Relationships – Physical vs. Emotional Cheating Part 2

now of course if someone emotionally
cheated once you’re gonna be worried
that they’re probably gonna emotionally
cheat again well here’s the thing
everyone’s gonna moment sheet over and
over and over again we’re social
creatures we go through life when we
thrive on a relationships with other
people there’s no way around that and to
expect someone to go through their life
and just invest solely in one person is
entirely unhealthy that’s why we have
friends and that’s why we have family
now along the lines of emotional
cheating look at it this way too
emotionally cheat on someone you’re
truly and definitely in love with well
then you have to be truly and definitely
in love with someone else otherwise it’s
just a whimsical crush this isn’t
necessarily a conflict you can be in
love with two people at the same time
but you can also be in love with two
different people for two different sets
of reasons
they’re both fulfilling part of you in
different ways what matters is what they
do with these feelings that they don’t
have a choice on what they choose to do
they didn’t choose to feel that way how
they choose to deal with it is another
question all together now perfect case
scenario they don’t they choose to not
act on it physically this is ideally
what you’re going for if they act on it
physically cut them loose they’re not
worth your time however what happens
when they can’t choose to stop seeing
the person anymore what happens when
they work with them or the person is a
neighbor it’s someone that they’re gonna
see over and over and over again well
this is what you have to bear in mind if
they could have made the choice to not
take it to the next level well then
you’ve got to trust them to keep making
that choice over and over and over again
because you can’t expect them to choose
the way they feel it’s unreasonable
you’ll ask them to lie to you and you’ll
ask them to lie to themselves and then
you’re just turning your relationship
into a web of lies it’s an ugly
situation so if you ever find yourself
in this situation stop sit down talk to
them you’re gonna get upset chances are
you’re already upset you’re gonna get
more upset so go somewhere public don’t
do it over drinks drinks tend to let
things get out of control go for a cup
of coffee do it somewhere public where
you’re not screamed from privacy’s whose
screen by privacy where things aren’t
gonna get explosive out of hand and try
to get to the root of the cause once you
understand why that’s special someone is
finding something
else in someone else well then you just
understand a position to give them with
that someone else has been giving them
all along and hopefully the problem goes
away if it doesn’t still no reason to
call it quits if they remain physically
loyal what do you have you have a human
being that’s what you have someone who’s
still gonna rely on other people to help
fulfill them emotionally and
psychologically and socially it’s just
the way things are so next time you
catch your special someone googling
don’t freak out find out what it is hey
maybe it’s just a hot body walking by
maybe it is a special someone but if
it’s not wearing on your relationship if
it’s not compromising that commitment to
make a choice to choose you day after
day after day well then things are still
okay and they can be salvaged so that’s
the skinny on physical and emotional
cheating this is Trey moremore mojo and
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