so I got a question for you if there was
a scoreboard of your life of where
you’re currently at versus your capacity
I’m Patrick with Dave your host evalute
aiming weekly and I’ll tell you one of
the things I used to bother me the most
when I got out of the military was every
time I looked at the scoreboard of life
of what I could do I kept feeling like
I’m way behind and I’m Way behind and
I’m Way behind and I’m Way behind I’m
always falling behind and it doesn’t
make you feel good I don’t know if
you’ve been there before and it would
give me this feeling of panic anxiety
and fear and how do we feel when do we
have those three feelings in our lives
think about it so I asked the question
well what is panic stemmed from what
causes us to panic what causes us to
have fears what causes us to be having
anxiety attacks initially a lot of times
we think maybe it’s somebody else’s
fault because of this person or that
person or this person or that person or
other people run I realize it has
nothing to do with them
all of those things have to do with me
and I said so now next step when you
study this subject what creates panic
what creates fears what creates anxiety
attacks you start realizing what causes
that because in reality what we would
all like to have is a life with little
to no anxiety right a little to no panic
and little to no fears it’s never going
to be none completely but as little as
possible so how do we do that three
things three things it takes for that to
take place one one it’s having a high
level of urgency in life let me explain
you see when you look at the score of
life and you may say I’m behind because
they got a lead on me my potential does
and I’m not there yet well how urgent
are you about catching up most people
don’t live life being into urgent most
people are too hurry they walk fast
everything is just quick and they feel
like they’re doing things but it’s kind
of like me just turning in the same
place you’re not really getting anything
done your
still standing in the same place urgency
is going next what do I do next what do
I do next what do I do next performers
have higher expectation of being urgent
than the rest of the people do second
thing I’ll tell you is having been there
before what does that mean if I am
facing a problem that I’ve been there
before
I know handle it a lot better than
before because it isn’t my first time
there so you need to put yourself in
situations where you don’t know how to
handle it you’ll learn you come back and
better and you go you’re long come back
and better and better and eventually
it’s just like shooting a free throw
like some of these professionals because
you’ve been there before and the last
one that will take a lot of the stress
and the anxiety away is preparation
preparation preparation so few people
prepare and you are not going to make it
to the top level of performance and
competing if you don’t prepare I learned
it the hard way I’m telling you from
pure experience just because you’re
talented or you speak well or you do
well all that stuff if you are not
urgent about life if you’re not
constantly putting yourself in a
situation that you’ve been there before
and you know what to do next and if
you’re not preparing life is going to
constantly create panic stress fear
anxiety and you’ll always look at the
scoreboard of life saying why am I still
losing versus my potential my challenge
to do to you is get it together put a
plan of action and start beating your
potential start beating your potential
do better than what you thought you
could do yourself and that’s what takes
you in the unknown part of life and the
unknown part of life is unpredictable
and it’s juic you experience things
you’ve never experienced before that’s
the juice of life that you want to get
into anyways I got to go out and hit
some balls and let’s see how I’ll do if
I miss some of them with these underhand
balls they’re thrown please do not laugh
at me meanwhile please be sure to
subscribe on this channel and comment on
notice this is why you do financial services
a scoreboard of your life of where
you’re currently at versus your capacity
I’m Patrick with Dave your host evalute
aiming weekly and I’ll tell you one of
the things I used to bother me the most
when I got out of the military was every
time I looked at the scoreboard of life
of what I could do I kept feeling like
I’m way behind and I’m Way behind and
I’m Way behind and I’m Way behind I’m
always falling behind and it doesn’t
make you feel good I don’t know if
you’ve been there before and it would
give me this feeling of panic anxiety
and fear and how do we feel when do we
have those three feelings in our lives
think about it so I asked the question
well what is panic stemmed from what
causes us to panic what causes us to
have fears what causes us to be having
anxiety attacks initially a lot of times
we think maybe it’s somebody else’s
fault because of this person or that
person or this person or that person or
other people run I realize it has
nothing to do with them
all of those things have to do with me
and I said so now next step when you
study this subject what creates panic
what creates fears what creates anxiety
attacks you start realizing what causes
that because in reality what we would
all like to have is a life with little
to no anxiety right a little to no panic
and little to no fears it’s never going
to be none completely but as little as
possible so how do we do that three
things three things it takes for that to
take place one one it’s having a high
level of urgency in life let me explain
you see when you look at the score of
life and you may say I’m behind because
they got a lead on me my potential does
and I’m not there yet well how urgent
are you about catching up most people
don’t live life being into urgent most
people are too hurry they walk fast
everything is just quick and they feel
like they’re doing things but it’s kind
of like me just turning in the same
place you’re not really getting anything
done your
still standing in the same place urgency
is going next what do I do next what do
I do next what do I do next performers
have higher expectation of being urgent
than the rest of the people do second
thing I’ll tell you is having been there
before what does that mean if I am
facing a problem that I’ve been there
before
I know handle it a lot better than
before because it isn’t my first time
there so you need to put yourself in
situations where you don’t know how to
handle it you’ll learn you come back and
better and you go you’re long come back
and better and better and eventually
it’s just like shooting a free throw
like some of these professionals because
you’ve been there before and the last
one that will take a lot of the stress
and the anxiety away is preparation
preparation preparation so few people
prepare and you are not going to make it
to the top level of performance and
competing if you don’t prepare I learned
it the hard way I’m telling you from
pure experience just because you’re
talented or you speak well or you do
well all that stuff if you are not
urgent about life if you’re not
constantly putting yourself in a
situation that you’ve been there before
and you know what to do next and if
you’re not preparing life is going to
constantly create panic stress fear
anxiety and you’ll always look at the
scoreboard of life saying why am I still
losing versus my potential my challenge
to do to you is get it together put a
plan of action and start beating your
potential start beating your potential
do better than what you thought you
could do yourself and that’s what takes
you in the unknown part of life and the
unknown part of life is unpredictable
and it’s juic you experience things
you’ve never experienced before that’s
the juice of life that you want to get
into anyways I got to go out and hit
some balls and let’s see how I’ll do if
I miss some of them with these underhand
balls they’re thrown please do not laugh
at me meanwhile please be sure to
subscribe on this channel and comment on
notice this is why you do financial services
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