he synthetic waters diving deep once
again we are here much love you
beautiful deep divers have you just
entered a new relationship and you’re
still not sure ten things that will
happen when you meet someone great after
a toxic relationship let’s just well
breathing in that good art Prada baby
this is sexology water fire hot cold
yin-yang we’re back daddy’s home
oh yes now I get a lot of people writing
in to me saying Ralph I’ve just entered
a new relationship and I’m scared
because the last one was terrible I mean
don’t worry about it we have a lot to
talk about so let me share with you what
helped me along my journey now the first
thing that will happen when you make
someone great after you’ve just come out
of a toxic relationship what I call the
coca-cola relationship is that you don’t
try that’s right you don’t try hardly
any effort because so many of us we your
first relationship check this out how
excited with you
you’re even blushing right you are like
oh my gosh I’m in my first relationship
right now you were trying so hard
always ironing now you don’t even iron
anymore right because
got a relationship because that
relationship didn’t work out you’re like
well I’m not going to iron again I’m not
going to cook all of that acid in again
I’m not going to invest all my heart in
one person again so sometimes we don’t
try when we meet someone great even if
they’re great because in our minds in
our mind sometimes we’re expecting the
worst
we’re like it probably won’t last three
months or even three hours okay so that
is natural here to tell you that’s okay
because a lot of us we have gone through
many experiences from previous
relationships which now shape the way we
see new relationships but I’m also here
to tell you everyone is so different and
love is the only truth there is what the
second thing that will happen when you
make someone great after you just come
out of a toxic relationship you got a
lot of racing thoughts so far now you’re
like ruminating you’re overthinking
because you’re kind of thing huh how did
I get here who are you what are those
and what are those a lot of going
through your mind because let’s face it
maybe your heart is still somewhere else
sometimes even along my journey my heart
sometimes moves into the past and I
reminisce on times where I was just
sitting on the beach with someone and
then oh my gosh that person isn’t there
anymore right happened when I was a
teenager one time yes it was kind of
interesting now you have a lot of
thoughts going through your mind when I
met someone amazing I’m like still
thinking of another person and this is
very natural as well because I always
tell people if you have just come out of
a relationship take time for yourself
just to see okay what do I want what
kind of person do I want to attract
sometimes if we just dive straight into
a new one a lot of people have a lot of
racing thoughts and what helped me was
to realize this that you got to see new
relationships with new eyes slow motion
this side what is the third thing that
will happen when you make someone great
they even massaging your toes at night
but really they’re really great for you
after you’ve just come out after you’ve
just come out of a toxic relationship
what oh my gosh I can’t believe it oh my
days like how did I get so lucky
are you real I can’t believe my luck did
I just win the lottery like sometimes
because you may have had previous
experiences where the relationship
didn’t go the way you want now someone
is so amazing right in front of you but
you still alike I can’t believe my eyes
like you’re rubbing your eyes to say no
this is not happening this doesn’t
happen it only happens in fairy tales I
need to tell you that sometimes your
life can be too good to be true
I’ll take it okay take it stop rubbing
your eyes that’s a gift for you because
you’ve been through a lot haven’t you
yes what is the full thing that will
happen when you meet someone great after
a toxic relationship
so the toxic relationship is the Coca
Cola relationship the harmonious
relationship is what I hold the water
relationship now even though they are
great you seven day vegan challenge
alert sometimes you do this right you
arrive late sometimes you’re going for a
meal there’s beautiful brown rice
avocados papaya green juice on the side
of the maca powder going but you still
arrive late because you’re like once
again you don’t really want to invest
all your heart in it
you don’t want to show them that you’re
too desperate that’s what happens a lot
of the times like even though they are
great you know but you’re kind of like
testing them so sometimes you arrive
like five minutes late or even 15
minutes late you’re like oh so sorry I
got lost on the freeway whoa no you
didn’t you’re like why should I arrive
early like I was arriving early my last
relationship and that relationship
sucked so I’m going to be a bit
different right now and I’m going to
arrive five minutes late because I’m
like that right so just remember
remember that your food is going to get
cold don’t want that beautiful food to
get cold right so I’ve realized this
that what helped me along my journey was
to realize that when you have someone
great in front of you a great being you
don’t want to take that person for
granted because don’t think you can keep
on arriving late and they’re still going
to be there all your food for that
matter is still going to be there they
might just finish the whole thing
because a man had breakfast yet what is
the fifth thing that will happen when
you meet someone great after a shabby
relationship now this is always what
happens for a lot of people you become
very defensive does that ever happen to
you you just come out of a relationship
you meet a fabulous person but you’re
still a bit closed off from them you’re
ready to rhumble your way sometimes
ready to fight like they say something
and you’re very you’re very quick to
react because you’re like hey hey back
up now back up now okay because
sometimes after a relationship that
didn’t go so good the way you expected
your kindness
you’re not as open as you used to be so
because of that sometimes you are ready
for war and I’m here to tell you I
actually helped me along my journey was
to realize that love can only happen in
the heart space it can’t happen in the
ego and we often find when we are
becoming very defensive it is because we
are in the ego mindset so just got to
move into your heart and just whoa
breathing in that good-ass prana baby
that will do it plus the sick thing that
will happen when you meet someone great
after a bad relationship now okay you
get into your feelings a bit you start
apologizing because why do people do
this this is so common you apologize
because now you’re like all my days I’ve
treated this new beautiful person so
badly they’re actually a pretty decent
person even the cat down the road agrees
so you start saying sorry a bit more
and then another sorry and then another
story you’re apologizing a lot because
once again you’re now starting to
realize actually they are an entirely
different person and this is an entirely
different situation with infinite
possibilities love can blossom and bloom
from this what’s stopping it
what is the seventh thing that will
happen when you need someone great after
a toxic relationship you say to yourself
what are they doing with me like why me
don’t they know my history my baggage
what I come with don’t they know how
loud and sometimes obnoxious obnoxious I
can get crazy I can get don’t they know
that like well don’t they know that so
sometimes you actually think you’re
better off without them no no no you
actually think they’re better off
without you because you’re in your mind
your mind you’re like they don’t want me
and then you actually convince yourself
that you don’t want them so we go
through convincing each other that we’re
a bad match right you go through that in
your mind saying we’re a bad match they
are better off without me they deserve
someone far better than me my track
record of relationships is terrible like
I’ve never maintained a relationship
that’s lasted even a year right I’m here
to tell you what actually freed me along
my Jen was to realize this that you are
worthy to be loved you are worthy of
someone else’s attention and some people
someone is ready to give that to you
just got to be open to receive and take
all of that loving baby and you’ll be
just fine
what’s the eighth thing that will happen
when you meet someone great after a
toxic relationship you start
overcompensating because now you’re like
oh my gosh I actually know they’re a
beautiful person inside so I’ve got to
start making that for all the times
where I was kind of abandoning them and
arriving late for the beautiful kale and
ginger shots and all of that beautiful
food now I better arrive on time ladies
you’re like gosh I’ve got to put on more
makeup fellas you’re like gosh I’ve got
to go to the gym those are such
stereotypes right you’re like I got a
little compensate like I gotta like
start doing more than I initially did
I’m here to tell you you don’t even have
to do that
all you got to do is just be yourself
because that is what drew them to you in
the first place sometimes to really know
if someone loves you in a relationship
you just got to be yourself you don’t
want to put on an act you don’t want to
try too hard you don’t want to try too
little you just want to be authentic and
that’s really what creates the better
water relationship and what is the night
thing
baby baby that will happen when you meet
someone great fabulous after a toxic
relationship you start slowly slowly
slowly slowly trusting them oh my gosh
who would have thought that would have
ever happened but it is because you’re
starting to realize like trust and love
go together if you don’t trust someone
it’s going to be very hard to love that
person so you slowly begin laying down
your guard and because you’re starting
to trust them for the first time a
little bit not all the way right it kind
of feels a bit better right
so it feels better than it felt before
and that’s really the secret I always
tell people that you got to give people
especially someone new in a relationship
give them a chance to prove themselves
if you don’t like them then just chuck
them out the window no don’t do that
so you’re starting to trust them a bit
more only because you’re starting to
trust yourself a bit more you’re
realizing that okay I get it I’m very
insecure I project that onto my partner
now Trust is the foundation of the water
relationship remember that and what is
the ten thing that will happen when you
meet someone great after coming out of a
toxic relationship you finally are on
the love frequency with them right
because you’re like okay I’ve been
through all of that arriving late ready
to rumble I’ve been a bit weird recently
I need to tell you as well that’s okay
because you’ve just come out of a
relationship which really affected you
emotionally but now you are ready to
give love you are ready to receive love
you are ready to have a fairytale
wedding it’s never like the fairy tales
okay people get married these days
anyway look so you are so ready for love
you’re ready to be swept off your feet
and because of that you get goose bumps
my gosh goose bumps all over you and
you’re actually for the first time again
believing in love once more and you have
this beautiful euphoric feeling and now
you’re like love is all you need and
then both if you stay together feels so
good to be a live baby can I get a hell
Oh a beautiful day deep divers you also
love you also appreciated your so
appreciated we’re just getting high on
the good ass prana love is all you need
love is all you need love is all you
need
infinite waters diving witness but
emotional right now
infinite waters diving deep once again
you [Music]
again we are here much love you
beautiful deep divers have you just
entered a new relationship and you’re
still not sure ten things that will
happen when you meet someone great after
a toxic relationship let’s just well
breathing in that good art Prada baby
this is sexology water fire hot cold
yin-yang we’re back daddy’s home
oh yes now I get a lot of people writing
in to me saying Ralph I’ve just entered
a new relationship and I’m scared
because the last one was terrible I mean
don’t worry about it we have a lot to
talk about so let me share with you what
helped me along my journey now the first
thing that will happen when you make
someone great after you’ve just come out
of a toxic relationship what I call the
coca-cola relationship is that you don’t
try that’s right you don’t try hardly
any effort because so many of us we your
first relationship check this out how
excited with you
you’re even blushing right you are like
oh my gosh I’m in my first relationship
right now you were trying so hard
always ironing now you don’t even iron
anymore right because
got a relationship because that
relationship didn’t work out you’re like
well I’m not going to iron again I’m not
going to cook all of that acid in again
I’m not going to invest all my heart in
one person again so sometimes we don’t
try when we meet someone great even if
they’re great because in our minds in
our mind sometimes we’re expecting the
worst
we’re like it probably won’t last three
months or even three hours okay so that
is natural here to tell you that’s okay
because a lot of us we have gone through
many experiences from previous
relationships which now shape the way we
see new relationships but I’m also here
to tell you everyone is so different and
love is the only truth there is what the
second thing that will happen when you
make someone great after you just come
out of a toxic relationship you got a
lot of racing thoughts so far now you’re
like ruminating you’re overthinking
because you’re kind of thing huh how did
I get here who are you what are those
and what are those a lot of going
through your mind because let’s face it
maybe your heart is still somewhere else
sometimes even along my journey my heart
sometimes moves into the past and I
reminisce on times where I was just
sitting on the beach with someone and
then oh my gosh that person isn’t there
anymore right happened when I was a
teenager one time yes it was kind of
interesting now you have a lot of
thoughts going through your mind when I
met someone amazing I’m like still
thinking of another person and this is
very natural as well because I always
tell people if you have just come out of
a relationship take time for yourself
just to see okay what do I want what
kind of person do I want to attract
sometimes if we just dive straight into
a new one a lot of people have a lot of
racing thoughts and what helped me was
to realize this that you got to see new
relationships with new eyes slow motion
this side what is the third thing that
will happen when you make someone great
they even massaging your toes at night
but really they’re really great for you
after you’ve just come out after you’ve
just come out of a toxic relationship
what oh my gosh I can’t believe it oh my
days like how did I get so lucky
are you real I can’t believe my luck did
I just win the lottery like sometimes
because you may have had previous
experiences where the relationship
didn’t go the way you want now someone
is so amazing right in front of you but
you still alike I can’t believe my eyes
like you’re rubbing your eyes to say no
this is not happening this doesn’t
happen it only happens in fairy tales I
need to tell you that sometimes your
life can be too good to be true
I’ll take it okay take it stop rubbing
your eyes that’s a gift for you because
you’ve been through a lot haven’t you
yes what is the full thing that will
happen when you meet someone great after
a toxic relationship
so the toxic relationship is the Coca
Cola relationship the harmonious
relationship is what I hold the water
relationship now even though they are
great you seven day vegan challenge
alert sometimes you do this right you
arrive late sometimes you’re going for a
meal there’s beautiful brown rice
avocados papaya green juice on the side
of the maca powder going but you still
arrive late because you’re like once
again you don’t really want to invest
all your heart in it
you don’t want to show them that you’re
too desperate that’s what happens a lot
of the times like even though they are
great you know but you’re kind of like
testing them so sometimes you arrive
like five minutes late or even 15
minutes late you’re like oh so sorry I
got lost on the freeway whoa no you
didn’t you’re like why should I arrive
early like I was arriving early my last
relationship and that relationship
sucked so I’m going to be a bit
different right now and I’m going to
arrive five minutes late because I’m
like that right so just remember
remember that your food is going to get
cold don’t want that beautiful food to
get cold right so I’ve realized this
that what helped me along my journey was
to realize that when you have someone
great in front of you a great being you
don’t want to take that person for
granted because don’t think you can keep
on arriving late and they’re still going
to be there all your food for that
matter is still going to be there they
might just finish the whole thing
because a man had breakfast yet what is
the fifth thing that will happen when
you meet someone great after a shabby
relationship now this is always what
happens for a lot of people you become
very defensive does that ever happen to
you you just come out of a relationship
you meet a fabulous person but you’re
still a bit closed off from them you’re
ready to rhumble your way sometimes
ready to fight like they say something
and you’re very you’re very quick to
react because you’re like hey hey back
up now back up now okay because
sometimes after a relationship that
didn’t go so good the way you expected
your kindness
you’re not as open as you used to be so
because of that sometimes you are ready
for war and I’m here to tell you I
actually helped me along my journey was
to realize that love can only happen in
the heart space it can’t happen in the
ego and we often find when we are
becoming very defensive it is because we
are in the ego mindset so just got to
move into your heart and just whoa
breathing in that good-ass prana baby
that will do it plus the sick thing that
will happen when you meet someone great
after a bad relationship now okay you
get into your feelings a bit you start
apologizing because why do people do
this this is so common you apologize
because now you’re like all my days I’ve
treated this new beautiful person so
badly they’re actually a pretty decent
person even the cat down the road agrees
so you start saying sorry a bit more
and then another sorry and then another
story you’re apologizing a lot because
once again you’re now starting to
realize actually they are an entirely
different person and this is an entirely
different situation with infinite
possibilities love can blossom and bloom
from this what’s stopping it
what is the seventh thing that will
happen when you need someone great after
a toxic relationship you say to yourself
what are they doing with me like why me
don’t they know my history my baggage
what I come with don’t they know how
loud and sometimes obnoxious obnoxious I
can get crazy I can get don’t they know
that like well don’t they know that so
sometimes you actually think you’re
better off without them no no no you
actually think they’re better off
without you because you’re in your mind
your mind you’re like they don’t want me
and then you actually convince yourself
that you don’t want them so we go
through convincing each other that we’re
a bad match right you go through that in
your mind saying we’re a bad match they
are better off without me they deserve
someone far better than me my track
record of relationships is terrible like
I’ve never maintained a relationship
that’s lasted even a year right I’m here
to tell you what actually freed me along
my Jen was to realize this that you are
worthy to be loved you are worthy of
someone else’s attention and some people
someone is ready to give that to you
just got to be open to receive and take
all of that loving baby and you’ll be
just fine
what’s the eighth thing that will happen
when you meet someone great after a
toxic relationship you start
overcompensating because now you’re like
oh my gosh I actually know they’re a
beautiful person inside so I’ve got to
start making that for all the times
where I was kind of abandoning them and
arriving late for the beautiful kale and
ginger shots and all of that beautiful
food now I better arrive on time ladies
you’re like gosh I’ve got to put on more
makeup fellas you’re like gosh I’ve got
to go to the gym those are such
stereotypes right you’re like I got a
little compensate like I gotta like
start doing more than I initially did
I’m here to tell you you don’t even have
to do that
all you got to do is just be yourself
because that is what drew them to you in
the first place sometimes to really know
if someone loves you in a relationship
you just got to be yourself you don’t
want to put on an act you don’t want to
try too hard you don’t want to try too
little you just want to be authentic and
that’s really what creates the better
water relationship and what is the night
thing
baby baby that will happen when you meet
someone great fabulous after a toxic
relationship you start slowly slowly
slowly slowly trusting them oh my gosh
who would have thought that would have
ever happened but it is because you’re
starting to realize like trust and love
go together if you don’t trust someone
it’s going to be very hard to love that
person so you slowly begin laying down
your guard and because you’re starting
to trust them for the first time a
little bit not all the way right it kind
of feels a bit better right
so it feels better than it felt before
and that’s really the secret I always
tell people that you got to give people
especially someone new in a relationship
give them a chance to prove themselves
if you don’t like them then just chuck
them out the window no don’t do that
so you’re starting to trust them a bit
more only because you’re starting to
trust yourself a bit more you’re
realizing that okay I get it I’m very
insecure I project that onto my partner
now Trust is the foundation of the water
relationship remember that and what is
the ten thing that will happen when you
meet someone great after coming out of a
toxic relationship you finally are on
the love frequency with them right
because you’re like okay I’ve been
through all of that arriving late ready
to rumble I’ve been a bit weird recently
I need to tell you as well that’s okay
because you’ve just come out of a
relationship which really affected you
emotionally but now you are ready to
give love you are ready to receive love
you are ready to have a fairytale
wedding it’s never like the fairy tales
okay people get married these days
anyway look so you are so ready for love
you’re ready to be swept off your feet
and because of that you get goose bumps
my gosh goose bumps all over you and
you’re actually for the first time again
believing in love once more and you have
this beautiful euphoric feeling and now
you’re like love is all you need and
then both if you stay together feels so
good to be a live baby can I get a hell
Oh a beautiful day deep divers you also
love you also appreciated your so
appreciated we’re just getting high on
the good ass prana love is all you need
love is all you need love is all you
need
infinite waters diving witness but
emotional right now
infinite waters diving deep once again
you [Music]
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