where you don’t disregard other people
being a narcissist is where there is not
enough to go around you have to have the
spotlight you can’t hate yourself and
expect people to love you you can’t hate
yourself and expect you to love you
because it starts with speaking your
truth that is how loving yourself a
hundred percent starts to develop I put
myself out here I say things and it is
not my concern whether or not people
love it or hate it it is only my concern
to express myself a hundred percent and
guess what it works wonders because when
I talk about things like decalcifying
the pineal gland I talk about a lot of
different stuff different things that
some people love and some people may not
resonate but guess what now I am weeding
out people
people that are here just to appreciate
you see because if you are always just
trying to please people you will never
know who are the real ones when you
start moving into your true authenticity
now you will see who really loves you
not just the outer shell but your inner
energy your truth and it’s not about
suppressing how you feel you see because
a lot of us we are suppressing our
emotions the emotion is the energy in
motion we’re afraid to say no we’re
afraid to say yes speak whatever is on
your mind now the right people will come
into your life the people that can
assist you in becoming your greatest
version because a lot of us within
ourselves we are blocked energetically
therefore we don’t allow people to love
us also childhood trauma if we are
living in the past we have to start
moving into the now to start healing the
past because the future and the past is
all happening right now
therefore it’s about mindfulness
meditation going into nature becoming
more intimate with yourself so you can
accept yourself and now you can accept
other people you can allow you can
receive you can become more confident
within yourself
clapping yourself also we have to ask
ourselves are we open to other people in
the first place a lot of us we are
closed off because we have gotten into a
routine that other people are dangerous
we don’t trust
I am open to anyone who is about
elevation and becoming their greatest
version and because of that I have met
some of the most incredible people in
the world at the same time it’s about
depth to be open to people and to allow
people to love you you have to show
people who you really are a lot of
people say Ralph you’re really positive
and then when I talk about society being
free not everyone may resonate with that
information because it is making people
feel uncomfortable once you tap into
your authenticity it is not about just
being positive
it is about also being negative in
essence becoming balanced and people say
oh I love that video Ralph Thank You
Ralph
that was really positive Thank You Ralph
that was really positive but what
happens when they don’t say thank you
anymore what happens when you put out
something there that shakes people now
they may not say that but you have to
see that the secret is realizing that if
you just show people one side of
therefore the side of you people are
loving it’s only one side it’s not the
truth of who you are because I love to
keep it positive at the same time
I’m gonna dive deep that’s what loving
yourself hundred-percent is all about
we’re not sugarcoating anything here
baby
I say the universe works in mysterious
ways when someone pays you a compliment
a lot of people say uh no I say thank
you infinite love because the universe
works through other people to remind us
of what we have done to receive them so
I embrace it all I just open up to it
and because of that you receive
abundance we never think of giving
ourselves a big hug because the
beautiful thing about self care is that
now you see that how you treat yourself
is how other people are going to treat
you because everything is connected for
instance when you are nervous
everything around you makes you feel
like it’s an anxious atmosphere out
there why because it is coming from our
mind you see therefore the energy we
approach the world with is the same
energy we receive back I’ve seen along
my Jenny I put out a lot of uplifting
energy and I connect with a lot of
uplifting kindred spirits that way I
allow people to love me because they are
my reflections a lack of self-love is
the root of all suffering
what say it again a lack of self-love
is the root of all suffering to allow
people to love us we have to turn that
around and say what is the attitude we
have to ourselves
it’s about being mentally strong
emotionally within ourselves that’s a
secret to never give up because when
people can see you are embodying your
truth that is what draws us to people
when people are mentally strong they are
resilient they are fearless they are
brave they have courage we love them but
it’s not easy to do because we have to
become there and I always say that when
you are becoming confident within
yourself you’re going to be tried you’re
going to be tested but it’s about
trusting yourself a hundred percent all
the time and also if you are around
people
once again we may say oh they don’t love
me assumptions make bad conclusions it
is none of my business whether you love
me or not
in fact unfriend me on Facebook right
now oh why because your reflections will
always remain going through life over
they think um like this or they think
I’m like that drains your energy let
them do the thinking give that work to
them and you will start to attract your
reflections and also I have just seen
that to allow people to love you more so
it’s about not just playing it safe
moving out of your comfort zone all the
time because it all starts with this
mindset we have within our minds I can’t
do it I’m not good enough we talk to
ourselves through negation we talk to
ourselves with disrespect
therefore it’s all about changing how we
speak to ourselves what are we focusing
on and is that resistance in terms of
what we won you can’t please everyone
I’ve seen along my journey and therefore
I don’t take nothing personally because
when we want people to love us
sometimes we feel that how people treat
us says something about ourselves know
how people feel about us is a reflection
of their experience not us so we have to
keep on doing what we know we came here
to do more so we have to learn from our
mistakes if we were closed off in the
past now we have to open up more take
move forward so there you have it I say
don’t concern yourself with whether or
not people love you love yourself a
hundred percent and the right people
will find their way into your life we
are here infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy peace
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