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The Benefits of Mentoring | Sydney V. | TEDxYouth@LCJSMS


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picture this Primus leave your Oh move
it you cannot beat you you want to
squeeze your feet in this expression put
yourself with some issues is used to see
today think about how you would
completely relate to a moment someone
else like without experience in that
same moment
it’s simply unrealistic this expression
however adequately strives peer
mentoring a peer mentorship takes place
between someone who is going to
instantly experience the mentee and
someone who’s already gone without
experience the mentor throughout your
mentorship the mentor acts as a guide of
brands and supporters the mentee both
individuals fully relate to each other
because they went through such similar
experiences it is almost as if they were
she sucks he finds something the same
shoe sizes you can change your life it
was a Tuesday of 2014 I’m psychos take
one or juvenile diabetes type one
diabetes occurs when the pancreas flaps
amount of insulin and whose blood needed
to fulfill ibaka scenes I was instantly
to March for my guidance
however insulin shots are awkward’s as
well when those people do the work
diabetes they often think of type 2
diabetes type 2 diabetes usually occurs
when an individual is overweight and
living an unhealthy lifestyle afters I
focus was the only type of diabetes
she made my diagnosis process even more
difficult
Dean Douglas diabetes is my lowest
moment doctor grabbed my arms as she
pulled me off the door I’m not going I’m
that was truly an happy
the nurses kept saying it’s okay it’s
going to be okay
they’ll back eww don’t did you have
diabetes
nothing did they couldn’t relate to what
was going on in my life you see it never
been he’d be seen experiences you
couldn’t put themselves into my shoes
the entire month back with me in the
hospital I continue to persuade anyone
that when it’s healthy
on one occasion I support a friend a lot
I lost a tooth when they treat us I have
to go to test my budget after months of
assistance I finally found that 1% I we
did more than anything I met another who
did not diabetic at a big reader let’s
call her bakery girl now I may have
diabetes but that doesn’t move the fact
that meeting a big possibly scared
teenage girl when you are only in the
fourth grade it’s a little bit
intimidated I was shy at the time and
definitely didn’t see this encounter has
much touch it
that means said a finally wound up speed
reader and discuss everything from
diabetes technology to our diagnosis
experience I went out all the confusion
all the fear and all the unhappiness
I’ve been putting inside for months
without knowing it they could be grown
and pure mentored me she had changed my
this empower women in debugger did other
diabetics have a bigger girl to mention
that during diagnosis results the small
survey as well as the statistics from
American Diabetes Association prove
approximately fourteen thousand three
hundred and twenty individuals per year
are diagnosed without intervention to
give you an idea how Laura said numbers
imagine this auditorium completely built
twenty nine times and it’s three too
many people going through the same
so at the beginning this year my
diabetes social trauma sir
Champa the teenage girl who have just
gone down this diagnosis let’s call her
menti gated or MVP MVP and I began
texting every death but it wasn’t taking
conversations I had originally imagined
I predicted he wouldn’t hang out grab
lunch and become best buddies instead
all I was doing was answering four
simple questions sometimes it likely
have this vision of how something’s
going to occur when it doesn’t work out
as perfectly as we anticipated it can
cause it up and relationship that only
consists of asking and answering
questions often instantly and it’s
exactly what half of MGP and I began
researching possible reasons of peer
mentorship to fail the CFO chop-chop a
measure for students at Seton Hall said
it is up to the mentee to drive a
relationship and learn from the mentor
the men she beats only one team back
when it puts their relationship this
called me knowing it wasn’t entirely my
fault that the mentorship fail Tauber I
so soon there’s more MEP threes so
I came across new social media for
temple diabetics it is almost like
Instagram for the only users are people
at me this was extending having a
thought girl to talk about diabetes
related problems I can’t talk about my
family
practice I used to act to ask the
question if you had a metro and
diagnosed did you find it helpful about
three total responses the first person
said they had mentor and it changed
really the second person wish they
hadn’t and a third person said ah Hugo’s
event anytime I had a question it was
right there in the common market that
final comment stuck out to me and made
me wonder how did my mentoring MVP
differ from using Google a study done
about how do you see University proves
that mentors often succeed better than
experts if furthers that experts whose
tempt mentoring failed because they have
the mindset some extra not a mentor I
came to the conclusion that I was not
mentoring MTP I acted only as master why
would any men see what a mentor who
offered nothing special that the
Internet can provide I needed to
emphasize angle that would differentiate
myself from a mentor versus an actor I
realized IBM
his friends thinking about one friendly
path that offers the best advice answers
the most important questions and is
therapy no matter what room loves come
your way next time a mentor someone I
need to incorporate qualities in that
friend now I’m going to define my
obstacle as well as my solution and is
ready to test my skills once again I
spoke to my diving social counselor and
keep it and we discuss my idea for a new
mentoring program the program will be
offered to all the Future diabetics who
struggle with their diagnosis process
I’ve created an email that access sneak
peek for what it would be like to have a
mentor it shares secrets advice and
motivation I have learned over the years
while living with diabetes if the mentee
want to reach out to me and continue
their relationship it was a hundred
percent their option I know would be
forcing unwanted relationship although
this program is a debt to launch I
already know its purpose it’s going to
change someone’s life it’s going to
change my life
it’s going show people they are not
sometimes in life we have is fit we are
lucky enough to buy a friend a family
member or even just an acquaintance that
fits in her shoes if you have found this
person think about a moment the two of
can you think about this and hopefully
you realize how lucky you are to share shoe size on someone else
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