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Enabling is better than giving | Chau Nguyen | TEDxBaDinh


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three years ago me and my friends

happened to travel to small village in

the northwest regions of Vietnam and in

the mountain area there is a lot of

ethnic group people and we happen to see

this small little schools which is about

30 square meter Olli for 30 children and

at that time they have little space

basically to learn and they want to draw

but they cannot afford papers and

crayons and after the meeting with them

me and my friend coming back and have a

very serious meeting about Lesbia school

and you know at that time we 5 woman

basically fully employed in insurance

banking investment we’re not really sure

about school and construct and building

without knowing about architecture and

basically we have no money not not

anything so at that time we’re just

thinking about how can we build a school

and then one person say well if you

cannot pay for it then ask someone to

pay for it so we did we go on Facebook

we put on some informations about the

score and and then we write to them

about asking them to contribute to our

project of building the score and

absolutely at that time Facebook was

more you know attractive than a

crowdfunding platform and cheaper free

so basically that’s what how it used to

communicate but what we learn from doing

this project is we divided the people

involved in the project in 3 Tucket the

first one is the organizer which means

us and anyone who hosting this project

the second one is a beneficiary

obviously the children’s and the teacher

the school and the third one is the

donors stakeholders anyone interested in

the project because we believe doing one

project can bring beneficiary not only

to them but to everyone involved and so

we put a story on Facebook and having

run up some few cow crowdfunding

campaigns and at that time we aim

working people because you know student

they very inside

six enthusiastic but they cannot pay and

all you know have a lot of financial

capacity to build school and visit his

people office ladies actually they spend

a lot of time surfing Facebook and they

can use a little you know he use it more

effectively by helping us to do some

good things and after about three months

we able to raise twelve thousand dollars

from scratch to build a school which is

perfect and one good thing I learned

about that is people are actually very

kind and supportive given that you know

you give them a chance to do and give

them a chance to join hang with you and

our first project was the huge success

and we think that now we believe more in

life and humanity’s not not that gloomy

news feeding with people getting cure

environment being polluted but with

people actually supporting and

encouraging each other so it came to the

second project this one is also

accidentally we saw this school too and

in a further further areas in the

northern and borders between Vietnam and

China and it’s even poorer and to build

the school we need $20,000 so for us the

first project was about the beneficiary

which other students who received the

schools and also to us who first time

learn how to function the project and

this time when we organize the project

would turn it into a free playground

where they can be creative with what

they can do because one of the donor

used to tell us that I want to have you

a lot but I don’t have money and what we

want to do is we want to show them that

they don’t really need cash in hand or

money too hot and doing good things they

can be creative they can be anything and

they really are so where after we

launched that can paint about you can do

whatever at love as long as you can you

know how to build a school some people

an artist she hosts a drawing sessions

to fundraising an artist she hosts a

whole week of musical events for raising

awareness and also

fundraising of camera man’s he sewed up

his plans to donate the money and a very

special case where a free young

freelancer offer herself to do work to

earn the donations and then she got

recognized and earned a project in

Cambodia which is amazing so when they

involved in the project it’s not only

about the student they themselves earn

something and when we have people

telling us that thank you

to give us a chance to give you money

that means they benefit from it and so

the second school were also built

perfectly this was the photos back from

one of our donors from Japan and he just

visited recently but just something was

off so we build two schools and then I

don’t know if because our slogan was

started with the school we start receive

a lot of enquiries so they now not only

need schools they need textbooks they

need teachers who can actually teach

them they need access to more

information because otherwise they still

drop out from school and they cannot

even they graduated they cannot compete

with citizen students in the cities for

higher education and then their parents

are too poor to really offer them the

chance to go to school and this was

really overwhelming because one school

doesn’t make that much difference as we

expect it and a lot of people think that

it was already a very sustainable way to

support them by education but it’s not

it’s just the beginning so after two

years I stopped the building the school

first reason is I want to reviews on how

we can do it better

second because thanks to the project I

also have an opportunity for scholarship

to Japan which is for my own and then I

was thinking about who are the really

beneficiary from these projects it’s us

who learn how to function a project who

get connected to very kind people there

are donors who really got offer

from umpires who really interested in

their work in showing then kindness

those who really have a good reputation

for involving in the project but then I

realized that the students who should be

the primary beneficiary may not be the

one who benefit the most from this kind

of project so when I travel to Japan

what I can see is the Japan have a very

good community’s sense of communities

that they willing to involve themselves

to solve their own problem and in the

program that I’m studying they have this

motto that community can solve what

community can and the government can

offer them the space to do it and that’s

when we learned that if it’s not come

from the inner of the communities we can

never solve the problem we can keep you

in the school like I used to think of I

will build one school per year but then

I realized that in the mountain there

are about 20 school so after I finished

building was 20 schools I have to go

back to do the first one so this circle

may not end if the people in that

community

do not act buy them for themselves and a

lot of people tell us that all because

it’s Japan they can do it it’s not

Vietnamese but I don’t think so so on my

way doing the second project I happen to

visit a very small village close by this

school and in this village they are

making a product like handmade from the

lining fabric and it’s all from natural

ingredients which is look really

interesting and you know a lot of

tourists have been visiting this village

so I came to the village and asked for

their story because the environment via

is so different the woman are happy the

man the woman in the village you know

blending together because if you have

been to those and a group in the

mountain you can see that woman mostly

walking outdoor in the field and the man

should sit in one place drinking they do

not you know really support it but it’s

different in this village so I came and

asked

and so they share the story about in

1995 woman of this village decided to

make a change to their life and they

thought they’d get together to make a

line and fabric cooperative where the

woman can work extra time outside of

farming to make some fabric – firstly

for our fabric to sell to the market it

started five women only and it’s not

easy for them for the first years they

have two wins against the traditions

because in some village woman are not

allowed to communicate outside the

village oh they can’t do business they

have to stay in the kitchen during the

house core but in the village is

different the woman decided to stand up

for themselves the first years the man

burned their line in field and they even

burned their weaving frame because they

don’t want them to do it they don’t

believe the woman can really sell

something outside of crops and farming

products so the first three years was

very different until one day they could

earn some money from the products and

though head of the copper is easy visit

one house she did not call out the wife

who actually do the work

she caught out a husband and say this is

the money that your wife have been

earned by doing this products and from

that moment and though men let the woman

to build and you know to continue her

work with the land and fabric which is

the exception in many other village and

so after 16 years now a day they have a

hundred and thirteen members or woman

working in this plus one mill member

which is already a very progressive to

what gender abilities in this village

and they will have been have been very

well known in many others countries but

because they haven’t known how to make a

branding for themselves they haven’t

known how to really develop it to a

marketplace basically they do it and

then they just start to retailer so few

people know about it but that interest

me what interests me me the most is the

community here is very United and they

really stand

to solve their own problem and that’s

what I found missing in my two previous

project because in my previous project

when I came to the village they feel too

ashamed to let us photograph their house

which they believe is not beautiful and

they are too

you know they’re too shy they always say

that we are too poor to do anything we

cannot do anything you are very low

educated and that’s what we what we

don’t really want to hear from them they

actually Adel they can catch serve it

from consult the problem too but maybe

we took away their opportunity to solve

the problem by offering our hub without

asking them so for the first two project

I involved my friends I invoke the

donors the stakeholders but I forgot to

involve the people who can you know join

hand at some point too and that’s why we

make this chain this year so this year I

came back to the village and asked them

to with us somehow and what we’re trying

to do is to get to what to know what

they really needs from us to really help

them leverage their business with their

fabric and how they can can support them

with you know increasing the economic

life and also the children can get to

sew to school we’ve been there since

October and after a while we learned

that they want to have a better working

place so they can enlarge the

cooperative not only to 130 members but

400 members and also training class for

the next generations which is very

interesting and so this is where I learn

the lessons that give me it’s not better

as in the bully sometimes we give but we

unconsciously take away the chance to

stop their own problem but if we enable

them to think and enable them to do it

to reach the to their potentials we can

learn something too and we are not only

the one who gives them but we also

receive the lesson from them so I

believe that everybody here can start a

project to build a school like we did

but let’s take an extra step of asking

them and involve them in the projects

so that we can enable them to everybody

and enable you us and them to continue

the process instead of we giving them

something and then left misleaded when

we left thank you [Applause]

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