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產痛不慘痛,可以很溫柔 | 淑婷 諶 | TEDxDaanPark


Translator: Jessica Li Translator: peggy lee
Everyone says painful painful production
Production will be miserable painful
We are roommates when I have a very good friend college
Later, after graduating from his institute, he went to Zhuke as human resource management
He went to India for two trips to backpackers
He went to work in Japan for another year
Then he returned to Taiwan first thing yet
Is to marry him with his boyfriend
Then go to Taoyuan new house to grow organic strawberries
Everyone sounds like this woman did not feel very powerful
Have the determination and perseverance Physical strength is good and then personality perseverance is good at patience
Very planning things
At that time I wanted to wow such a child of life
Sure no problem
The result I was wrong
He was very weak in bed when I went to see him
Then the whole person because of excessive force so white eye congestion
Very very much like a white rabbit lay slaughtered look
I asked him what happened
He told me: “The pain of producing really terrible
I can only scold her husband very angrily
Why did he suffer so painfully?
Finally, the nurse pushed his stomach across the bed to push the baby out
After a lifetime he did not even have the strength to see the baby he cried and cried
Every time we see the kind of beautiful description
Is to tell you that the tears will be left behind after the production is finished
He said no
At that time, he realized that the tears were not touched
It was the lucky tears that finally ended you all
That day I was pregnant just over three months
I was in the same hospital check-in to get my first mother’s manual
Soon I have a second friend produced
His production story is more legendary
He is on the way to work to go to obstetrics and gynecology routine routine check
The result is left by the doctor that you stay in the hospital to observe
Lying in bed tied fetal heart sound monitoring
The result lay lying from 8 am to 5 am the next day
Then there is no pain at all
Medical staff asked him that you have come or you have a painful bar
His husband also told him that in any case, medical progress is not playing no white fight
He hit but dawn did not feel any child how to do it
The doctor suggested to him again that we should give birth to it
I help you break amniotic fluid
It was at noon after three hours
The child was finally born to end this completely artificial natural product
Even his child’s birthday horoscope can be said that the doctor decided
At that time I wanted to wow production of this matter is really the same as the TV movie
There are so many involuntary things
Taiwan women really do not give birth to a child?
In fact, laparotomy rate in Taiwan is among the highest in the world
We are very good at this point
You can turn around and see each other
One in three people was born by Caesarean section
Do you know if you have a caesarean section?
Or my wife is a c-section childbirth
In Taiwan this ratio is really very high
Very amazing
Except this one, the rate of painless childbirth was over 50%
In the past, doctors would tell you in a more self-regulated manner that you can not fight until you reach a certain stage
We have all heard such words. You can not fight now
Then wait until you want to hit
He’ll tell you later ah you have to fight was born
There was a time limit for having no pain before, so not everyone could hit it
But now there are private clinics that boast that we help you get the best of it
Before you start hurting, I’ll help you hit the moment after your production
I also visited such a woman
I asked him that you did not feel any pain how you produced it
He told me that there is a monitor that will fluctuate as the uterus contracts
So when the ups and downs doctors and nurses will tell him now hard
He tried hard to see
Finally, the doctor or nurse will help and then finished the production
Birth is more abuse we can imagine
Everyone around you, if you have ever produced before, women should know such a thing
If you have not reached the due date, the doctor will tell you whether you want to give birth
Otherwise, children too unhappy meeting, we often hear this is wrong
As if the child is too big he will not be able to come out
If you have a pre-production period, we will say you should check out
Otherwise, your placenta will age
The skin of a woman will not only aging Oh, our placenta will age
Just say that you have to give birth to birth yet have to give birth
Because he will tell you that it is better to master the time
If you already have a trillion birth pain has been a doctor or will tell you
Do not give birth so you may end in two or three hours
More able to grasp the time
We Taiwanese are really very sense of speed
So we also want to save time in the delivery room
But there is a figure I think more worthy of attention
Taiwan’s maternal
The rate of deliveries via midwives is the lowest in the world
Only 0.06%
It now ranges from 190,000 to 200,000 sometimes to 210,000
When the dragon year to two hundred and ten thousand newborn to calculate
Only about one hundred newborns are born in midwifery each year
I think we should not be so fortunate here that there is just someone who helps midwifery deliveries
Maybe older?
Wait a moment, let me tell you about this
The younger students may want to a midwifery that is what
Is this still something that exists in Taiwan?
But you can recall the British Kate Princess a few years ago after he gave birth to a child
Do you remember that picture?
He stood with Prince William on the hospital door with his newborn
Very happy to wave you
At that time everyone was so surprised
How can he feel so neat and beautiful
We went to run a marathon look than he tired look
But he gave birth to a child
Of course, the medical community in Taiwan said this time
Western pelvis is different from us
Westerners are different from Asians
The perineum of the western woman is different from the oriental woman
But one thing they forgot to tell us
It is Kate Princess’s production methods are also different with Taiwanese women
Princess Kate two consecutive births in the hospital by the midwife team
In fact, Taiwan has had a very brilliant midwifery history
Before the Japanese occupation period, it was the time when you were born
Maybe it’s your akon
Their production is delivered by the midwife in the village
Midwife is a production experience and then are not afraid to see the blood is very calm
Clever village which will find which imam to find aunt to deliver
They are midwives
But to the Japanese period
For the first time, the Japanese government has introduced Western medicine to Taiwan
Opened a new midwifery training
By the time the Kuomintang government came to Taiwan, we can also say that he enjoyed it
They accepted the formally trained women very naturally
Continue to engage in midwifery
So the midwife’s status at that time was very noble
He not only can open a midwifery he can go home to take birth
He can also enter the hospital to work with doctors to produce children
But as Taiwan is slowly affected by more Western medicine
Midwives status has also gradually changed
Tell you a few numbers
In 1951, the rate of doctors receiving only 3%
Are there people born in 1951 here?
In 1957 the doctor’s delivery rate was 8%
Did you find that it is still very low?
92% of the respondents are still birth attendants
Then in 1962 when the feeling actually full of modern right, right
At that time only 14% of the doctors were born
However, the year 1964 changed. We should remember that the two children are exactly right
At that time, the Taiwanese government started pushing family plans
Encourage women to give birth to the third child of the second child
It is necessary to install the body of the uterine contraception
However, this is an invasive medical practice
Government regulations can only be enforced by obstetricians and gynecologists in hospitals
So I would find a midwife to produce women
Midwives will be referred to the doctor there
Obstetrics and Gynecology doctor to deliver
This is actually the history of medicine in Taiwan
I think it is an important turning point
However, few people noticed this matter
Because by the time of 1983
I was born in 1982
By the time of 1983
I’m sorry I skipped a middle age
The year 1972 was the doctor’s birth rate
For the first time more than midwife
By 1983, only 15% of birth attendants were delivered
Equal to say that 85% of the children are born in the hospital
One of the more important things happened in 1992
Public hospitals canceled the original midwife’s compilation
So by that time in 1992, we probably did not need to go to the hospital to have children
When you go to the hospital, you will find that the hospital can not hire midwifery midwives
They need to hire a nurse on it
By 1995 universal health insurance to start
At that time, the government made another second and important decision
We are national health insurance
Midwives have not been put into the system of health insurance
Then of course, the midwives came together to protest in the streets so they re-included
But these two things are enough to hit the midwifery industry
So by the time of 1997
Midwife delivery has left only 0.13%
That year 330,000 newborns
Only 500 left by the midwife
Do you know what happens when midwifery disappears in Taiwan?
Very simple Oh, 70% of people are born in a hospital
30% of people are born in the clinic
Whether you are a high-risk or low-risk mothers
As long as you are born in these two places you have to put on the patient service
Then you will be repeatedly returned by the hospital
You have to give birth
You may hit no pain You will be pressured You will cut a knife
Almost every woman will cut a knife Taiwan perineum cut rate is about 99.9%
After cutting, you will be hospitalized for three days
Go to the month center
Complete production
But I think it is not true that women are production instinct
A woman can be pregnant we can produce
The production I want in my imagination is
There will be someone who can take good care of me
He will give me a great guide as I am going hiking
He will take me to find the route ready to equip
Exercises tell me how I want to be able to give birth to my child
At 2 am on August 7, 2013
I fell first then I started to feel pain
I prepared a small production station at home
I set a very comfortable corner with tatami old towel
I set the temperature at 27 degrees the most comfortable
I spent time on the toilet when it was very painful
My dog ​​is my most loyal paternity, it did not leave me
Midwife came to my house later at 11am
It has been a long time since I had 2 pains at this time
He helped me massage him to help me change posture
He told me that I did not need to use force at all
I just need to use the power of contractions on it
Everything is very, very slow, your perineum will not lacerate
So you’d better take no action at all and take it easy
Let the child come out myself I listen to him to do so
With their own strength and pain coexist
Later he asked me what you did not believe you did
I think I told him I believe
He asked me again that you believe your baby can do it
I told him I also believe in Jesus
Then he said there is no problem
Later, we went on like this until three o’clock in the afternoon
This time has more than twelve hours
He told me that you want to have children
I told him I think time is about a little longer
I am a little tired I want to give birth to a child at half past three
Later I finished production at 3:37
I really gave birth to my child within the expected time
My feeling was then
There is a professional caregiver I trust in my side
He gave me enough support and affirmation
Let me know how I should finish my production
And he does not only care about how much my cervix dilates a few centimeters
He can take care of my heart
My family My partner My dog ​​My good friend They are with me
This is a very important moment in my life
Of course someone asked me
And I can walk by myself the next day to take a bath
I can sit up and feed my milk
I am not a patient I just gave birth to a child
So I do not need to be in bed at all
Every one of my friends and family told me that you should lie down quickly
You must lie down
Or how would you be like?
But I asked them they said I really feel that I am very good
I am in good condition I can also sweep the floor
After a few days I cook and cook
I think I do not have the situation in the hospital
Let me think I am actually not a patient
I just helped create a new member out of this home
My friend asked me that you are not afraid of it
Production is so risky
I told him in fact, I honestly superficial I am nervous
But I just knew the risk of production
So I told my health care staff and my midwifery team fully before production
Done a very complete communication
I think that is very, very important thing
Because if I hold to put everything
There is no problem in handing everything in production to the hospital
I think that is the worst idea
I feel like to be a responsible mother
Is to use my own production talent
Find the mutual respect medical team that I trust
Use the most suitable method together
We respect each other’s trust
Find a most suitable for their own mode of production
I think this is a responsible production of responsible mothers
Then I gave birth to a second child
I really want to reinforce my first production experience
I think people’s production can be better than once
This time I was very close at home time
August 5, 2017
I got up at 6:30 in the bathroom
I know that wrong I wake up my husband said I think weird to have children
He still fell back to sleep for half an hour I wake him up again
I really think I want to have a baby you may want to prepare it
He went to buy me breakfast for coffee
We started this day very homely
The midwife prepared the inflated swimming pool as soon as we arrived in an hour
In warm water is very painful to ease the pain
My documentary director friend helps me leave a dynamic and video record
The baby we just saw is already four years old
Before the production we saw a lot of books and books on the production of film production
So he knows exactly how he should support me to help me
He knows there’s a big event in the family today
Well, we finished production in three hours
My son should be the third person to hold a baby
My friend My family My family member And my director
My son My dog ​​We had lunch together We had a cup of cake together to drink
The day we listened to music that day belongs to my own production party
I think I really have a great production
All of us will not forget this day
However, I still feel the difference between four years ago and four years later
I find gentle production has become a fashion
Some people think gentle production is absolutely not let maternal feel pain
Some people think gentle production is to maternity five-star delivery room
There are brand-name bath products
But I think gentle production to me
Have nothing to do with the location and delivery
Think in my heart
Gentle production should be maternal well-informed
What are the conditions of choice
With professional medical staff Midwifery team
Find the one that suits you best
And respecting each other is not what I say
Because I believe their professional judgment will give me the best choice
I also hope that such an important event in life, you will hope that there is no feeling
I do not want me to be scared of pain, no matter if I panic
There are joy I hope I can feel completely
It is awakening to me as a woman’s body autonomy
I do not think every one of us will have a baby
Especially in the presence of men, in fact
The presence of women do not necessarily want to have children
But we must all come to this world through production
Production may not be perfect
And we can also say that it will never be perfect
Production experience can not be copied
However, this production (experience) will certainly be able to bring me as a mother
There are some different experiences for this family
Let’s have a different change in our lives
In fact, through the production of my feeling is
I have re-established my personal values ​​of life
I often think
Who do I want to be with my production experience?
Why do not I want to be like some of those people
I really want to be like who I want to be like
This child has given me a life subject that must be considered
I think through production autonomy
I am happy that I can be with my partner my family My friend my child
Walking along the road of autonomy in production
I feel very happy and honored to have them with them
I also want to talk to you again
Production pain
The pain of production is really painful
Painful pain
But I think it will not be the kind of miserable pain
It can be a very happy thing
thank you all
(applause)
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