birds of a feather flock together you
run around with losers you will end up a
loser
unconsciously unconsciously you will
pick up their wage you’ll pick up their
habits you’ll pick up most importantly
their attitude about life if you around
cynical negative people all the time you
will become cynical and negative so
you’ve got to watch yourself many of us
are living out the lives of other people
living out their conclusions living out
of their consciousness the other thing
is that you begin to look at looking at
your life and looking at what it is that
you want to achieve another crucial
thing that you must do is align yourself
with powerful people align yourself with
people that can encourage you people
that can empower you people that you can
learn from people that you can grow from
that’s very important so if you have
people around you that can contribute to
your growth when I wanted to become a
speaker I joined the National Speakers
Association I wanted to be around the
dr. norman vincent peale the zig Zigler
the dwayne dyers cuz i wanted to be
around people that were doing what i
wanted to do i want to learn from them
and you want to do that too you want to
align yourself with people who think
like you people who dream like you
people who want more out of like people
that are stretching and searching and
seeking some higher ground in life as
opposed to the majority of people
somebody said always tried to get on top
in life because it’s the bottom that’s
overcrowded and say you don’t want to be
on the bottom see it’s easy to be on the
bottom it doesn’t take any effort to be
a loser doesn’t take any motivation any
Drive in order to stay down there on a
low level but it calls on everything in
you ladies and gentlemen you have to
harness your will to say I’m going to
challenge myself sometimes I have to
pull myself out invent it come on less
things I know I should do I don’t do
things I shouldn’t do I do I found that
the biggest enemy you have to deal with
is yourself there’s an old African
proverb that says if there’s no enemy
within the enemy outside can do us no
so as you began to look toward making
this your decade as you begin to look
toward making your life different you
begin to look at yourself you got to
redefine yourself who are you right now
and who must you become in order to
create what you want what has to change
about you what is it that you’re doing
right now that would be a liability for
you as you begin to look toward the
future and take inventory of yourself
what is it about you right now
that you’ve got to leave this behind
because this no longer fits looking at
where you want to go and the kind of
person that you must become the kind of
standards that you have for you what is
it that you must do differently repeat
out to me please if you want to keep on
getting what you’re getting keep on
doing what you’re doing see that doesn’t
take an Einstein for that all right it
makes sense unless you change your
pattern unless you change the way you’re
thinking unless you change your behavior
you’re going to continue to produce the
results of your life see all of us are
winners but some of us are producing
results that we don’t want and so all
you have to look at your game plan look
at your strategy how is it that you have
been B what is it that you’ve been doing
to produce this so you’re the director
you are the producer you’re writing the
script you’re the star of your life and
as you begin to look at your life you
can decide whether or not it’s a smash
or where the night it’s a flop that’s in
your hands look at your life look at
where you want to go don’t worry about
your circumstances don’t worry about
your age have a friend who’s up in aged
over 70 and she wanted to build a
multi-million dollar complex the name is
dr. Johnny Coleman lenders and Baker’s
say you can’t do that you’re too old she
ignored them that building now stands
ladies and gentlemen a multi-million
dollar structure but there are a lot of
people who would have listened to that a
lot of people that would not have even
gotten to that point they were to talk
themselves out of even going down to the
bank to ask for it because they’ve
already said no to themselves see his
time now if you want to make this your
decade you’ve got to start saying yes to
your life you’ve got to start saying
yeah
to your dreams yes to your unfolding
future yes to your potential as opposed
to saying no see 87% of our self talk is
negative so you’ve got to make a
conscious deliberate determined effort
to say yes to your dreams why not why
not me don’t spend time like most people
going through life complaining don’t try
and get on talk shows and tell everybody
how life has done you wrong here’s
what’s happening in the audience
all right so so will you know that
you’re gonna cook growl you know what
they did to me who care get away from me
I had a friend of mine that said
something is very important he said hey
it doesn’t matter what happens tell you
the only thing matters what are you
gonna do about it
that’s all that matters okay life knock
you down what do you want to draw but
how long do you go sit there say you
know what they did to me come on who
wants to hear that racket use that
energy to get up from men move on and
get on with your life you got to learn
to let the past go so you can grow many
people never act on their dreams because
they allow their past experiences to
determine what their possibilities are
whatever you’ve done in the past that’s
not a reflection of your possibilities
that’s just a reflection of your
consciousness that’s just a reflection
of your development and your growth the
future is unfolding for you right now
the future is unlimited for you right
now no one knows where you can go no one
knows what your path what you’re capable
of what’s possible for you you don’t
even know that I had no idea ladies and
gentlemen no one could have convinced me
that I was able to do this I never
forget I was speaking and Detroit in a
high school friend of mine saw me
afterwards that he was backstage he said
I can’t believe it’s the same person and
I thought for a moment and I said it’s
not the person do you know you go live
in LA we have the power to change our
personal history changing the direction
of our lives changing our thoughts
changing where we want to go exploring
new horizons so you begin to look at
this decade and affirming that this is
your decade as you set goals that will
make you stretch that will bring out the
best in you as you begin to remove the
negative toxic people from your life as
you decide to take some chances in life
and that’s one of the things that’s very
important this card said if you’re not
willing to risk you cannot grow and if
you cannot grow you cannot become your
best and if you cannot become your best
you cannot be happy and if you can’t be
happy and what else is there
I’ll never forget when I reach my first
major goal of buying my mother let home
I never forget
what it was like and you’re gonna have
this experience when you reach some
major goal when I drove up to the house
and I got out and I gave mama the key
and I said mama this is for you I’ll
never forget the look on her face she
said she said oh my god no one could
have convinced me when I adopted you all
that this would happen she saw thank you
she said you caused me so many damn problems
run around with losers you will end up a
loser
unconsciously unconsciously you will
pick up their wage you’ll pick up their
habits you’ll pick up most importantly
their attitude about life if you around
cynical negative people all the time you
will become cynical and negative so
you’ve got to watch yourself many of us
are living out the lives of other people
living out their conclusions living out
of their consciousness the other thing
is that you begin to look at looking at
your life and looking at what it is that
you want to achieve another crucial
thing that you must do is align yourself
with powerful people align yourself with
people that can encourage you people
that can empower you people that you can
learn from people that you can grow from
that’s very important so if you have
people around you that can contribute to
your growth when I wanted to become a
speaker I joined the National Speakers
Association I wanted to be around the
dr. norman vincent peale the zig Zigler
the dwayne dyers cuz i wanted to be
around people that were doing what i
wanted to do i want to learn from them
and you want to do that too you want to
align yourself with people who think
like you people who dream like you
people who want more out of like people
that are stretching and searching and
seeking some higher ground in life as
opposed to the majority of people
somebody said always tried to get on top
in life because it’s the bottom that’s
overcrowded and say you don’t want to be
on the bottom see it’s easy to be on the
bottom it doesn’t take any effort to be
a loser doesn’t take any motivation any
Drive in order to stay down there on a
low level but it calls on everything in
you ladies and gentlemen you have to
harness your will to say I’m going to
challenge myself sometimes I have to
pull myself out invent it come on less
things I know I should do I don’t do
things I shouldn’t do I do I found that
the biggest enemy you have to deal with
is yourself there’s an old African
proverb that says if there’s no enemy
within the enemy outside can do us no
so as you began to look toward making
this your decade as you begin to look
toward making your life different you
begin to look at yourself you got to
redefine yourself who are you right now
and who must you become in order to
create what you want what has to change
about you what is it that you’re doing
right now that would be a liability for
you as you begin to look toward the
future and take inventory of yourself
what is it about you right now
that you’ve got to leave this behind
because this no longer fits looking at
where you want to go and the kind of
person that you must become the kind of
standards that you have for you what is
it that you must do differently repeat
out to me please if you want to keep on
getting what you’re getting keep on
doing what you’re doing see that doesn’t
take an Einstein for that all right it
makes sense unless you change your
pattern unless you change the way you’re
thinking unless you change your behavior
you’re going to continue to produce the
results of your life see all of us are
winners but some of us are producing
results that we don’t want and so all
you have to look at your game plan look
at your strategy how is it that you have
been B what is it that you’ve been doing
to produce this so you’re the director
you are the producer you’re writing the
script you’re the star of your life and
as you begin to look at your life you
can decide whether or not it’s a smash
or where the night it’s a flop that’s in
your hands look at your life look at
where you want to go don’t worry about
your circumstances don’t worry about
your age have a friend who’s up in aged
over 70 and she wanted to build a
multi-million dollar complex the name is
dr. Johnny Coleman lenders and Baker’s
say you can’t do that you’re too old she
ignored them that building now stands
ladies and gentlemen a multi-million
dollar structure but there are a lot of
people who would have listened to that a
lot of people that would not have even
gotten to that point they were to talk
themselves out of even going down to the
bank to ask for it because they’ve
already said no to themselves see his
time now if you want to make this your
decade you’ve got to start saying yes to
your life you’ve got to start saying
yeah
to your dreams yes to your unfolding
future yes to your potential as opposed
to saying no see 87% of our self talk is
negative so you’ve got to make a
conscious deliberate determined effort
to say yes to your dreams why not why
not me don’t spend time like most people
going through life complaining don’t try
and get on talk shows and tell everybody
how life has done you wrong here’s
what’s happening in the audience
all right so so will you know that
you’re gonna cook growl you know what
they did to me who care get away from me
I had a friend of mine that said
something is very important he said hey
it doesn’t matter what happens tell you
the only thing matters what are you
gonna do about it
that’s all that matters okay life knock
you down what do you want to draw but
how long do you go sit there say you
know what they did to me come on who
wants to hear that racket use that
energy to get up from men move on and
get on with your life you got to learn
to let the past go so you can grow many
people never act on their dreams because
they allow their past experiences to
determine what their possibilities are
whatever you’ve done in the past that’s
not a reflection of your possibilities
that’s just a reflection of your
consciousness that’s just a reflection
of your development and your growth the
future is unfolding for you right now
the future is unlimited for you right
now no one knows where you can go no one
knows what your path what you’re capable
of what’s possible for you you don’t
even know that I had no idea ladies and
gentlemen no one could have convinced me
that I was able to do this I never
forget I was speaking and Detroit in a
high school friend of mine saw me
afterwards that he was backstage he said
I can’t believe it’s the same person and
I thought for a moment and I said it’s
not the person do you know you go live
in LA we have the power to change our
personal history changing the direction
of our lives changing our thoughts
changing where we want to go exploring
new horizons so you begin to look at
this decade and affirming that this is
your decade as you set goals that will
make you stretch that will bring out the
best in you as you begin to remove the
negative toxic people from your life as
you decide to take some chances in life
and that’s one of the things that’s very
important this card said if you’re not
willing to risk you cannot grow and if
you cannot grow you cannot become your
best and if you cannot become your best
you cannot be happy and if you can’t be
happy and what else is there
I’ll never forget when I reach my first
major goal of buying my mother let home
I never forget
what it was like and you’re gonna have
this experience when you reach some
major goal when I drove up to the house
and I got out and I gave mama the key
and I said mama this is for you I’ll
never forget the look on her face she
said she said oh my god no one could
have convinced me when I adopted you all
that this would happen she saw thank you
she said you caused me so many damn problems
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