Why Are You Single?

he some senate waters diving zinc once
again we are out here in the heart of
nature baby beautiful day why are you
single let’s just well breathing in that
good ass piranha baby so i got a
question from someone asking why are
they single it’s been a year and a half
they’re scratching their back that
confused they’re like hey Ralph I’m so
beautiful why is this happening to me so
this is the first part in the series of
why are you single and we’re going to
cover it for many different angles
this is sexology water fire hot cold
yin-yang daddy’s home we’re back mean
so we are going to play the being single
means game and what we’re going to do is
I’m going to say a whole load of
statements being single means and one of
them is going to apply to you and you’re
going to use these tools to help you
find out why you are single I’ve been in
relationships than I’ve been single I’ve
been in relationships and then I’ve been
single then I’ve been in relationships
again so being single can affect all of
us but being single means you know your
Worth and you aren’t willing to settle
for a mediocre relationship slow motion
this side you’re like Ralph Ralph yes
I’m not settling I don’t blame you
because you are fabulous and you know it
and you are waiting for the right person
to come along and just hug you squeeze
you like you really know you
are worthy off okay many times we’ve got
a choice and we know it but we don’t
just want to go with the first person
that comes our way
because we have standards and that is a
beautiful feeling to honor your
standards okay does that apply to you
being single means oh wait for it you
never made time for commitment because a
relationship just wasn’t a top priority
for you do you remember when you were
really small and they were like what’s
your biggest dream and you’re like I
just want to meet Ralph smart I just
want to be a scientist a doctor a lawyer
a basketball player pianist only a few
of us said actually I just want to be in
a great relationship so in our
subconscious mind many of us
relationships just are at the top of the
list in our priorities and you got to
ask yourself okay am i making time am i
making time to be available so I can
meet someone who is really going to
inspire me I’m going to inspire them do
I even have time for myself first and
foremost okay I realize love my early
journey before I had a relationship I
didn’t even have time for myself and
that’s a reason why a lot of people are
single because they don’t have time for
commitment they are way too busy you’re
working here working there is what I
call men of power and women of power
I’ve spoken about this before ladies if
you are meeting a guy and he hasn’t
really become self actualized achieved
at least one goal you might be in a
relationship with him but it’s never
there and how do I know that happens
because I get over to
thousand messages every single day and a
lot of them alike Ralph my guy is never
around so many people are even in
relationships but they are single okay
so being single means that you got to
start finding time you got to start
making relationships a top priority and
then you will find your true reflection
being single means that you have to
trust the timing of your life just like
in nature you observe the beautiful
seasons it’s the same for relationships
sometimes there is no harvest and then
sometimes you just find someone
beautiful when you least expect you got
to trust the timing you may not find
that person today or tomorrow and cut
down the road thing or even next month
it always says that but sure enough you
will meet your reflection so long as you
are in tune with the truth of who you
are okay and that’s what I’ve seen along
my chin I found the one I love doing
slow motion is like they always say a
lady loves a guy in uniform what are we
talking of a guy that’s focused working
on his dream and his vision that’s
attractive because we see that okay he’s
doing something so sometimes you got to
realize that trust the timing continue
with your day-to-day life be so in love
with your purpose and it will come okay
but
trust the timing be patient like if you
read the autobiographies of
some people they’re like yeah I met my
dream partner at 54 years old well I
hope we don’t have to wait that long
can I get a hello there but you do have
to trust the timing because sometimes
when you really want it it doesn’t come
when you don’t want it
it comes it falls on your lap just like
a beautiful apple falling from a tree
eat it okay being single means that you
have been a half searching for another
half for so long you have been an
incomplete half searching for another
incomplete half and now both you make up
two incomplete Hubbs
being single means you have to become
whole and then you will find your
reflection then you will become whole
with someone else you’ll have a holy
connection right you have a whole deeper
connection and that’s what it’s all
about you see many of us we are kind of
empty inside and we want someone to
complete us you see happiness begins
with yourself and when it comes to
finding that dream partner you’ve really
got to go within yourself to become
whole and I’ve seen along my journey a
lot of working on myself every single
day in becoming my greatest version
that’s why right now I got so much to
give because I’m living my purpose every
single day you see many of us think oh I
have this entitlement to just find the
dream partner now what I’m here to tell
you is that you don’t like have you
worked on yourself being single means
you have to get comfortable in the
training room because you are here right
now to work on yourself to really become
a better human being
so when you actually do meet someone you
have a whole lot more to give 7 day
vegan challenge blowing up in a
beautiful way
being single means you have in your mind
this clear vision of meeting another
vegan and nobody else will suffice
it just won’t do you got a goal I always
say if you’ve got to go
write it down say it aloud make it clear
and visualize it so you are visualizing
right now and then act act like you’ve
already got it right it’s already here
so you are visualizing right now someone
with a whole load of tomatoes in their
mouth arugula kale basically eating upon
based diet but you’re like Ralph why
can’t I find a good vegan man that’s
what ladies write and they tell me that
they’re like Ralph why can’t I just find
a good vegan man right because food is
very important I’ve seen along my
journey I was dating a woman and I was a
vegan she was eating me it just wasn’t
working why because she kept eating
tomato ketchup and I’m like okay I’m
helping people become their greatest
versions eat healthier and this is not
someone I want to kiss right now
okay so when I met someone who was
eating a plant-based diet the
relationship was far better okay because
we could actually sit down together on
the table and vibe over a beautiful
cacao smoothie with chia seeds on top
and a little bit of vanilla okay so it’s
okay I’m here to tell you it’s okay to
be single and it’s okay to also be fussy
because food is important if you are
eating a plant-based diet and you have
these standards you want someone else to
be eating the same it goes back to
trusting the timing right
now a lot of people are improving their
health and you will sure enough meet
someone who is gonna wake up with you
every single day and stuff a whole bunch
of grapes and Emma being single means
you’ve got to find someone on the same
level of sconce on the same level of
consciousness as you being single means
you’ve got to find someone on the same
wave level of consciousness as you and
I’ve seen it along my journey I’m diving
deep I’m realizing we are infinite
beings having a human experience so when
I’m connecting with someone I ask big
questions like how is the universe
created I’m diving deep I’m like okay
what do you know about the pineal gland
what do you know about the third eye
what do you know about the third eye
what do you know about Indigo’s now if
this person is completely silent that’s
cool but at the same time I know there’s
going to be a problem down the line
because I’m like we may not be vibrating
on the same wave level right now there
is a massive awakening happening on the
planet that’s why relationships are
changing at a rapid rate because people
are having the shift in consciousness
and therefore it is interfering with
their relationships because once you
wake up to a whole new world it’s like
you hope the other person could come
with you but sometimes it doesn’t happen
like that because everyone is at a
different level of consciousness so when
you find someone with the same level of
consciousness as you that’s how the
relationship begins to blossom but being
single sometimes means that you haven’t
found anybody on your wave level yet but
that’s okay be patient and it will come
being single means you let a good one go
you let a good one go okay and now
you’re like I’m screwed or else I’ve let
a good one go
before when I was young I’m like she was
so amazing what was I thinking I’m mad
right now right but I’m an alchemist I
got over it
actually I didn’t I got over it not
Susan actually I miss her so much
okay look I realized this that when I
was younger when I was a teenager
seventeen
I really didn’t know who I was I was
running around reckless without
knowledge of self and sometimes when you
are single it’s because you let a good
one go sometimes we don’t appreciate
people that we are with until they are
no longer in our life slow motion inside
and when I got into a relationship it
was because I started to appreciate
people because I was talking about it
every single day if you let a good one
go ask yourself this how can I improve
myself so I won’t screw up the next time
in a relationship because sometimes we
don’t want to take responsibility that
we screwed it up
okay watch my learn from this experience
what lessons can I extract from this
relationship that I can take into the
next one what could I have done
differently could I have bought them
flowers instead of chocolate you should
have bought them flowers
they don’t need chocolate I told you
okay being single means you have huge
expectations okay I meet a lot of guys
who tell me route I’ve got so many
expectations my girlfriend’s got to be
like this same thing as ladies tell me
the same my guys got to be like this
right
okay lesbians tell me the same thing and
gays who’s got to be like this she’s got
to be like that okay a lot of people
have huge expectations
of their partner well they’ve got to be
a vegan they got another third I like
who sees that
goodness gracious right I have huge
expectations and sometimes it’s only
because we have huge expectations of
ourselves what I’ve learned along my
journey is this and it really hit home
when I realize oh my days nobody is
visualizing a princess and when I
finally meet this princess I realize oh
my gosh she’s a princess and then she
turns into something totally different
ladies you know what it’s like you find
a prince prince charming and then next
morning he’s a frog what happened get a
refund that’s what happened okay nobody
is perfect look are you perfect then why
are you expecting other people to be
perfect what’s helped me along my
journey is to realize this you got a
sometimes drop and lose one huge
expectation and for me it was I don’t
expect people to be perfect in a
relationship I don’t even expect a
relationship to be perfect there are
going to be arguments ups and downs
where you’ll live to see another day and
you really got to realize that if you
are single stop having this massive
checklist because that could actually
that could actually be preventing you
from finding this marvelous person that
could hug you for like eight hours
that’s a long hug okay and by the time
you’re finished you’re like huh did I
just have orgasm kind of okay look being
single means this that you got to learn
how to see new relationships with new
eyes I get it
you are afraid of getting hurt again
that’s why a lot of people are single
they don’t want the same thing to happen
again
it was terrible Ralph my last
relationship I get it
we’ve all been there but this is a new
relationship with a new person so you
really gotta learn how to see new
relationships with new eyes don’t carry
past baggage from old relationship into
a new relationship that’s going to taint
the relationship and you really gotta
learn you really gotta learn that lesson
being single means you got to work on
yourself daily you got to ask yourself
okay me as a human being I’m not perfect
I have a lot of flaws is it commitment
issues do I have to make more time for
my partner you got to start doing that
okay stop trying to think it’s everyone
else’s fault start taking responsibility
to say oh actually oh actually it’s me
for a change and that is so empowering
being single means trusting that you
will find a beautiful being that will
respect you and even massage your toes
you see what helped me along my journey
was to realize this the moment you
realize when you stop searching for it
it comes slow motion inside being single
means you got a sometime stop searching
for it you got to allow it to come to
you it doesn’t mean you have to be
passive you’ve got to be active in your
purpose you see nothing is more
attractive than authenticity when I see
a woman who is so focused on what she is
doing that’s automatically attractive
ladies when you
tell me when you see a guy who’s just
living his purpose that’s so attractive
because he isn’t coming from a needy
place he’s got himself
she’s got himself together okay and he’s
focused and that means he can provide
for me
actually I can provide for him because I
earn more than him that’s another story
or else okay I get it I get it okay
you got to trust that you will find your
reflection once you are in divine
alignment with your true purpose being
single means you got to start putting
back the broken pieces of yourself
together
you got to start healing yourself loving
yourself accepting yourself to realize
actually I’m a pretty awesome person and
there is someone who is absolutely gonna
love to be in my presence stop saying
that you aren’t good enough of people
for goodness sakes look at you you’re
gorgeous right even the cat down the
road knows that so start saying actually
I am worthy for this love I have been
craving for but it actually comes once I
actually starting body slow motion
inside and then you’ll just say feel so
good to be alive baby can I get a Hello
okay we are out here in nature life is
great
life is fantastic life is blessed have a
beautiful day deep divers well here baby
infinite waters diving deep once again
just whoa breathing in that good
asteroid baby in nature stay well stay
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