the dad towards californicum is a flower
this after we doubt it and why
not what it takes the heat of a
forest fire to burst
the corsican that surrounds the seed and
allow the flower to play its
role
she’s there from a floor for 45 a tone
just for that moment where we want
need new vegetation
we will need them
demonstrate to start a new
forest we have long compared
human beings to broken objects
broken when they lived dramas the
human beings are organic is like
a territory burned is in
contexts of extreme suffering that
can find forces
unsuspected abilities that
were there in did not even know who
was there then we could think so
we want to create the resilience that suffices
to wait
it’s in our nature but the danger
however, we reach 0
at least 10 so how can we do
to avoid that but one of the first
things is giving you permission
to do what makes you the reach
could I say it seems to me that
seems it’s obvious if what we
fact
unfortunately the dramas the 13 10 10
tests to it with a species of
belief rule book
popular people often fish
often do what would make them
well because thinks that everything has to
what they do on a full-time basis is
to suffer to mourn
take care of this pain then
give permission it’s not a word
that I choose by chance
and to illustrate it, I have a story
a lady who calls me I was in a
crisis center that tells me madam is this
that you could talk to my spouse
because he can not talk to me
would do him good to talk of course
but sir did not want to come to
phone then just but you are
there as we can take a little bit of
time with you what is
happened then their 21 year old son was
gone missing for a few days he
had done everything he had to do
he had called the police cid had
sought but in recent years there
had seen quietly slip into the
crime the drug then think well
never found again then ma’am
was a little quieter which
did I ask him but you
say that your spouse by the pot but
what does it mean to talk
said but precisely there began to
renovate the bathroom
do you think it’s a good time
to start renovating the hall
bath maybe it’s the best
moment but tell me what had it like
is made for him
but now that you say that has
took a day there passed a
day to hit in a wall well he
stayed here over the age of the do
from shadow to constructions like that
it was the first time the first
sleepy night since our son
and gone now it’s true that there
stop being like a lion in 15th
soil and renovation or is it a good one there
in it is something on which he
can control who can control game
compared to our son wine can
not do much
so of course I psychologist I like
why people talk I find
it can be useful but I learned
with the experience that sometimes speak
it’s not enough
we need to do something
do what feels good to give
his permissions there this man does not
do not miss lucidity know
exactly what it was not a if
it’s not leak was not the
denial it was survival
but teaching when you need
it is to succeed in surviving
the other thing that can happen when
we live a drama a test what we
ask questions that will not take us
necessarily good places by
example a question that often comes up
that’s why why me
what I did what I did
to deserve that
misfortune do not know justly
on people so it happens to some
adolphe bridge people if we try to
find the causes quickly understand
why did this happen?
happened to us rather than
someone we can not find an answer
we happen to find more
guilt then for me there are some
questions that seem to me a lot
more useful is questions that have
been listed by insulin brig
this type of home other people
who worked with them and allowed
these questions the one common good is this
that you have already managed to get in
exit
how are you already
went through other difficult times
as you have already got up
how did you go from 0.1
maybe less than 1000 1 which has you
what helped you because
that maybe it’s time to
recycle its means it’s not when we
lives a drama that in energy
to learn new strategies
these questions
systematically to my clients that
I have right you come out of answer between
others an answer that had me a little
surprise a client who tells me where a
space she because I cheated
and then I do not want to cheat this
times this the game wants to face the
suffering I want to do things
as it should be on what I come you
see you had cheated what is that
you had done just
but I was gone a year living in my
country of origin that I can not do that
I have accounts to pay
maybe you say of course
it’s not possible for everyone to
leave but it’s not enough to leave for
cure
for me what interests me is who
what she had done during this
year because she had returned who
told me she was better
so what did she do I
insisted m for example I lived in
a small apartment but there were
big windows I called him my
jar but it’s a bit like
that year I left a sort of
the light in my life
I let in heat kills
someone a little private then this
year but I developed
new friendships I let in
people I took a dance class
I always wanted to do that then
I had never dared then of course this
is not cheating on the contrary
did not look like we can do the
same thing in montreal and not
only that I asked him I’m
seems to me that we could give this
information in more people if all the
world when they live dramas
made sure to watch or did
still light in their life or
What is the heat?
people who are good to them
may have dared to do something that
had had cure and never did that
could help other people
his story inspired me but another
inspired me and it goes with the theme of
dreaming of a future that is worthwhile
maybe think that it can be
difficult to dream why and in the
future but that is that often the meaning
we try to give in the past
that we can not find we can
get to make sense of what we
has arrived but in the future
that’s where we can find
answers we want to choose to give
a sense it takes imagination to
dream but it also takes
imagination to hope to believe
that there is a moment that there would be as much
of value if not more than they would be
bigger than the pain we are in
train a moment to get to
pass from 0.1
sometimes we need to dream at 1.10
dream of a saint to something that
is bigger than the bigger sentence
that you
the story of 20 viktor frankl so
illustrates this idea there is a
psychiatrist who lived in the camps
of concentration in the second
world war and try to give it
meaning to what they were living then getting
asked but what makes some
people come to fight for
live while there are others in
same time under the same conditions
who lets himself die then tried to
find answers from a small one of
castes personal characteristic
the childhood of these people the fact that the
family was present or not there
had not found and of course was
not an independent observer of these
events he himself was
weakened had pneumonia
and meet there one day in the direction
of a railway were attached to
friends of fortune
there were fifteen and all
to find on the ground then said that
is I know is today it is
Yann ends and Asia who put a
gun on his aunt who has him
kicked and shouted
Hyacinth insults a rage in him
pay flash and saw himself in
giving lectures on the
horrors of war and on the fact that
it should never be on products
and without knowing why without knowing
how he managed to find strength
to get up to take a step in front of
the other one and he starts that day but
from that day on they will
were asking but could that be
to be a bit that everyone wanted
do lectures but does that
it could be what everyone
who manages to fight for survival
one actually goes people who without
was sleeping dreaming the statue of the
freedom
others who thought joining their
family as much as think a fight
who was going to lead all these people
there too pay attention to the clues
that maybe the war was in
train to finish before tense
helicopters that means that the
allies come so this dream this this
imagination there that they help them to
hope more humbly this
experience them remind me of things
I lived between the age of 4
and 9 1 there are five members of my family
who lived in the same house as
me and who died so I
really had a lot of good times
in my childhood to take refuge in the
future in fact I developed the
belief that the best was to
come
you know like everything in his films
start with a drama that ends
with hakuna matata
so I wanted to stay for the end
of the movie I was doing this is going to be good
I was curious I was looking forward to
only that I said to myself but if I
stayed alive maybe at one
good reason maybe I even
a role to play in this movie there a
contribution that I can make
when I started studying in
psychology
what I learned is that people
who had lived dramas were
more likely to develop
problems of health problems
mental problems of consumption
attachment troops it’s true
that these dangers lumpp it is necessary to
to occupy
help people who live this
distress there but I still have to
my teachers to my friends I have
as I feel I have won
something because of these
events there it was an engine for
it made me develop
beliefs of beliefs that have me
helped all my life people me
were watching the serious way and
skeptics they like guess that says
Literature
in fact it is that these researches these
books there had not been
published
it’s only been a few years
what we learn is clarisse
come it’s not a phenomenon
exceptional just for unique people
this something that happens to the
majority of people and not just this
people who would live from drains
could be likely to
develop post growth
traumatic
what is post growth
traumatic what because people
have lived tragedies
he decides to make decisions that
would have never dared to take
he decides to clean up their
life yes you of the priority maybe
of their relationship he enjoys life
a different way some
develop a sense of mission
others a spirituality that is more
present in their lives and that makes a
difference
I spent a lot of time
my first years working at
tell people who were living
bereavts pay attention to them from
save iridescent 10 of deterioration in
head that they could do some
nightmares and had to be more
sad that she has irritable
I did not tell them to notice the
post traumatic growth index
but if we wear our all our
watch out for what can go wrong
may miss some
things that are changing for
the best
so now I invite people to
pay attention to that and there too
I had to make an example the one most
interesting to illustrate this
phenomenal it’s a nothing that I
still remember his candid face a
little puzzled who tells me but there you tell me
were saying that there were things that
were going to change but I do not know there
but there are two people at work who
asked to be part of my
team
shocked this airlock she would make a change
it’s a boss who tells me listening
brigitte 10 because all I do not
did not know before the events
tourism has known after I
bit the dust there before in
my crew
transfers one always had
to the outside of my team
the five men one-way does not
may however surprised I only have
people want to get out of my team
Can it be that these
events there is made sure that
I was becoming a better
hump but I think I more human
that that moment I empty huge that I
think there are people at work who
began their score before you
so if you live a grain
if you go through a moment 10 and do not
let no one tell you that you
are broken or broken remember
that resilience is in your
nature and during the most
difficult to pay attention to what
is changing for the better
the first clues that the worst is
behind you it could help you
to keep hope
and you if you might be surprised
you might be surprised at what
your resilience can create
[Applause]
this after we doubt it and why
not what it takes the heat of a
forest fire to burst
the corsican that surrounds the seed and
allow the flower to play its
role
she’s there from a floor for 45 a tone
just for that moment where we want
need new vegetation
we will need them
demonstrate to start a new
forest we have long compared
human beings to broken objects
broken when they lived dramas the
human beings are organic is like
a territory burned is in
contexts of extreme suffering that
can find forces
unsuspected abilities that
were there in did not even know who
was there then we could think so
we want to create the resilience that suffices
to wait
it’s in our nature but the danger
however, we reach 0
at least 10 so how can we do
to avoid that but one of the first
things is giving you permission
to do what makes you the reach
could I say it seems to me that
seems it’s obvious if what we
fact
unfortunately the dramas the 13 10 10
tests to it with a species of
belief rule book
popular people often fish
often do what would make them
well because thinks that everything has to
what they do on a full-time basis is
to suffer to mourn
take care of this pain then
give permission it’s not a word
that I choose by chance
and to illustrate it, I have a story
a lady who calls me I was in a
crisis center that tells me madam is this
that you could talk to my spouse
because he can not talk to me
would do him good to talk of course
but sir did not want to come to
phone then just but you are
there as we can take a little bit of
time with you what is
happened then their 21 year old son was
gone missing for a few days he
had done everything he had to do
he had called the police cid had
sought but in recent years there
had seen quietly slip into the
crime the drug then think well
never found again then ma’am
was a little quieter which
did I ask him but you
say that your spouse by the pot but
what does it mean to talk
said but precisely there began to
renovate the bathroom
do you think it’s a good time
to start renovating the hall
bath maybe it’s the best
moment but tell me what had it like
is made for him
but now that you say that has
took a day there passed a
day to hit in a wall well he
stayed here over the age of the do
from shadow to constructions like that
it was the first time the first
sleepy night since our son
and gone now it’s true that there
stop being like a lion in 15th
soil and renovation or is it a good one there
in it is something on which he
can control who can control game
compared to our son wine can
not do much
so of course I psychologist I like
why people talk I find
it can be useful but I learned
with the experience that sometimes speak
it’s not enough
we need to do something
do what feels good to give
his permissions there this man does not
do not miss lucidity know
exactly what it was not a if
it’s not leak was not the
denial it was survival
but teaching when you need
it is to succeed in surviving
the other thing that can happen when
we live a drama a test what we
ask questions that will not take us
necessarily good places by
example a question that often comes up
that’s why why me
what I did what I did
to deserve that
misfortune do not know justly
on people so it happens to some
adolphe bridge people if we try to
find the causes quickly understand
why did this happen?
happened to us rather than
someone we can not find an answer
we happen to find more
guilt then for me there are some
questions that seem to me a lot
more useful is questions that have
been listed by insulin brig
this type of home other people
who worked with them and allowed
these questions the one common good is this
that you have already managed to get in
exit
how are you already
went through other difficult times
as you have already got up
how did you go from 0.1
maybe less than 1000 1 which has you
what helped you because
that maybe it’s time to
recycle its means it’s not when we
lives a drama that in energy
to learn new strategies
these questions
systematically to my clients that
I have right you come out of answer between
others an answer that had me a little
surprise a client who tells me where a
space she because I cheated
and then I do not want to cheat this
times this the game wants to face the
suffering I want to do things
as it should be on what I come you
see you had cheated what is that
you had done just
but I was gone a year living in my
country of origin that I can not do that
I have accounts to pay
maybe you say of course
it’s not possible for everyone to
leave but it’s not enough to leave for
cure
for me what interests me is who
what she had done during this
year because she had returned who
told me she was better
so what did she do I
insisted m for example I lived in
a small apartment but there were
big windows I called him my
jar but it’s a bit like
that year I left a sort of
the light in my life
I let in heat kills
someone a little private then this
year but I developed
new friendships I let in
people I took a dance class
I always wanted to do that then
I had never dared then of course this
is not cheating on the contrary
did not look like we can do the
same thing in montreal and not
only that I asked him I’m
seems to me that we could give this
information in more people if all the
world when they live dramas
made sure to watch or did
still light in their life or
What is the heat?
people who are good to them
may have dared to do something that
had had cure and never did that
could help other people
his story inspired me but another
inspired me and it goes with the theme of
dreaming of a future that is worthwhile
maybe think that it can be
difficult to dream why and in the
future but that is that often the meaning
we try to give in the past
that we can not find we can
get to make sense of what we
has arrived but in the future
that’s where we can find
answers we want to choose to give
a sense it takes imagination to
dream but it also takes
imagination to hope to believe
that there is a moment that there would be as much
of value if not more than they would be
bigger than the pain we are in
train a moment to get to
pass from 0.1
sometimes we need to dream at 1.10
dream of a saint to something that
is bigger than the bigger sentence
that you
the story of 20 viktor frankl so
illustrates this idea there is a
psychiatrist who lived in the camps
of concentration in the second
world war and try to give it
meaning to what they were living then getting
asked but what makes some
people come to fight for
live while there are others in
same time under the same conditions
who lets himself die then tried to
find answers from a small one of
castes personal characteristic
the childhood of these people the fact that the
family was present or not there
had not found and of course was
not an independent observer of these
events he himself was
weakened had pneumonia
and meet there one day in the direction
of a railway were attached to
friends of fortune
there were fifteen and all
to find on the ground then said that
is I know is today it is
Yann ends and Asia who put a
gun on his aunt who has him
kicked and shouted
Hyacinth insults a rage in him
pay flash and saw himself in
giving lectures on the
horrors of war and on the fact that
it should never be on products
and without knowing why without knowing
how he managed to find strength
to get up to take a step in front of
the other one and he starts that day but
from that day on they will
were asking but could that be
to be a bit that everyone wanted
do lectures but does that
it could be what everyone
who manages to fight for survival
one actually goes people who without
was sleeping dreaming the statue of the
freedom
others who thought joining their
family as much as think a fight
who was going to lead all these people
there too pay attention to the clues
that maybe the war was in
train to finish before tense
helicopters that means that the
allies come so this dream this this
imagination there that they help them to
hope more humbly this
experience them remind me of things
I lived between the age of 4
and 9 1 there are five members of my family
who lived in the same house as
me and who died so I
really had a lot of good times
in my childhood to take refuge in the
future in fact I developed the
belief that the best was to
come
you know like everything in his films
start with a drama that ends
with hakuna matata
so I wanted to stay for the end
of the movie I was doing this is going to be good
I was curious I was looking forward to
only that I said to myself but if I
stayed alive maybe at one
good reason maybe I even
a role to play in this movie there a
contribution that I can make
when I started studying in
psychology
what I learned is that people
who had lived dramas were
more likely to develop
problems of health problems
mental problems of consumption
attachment troops it’s true
that these dangers lumpp it is necessary to
to occupy
help people who live this
distress there but I still have to
my teachers to my friends I have
as I feel I have won
something because of these
events there it was an engine for
it made me develop
beliefs of beliefs that have me
helped all my life people me
were watching the serious way and
skeptics they like guess that says
Literature
in fact it is that these researches these
books there had not been
published
it’s only been a few years
what we learn is clarisse
come it’s not a phenomenon
exceptional just for unique people
this something that happens to the
majority of people and not just this
people who would live from drains
could be likely to
develop post growth
traumatic
what is post growth
traumatic what because people
have lived tragedies
he decides to make decisions that
would have never dared to take
he decides to clean up their
life yes you of the priority maybe
of their relationship he enjoys life
a different way some
develop a sense of mission
others a spirituality that is more
present in their lives and that makes a
difference
I spent a lot of time
my first years working at
tell people who were living
bereavts pay attention to them from
save iridescent 10 of deterioration in
head that they could do some
nightmares and had to be more
sad that she has irritable
I did not tell them to notice the
post traumatic growth index
but if we wear our all our
watch out for what can go wrong
may miss some
things that are changing for
the best
so now I invite people to
pay attention to that and there too
I had to make an example the one most
interesting to illustrate this
phenomenal it’s a nothing that I
still remember his candid face a
little puzzled who tells me but there you tell me
were saying that there were things that
were going to change but I do not know there
but there are two people at work who
asked to be part of my
team
shocked this airlock she would make a change
it’s a boss who tells me listening
brigitte 10 because all I do not
did not know before the events
tourism has known after I
bit the dust there before in
my crew
transfers one always had
to the outside of my team
the five men one-way does not
may however surprised I only have
people want to get out of my team
Can it be that these
events there is made sure that
I was becoming a better
hump but I think I more human
that that moment I empty huge that I
think there are people at work who
began their score before you
so if you live a grain
if you go through a moment 10 and do not
let no one tell you that you
are broken or broken remember
that resilience is in your
nature and during the most
difficult to pay attention to what
is changing for the better
the first clues that the worst is
behind you it could help you
to keep hope
and you if you might be surprised
you might be surprised at what
your resilience can create
[Applause]
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