5 ‘UNBELIEVABLE’ Ways to Deal with Negative People Politely

he’s infinite waters diving deep once
again when you first stop
nobody kiss when they see you growing
they’re like can we hang out can I get a
Hello unbelievable ways to deal with
negative people politely I received a
question from a woman who asked how do
we deal with people who hurt us
intentionally or unintentionally
fantastic question if you’ve got one
instagram at infinite waters let me
share with you what’s helped with me
along my journey because when i first
started doing this nobody cared some
people said it was silly so it was
hurtful when i didn’t have the tools but
now they’re like can we hang out funny
how things change the first tool is this
whole concept i created called empty
plates life always gives us difficult
challenges sometimes in the forms of
situations sometimes in the forms of
people oh yeah let’s have some fun so
what happens when someone we think is
acting negatively towards us they are
holding this massive plate of food hey
hey here you go I will I I don’t want it
but they’re holding it out all kinds of
stuff a packed on it we don’t even want
to touch it but they’ve handed to us
this plate of food what are we gonna do
are we gonna return it
to them by going back and forth we call
this arguing are we gonna just accept
the food or are we gonna empty the plate
emptying the plate is powerful why
because it’s like diffusing a bomb
many people are hurtful towards us
because they are lacking something
within themselves what helped me along
my journey was realizing that you don’t
want to feed into people’s negativity oh
you don’t want to feed into it because
if you do you’ve fallen into the booby
trap
and the traps are everywhere especially
when you’re becoming your greatest
version people are gonna test you but
they’re needed to show you who you
really are
what I found fascinating along my
journey is that I connect with amazing
people because I put out that kind of
energy so ask yourself what kind of
energy are you putting out there many
times we say own your emotions okay but
what happens when someone is even
physical towards us well I’m never one
to suggest just turning the other cheek
you have to stand up for your rights you
have to set up energetic boundaries but
moreso always act out of a place of
integrity because many times we think
people are negative but are they there
are no good or bad people only resonance
so go where the resonance is the highest
because that will help you become your
greatest version many times we focus of
people put our focus on people who don’t
really care about us so who are these
people
first place where were they when you
first started out now on for sudden
you’re growing they’re coming out of the
woodwork but ask yourself are they
deconstructing you or constructing you
are they giving you constructive
feedback or are they trying to tear you
apart and hurt you because you can
always tell a real friend when their
advice is coming from a compassionate
place so what helped me was to act with
compassion put yourself in their shoes
maybe they had a hard childhood it
doesn’t give them an excuse but when you
rise higher because negativity can only
affect you when you’re vibrating at the
same frequency so vibrate higher move
more into your higher nature and they
can’t even touch you many times
so-called difficult people negative
people come into our lives because they
are really yearning for something they
want to hug but you see you can’t talk
to people if you’re gonna hurt them
that’s what they forget the biggest
thing to remind yourself is that it is a
reflection of what they’re going through
their experiences and it has nothing to
do with you focus on the people that
love and support you you spend a whole
hour worrying about this difficult
person when there are tons of people who
love you right at your beck and call but
most of all realize that choo-choo
that’s the sound of the train are you
gonna let this person stop you in your
tracks or are you gonna continue moving
that’s what I do I’m a train I just chew
chew I’m moving why because I’ve got
things to do I don’t have time to worry
about who’s
trying to pull me down why because I’m
too fast I’m dancing around I’m moving
around it feels groovy baby but a lot of
fuss we can be slow down when we feel
someone is trying to hurt us use that as
fuel to get to where you need to go that
is the greatest secret of how to deal
with difficult people then you will see
they are no longer difficult choo choo
keep it moving love yourself and realize
where your power lies I say stay at home
when someone irritates us it’s a good
thing because they’re showing us more
about our shadow side what is inside you
now many times we lash out at that
person but it doesn’t solve anything so
we have to see our own unresolved issues
maybe they’re highlighting something
within us that needs to be dealt with
also laugh about it have fun about it
thank goodness I’ve got a sense of humor
I’m grateful for that stay home is where
you remain in your throat when someone
makes you stumble a little bit makes you
nervous it’s enough we want to go away
from ourselves the secret is to stay
within yourself because now you are
sitting on the throne of your infinite
power
that’s the secret right there let nobody
take away your smile love yourself 100%
but most of all have a wonderful day
we are here in finning waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy