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People Who Do Not Love Themselves Do The Following


peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again can I get a hello people who
do not love themselves do the following
someone wrote in saying that they don’t
like themselves their short fact they’ve
got a face full of pimples they’re 18
it’s a guy here and he saves all of his
friends they have luck with the girls
they’re going out there having great
relationships while he is single and
this is very frustrating he doubts
himself constantly he doesn’t feel that
it ever goes his way and he’s tried to
commit suicide before but every time he
tries he sees a picture of his mother
let me just share with you what helped
me along my journey because what we’re
dealing with here is being able to
accept yourself 100% and this goes for
everybody because I’ve been down that
road where you wake up and it’s never
it just doesn’t add up there’s a reason
why years ago I first spoke of loving
yourself a hundred percent go and check
that video out how to love yourself
because that is the secret catalyst for
becoming your greatest version not mine
your greatest version when you said all
of your friends are doing amazing
they’ve got girlfriends
the greatest way to doubt yourself is to
compare yourself with others you see
whenever we compare ourselves with our
friends the doubt trickles into a lack
of self-love the root of all suffering
is a lack of self-love why because now
we’re not comfortable in being in our
skin who inspired me to learn more about
the mind the great psychologist Carl
Rogers he was so amazing that in every
single counseling session he saw his
clients he didn’t call them patients
because he knew that is the secret to
encouraging them to love themselves and
once you can love yourself a hundred
percent then it’s over
you see let me just share with you
because even I have days sometimes where
it’s difficult to embrace myself a
hundred percent but I’m about 95 but
when I first started even sharing with
the world I was terrified good gracious
I was scared because when you first
start learning to accept yourself it’s
difficult because we forget one simple
thing one simple valuable lesson which
is to honor your unique signature
what am I talking about here the way the
universe has created you you may not
like some people say I don’t like my
body I don’t like it but if you can
embrace it watch what happens because
now you develop more appreciation for
yourself your health improves mentally
and emotionally but more so you’re not
concerned with trying to get someone
else’s signature their body their looks
know you appreciate your own unique
signature because you realize this is
what makes the whole this is what I was
given
I’m gonna make the best of it but also
you say you’ve got a lot of pimples I
did a video called how to get clear skin
drink water stay hydrated you see all of
that comes when you love yourself that’s
the secret of loving yourself look the
moment I started to love myself do you
know what I said I said can I get a
Hello hey oh yeah your whole body
changes you start to look half your age
you become a magnet of attraction but it
can only happen when you begin
validating yourself you see in this
social media world you have likes and
dislikes what helped me along my journey
after doing it for so many years is
tapping into the secret the message has
to be more important than the likes so
in your scenario of accepting yourself
100% your authenticity
has to be more important than how people
perceive you because the perception we
have of ourselves is greater than the
perception other people have of us so
when I realize that what happened I said
you’ve got nothing to lose because it’s
all an illusion
yippy celebrate dance around merge with
the totality of who you are many of us
we can’t accept ourselves because we
don’t trust ourselves because we haven’t
spent enough time with ourselves what
happened after I graduated I booked a
one-way ticket to Brazil I traveled the
whole world because that was a way for
me to learn how to accept myself because
up until that point I had always been
trying to fit in so realize that don’t
worry about it everyone most people go
through a period of what I call not
appreciating who they are why because a
lot of us we don’t value ourselves but
that’s the secret to really becoming
your greatest version placing value on
who you are and it doesn’t matter what I
tell you I can’t change your life
I can only inspire you I can only serve
as a catalyst that can help you become
who you already are the seeds of
potential are within you many times if
you are trying to get everything
do you know that’s the most frustrating
thing in the world I’ve got to do a
video on why a lot of artists and
comedians suffer from depression because
they find it very difficult to accept
themselves even when the whole world
says you’re amazing
if you can’t see you’re amazing then
you’ve got a problem
you’ve got some very beautiful people
you think but they don’t think they’re
beautiful because beauty is in the eye
of the beholder you see one massive way
to learn to accept yourself try this
when someone says oh I really love what
you’re wearing wear something that you
really want to wear that maybe will
shock them and then you will find that
it’s got nothing to do with you it’s got
everything to do with them and how they
perceive reality I learn from my mental
on Moran Mikkel Ivanov that one should
never rest on their laurels sometimes
people say Ralph I really enjoyed that
video I say which one because for me I
don’t care about that I’m just here to
put out the information and for the
message that’s why I’ve been able to do
it for almost a decade
so it’s a whole thing it’s a whole
mindset of realizing you’ve got to
you’ve got to take one step at a time a
lot of us we’re seeing the life of the
rich and the famous but how do you know
that is really what you want most of how
do you know that’s in alignment with
your spiritual journey your journey in
this physical realm when we can’t accept
ourselves
we miss out on the opportunity to get to
know ourselves it was hard for me oh
definitely
because in finding your unique blueprint
which really is the treasure chest once
you find it you’re gonna know because
you are not gonna want to be anybody
else
look when I die no one ever really dies
when I die I want to come back as me I
want to come back and say can I get a
hello there
why because I appreciate Who I am and
once you do that you’re going to become
more abundant you’re going to become a
magnet of Attraction without even
wanting to because we are naturally
attracted to people who love themselves
because it shows unity within themselves
you see accepting yourself has
everything to do with the law of
attraction we don’t attract what we want
we attract how we feel what we feel in
our hearts
deep down you may not feel worthy of him
so once you realize it’s all bs you
start changing your mind I talked about
reprogramming the subconscious mind
that’s where it all begins but in a very
simple way realize that your words are
powerful when you talk to yourself and
say I’m fed up you got to be careful you
got to be careful because every word
echoes it reverberates all around your
body bouncing off the bones even when
you don’t feel a hundred percent
say I will that’s a secret but also be
okay with allowing yourself to feel this
way I had to let it all go and guess
what it was a good thing because it it
was a weight of my shoulders it’s okay
to feel totally lost nothing wrong with
that I went through it but what made me
heal from it was letting go of
resistance it’s almost like a lot of us
we want to feel happy all the time I
don’t want to feel happy all the time I
want to be in balance all the time and
guess what I’m in balance all the time
so remind yourself that allow yourself
to feel whatever emotion is going
through you learn to validate yourself
clap for yourself every now and again
become your greatest fan your greatest
supporter and once you do that you you
will even have you’ll even have more
appreciation for others because once
again when we don’t love ourselves the
great paradox is that we start focusing
more on ourselves in terms of what we
are lacking when you love yourself you
know what you have inside of your heart
so you just want to give to people your
cup overfloweth my friend so there you
have it just realize that don’t bottle
it in don’t bottle it in connect with
great minds great friends and also be
open be open to realize that in a split
second your life can change for the
better but it only starts when you’re
willing to make it happen and there you
have it have a wonderful day
enjoy yourself smile tonight dance
tonight infinite waters diving deep once
again stay well stay healthy peace

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