12 Unwritten Social Rules You Don’t Need To Follow

he’s infinite waters diving deep once
again we’re here in one of my favorite
places the Venice canals I always wanted
to buy a house here I guess that’s
another thing to put on the bucket list
can I get a hello
they’re 12 unwritten social rules you
don’t need to follow this is what’s
helped me along my journey because these
unwritten rules we just assume we have
to accept them so it starts with number
one I realized I didn’t have to follow
the conveyor belt lifestyle so much of
our life has already been planned for us
and we don’t even know it so you wake up
your breakfast you go to work or you
study you come home and the same cycle
starts all over again
and that is why so many of us are worn
out I’ve seen that we are living in a
world of infinite possibilities so don’t
tell me there’s only one way I am living
proof that you can live the life you
want and you can live any lifestyle you
put in the work for because it starts
with radical action number two you don’t
have to eat what everybody else is
eating on the table what happens when we
have that peer pressure everyone is
eating fish so you think oh I have to
eat fish but you may want to eat
vegetables or fruits and it’s happened
to me along my journey you have to take
a hundred percent pride in what you eat
who cares what they think
number three you don’t have to have the
perfect body no no you just have to have
the body you appreciate that is the
biggest secret I’ve learned because a
lot of us you want to look like that
model you want the six-pack or you want
the butt but you have to honor yourself
for what you were given
from the universe that is your greatest
gift and the more you pay homage to it
you see the secret that it starts with
inner beauty and then you get the outer
radiance number four you don’t have to
look up to people who have status you
might see someone with a PhD a masters a
degree and now you don’t feel like you
are worthy a lot of us in society we are
told that we have to praise these kinds
of people but I’ve seen that you have to
see everybody as equal that is the
biggest secret I’ve discovered and it
does wonders
number five is you don’t have to be
someone you’re not to make other people
feel comfortable what happens when you
go to these social gatherings you’re
nervous you’re there in the corner
biting away because you don’t want other
people to feel uncomfortable so you are
not comfortable yourself but I’ve seen
that you have to relax if people love
you that is wonderful if they hate you
too bad but guess what we have no
control over them let’s go to number six
don’t be afraid to love someone because
you have been hurt in a previous
relationship in our society we tell
ourselves that love is dangerous but how
can that be what happens when we are
afraid of love but we celebrate war we
celebrate murder love is the most
beautiful thing in the world and to this
I pay homage by keeping my heart open
every single day
number seven is that I’ve seen you don’t
have to compete a lot of us we’re told
if you want a house like this
move around whoo that’s good oh yeah oh
yeah you want a house like this you have
to compete you have to fight for your
slice of cake in society so a lot of us
we have this survival program going on
in our minds I’ve seen that we have more
than enough to go around on the planet
we just have to share with each other
that’s the biggest secret I’ve realized
number eight is that I’ve seen you don’t
have to make everything perfect your bed
in the morning sometimes I just like to
be organic and things that are organic
are curvy it reminds me that we don’t
live in a perfect world we live in a
perfect earth I am not perfect therefore
I don’t expect anybody to be perfect at
the same time every day I’m working on
myself to become my greatest version
through that you develop so much
self-acceptance number nine is that
these days I’m not pretending that
everything is fine I’m fine fearful
insecure neurotic and emotional the
greatest power I’ve seen along my
journey is to open up to how you truly
feel when you stop judging how you feel
you develop a greater authenticity
within yourself know the world the state
of the planet is not fine we all have so
much healing that has to begin but in
acknowledging this now we can all step
into the radical action number ten for
me I’ve seen that you don’t have to wait
oh no you don’t have to wait until
you’re ready in our society we prepare
for our own retirement when you are
retired now you can go and travel the
world but now you have the energy so I
say do it when you have the energy don’t
wait for the perfect
make the perfect moment number eleven is
you don’t have to be serious all the
time to show that you are working hard
I’m so serious I am mister serious I am
missus serious take me seriously because
look at children the reason why they are
so powerful is because they are opening
their heart space and this is what keeps
us organic this is what makes us so
powerful and I’ve seen it does wonders
to always remind yourself to smile every
day I’m making sure I at least laugh at
least once or twice it has to be that’s
the standard right and if we go on to
the last one number twelve for me is to
realize that we are not controlled by
our pasts we are not victims we can
really make this present moment anything
we want because a lot of us in society
we are told that we have to carry around
a chip on our shoulder but I’ve seen
every day is a new start we are here
having a great time live life to the
full infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy