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10 Signs You’re Shy (And Don’t Know It)


peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again we are out here baby
we’re in nature whoa breathing in that
beautiful good ass prana ten signs
you’re shy and don’t know it
like how shy are you if I was walking
down the road would you come up to me
think about it would you would you come
and say Wow
and we ain’t even had breakfast yet can
I get a Hello the question is would I
come up to you oh definitely with a cat
down the road – now we got a question
that came in start of the week how can I
deal with my awkward awkward shyness is
this a big problem for you now I’ve been
shy for a for a lot of my life and I’ve
realized a lot about what makes people
shy some of the signs to look out for
I’m gonna share with you what’s helped
me along my journey
you see I speak about anything and
everything you just found out about the
trees right yeah I spoke about that I
wasn’t shy I speak about Indigo’s like
the pineal gland anything and everything
and we ain’t even had breakfast yet but
it wasn’t always this way
so I’m gonna let’s dive into it let’s
dive into it what’s the first sign
you’re shy and don’t know it you’re in a
crowd just visualize it and you reach
for your phone you always do this why
because your phone is your best friend
and that’s beautiful
but you see you’ve been doing this so
long that you don’t even want to admit
that’s why you’re really shy you just
like no I’m just on my phone wait a
minute I’m not actually calling anybody
and I’m actually not doing anything on
the phone I’m just holding it as a prop
because I don’t know what to say to you
right now I’m so sorry oh my goodness
gracious now that was me along my early
journey I would use the phone as an
escape mechanism to not talk to certain
people because I was I was shy gosh what
are they gonna think of me
what should I even say you see we are a
smartphone generation which is beautiful
people are connecting making beautiful
babies and stuff but a lot of us we
don’t know how to communicate ever been
around someone who’s just texting all
the time they’re texting you but they
never want to call you cuz they’re shy
or maybe they’re calling you but they
never want to meet you
because they’re shy oh my gray oh my
goodness
oh my goodness that’s what you’re
thinking right don’t worry about it
it happens so what helped me along my
journey was to say put down the phone
for five you thought I was gonna say
five minutes no no five seconds can you
do that like put down your phone for
five seconds and look at me talk to me
it works okay because you see a long
time ago people had to talk to people so
you had to work on building confidence
you see confidence is like a muscle baby
and the more you use that muscle the
stronger it becomes slow motion that
side mmm
but if you stop working that confidence
muscle you’re gonna be awfully shy so
that’s what helped me become my greatest
version you’ve got to work that muscle
by putting down the phone for five
seconds and talking to someone
what’s the second sign you’re shy and
don’t know it you feel everybody is more
confident than you I gave a speech and
my sister’s wedding and I was really shy
you’re like why Ralph you make so many
videos because I thought gosh all of
these people are so well dressed they’re
in their tuxedos women in beautiful
dresses and stuff and I’m like am I good
enough
to do this speech then I said wait a
minute Ralph just imagine everybody’s
taking a massive dump on the toilet
right now and it worked
okay I stopped feeling shy gave an
amazing speech and then ended up
realizing there was nothing for me to
eat that was vegan on the menu don’t
worry about it look it happens you see a
lot of us we have a inferiority complex
we feel everybody has it figured out
I don’t I’m working progress baby that’s
why I’m sharing what’s helped me along
my journey I don’t have all the answers
but I’m a deep diver
which means I can definitely share with
you what’s helped me along my journey
you see if you feel someone is more
confident than you all the time you
forget one small secret what is that
that you see people are probably just as
shy as you first encounters let’s say
you’re on the beach and you want to talk
to someone and you’re like gosh I’m
really shy right now you freeze up but
wait a minute in the mirror you are so
confident and cocky what’s happening
right now because you feel this person
has got it figured out you feel they’re
so confident no no no no no they are
just as shy as you but you see here’s
another secret once you change your
vibrational frequency everything aligns
to that same frequency
slow motion that’s life when you are
calm people will feel calm around you
even if they are shy energy is
contagious
especially positive energy if you are
really anxious people will feel really
anxious around you you are really shy
you are making me feel so shy right now
okay so you know overcoming shyness and
it’s okay to be shy but a lot of us have
what I call an artificial shyness where
it is actually preventing us from
becoming our greatest version because we
are suppressing emotions this is not who
we really are it’s not about being shy
or not shy it’s about being authentic
and as children let’s face it a lot of
fuss we were party animals oh yeah okay
we didn’t hold back from what we were
feeling baby let’s just breathe in that
good oz Prada for a second what’s the
third sign you’re shy and don’t know it
seven day vegan challenge you don’t eat
for confidence like you are eating foods
which are promoting your shyness
encouraging your shyness and you don’t
even know it right along my earlier
journey I used to love dipping cookies
into milk and eating a lot of fried
greasy foods and then licking my lips
and fingers huh
thank goodness things have changed but I
was shy because I realized I was eating
a lot of processed junk food with no
enzymes you see in becoming more
confident which means to trust yourself
country Dairy from the Latin you’ve got
to start eating for confidence which
means you got to start putting that
money up to buy more organic food what’s
helped me along my journey what’s helped
me is to say okay every day I must
strawberries every day I will eat
strawberries blueberries
lots of acai powder okay and this
actually gives me a great feeling inside
of myself and therefore I feel so
amazing like why should I be shy because
I’m eating like so good right now you
see when you are eating terrible food
you feel terrible about yourself it’s
that simple
it’s that simple right you don’t have to
eat less you just have to eat right baby
what’s the fourth sign yes shy and don’t
know it
infinite waters diving deep we can met
with people of every single skin
complexion tone
shade you can ever imagine okay because
you see I don’t believe in this concept
called race I just believe that human
beings and we have created so much
separation in this matrix but the good
news is that we are awakening out of the
amnesia the deep sleep to reclaim our
power but more so to become our greatest
versions you’re shy because you feel
certain races are better than other
races and certain nationalities are
better than not are better than other
nationalities right certain countries
are better than other countries there
are no borders on this planet I don’t
see any do you really do you show me
so what help me overcome a lot of
shyness was to say actually I’m good
enough to be around anybody okay a lot
of the times I’ve been around places in
London Mayfair everyone’s wearing a suit
I just pull up in a pair of jeans baby
gone to Beverly Hills mansions okay
I’ve been all around I’ve been to places
where you wouldn’t even you wouldn’t
even imagine okay and these places I’ve
just been myself around because I’m good
enough to be around anyone to be around
anyone and be in any place okay at the
same time I’ve been around people I
remember I went to Ethiopia and I went
in Toto mountains right a great trip and
I just went I just took a trip somewhere
and I was going into people’s villages
and stuff like that it was amazing man
it was so good okay cuz I was at the
point to say okay I don’t even believe
in separation I’m gonna eat with you I’m
gonna eat while you’re eating
injera and all of that good stuff okay
so you’re shy though if you feel okay
someone is better because they’re a
different skin color or they’re better
because their country is better that’s
all an illusion separation is the
greatest illusion ever created we got a
free our minds from the matrix to become
more empowered in essence to step into
our true
fanta city what’s the fifth sign you’re
shy and don’t know it you feel your
story isn’t good enough I mean a lot of
people who say Ralph I just want to be
like you don’t be like me please be like
yourself listen they just say I want to
start sharing my story do you know the
age we’re living in people are making a
living of just talking in nature I
wonder who’s that
a good living a fortune people are some
people are just even making two-minute
videos and they are creating abundance
now they realize a tiny secret that the
world needs to hear their story whatever
they have to say is important you’re shy
because you feel your story is
insignificant so you become what I call
a Content consumer only instead of a
content producer now the secret is to do
both be a content producer and a content
consumer but a lot of us if you’re
really shy you’re just consuming
everybody else’s story you got to start
sharing your story with the world I want
to know what you I want to know what
happened last summer baby I want to know
what you did last week at 3 o’clock when
you were dancing everywhere in the road
baby what the hell was that about I need
to know about that
so in becoming more confident you got to
realize that your story is very
important and that’s the secret to
becoming your greatest version
what’s the sick sign you’re shy and
don’t know it
you will avoid being judged at any cost
ok you’re gonna do whatever it takes so
that people will not judge you and guess
what that is impossible you want to
avoid ridicule and criticism judgment
huh
what planet you’re living on ok no
matter what you do people are gonna
judge you anyway that’s why I don’t care
what I talk about
like I make videos like Bam Bam Bam Bam
Bam because once again I’m at a point
where I’ve been doing it for so long
that I don’t even care anymore because
I’ve already got enough great supporter
supporting infinite waters that is
amazing right the numbers don’t lie but
more so the connection doesn’t lie I was
in Orange County we did the event now
just talking to people face to face the
deep divers blew me away
right but you see you’re shy because you
don’t want to talk about what you’re
really thinking about you want to
sugarcoat it you don’t want people to
judge you so you spend 10 hours
photoshopping your picture before you
post it on Instagram because you say oh
gosh I’ve got a blemish here oh my gosh
I got a spot there people are gonna
judge you anyway the only thing that
matters is how you see yourself
slow motion that’s like the right people
will always respect you the right people
will always be around you to help you
and you should also help them okay so
people are gonna judge you anyway
that’s how to become more confident
let’s talk about number seven the
seventh sign you’re shy and don’t know
it is because you are afraid to make eye
contact the eyes are the windows to the
soul
now along my earlier journey I couldn’t
look someone like I – I oh my gosh
that’s too much like I had to turn to
the side and talk someone or this no
nowadays I’m looking you in the eyes if
I like your eyes right because sometimes
we just don’t want to look at people and
that’s fine too but you see in becoming
more confident you got to learn how to
make eye contact you’ve got to realize
that that’s how to make connection
through the ice and you’re shy
if you always avoid contact and now it’s
become a routine and you don’t even know
it so going on to number eight you’re
shy because your body is shy and you
don’t even know it right you see shyness
is not something
out there it’s not something up here
either if something in every single cell
in your body so there was a great
psychologist when I was studying
psychology called Fritz Perls now he was
giving a session to a woman and he asked
her how are you okay and he this guy is
a genius one of my big inspirations now
the woman said I’m fine and he said
immediately no you’re not because your
body says say otherwise okay and he was
really big on taking responsibility he
actually talked about how you have to
lose your mind and come to your senses
now our body holds all the clues to our
subconscious mind because our body is
the mind can I get a Hello yeah so
what’s helped me along my journey is to
say okay let me just relax my body step
into a high power pose right
loosen the shoulders that’s why yoga’s
so important you want to overcome
shyness become more confident move more
into your body you don’t like yoga no
problem skate with me around Venice
Beach baby you don’t like that no
problem go snowboarding you don’t like
that go swimming don’t like that do
dancing what do you like for goodness
sake so we’ll do that walking that’s
great now okay it’s about moving into
your body
developing that cadence that rhythm whoa
connecting with a beautiful Chi the
great prana every single day the fresh
air right so you’re developing more
harmony in your circadian rhythm that’s
what will help you become more confident
and not let China stop you what’s the
night sign you’re shy and don’t know it
you see a lot of us we’re shy and we
haven’t even got the faintest idea about
it is because we’re just in the waiting
room Buddha said the problem is you
think you’ve got time
no slow motion look time is an illusion
yes but this man-made time is very real
and when you come to realize that you’re
shy because you’ve been living your
whole life in the waiting room I don’t
wait anymore if I want something I’m
gonna step into radical action and
that’s why I live in abundance every
single day I get things done you want to
move to the next level you got to stop
stop living in risk and also have a
beautiful leaf right in front of you
okay
small risk small reward big risk big
reward the universe pays you in
relationship to your risk level that’s
why people who don’t wait they just take
the risk and go for it they get the big
reward if you’re in the rate you’re
you’re in the waiting-room small risk
always playing it safe small reward so
you’ve got to ask yourself what do I
want
big reward or smaller award okay now
let’s talk about it
okay you can’t keep living your life in
the waiting room you got to get out
there you got to do stuff now what’s the
temp sign you’re shy and don’t know it
you see a lot of fuss with shy because
we have forgotten our greatness I
realize I’m great every single day I’m
fantastic I’m amazing but it always
wasn’t always like this okay so I used
to think that actually I’m not even good
enough to be around certain people
program a lot of us we don’t know how
great we are we don’t realize that a
human being we are literally co-creators
miniature universes so we have infinite
power once you realize this you become
more confident but once again it’s okay
to be shy and take one step at a time
baby whoa breathing in that good ah
sprout and you are exactly where you
need to be but also rely
you can always be more you can always
work on yourself have a beautiful day it
feels so good to be a live baby can I
get a hello there well here in nature
infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy

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