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Imagine Leaving Every Night Out at 9:30 | Paul Richards | TEDxBrighton


imagine if you had to leave every night

out of past nine and that is the reality

for many people with learning disability

to require support to go out in the

evening I’m going to talk about the work

I do in our charity stay up late that

we’re doing about that and how I got

into it for 15 years I was the bass

player in this punk band heavy load and

three of the members of heavy load had

learning disabilities and we used to

play all over the country and and other

places and we had particularly anarchic

chaotic very joyful and very loud sound

this is this is one of our early gigs

and the audience weren’t always

appreciative of our anarchy but we

didn’t care because we always rocked in

2008 everything changed for us the film

director Jerry Rothwell had been

following us around for two and a half

years and made the feature documentary

heavy load about us which told the tale

of us trying to get out of those social

care they send to style gates where

people weren’t particularly digging our

thing into into the music mainstream

this film came out in 2008 Mark Kermode

made it film of the week on 5 Live we

got some lovely praise from Kylie the

the real actual goddess of pop and and

the film told that story of how we were

trying to take our sound into a more

mainstream setting although Jerry

himself said on reflection maybe the

film was just the story of five blokes

going through a midlife crisis and their

there is that in there and as a result

at the film we went on we play to

Glastonbury festivals we played in

New York we released three albums the

Queen Mother’s dead

shut it and WHAM we had punk anthems

that we’ve written like is Bruce Forsyth

dead

we love George Michael everything is

bollocks very insightful stuff and then

we even got asked to write a theme tune

for the channel 4 drama series castoffs

but the one of the stories in the film

was how we were getting fed up with our

audiences leaving just as we got on

stage it was so like a spinal tap moment

that we didn’t think this has anything

to do with our anarchic sound as soon as

we get on stage half the audience leaves

we fought no there’s got to be a

fundamental flaw of social care systems

and luckily we were proved to be right

some some of the time so we started up

this this campaign ten years ago next

month called stay up late which really

challenged this issue white widest staff

have to finish work at 10 o’clock at

night when people are out enjoying

seeing their favorite bands or going to

the movies or going to the pub with

their mates why the rigid rotors stop

people from doing the stuff that most of

us probably find that we take for

granted so here we are in in Trafalgar

Square this was our last ever gig 2012

as part of the Paralympic celebrations

and by this time we’d set up the charity

stay up late to carry on the work that

we’d started and we try and keep that

punk attitude going throughout our work

and as a charity we do two main things

we’re a punk charity with two main

things

campaigning and our volunteer

befriending project campaigning against

those rigid systems and our volunteer

befriending project is a practical

solution to that mother Teresa said the

most terrible poverty is loneliness and

the feeling of being unloved and in this

country there’s around about 1.4 million

last year ray James from the association

of directors of adult social services

said that in the last five years they’ve

been a real terms cut of 30% to adults

adult social care budgets so that means

money has to be spent on what is seen as

the essentials so budgeting keeping a

roof over your head having support to

take your medication not support to go

out and see your mates and have fun and

socialize in 2010 the learning

disability coalition did some research

to find out what what people what they

thought was going to be the impact of

austerity cuts on people with learning

disabilities so they went out and they

asked people with learning disabilities

how they spent their time and 47% of

them said they spent most of their time

at home 51 percent said they feel lonely

and 64 percent said they don’t get to

see their friends we did a survey last

year to find out what was going on now

and we found that 72 percent of people

said if they don’t get to go out in the

evenings and this isn’t just about

austerity as I said we started our

campaign ten years ago that was two

years before the global banking crisis

so you know there’s a there’s a an

ingrained institutional problem around

this if this inflexible support

and last year the campaign and lonliness

said they came up with a statistic that

loneliness is a bigger risk to health

than smoking 15 cigarettes a day for

your life which is absolutely staggering

and I think the British Heart Foundation

said there’s a 30% increase in the risk

of of heart disease through loneliness

and social isolation so this this is a

picture of probably what many of your

lives

looks like you’ve got you happy you at

the center you’ve got your family your

close family around you then the next

circle out is your your close friends

the people you go to at a time of crisis

and then the wider circle you’ve got

people who have a shared interests or

maybe you’re in the same football team

or go to the same choir or place of

worship or whatever those sorts of

looser connections we have and then in

the outside circle there’s people who

are paid to be in your life so that

could be your your plumber your your

hairdresser or your counselor those

people you pay to be there and then on

the outskirts as people you know but not

by name so people you might bump into in

the street this is what that picture

looks like for many people with learning

disabilities they’ve got close family at

the very center and then people who are

paid to be in their lives on the outside

and avoid in the middle so we thought we

would set up our volunteer befriending

project to try and do something about

this the blocks that are getting in the

way of people going out are like I’ve

mentioned the lack of support people’s

worry about being safe in their

community accessible transport or

transport that doesn’t run at the right

time of day people not having the

confidence or the motivation or anybody

to go with and I wouldn’t go to a gig on

my own I like to go with somebody else

so I can enjoy the time with them and

also a lack of information not knowing

what’s going on but we also know that

there is an absolute desire by people

with learning disabilities to be

active in their communities and be part

of everything that we we take for

granted so there might well be some

local government types in the audience

today I don’t know you can keep that

secret if you like but they’re probably

getting really excited by this slide

because it’s full of words that that get

them excited like community capacity and

well-being and assets based approaches

and all of that sort of stuff blah blah

blah

because try try um trying to excite

somebody a gig to get involved in your

volunteer friending project by using

that kind of language so we own use that

sort of language we called our project

dig buddies and gig buddies works really

simply we match up socially isolated

people with learning disabilities and/or

autism with a volunteer who loves the

same kind of music as they do or other

cultural interests so we could think

about the connections that might exist

in this room there’s probably people up

there who love musical theater and maybe

maybe some some over there who love

musical theater or this there’s

definitely some some some punks are

punks down here there’s probably some

over there bizarrely I think there was

some Phil Collins fans in the in the

silent disco but we won’t ask you to

reveal yourselves but the point is that

you’ve got things in common in this room

with people who are strangers at the

moment but you could end up through

those shared connections making

friendships and that’s how gig buddy’s

works so I think there’s three main

reasons why people don’t volunteer one

is they don’t want to to is they don’t

have the time and three is they don’t

know what to do and big buddies tries to

at least solve the second two you can’t

do anything about people who don’t want

to do something nice but if you can turn

if you can turn what you’re doing

already into a volunteering opportunity

then you know that’s a win-win isn’t it

going out to a gig

seeing a band that you love and taking

somebody else with you to enjoy it as

well that’s that’s even better so we try

and make volunteering as easy as

possible we do do all of the the

criminal record checks and all of that

sort of thing but we try and cut through

as much of the red tape as possible

hence the awful visual pun this for me

is a picture of what being a gig body is

all about just an ordinary scene of two

people Ryan and Natalie sitting in a pub

talking about heavy metal eating pizza

and enjoying beer that’s what it’s about

just ordinary stuff when we started gig

buddies we started in 2012 with 2,000

pounds in our pockets we’ve now got 80

pairs of buddies across Sussex we’ve

supported an organisation in Sydney to

set one up another one in Edinburgh and

then we’ve got projects starting in

Portsmouth and Halifax next year and

really all it’s trying to do is support

people to do ordinary stuff earlier this

year I was asked to depict what our

charity does in a picture and I came up

it’s the most ordinary thing I could

possibly think of

[Applause]

don’t dunk those at home people it’s all

we’re doing is just trying to make life

ordinary for people and as I returned

took writing this speech I was also

thinking about we wrote a manifesto for

change last year where people with

learning disabilities had told us what

they wanted from their lives much like

the birds involved food drink sets but

it also involved seeing their friends

and going out in the evenings choosing

their bedtimes

and just regular stuff like that and

lost last month the the Care Quality

Commission published a state of care

report which said that good quality

support can be the small things like

handing out the post and making people

cups of tea

I disagree no it isn’t we need to set up

our sights a lot higher it is about

supporting people to have friendships

develop relationships have sex lives

have paid work and all of those kind of

so thinking about the theme of heroes I

got thinking about Clark Kent and how he

goes into the phone box and transforms

himself into Superman here’s our project

manager Madeline going into our local

phone box and look what happens when she

comes back out she looks exactly the

same and that’s what gig budding is all

about you don’t have to do anything

different you just be yourself just be a

nice person and share time with people

but if you do think that going to gigs

is an act of heroism then we can all be

heroes and not just for one day thank

you very much [Applause]

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