[Music]
I’m gonna take you on today I’m gonna
take you back in time
it’s 2003 I’ve just finished my first
year at University studying psychology
and my parents come forwards has caught
me through university so I’ve got three
jobs during 10 time when it comes to
summer holidays my plan was to work with
my parents farm here in Lincoln tier but
if anyone knows farming is the toughest
business and my parents were struggling
to pay for themselves they’re like me so
I needed summer job I ended up selling
books door-to-door in America it’s part
of the training for that job I was asked
to write down the list of what I would
do if anything were possible excitedly
started writing down my list
then I was challenged do you think those
things are possible
why not just think about electricity
running through the home what about when
a man walked on the moon the four-minute
mile was broken or move on fire that can
do everything and it’s in your pocket at
one point those things would have been a
possibility but now they’re accepted in
their common place look back down on
your list you told me what makes you
think those things aren’t possible I
look down on the list but I so open and
the world changed for me my mind is
flipped
no one had ever spoken to me like that
of all no one had told me that to do
that
me I’m a farmer’s daughter from both
died I didn’t even pass my eleven plus I
could do that I knew in that moment what
I wanted to do the rest of my life
I wanted to spread that message
I’ve started a relationship fast-forward
with me 2015 from now a wife I’m a mummy
and I’ve started business to help people
to achieve their impossible it’s most
famous like that but I’m struggling I’m
struggling to motivate myself let alone
anyone else I knew in order to be than
me I want it to be how to flip the
script I have to move from survive to
thrive but what does it look like what
does thrive look like dough needs to be
earning a set you don’t need to be
dressing in designer labels living in an
uphill postcode driving up a new car
no I realize none of those things
mattered when I could start today it was
just about attitude about my mindset
there wasn’t any qualification criteria
so the next six months challenging
myself to develop the habit reminder
that I knew I needed to flip my script
to move from survive to thrive I’ve
called it the octagonal mindset so you
can probably tell from tagging online
threat there’s eight points to strategy
stay in your tactics I’m going to take
you through really quickly now what it
is it’s going to go really quickly not
pick a mix it’s a blow-by-blow or eight
kind of deal you ready step number one
fail we can go through life being
fearful of failure but we realize that
fan is just a part of life learning
process that we all have an L apply it
onto our back we can fall get back up
dust ourselves off we go again when
we’ve started hosting our first
conference day before we have these six
people registered no idea those people
told us to cancel but I knew
split the script I’m
we couldn’t fail we can only learn from
it you have to start somewhere right
six it’s better than none let’s go for
it I am so pleased that we did it was
brilliant and the feedback we received
it was more than worthwhile going
head-to written ality we can go through
the life trying to be like everyone else
we rarely need to look down that hands
to know they were not meant to be
when unique one-of-a-kind were meant to
be different in actual fact the things
that are different about us can become
our unique abilities and our skills I’m
Dyslexic it’s cool cut lip it’s ripped
my dyslexic brain helped me to learn how
to work hard which is a business owner
it’s really helpful also helps me
connect ideas in new ways that wouldn’t
be able to do brain working life this
way perspective we were impatient to see
progress but can frustrated well we
respect the process and realize that
overnight success does not exist we can
enjoy the journey we know that every day
matters every snail step cameras for
five years I pitched an idea of a sales
call for ex-offenders and homeless
people five years of new thank you blitz
great I’m five years closer to it yes
I’d like to say that we’re actually just
in the middle about very first our
school and our students are inspiring
and motivating us they didn’t see their
potential we did
now they do to generosity survival minds
that have nothing to give when we did
open habit with our skills at time
and ing it develops trust his reps
relationships we first moved to Lincoln
allurement Lincoln clear laughs I
mission under stream let’s get past hi
how are you casual acquaintance to
develop meaningful relationships what do
you do move fit the script best of all
time best more energy beef right there
we started posting of weekly community
notes giving our time I fed energy just
to get to know people throughout
relationship so it’s becoming a
highlight of our week and met some
amazing people through innocence when
kindness comes with a mixed-motive it
can sabotage authenticity it can damage
relationships but as when kindness comes
from childlike innocence without motive
it becomes aspherical three-dimensional
cerebral kindness is kind to everyone
would come into contact with shooting
ourselves we’ve Hawaii expended what’s
in it for me it’s high-risk flip the
script do it for me we give a chance to
somebody an opportunity we believe in
them more than are they were more than
exceed expectations six value when we go
through life tasting things that aren’t
important we can be left with not really
much energy what really matters what we
value by priorities first the night
supply mentality it disappears energy
increases that effort multiplies all
months goes up and every day they
exciting being a wife and a mum and a
businesswoman I have to feel
I’m losing the sight of sharing flip the
script get up early next one for me and
they were done do that I get put on my
day run with everything pull it in
empathize when we confronted with
somebody else’s anger it’s really easy
to take that with us into our next
interaction created a chain and a
reaction a domino effect when we pause
choose empathy you get the other
person’s perspective looking much more
easily dissolved conflict but I
volunteered with the Samaritans suddenly
I would be in a conversation with people
who were ready to end alive I just
wanted to say no don’t do it
commitment is not always the best answer
there is a time to commit at a time to
wait but when we commit carefully and we
think about what Lincoln is what we’re
committing to then we can find our way
around of obstacles we we can just top
himself to a whole new level we’ve made
tons of commitment when my first
marriage ended in heartbreak for us both
I was never ever ever going to get
married again then I mixed up and I know
the best things in life come from total
commitment okay so there’s the eight got
a little anagram here to help us to
remember it tugga reminders that
forgives when we forgive the things that
happen says or might happen to us when
we forgive the mistakes we might make we
do make when we forgive other people but
the mistakes they make or they make
seventy times seven times we thrive we
create a butterfly effect and the world
drives what was on my impossible list
build a business that will change the world
I’m gonna take you on today I’m gonna
take you back in time
it’s 2003 I’ve just finished my first
year at University studying psychology
and my parents come forwards has caught
me through university so I’ve got three
jobs during 10 time when it comes to
summer holidays my plan was to work with
my parents farm here in Lincoln tier but
if anyone knows farming is the toughest
business and my parents were struggling
to pay for themselves they’re like me so
I needed summer job I ended up selling
books door-to-door in America it’s part
of the training for that job I was asked
to write down the list of what I would
do if anything were possible excitedly
started writing down my list
then I was challenged do you think those
things are possible
why not just think about electricity
running through the home what about when
a man walked on the moon the four-minute
mile was broken or move on fire that can
do everything and it’s in your pocket at
one point those things would have been a
possibility but now they’re accepted in
their common place look back down on
your list you told me what makes you
think those things aren’t possible I
look down on the list but I so open and
the world changed for me my mind is
flipped
no one had ever spoken to me like that
of all no one had told me that to do
that
me I’m a farmer’s daughter from both
died I didn’t even pass my eleven plus I
could do that I knew in that moment what
I wanted to do the rest of my life
I wanted to spread that message
I’ve started a relationship fast-forward
with me 2015 from now a wife I’m a mummy
and I’ve started business to help people
to achieve their impossible it’s most
famous like that but I’m struggling I’m
struggling to motivate myself let alone
anyone else I knew in order to be than
me I want it to be how to flip the
script I have to move from survive to
thrive but what does it look like what
does thrive look like dough needs to be
earning a set you don’t need to be
dressing in designer labels living in an
uphill postcode driving up a new car
no I realize none of those things
mattered when I could start today it was
just about attitude about my mindset
there wasn’t any qualification criteria
so the next six months challenging
myself to develop the habit reminder
that I knew I needed to flip my script
to move from survive to thrive I’ve
called it the octagonal mindset so you
can probably tell from tagging online
threat there’s eight points to strategy
stay in your tactics I’m going to take
you through really quickly now what it
is it’s going to go really quickly not
pick a mix it’s a blow-by-blow or eight
kind of deal you ready step number one
fail we can go through life being
fearful of failure but we realize that
fan is just a part of life learning
process that we all have an L apply it
onto our back we can fall get back up
dust ourselves off we go again when
we’ve started hosting our first
conference day before we have these six
people registered no idea those people
told us to cancel but I knew
split the script I’m
we couldn’t fail we can only learn from
it you have to start somewhere right
six it’s better than none let’s go for
it I am so pleased that we did it was
brilliant and the feedback we received
it was more than worthwhile going
head-to written ality we can go through
the life trying to be like everyone else
we rarely need to look down that hands
to know they were not meant to be
when unique one-of-a-kind were meant to
be different in actual fact the things
that are different about us can become
our unique abilities and our skills I’m
Dyslexic it’s cool cut lip it’s ripped
my dyslexic brain helped me to learn how
to work hard which is a business owner
it’s really helpful also helps me
connect ideas in new ways that wouldn’t
be able to do brain working life this
way perspective we were impatient to see
progress but can frustrated well we
respect the process and realize that
overnight success does not exist we can
enjoy the journey we know that every day
matters every snail step cameras for
five years I pitched an idea of a sales
call for ex-offenders and homeless
people five years of new thank you blitz
great I’m five years closer to it yes
I’d like to say that we’re actually just
in the middle about very first our
school and our students are inspiring
and motivating us they didn’t see their
potential we did
now they do to generosity survival minds
that have nothing to give when we did
open habit with our skills at time
and ing it develops trust his reps
relationships we first moved to Lincoln
allurement Lincoln clear laughs I
mission under stream let’s get past hi
how are you casual acquaintance to
develop meaningful relationships what do
you do move fit the script best of all
time best more energy beef right there
we started posting of weekly community
notes giving our time I fed energy just
to get to know people throughout
relationship so it’s becoming a
highlight of our week and met some
amazing people through innocence when
kindness comes with a mixed-motive it
can sabotage authenticity it can damage
relationships but as when kindness comes
from childlike innocence without motive
it becomes aspherical three-dimensional
cerebral kindness is kind to everyone
would come into contact with shooting
ourselves we’ve Hawaii expended what’s
in it for me it’s high-risk flip the
script do it for me we give a chance to
somebody an opportunity we believe in
them more than are they were more than
exceed expectations six value when we go
through life tasting things that aren’t
important we can be left with not really
much energy what really matters what we
value by priorities first the night
supply mentality it disappears energy
increases that effort multiplies all
months goes up and every day they
exciting being a wife and a mum and a
businesswoman I have to feel
I’m losing the sight of sharing flip the
script get up early next one for me and
they were done do that I get put on my
day run with everything pull it in
empathize when we confronted with
somebody else’s anger it’s really easy
to take that with us into our next
interaction created a chain and a
reaction a domino effect when we pause
choose empathy you get the other
person’s perspective looking much more
easily dissolved conflict but I
volunteered with the Samaritans suddenly
I would be in a conversation with people
who were ready to end alive I just
wanted to say no don’t do it
commitment is not always the best answer
there is a time to commit at a time to
wait but when we commit carefully and we
think about what Lincoln is what we’re
committing to then we can find our way
around of obstacles we we can just top
himself to a whole new level we’ve made
tons of commitment when my first
marriage ended in heartbreak for us both
I was never ever ever going to get
married again then I mixed up and I know
the best things in life come from total
commitment okay so there’s the eight got
a little anagram here to help us to
remember it tugga reminders that
forgives when we forgive the things that
happen says or might happen to us when
we forgive the mistakes we might make we
do make when we forgive other people but
the mistakes they make or they make
seventy times seven times we thrive we
create a butterfly effect and the world
drives what was on my impossible list
build a business that will change the world
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