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How To Be A Good Listener


We all have the feeling that we do not listen to people enough
Here, we will not make guilt worse by letting you know that listening to others is good
It is valuable, but in fact it is rather boring. We’ll show you the beginning to listen to others in the first place
It’s fun to do, something that can be fun for you
It is also fun to speak for itself.
We commonly define pleasure in discussion based on the discussion
Talking about self is fun, listening to you and talking about yourself is a boring thing
As a result, we try to reduce our listening abilities
Instead, we double our words and speak more because that is what we all seem to be
We have the best and most fun life. But is this analysis of the amount of pleasure really accurate? Absolutely
It is purely for pleasure to do so, to hear your own voice
But we also know that it is a risk, because this pleasure is not the pure truth pleasure that we have in ourselves
The real pleasure in talking about ourselves is about our own understanding and thus
Our image becomes clearer about what we are, what we feel, what we want and what we will do. Enjoyment
Talking about ourselves stems from self-understanding, not just hearing our voice. generally
We tend to believe that self-understanding will exist in one way only by doing the actual form
By speaking. But the most rewarding thing is the fact: we can finish
With a better understanding of ourselves by listening to the stories of others
This may seem just as appropriate – and passionately – to say it. But
It is the conscious truth that exists in a place we know very well: literature. Novels
Are the stories of others that we do not hesitate to hear because they are at the same time their best stories
Stories that teach us about ourselves. We are ready to spend hours listening to the stories of others
– such as Tolstoy, Prost and Virginia Woolf – where they talk about their ideas and adventures.
Significantly, we are not reluctant to get one word in this matter because we are
And effectively understand a part of ourselves by listening to their stories. This is what
“Every reader of the novel is actually a reader of his life
Which modify it better to be able to estimate the perspective (glasses) that
The novel gave him the novel. “We may answer that all the details are very good
But the usual person we should listen to is less fun than Marcel Proust
So do not be surprised by our desire to listen to novelists, not to the average person. But people
Who we own and live around are much more enjoyable than we think – and that’s only if we know how to listen to them
And correct them properly. The reason we stress that the book is very enjoyable
Because we listen to them (even if they talk about themselves), because they have practiced liberation
Of their experiences related to universality and those with specific and personal experience. So
We consider the great writers perhaps telling us about a story in which they tell about the childhood of their aunt
Or a trip in the woods, but in the way they tell us these details, in a very skilled way
They frame the global dimension – so their stories are not just folk tales
And without any resonance in the minds of others, but the world stories that Troy
Pages of the World Book of Humanity: that end up that they write their stories as well as our stories in fact
In fact, we all live stories in the World Book of Humanity. But we are
And half-life in a very bad way, in order to sink into the local details
As well as the unnecessary digression, and in that way we mourn the audience, make them listen to a negative person.
We do not have the wrong kind of life; we have the wrong techniques to tell that life
When we narrate badly, we help to create a similar, consistent visual perception when listening
To someone else’s speech. This is a bit of what may happen when things go wrong in a novel
Our lives: First we remain connected to the real details: we focus on the times, the machine and the movements
External – without realizing that things become fun only when people are told
What they feel when accidents occur, not just what happened. Second, we are often overwhelmed by experience
Emotional and passionate for her rather than trying to explain. So
Say again and again “is very wonderful”, or say “it was the most terrifying thing in the world”
But without recalling the exact feelings, and thus being able to take them live in
Someone else’s mind. Third: Only when we promise that we will be more entertaining without our novel,
We are terrified. Then we are afraid of our emotions, which can threaten or affect our feelings
Unbelievable grief, confusion and irritation. We are terrified of the surface. Fourth: Another problem
Is that we do not relate to one story. There are many, many in our minds and we are constantly launching mini-networks
We do not focus. When a good user collides with these uncomfortable ways of speaking, they do not panic
They act like good editors. Being a good entertainer is similar to being a good editor
In the publishing house. To think about the relationship between the American writer Raymond Carver,
And New York editor Gordon Leach. “Leach” and harshly free “Carver” – or when
We listen to it creatively, in a transformative way; a way that can teach us art
Listen in normal life also. – “Leach” enhances Carver’s confidence, he feels it
Because the world he listens to and the world deserves the effort of experience.
I edited the texts in a similar way to what we are living in the conversations and call them looking carefully
Someone else with compassion and compassion. – He stopped Carver from the slope
To local boredom. He took Carver’s experience in the American countryside and took it to the global dimension
Ensuring that Carver will now be famous in Korea and Germany as well. – Recently I’ve stopped
Carver of the Zuggan; his crop focuses on the central character of each story he writes.
What we need as listeners is a copy of what “Leach” does to Carver. In listening, we are
We can also form, edit and modify – in a way that we aspire to obtain
The underlying story is the truth that arises in the minds of the listener. So when she listens, Zaugan stops
Tell him for example “So from a minute ago you were saying ….”. Prepared to
The cohesive, emotional and ‘real’ part of the story. Keep them away
About the narcotic details to the deepest and most relevant emotions. Ask what happened
Feeling for you …? ‘ Allow unusual and strange. Use hints and suggestions that seek an open mind
Perhaps one of them was about to say that they were talking to their sisters or that they stole money
From the company. Do nothing to stop weak confessions. ‘ Say
Complete .. ‘. You are not a judge but you are a friend. The good listener knows it
One of the best ways to pick up a problem in someone else’s life is to hear it discussed
In someone else’s life – and beyond that they have the skill of editing so that they are sure
That they are able to find themselves in the words of others. In this way, listening will no longer become a boring routine.
It’s the most fun thing we can do with someone else
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