peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again beautiful deep divers I hope
your day is going good beautiful day
here but are you in the presence of a
narcissist yes Ralph you are yes I am
Ralph how did you know I had no idea how
to recognize you’re the target of a
narcissist let’s just whoa breathing in
that good ass piranha baby that’s the
question that came in if you’ve got a
question add me on Instagram right now
at infinite waters someone said that
they think they’re in a relationship
with a narcissist and they don’t know
what to do because it’s very subtle deep
divers have you ever been around someone
who’s so full of themselves that you
don’t even exist and we an even had
breakfast yeah can I get a hello pair
now there’s a big difference between
narcissism and self-love okay self-love
is where you’re like yeah
I want to be full of myself but you’re
also honoring other people shine
narcissism is where you’re like I have
to have the whole spotlight for me and
nobody else can shine okay so it’s good
to be full of yourself if you’re
allowing other people to shine too but
when we talk of narcissists they won the
whole get off the stage that’s it they
won the whole spotlight for themselves
and you might know a narcissist okay you
may know a narcissist it goes back to
Greek mythology narcissus right
narcissus
this handsome guy so incredibly handsome
that he fell in love with himself and he
is a reflection in the river to the
point where he actually wanted to try
and touch it and then he drowned and
died that’s not nice Ralph I know okay
that’s what we get
nos ISM from right that’s why we get nos
ISM from okay narcissus okay
check out that Greek mythology story so
if you are in a relationship with a
narcissist let me share with you what’s
helped me along my journey because I
meet a lot of narcissists sometimes we
all have a little bit of narcissism in
us as well
right and it’s okay a little bit but too
much we can’t deal with that look
gaslighting that’s how you know you’re a
target of a narcissist by the way you
don’t have to be a victim you just have
to be aware that this is happening
because a lot of the times is very
subtle so gas lighting in 1938 there was
a play called gas light where one of the
characters was telling the other
character that hey you’re going crazy
you’re imagining things in your head and
it’s not really like that okay if
somebody trying to make you feel like
you going crazy that you’re making
stories up in your mind and whatever you
are saying is not valid because it’s
just your imagination that’s how you
know you’re the target of a narcissist
okay that’s what they love to do
something called gas lighting sometimes
they’re like hey you’re going crazy
again they might even laugh when they
say oh she’s crazy again oh he’s crazy
again okay I’m here to tell you that you
want a victim of these narcissists and
you don’t have to tolerate it
don’t stay in any environment with any
person who’s making you feel
uncomfortable okay just say I’m not
gonna tolerate it I’m not going crazy
I’m just getting more beautiful that’s
better
how to recognize you’re the target of a
narcissist
now many narcissists will step on your
toes ouch even on your stomach ouch even
on your face out just to get to where
they need to go they’ll use you for
their benefit in their game they don’t
care about you though
they don’t care about you though because
once again in the worldview of a
narcissist they are the only people they
are the only people that exist you don’t
even exist to them okay so they’ll use
you they’ll step on you to get to where
they need to go to that’s how you know
you’re in the presence of a narcissist
so what you have to really do is to say
actually why am i feeding and giving my
attention to this person okay don’t
settle for mediocrity and shabby us
people we don’t need that we don’t need
that we don’t need that okay so you
you’re gonna be very mindful of that is
there someone I know right now who’s
kind of stepping on me to get somewhere
else
what else how to recognize you’re the
target of a narcissist this is what
happens deep dive is okay this is
classic ever been talking to someone and
then you call them out on something you
call them out and they’re like hey don’t
you dare don’t don’t no don’t you dare
talk to me like that you’re in the
presence of a narcissist because gnosis
can never ever be wrong they always have
to be right they will attack you if you
question them they will attack you if
you question them if you question their
sensitive ego they can’t deal with that
right so I’m here to tell you is what
I’m here to tell you is me meeting a lot
of narcissistic people growing up
sometimes I’m like speak even if your
voice shakes mmm what slow motion this
side because narcissists love to
intimidate you by saying actually don’t
say that say this instead they don’t
want you to have freedom of speech they
don’t want you to have freedom of speech
but you got to still speak even if your
voice shakes okay and that’s how you
actually get away from a narcissist when
you don’t keep quiet you actually start
voicing how you truly feel about the
situation and then
actually ask yourself what am I doing
with this person not even a cat down the
road knows that’s another story
how to recognize you’re the target of a
narcissist
now what’s helped me along my journey
beautiful deep divers is this that I’ve
met a lot of people who are narcissistic
and we are all narcissistic by the way
if you got Instagram you are yes you are
we just got different degrees look they
will embarrass you in public ever been
out with someone and they’re trying to
make you always look bad yeah
you’re the target of a narcissist
they’re turning everybody against you in
the conversation oh she doesn’t even
know her facts about this event or he
doesn’t even know this about that
they’ll laugh at you in public
they’ll shame you in public they’ll
shame you in public okay because
ultimately the narcissists job is to
always make sure that you think they are
more superior to you so they have to try
and break you down to have a very low
self-esteem and they do this if you’re
with them in public by embarrassing you
by turning everybody against you now if
that is happening to you right now what
you need to do if they try to embarrass
you in a crowd call them out on it and
say you’re very narcissistic they can’t
deal with that a narcissist cannot deal
they they can’t deal with being called a
narcissist that’s why you got to do it
you narcissist now they start looking a
bit shaky baby seven day vegan challenge
how to know you’re the target of a
narcissist okay narcissists feel they
are superior to all other life-forms on
the planet okay they’re very egocentric
and I was a narcissist before I became a
vegan because I thought every other life
form was designed for my consumption now
I realize actually we
living an ecosystem and every single
animal deserves the right to live mmm
slow motion inside mmm okay cuz that’s
where narcissism starts when we feel
like we are supposed to eat every single
creature that walks planet Earth and we
have total dominion over all of planet
Earth because we are the rulers and the
cat down the road is just loving to you
right now look at you emotion all right
now
so I’ve realized this that you know
you’re the target of a narcissist if you
can see that they don’t really care
about other life-forms animals they
don’t care about them okay so you have
to really realize say actually why am i
choosing to be around this person
because a lot of the times you could be
in a relationship you might even have
children with a narcissist but realize
you don’t have to stay there and then
realize that I am choosing to stay here
that’s where you take your power back
and how you reclaim your power okay say
I am choosing to be here how to know
you’re the target of a narcissist talk
to me Ralph they project their feelings
onto you so a lot of the times a classic
a classic example a classic example deep
dive is is that let’s just say a
narcissist is a narcissist is in a
really really bad mood okay they’ll say
you’re in a really bad mood classic
projection classic projection because
they don’t want to take any
responsibility for what they are going
through so they’ll say you’ve got it you
could say oh you’re angry they’ll be
like no I’m not angry you’re the angry
one always pointing the finger never
taking responsibility for their actions
never taking responsibility for their
action so what you have to do is keep
calling them out and keep really being
more in tune with your emotions so you
can actually say no I’m not going crazy
in case they try to guess like you say
no this is how I feel and that’s how you
feel you
are angry right now or you are moody
right now okay call them out on their
actions and don’t be afraid because many
times they will love to project their
feelings onto you so you’re like oh my
gosh maybe I am like this and then once
again it turns into a massive
gaslighting party okay we don’t need
that right now lying how to know you’re
the victim of not a victim you’re the
target of a narcissist lying they are
chronic liars pathological liars because
once again narcissists will even lie to
their own mother mmm
what slow motion this side even to the
cat down the road okay because they
always have to protect their ego that’s
what narcissists have to protect because
once again they are the center of the
entire universe so they will lie to
maintain that spot so if someone is
continuously lying to you what you have
to do is say okay okay I get it
that’s how this person is they’re a liar
there are narcissists
the question is why do I keep listening
to their lies without doing something
about it don’t go where you are
tolerated go where you are celebrated
mmm slow motion this side
how to recognize you’re the target of a
narcissist narcissists always feel
entitled this person should love me the
world should be like this to me that’s a
classic trade of narcissism and you’re
the target of a narcissist if they also
feel entitled like they’re like hey you
should always hang around me you should
always be around me you’re my slave
okay you got to tell them to their face
the best way to deal with the narcissist
the best way to deal with the narcissist
is to look them
directly in their eyes and say I’m not
afraid of you nanananana
now you don’t have to do that if you
don’t want okay just say I’m not afraid
of you and then they start to say oh my
gosh this is someone who’s not afraid
okay then they get scared and they
retreat but so long as you can’t look
them in the eyes
they’ll keep gaslighting you saying oh
you’re going crazy you’re going insane
you just imagining stuff you need help
you know you need to go and see a doctor
it’s all projection here
okay so narcissists always feel entitled
to everything including you okay I’ve
realized this that to know you’re a
target of a narcissist is that they’re
never happy for your success in fact
they don’t even care about your success
you could say oh I this happened to me
today they don’t care because as long as
you’re not including them in it it
doesn’t make a difference to them
because it’s all about them they don’t
care about you that’s how you know
you’re a target of a narcissist okay you
also know by just feeling their energy
do they have compassion many narcissists
lack empathy let me repeat that many
narcissists lack empathy they can’t put
themselves in your shoes because they’re
always in their own all the time they
lack compassion and they lack empathy
and if you know someone like this who
has no feelings who doesn’t care about
hurting other people exploiting other
people for their gain you have to
realize this that nobody can exploit you
without your permission
mmm what slow motion this side
nobody can exploit you without your
permission okay
so just realize that if you feel hurt by
a narcissist
leave don’t stay around people who hurt
you you’re better than that
oh but I’m always gonna be alone if I
don’t stay with them no because that’s
what narcissists do they play emotional
guilt trips on you they’re like if you
leave you’ll never find someone like me
ever heard that
that’s a narcissist if you leave I made
you never hurt someone who who said that
to you ladies or fellas I made you I
built you up without me you would be
nothing that’s the classic line of a
narcissist without me you would be
nothing that’s how you know you’re a
target of a narcissist well you have to
say intern is that actually I can do it
by myself
because you didn’t give birth to me
right and then they’ll be like oh my
gosh someone that actually talks back to
me that’s what narcissists are afraid of
okay how to know you’re a target of a
narcissist
now plain and simple
many narcissists always will always
sometimes fake their emotions they will
always hide their emotions and hide how
they really feel and what they would do
in in a classic situation is that you
could be with a narcissist and you don’t
really know who this person is okay
they’re very afraid of being vulnerable
because they always have to wear this
massive ego so you know you’re a target
of a narcissist if you’re around someone
who’s always hiding how they really feel
about a situation who’s always
suppressing their emotions who has no
soul no depth no anything it’s just ego
so what you have to do is say actually
am i choosing to be with someone who
doesn’t even lay their soul back to me
mmm what slow motion this side
[Music]
narcissists will manipulate you
narcissists will try and control you but
this is your power you don’t have to be
around them if you’re in a relationship
with a person that’s a narcissist leave
the relationship right now and go for a
walk with the cat down the road and then
we’ll just say Phil so good to be a live
baby can I get a Hello Pere have a
beautiful day deep divers were just well
breathing in that good ass prana baby
infinite waters diving deep once again
stay well stay healthy peace you we all
have a bit of narcissus in us it’s just
that some people have way too much narcissus in them
once again beautiful deep divers I hope
your day is going good beautiful day
here but are you in the presence of a
narcissist yes Ralph you are yes I am
Ralph how did you know I had no idea how
to recognize you’re the target of a
narcissist let’s just whoa breathing in
that good ass piranha baby that’s the
question that came in if you’ve got a
question add me on Instagram right now
at infinite waters someone said that
they think they’re in a relationship
with a narcissist and they don’t know
what to do because it’s very subtle deep
divers have you ever been around someone
who’s so full of themselves that you
don’t even exist and we an even had
breakfast yeah can I get a hello pair
now there’s a big difference between
narcissism and self-love okay self-love
is where you’re like yeah
I want to be full of myself but you’re
also honoring other people shine
narcissism is where you’re like I have
to have the whole spotlight for me and
nobody else can shine okay so it’s good
to be full of yourself if you’re
allowing other people to shine too but
when we talk of narcissists they won the
whole get off the stage that’s it they
won the whole spotlight for themselves
and you might know a narcissist okay you
may know a narcissist it goes back to
Greek mythology narcissus right
narcissus
this handsome guy so incredibly handsome
that he fell in love with himself and he
is a reflection in the river to the
point where he actually wanted to try
and touch it and then he drowned and
died that’s not nice Ralph I know okay
that’s what we get
nos ISM from right that’s why we get nos
ISM from okay narcissus okay
check out that Greek mythology story so
if you are in a relationship with a
narcissist let me share with you what’s
helped me along my journey because I
meet a lot of narcissists sometimes we
all have a little bit of narcissism in
us as well
right and it’s okay a little bit but too
much we can’t deal with that look
gaslighting that’s how you know you’re a
target of a narcissist by the way you
don’t have to be a victim you just have
to be aware that this is happening
because a lot of the times is very
subtle so gas lighting in 1938 there was
a play called gas light where one of the
characters was telling the other
character that hey you’re going crazy
you’re imagining things in your head and
it’s not really like that okay if
somebody trying to make you feel like
you going crazy that you’re making
stories up in your mind and whatever you
are saying is not valid because it’s
just your imagination that’s how you
know you’re the target of a narcissist
okay that’s what they love to do
something called gas lighting sometimes
they’re like hey you’re going crazy
again they might even laugh when they
say oh she’s crazy again oh he’s crazy
again okay I’m here to tell you that you
want a victim of these narcissists and
you don’t have to tolerate it
don’t stay in any environment with any
person who’s making you feel
uncomfortable okay just say I’m not
gonna tolerate it I’m not going crazy
I’m just getting more beautiful that’s
better
how to recognize you’re the target of a
narcissist
now many narcissists will step on your
toes ouch even on your stomach ouch even
on your face out just to get to where
they need to go they’ll use you for
their benefit in their game they don’t
care about you though
they don’t care about you though because
once again in the worldview of a
narcissist they are the only people they
are the only people that exist you don’t
even exist to them okay so they’ll use
you they’ll step on you to get to where
they need to go to that’s how you know
you’re in the presence of a narcissist
so what you have to really do is to say
actually why am i feeding and giving my
attention to this person okay don’t
settle for mediocrity and shabby us
people we don’t need that we don’t need
that we don’t need that okay so you
you’re gonna be very mindful of that is
there someone I know right now who’s
kind of stepping on me to get somewhere
else
what else how to recognize you’re the
target of a narcissist this is what
happens deep dive is okay this is
classic ever been talking to someone and
then you call them out on something you
call them out and they’re like hey don’t
you dare don’t don’t no don’t you dare
talk to me like that you’re in the
presence of a narcissist because gnosis
can never ever be wrong they always have
to be right they will attack you if you
question them they will attack you if
you question them if you question their
sensitive ego they can’t deal with that
right so I’m here to tell you is what
I’m here to tell you is me meeting a lot
of narcissistic people growing up
sometimes I’m like speak even if your
voice shakes mmm what slow motion this
side because narcissists love to
intimidate you by saying actually don’t
say that say this instead they don’t
want you to have freedom of speech they
don’t want you to have freedom of speech
but you got to still speak even if your
voice shakes okay and that’s how you
actually get away from a narcissist when
you don’t keep quiet you actually start
voicing how you truly feel about the
situation and then
actually ask yourself what am I doing
with this person not even a cat down the
road knows that’s another story
how to recognize you’re the target of a
narcissist
now what’s helped me along my journey
beautiful deep divers is this that I’ve
met a lot of people who are narcissistic
and we are all narcissistic by the way
if you got Instagram you are yes you are
we just got different degrees look they
will embarrass you in public ever been
out with someone and they’re trying to
make you always look bad yeah
you’re the target of a narcissist
they’re turning everybody against you in
the conversation oh she doesn’t even
know her facts about this event or he
doesn’t even know this about that
they’ll laugh at you in public
they’ll shame you in public they’ll
shame you in public okay because
ultimately the narcissists job is to
always make sure that you think they are
more superior to you so they have to try
and break you down to have a very low
self-esteem and they do this if you’re
with them in public by embarrassing you
by turning everybody against you now if
that is happening to you right now what
you need to do if they try to embarrass
you in a crowd call them out on it and
say you’re very narcissistic they can’t
deal with that a narcissist cannot deal
they they can’t deal with being called a
narcissist that’s why you got to do it
you narcissist now they start looking a
bit shaky baby seven day vegan challenge
how to know you’re the target of a
narcissist okay narcissists feel they
are superior to all other life-forms on
the planet okay they’re very egocentric
and I was a narcissist before I became a
vegan because I thought every other life
form was designed for my consumption now
I realize actually we
living an ecosystem and every single
animal deserves the right to live mmm
slow motion inside mmm okay cuz that’s
where narcissism starts when we feel
like we are supposed to eat every single
creature that walks planet Earth and we
have total dominion over all of planet
Earth because we are the rulers and the
cat down the road is just loving to you
right now look at you emotion all right
now
so I’ve realized this that you know
you’re the target of a narcissist if you
can see that they don’t really care
about other life-forms animals they
don’t care about them okay so you have
to really realize say actually why am i
choosing to be around this person
because a lot of the times you could be
in a relationship you might even have
children with a narcissist but realize
you don’t have to stay there and then
realize that I am choosing to stay here
that’s where you take your power back
and how you reclaim your power okay say
I am choosing to be here how to know
you’re the target of a narcissist talk
to me Ralph they project their feelings
onto you so a lot of the times a classic
a classic example a classic example deep
dive is is that let’s just say a
narcissist is a narcissist is in a
really really bad mood okay they’ll say
you’re in a really bad mood classic
projection classic projection because
they don’t want to take any
responsibility for what they are going
through so they’ll say you’ve got it you
could say oh you’re angry they’ll be
like no I’m not angry you’re the angry
one always pointing the finger never
taking responsibility for their actions
never taking responsibility for their
action so what you have to do is keep
calling them out and keep really being
more in tune with your emotions so you
can actually say no I’m not going crazy
in case they try to guess like you say
no this is how I feel and that’s how you
feel you
are angry right now or you are moody
right now okay call them out on their
actions and don’t be afraid because many
times they will love to project their
feelings onto you so you’re like oh my
gosh maybe I am like this and then once
again it turns into a massive
gaslighting party okay we don’t need
that right now lying how to know you’re
the victim of not a victim you’re the
target of a narcissist lying they are
chronic liars pathological liars because
once again narcissists will even lie to
their own mother mmm
what slow motion this side even to the
cat down the road okay because they
always have to protect their ego that’s
what narcissists have to protect because
once again they are the center of the
entire universe so they will lie to
maintain that spot so if someone is
continuously lying to you what you have
to do is say okay okay I get it
that’s how this person is they’re a liar
there are narcissists
the question is why do I keep listening
to their lies without doing something
about it don’t go where you are
tolerated go where you are celebrated
mmm slow motion this side
how to recognize you’re the target of a
narcissist narcissists always feel
entitled this person should love me the
world should be like this to me that’s a
classic trade of narcissism and you’re
the target of a narcissist if they also
feel entitled like they’re like hey you
should always hang around me you should
always be around me you’re my slave
okay you got to tell them to their face
the best way to deal with the narcissist
the best way to deal with the narcissist
is to look them
directly in their eyes and say I’m not
afraid of you nanananana
now you don’t have to do that if you
don’t want okay just say I’m not afraid
of you and then they start to say oh my
gosh this is someone who’s not afraid
okay then they get scared and they
retreat but so long as you can’t look
them in the eyes
they’ll keep gaslighting you saying oh
you’re going crazy you’re going insane
you just imagining stuff you need help
you know you need to go and see a doctor
it’s all projection here
okay so narcissists always feel entitled
to everything including you okay I’ve
realized this that to know you’re a
target of a narcissist is that they’re
never happy for your success in fact
they don’t even care about your success
you could say oh I this happened to me
today they don’t care because as long as
you’re not including them in it it
doesn’t make a difference to them
because it’s all about them they don’t
care about you that’s how you know
you’re a target of a narcissist okay you
also know by just feeling their energy
do they have compassion many narcissists
lack empathy let me repeat that many
narcissists lack empathy they can’t put
themselves in your shoes because they’re
always in their own all the time they
lack compassion and they lack empathy
and if you know someone like this who
has no feelings who doesn’t care about
hurting other people exploiting other
people for their gain you have to
realize this that nobody can exploit you
without your permission
mmm what slow motion this side
nobody can exploit you without your
permission okay
so just realize that if you feel hurt by
a narcissist
leave don’t stay around people who hurt
you you’re better than that
oh but I’m always gonna be alone if I
don’t stay with them no because that’s
what narcissists do they play emotional
guilt trips on you they’re like if you
leave you’ll never find someone like me
ever heard that
that’s a narcissist if you leave I made
you never hurt someone who who said that
to you ladies or fellas I made you I
built you up without me you would be
nothing that’s the classic line of a
narcissist without me you would be
nothing that’s how you know you’re a
target of a narcissist well you have to
say intern is that actually I can do it
by myself
because you didn’t give birth to me
right and then they’ll be like oh my
gosh someone that actually talks back to
me that’s what narcissists are afraid of
okay how to know you’re a target of a
narcissist
now plain and simple
many narcissists always will always
sometimes fake their emotions they will
always hide their emotions and hide how
they really feel and what they would do
in in a classic situation is that you
could be with a narcissist and you don’t
really know who this person is okay
they’re very afraid of being vulnerable
because they always have to wear this
massive ego so you know you’re a target
of a narcissist if you’re around someone
who’s always hiding how they really feel
about a situation who’s always
suppressing their emotions who has no
soul no depth no anything it’s just ego
so what you have to do is say actually
am i choosing to be with someone who
doesn’t even lay their soul back to me
mmm what slow motion this side
[Music]
narcissists will manipulate you
narcissists will try and control you but
this is your power you don’t have to be
around them if you’re in a relationship
with a person that’s a narcissist leave
the relationship right now and go for a
walk with the cat down the road and then
we’ll just say Phil so good to be a live
baby can I get a Hello Pere have a
beautiful day deep divers were just well
breathing in that good ass prana baby
infinite waters diving deep once again
stay well stay healthy peace you we all
have a bit of narcissus in us it’s just
that some people have way too much narcissus in them
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