Relationships – Promiscuity vs. Monogamy Part 2

so which is perfectly natural that
people are doing it both ways well on
the one hand it is perfectly natural to
have a preference for one person over
everyone else on the other hand is
perfectly natural to be physically
attracted to more than one person at the
time well a lot of primitive cultures
had an easy way of reconciling this
basically the resolve the moral dilemma
is they came back to nature to provide
their moral basis right okay so instead
of looking at sex as the sinful
indulgence that has to be repressed they
looked at it as one of those innocent
little pleasures that nature has blessed
each and every last one of us with so if
you do have a preference for someone
else if you really do cherish them and
you really want what’s best for them and
what keeps them happy well then you’ll
let them indulge in those physical urges
and those physical attractions that are
just inherently human now how did they
ever find a way of making this work
we’ll simply put this is what this is
the way the argument goes to demand a
complete and physical commitment from
someone is nothing short of slavery how
are you supposed to tell another living
breathing thinking individual what they
can or can’t do with their body
absolutely you love them absolutely
you’re going to spend the rest of your
life with them but that has to do with
an emotional preference they’re becoming
your best friend you’re not becoming
your property so you want them to enjoy
life and you want them to interact with
the community and you want them into
dull gin that innocent little pleasure
that nature has given every one of us so
what do you do if your honey comes home
with someone else’s baby or what do you
do if your hubby goes and gets the
neighbor pregnant well it’s simple if
you’re thinking about wealth in terms of
human life and not in terms of material
possessions all of a sudden it’s not so
much of a problem the community has
another hand to lend to it so if it work
for them where did we go wrong what do
we start thinking to start doing it
another way well a huge part of it is
insecurities we’re all insecure people
we do have that preference for someone
and we don’t want to risk losing them
more than anything we are social
creatures and we want to be able to
spend the rest of our life knowing that
someone else is going to be there for us
and we know that when we have a physical
attachment to someone or a physical
interaction it might involve it might
evolve into animo
no one and in that case the person might
not be there tomorrow so is this a risk
we’re willing to run absolutely not in
fact in exchange for having propriety
over someone else we’re willing to kind
of submit ourselves into bondage just on
the off chance that they might meet
someone that they like