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The revolution of consent | Madeleine Leijonhufvud | TEDxGöteborg


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Swedish law and rape is about to be

changed so what that’s happened before

even in recent years anything special

this time or is it just another cosmetic

adjustment no this time is special most

of us have heard the expression no means

no well the present Swedish law on rape

doesn’t even state that a no is enough

only if special means threat or violence

or a particularly vulnerable situation

can be shown a sexual assault

constitutes a rape but victims are often

in a stage of frozen fright so no

violence or threat is needed out of some

6000 reports of sexual assault a year

only about 200 lead to conviction this

new law relies on the revolutionary idea

that sex should be consensual yes means

yes if you will the idea that consent in

words or deeds is required when you want

to have sex with somebody this sounds to

me and I think to most people as a

perfectly adequate demand that should be

spelled out in law I have called for a

change to a concept based law for many

years now together with many others in

recent years with a fabulous young

people of the Fatah organization until

now these efforts have met opposition by

politicians and not least by lawyers

with our humans that have been served by

ax stand illogical that as an old

I’m genuinely happy to live to see this

happen the die-hard resistance hasn’t

only surprised me but it has also

convinced me that the law on rape has to

be reshaped sexual integrity needs legal

protection based on current knowledge

not on yesterday’s ideas of our men and

remember when Neil Armstrong stepped out

of the lunar module that day in July

1969 and stepped onto the moon a small

step for a man a giant leap for mankind

Armstrong said well a giant leap for

mankind at least for the part of it here

in Sweden it will mean when we change

our rape law to a consent based law a

law stating that sex without consent

constitutes a criminal offense

now isn’t that exaggerating it a little

no not at all it’s a rethinking of the

whole issue of sexual behavior it will I

am convinced have a strong impact on

attitudes as had the law forbidding use

the use of violence in the upbringing of

children in the late 1970s I think I

understand now why it’s been so

difficult to reform our sex law the

conceptions of how men and women act

when it comes to sex and what

responsibilities men and women have in

that area are deeply anchored in most of

us men and women young and old our

present law mirrors these conceptions

as did previous Swedish laws and the

same goes for other countries to propose

a law that goes against those kinds of

conceptions is bound to fail according

to all logic we tend to just know how

things are we don’t have any doubts and

we don’t really care what research much

show or what real-life much might reveal

you don’t have to go back to the Bible

where Eve took a bite of the Apple and

thus led Adam and mankind into sin going

back to the time of our

great-grandparents we’ll do some time

ago I watched a TV program about a

Swedish actress who got professional

help to find her ancestors one of the

women that was found in old documents

was a maid who had worked served on a

farm where the employer had made her

pregnant

she gave birth alone in a cabin in the

woods

and she cut off the umbilical cord and

she choked the baby with her Brown under

scratch she was caught by the police

found guilty of infanticide and

sentenced to two years of hard labor she

served it in solitary confinement in a

prison full of women convicted of the

same crime what about the man he who we

must assume had used the woman for his

own pleasure

he who seemingly took no responsibility

for the consequences of his actions

no shadow fell upon him nor did any

shadow fall upon any of the other men

who had destroyed the lives of her

fellow prisoners they went on with their

lives and nobody even thought of making

them responsible for what they had done

innocence the outlook that has guided

mankind is this the woman is responsible

for what happens during and as a

consequence of sex the rule that will be

enforced in Sweden means a radical

change of this basic notion the simple

but revolutionary new impact of the law

is this every adult individual bears the

full responsibility for what he or she

does when it comes to sex

it means a fundamental switch from a

legal position that in fact accepted the

superiority of the physically stronger

over the physically weaker may the we

we live in a century that in many

respects has reached far from the stage

of primitivity well we do have terrible

conflicts going on in many parts of the

world but we claim to have realized and

we have stated in numerous documents

that all human beings are of the same

value regardless of ethnic background

etc apart head in South Africa was

globally and successfully fought but

women are to this day a suppressed

category in many parts of the world they

are treated as second-class citizens we

do not combat that suppression with

sanctions as we and many other countries

did the poor tight and in Sweden known

as one of the world’s most gender equal

countries there has been this hard

resistance against letting the lack of

consent constitute a rape well it can

seem that there is much to lose for men

with such a law the right to exert their

sexual circle needs at their own

pleasure

the right not to have to take

responsibility the right to display

their maleness without regard to

individuals incapable of resisting them

physically the right to disregard the

possibility to cause a pregnancy the

right to disregard the consequences of

that to let the woman subject herself to

an abortion that is if she lives in a

country such as Sweden where abortions

are legal and not in many of the other

countries where she would have to commit

a crime and be said punished in short

the right for a man to have a woman bear

the consequences of his unprotected

just like that maid had to bear the

consequences of her employer’s abuse of

power she who killed a baby in despair

and was sentenced to hard labor but a

consent based law will I am convinced be

for the better for all it will guide

young people to sex without misuse of

power help them not to cause harm

show them how sex can give their lives

new deep dimensions and make them

responsible and loving parents to

children that are the result of love

of course laws can be violated of course

there will be cases of sexual assault in

Sweden even with the consent based law

of course there’ll be cases where the

perpetrator is acquitted due to lack of

evidence but without such a law it’s

often not even possible to take action

against the perpetrator without such a

law the state in practice acknowledges

the right of the physically stronger so

to all men who until now have not

accepted such limits and to the vast

majority of men who themselves have

never committed sexual abuse and to

women who might have been inclined to

blame the victim and excuse the

perpetrator I say this it’s time to

climb out of the lunar module and show

your approval of this statement of the

fundamental right of sexual integrity

this is no small step we all take a

giant leap into a new better world thank

you

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