peace infinite waters diving deep once
again we’re out here in nature is
beautiful with a beautiful shark
glimmering as always this is sexology
water fire hot cold yin-yang ok ah 3d
relationships a thing or becoming a
thing of the past
that is the question many people around
the world have so many issues with
relationships many 3d relationships are
about possession are about ownership and
as I see it in the age of reconnection
the new paradigm is all about where
people realize you can’t force love love
energy permeates everything in existence
it’s not solely between two people once
people realize this they get a broader
concept of love and it does not become I
own you you are mine what do you think
about it well I think we see a lot of
relationships trends that are a
manifestation of that belief system
where that mindset that once I enter
into a relationship I’m solely plugged
into that person we are both just
plugged into one another and we are
sharing energy and yes and you see that
a lot in relationships and that’s why I
also went coming out of relationship you
know oftentimes we feel like there’s
this part of us that is that is still
with that person and you feel like you
want to cut these chords you want to
disconnect you want to reclaim all your
parts all your hearts back and you feel
like there’s this part of you that’s
dying so definitely you see that in
relationships romantic or otherwise um
the biggest thing I’ve seen is that the
new way is all about seeing that we
exist within each other in essence
gender is the illusion the masculine and
feminine
exist within all
of us and the 3d the old paradigm was
all about okay you are a woman so all
women are like this or you are a man and
all men are like this and it’s also
about being not feeling plugged into a
higher and a greater source not feeling
plugged into the universal love so two
people basically meet one another
there’s that initial attraction and they
go on a draining one another at at some
point both wells are gonna run dry so
what do they do people start to feel
stagnant they start to feel like what is
that feeling I initially felt I feel
like my partner is also moving away
drifting away feeling different and this
is because I feel like it’s because a
lot of people have plugged in to have
not plugged into a higher source they’re
cut they’re very fixated on this other
person being the supplier the source of
all energy and we just in that kind of
scenario we go on stealing from one
another we go on breaking energy like I
always say whenever you allow someone
else to give you value you lose
confidence many of us in relationships
we are depending on someone so much to
the extent it’s not fair and once you
realize that the greatest relationship
is with yourself you begin to love
yourself 100% you begin to express
yourself 100% and when you are having
this union with another person both of
you a hole to begin with and many of us
in the three be the old way we are
coming to other people needy we are
saying if only I have this man in my
life I will feel better if only I have
this attractive woman I will feel better
she will make me feel better he will
make me feel better your happiness
depends on you and you alone and
oftentimes also when we see something
that we identify as a flaw or a
shortcoming in the other person we also
become fixated on that and we think that
if we could only fix that then
everything will just right no right you
see that a lot in
situations where it’s an abusive
relationship relationship where there’s
domestic violence or just abuse can take
place on so many levels mental emotional
physical spiritual and you see the
person you know first and often feeling
like if I can just fix that part of him
or her then everything will work out we
sometimes lose out on this opportunity
of reflection and seeing why did I
attract this person in the first place
you know there is a reason I had to look
back and evaluate and reflect on my own
experiences and think why have I been in
situations where I was willing willingly
putting up with abusive patterns you
know this is this is very important
because people are coming into our lives
to mirror something to us to teach us to
let us know something about our own
boundaries what are we willing to I
always say the people in relationships
they act as mirrors they can show us our
brightest light or our darkest shadows
in essence we attract what we are we
have to remember this so what do you
think of friends with benefits well I
know a lot of people enter into that
kind of arrangement and I think there is
this part of us that thinks that with
with the physical or sexual interaction
with that initial attraction that we’re
going to somehow mold and transform and
change that relationship into something
else and this is where a lot of people
may run into disappointments this is
also I feel like that kind of
relationship sometimes does not allow us
to express our full range the full
spectrum of emotions feelings and
thoughts because we think that we are
entering this relationship and the sole
purpose is to satisfy one aspect of
of ourselves you know maybe our lower
cells maybe our higher selves right but
that’s what I see I see the new way
friends with benefits it’s more of a
Western idea and you see in the media
but on a deeper level I do feel that
with friends with benefits it can be
seen as sharing love energy with
everyone you come into contact with on a
higher level
because love is the exchange and there’s
nothing wrong with this beautiful
embrace it because the moment that you
limit your love the moment it stagnates
love is like a river it has to be
flowing but at the same time we have to
see are we using and focusing on our
lower energy or a higher energy and both
are needed the lower that instinct the
basic instinct is also necessary how do
you think you got into this world and
there’s nothing wrong with it it’s
beautiful but at the same time we have
to embrace both energies yes and I think
whenever we enter into a relationship
with this idea that okay this
relationship is going to supply me or
address this part of me you know my my
sexual desires are going to be fulfilled
in this relationship there are these
parts of us the the mental emotional
spiritual because the we’re all moving
is one unit everything is connected and
those part of parts of us are gonna feel
unfulfilled and they’re gonna cry for
attention and message when we run into
feelings of sadness or emptiness or
stagnation or we feel like the other
person is not doing enough or we’re not
doing enough or there’s a lack of
self-love or respect it’s because there
are we cannot feed one part and then
think that everything else will just
it’s we have to look at relationships in
a holistic in a in a balanced balanced
way it’s all about balance our 3d
relationships a thing of the past that’s
for you to decide but the relationship
we have is with everything around us we
have to open our heart space we have to
get back to nature we have to spread the
love we’re in nature it’s beautiful
that’s it the sun is shining infinite
water
diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
again we’re out here in nature is
beautiful with a beautiful shark
glimmering as always this is sexology
water fire hot cold yin-yang ok ah 3d
relationships a thing or becoming a
thing of the past
that is the question many people around
the world have so many issues with
relationships many 3d relationships are
about possession are about ownership and
as I see it in the age of reconnection
the new paradigm is all about where
people realize you can’t force love love
energy permeates everything in existence
it’s not solely between two people once
people realize this they get a broader
concept of love and it does not become I
own you you are mine what do you think
about it well I think we see a lot of
relationships trends that are a
manifestation of that belief system
where that mindset that once I enter
into a relationship I’m solely plugged
into that person we are both just
plugged into one another and we are
sharing energy and yes and you see that
a lot in relationships and that’s why I
also went coming out of relationship you
know oftentimes we feel like there’s
this part of us that is that is still
with that person and you feel like you
want to cut these chords you want to
disconnect you want to reclaim all your
parts all your hearts back and you feel
like there’s this part of you that’s
dying so definitely you see that in
relationships romantic or otherwise um
the biggest thing I’ve seen is that the
new way is all about seeing that we
exist within each other in essence
gender is the illusion the masculine and
feminine
exist within all
of us and the 3d the old paradigm was
all about okay you are a woman so all
women are like this or you are a man and
all men are like this and it’s also
about being not feeling plugged into a
higher and a greater source not feeling
plugged into the universal love so two
people basically meet one another
there’s that initial attraction and they
go on a draining one another at at some
point both wells are gonna run dry so
what do they do people start to feel
stagnant they start to feel like what is
that feeling I initially felt I feel
like my partner is also moving away
drifting away feeling different and this
is because I feel like it’s because a
lot of people have plugged in to have
not plugged into a higher source they’re
cut they’re very fixated on this other
person being the supplier the source of
all energy and we just in that kind of
scenario we go on stealing from one
another we go on breaking energy like I
always say whenever you allow someone
else to give you value you lose
confidence many of us in relationships
we are depending on someone so much to
the extent it’s not fair and once you
realize that the greatest relationship
is with yourself you begin to love
yourself 100% you begin to express
yourself 100% and when you are having
this union with another person both of
you a hole to begin with and many of us
in the three be the old way we are
coming to other people needy we are
saying if only I have this man in my
life I will feel better if only I have
this attractive woman I will feel better
she will make me feel better he will
make me feel better your happiness
depends on you and you alone and
oftentimes also when we see something
that we identify as a flaw or a
shortcoming in the other person we also
become fixated on that and we think that
if we could only fix that then
everything will just right no right you
see that a lot in
situations where it’s an abusive
relationship relationship where there’s
domestic violence or just abuse can take
place on so many levels mental emotional
physical spiritual and you see the
person you know first and often feeling
like if I can just fix that part of him
or her then everything will work out we
sometimes lose out on this opportunity
of reflection and seeing why did I
attract this person in the first place
you know there is a reason I had to look
back and evaluate and reflect on my own
experiences and think why have I been in
situations where I was willing willingly
putting up with abusive patterns you
know this is this is very important
because people are coming into our lives
to mirror something to us to teach us to
let us know something about our own
boundaries what are we willing to I
always say the people in relationships
they act as mirrors they can show us our
brightest light or our darkest shadows
in essence we attract what we are we
have to remember this so what do you
think of friends with benefits well I
know a lot of people enter into that
kind of arrangement and I think there is
this part of us that thinks that with
with the physical or sexual interaction
with that initial attraction that we’re
going to somehow mold and transform and
change that relationship into something
else and this is where a lot of people
may run into disappointments this is
also I feel like that kind of
relationship sometimes does not allow us
to express our full range the full
spectrum of emotions feelings and
thoughts because we think that we are
entering this relationship and the sole
purpose is to satisfy one aspect of
of ourselves you know maybe our lower
cells maybe our higher selves right but
that’s what I see I see the new way
friends with benefits it’s more of a
Western idea and you see in the media
but on a deeper level I do feel that
with friends with benefits it can be
seen as sharing love energy with
everyone you come into contact with on a
higher level
because love is the exchange and there’s
nothing wrong with this beautiful
embrace it because the moment that you
limit your love the moment it stagnates
love is like a river it has to be
flowing but at the same time we have to
see are we using and focusing on our
lower energy or a higher energy and both
are needed the lower that instinct the
basic instinct is also necessary how do
you think you got into this world and
there’s nothing wrong with it it’s
beautiful but at the same time we have
to embrace both energies yes and I think
whenever we enter into a relationship
with this idea that okay this
relationship is going to supply me or
address this part of me you know my my
sexual desires are going to be fulfilled
in this relationship there are these
parts of us the the mental emotional
spiritual because the we’re all moving
is one unit everything is connected and
those part of parts of us are gonna feel
unfulfilled and they’re gonna cry for
attention and message when we run into
feelings of sadness or emptiness or
stagnation or we feel like the other
person is not doing enough or we’re not
doing enough or there’s a lack of
self-love or respect it’s because there
are we cannot feed one part and then
think that everything else will just
it’s we have to look at relationships in
a holistic in a in a balanced balanced
way it’s all about balance our 3d
relationships a thing of the past that’s
for you to decide but the relationship
we have is with everything around us we
have to open our heart space we have to
get back to nature we have to spread the
love we’re in nature it’s beautiful
that’s it the sun is shining infinite
water
diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
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