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#YouthOutLoud | Frances Oliver | TEDxChilliwack


good afternoon I hope you’re all doing

well my name is Frances I’m 17 and hang

on a second can you guys all hear me ok

good that’s really good because in this

day and age for a youth that isn’t

always the case in 1966 the monkeys

recorded the lyrics we just want to be

friendly come watch us sing and play

where the new generation and we have

something to say which tells me that

over the past 50 years youth are still

asking for the same thing they have been

for centuries to be heard a quick

introduction of myself and just to let

you know all the slides you see behind

me today are done by youth aged 5 and up

the current one being a portrait of

myself as drawn by my sister I am mostly

and I’m mostly involved with three

organizations the help project miss bc

and ASAP a parent’s group at my school

but throughout the year I often like to

attend other community meetings to you

know network and experience and bring

home fresh ideas I am the current Miss

Teen Fraser Valley chose based on

community involvement I attend a small

alternate school in a community that’s

almost as small and I’m involved in it

as much as possible I enjoy helping it

at the local elementary school and I

spent all of October raising money for

the Cinderella Project by volunteering

at a haunted house which somehow managed

to be less scary than standing up here

right now is and I am incredibly

impatiently waiting for the day I am

allowed to have a say in my community as

a youth myself and based on the many

conversations I have with my peers I can

tell you that we often feel like we’re

screaming at the top of our lungs and

still we’re not being heard after all

what good could we have to say what

opinions do we have when we spend all

our time drinking doing drugs listening

to music with a heavy bass line and even

heavier content except that’s not me

except that’s not my friends except that

is in fact on minority there are far

more of us working out in our community

every day through things like cleaning

up the coastline volunteering in seniors

homes in elementary schools collecting

food donations and below 0 weather and

maybe planning world domination and yes

I’ve done most of these viewed our

everywhere they’re just biting at the

bit to evoke change and yet still we

don’t seem to be taken seriously

and why shouldn’t we be heard when it

comes to things like community meetings

where we’re deciding on new housing

developments when we’re the ones who are

inheriting this future we’re the ones

who will be there when the trees are

gone and the houses are built help us

make this decision today so we can take

ownership of it because we’ll be the

ones feeling the ecological and

economical effects of it far into our

future we are more ecologically educated

than any generation before our own our

textbooks are constantly changing and

updating perhaps we’ve learned something

that just wasn’t there for you to learn

before i do see hope though and it comes

admittedly slowly a bit too slowly for

the fast-paced brains of youth but it’s

coming i am currently waiting to stand

on the board of the help project which

is an organization dedicated to

connecting youth in mental health and

family crisis to resources and I say

Stan not sit purposely because no one

gets anything done sitting these days I

am currently on the youth council since

March 2016 with my peers providing

insight into what we the youth want in

need and recently I was contacted by one

of their members saying they had been

sort of throwing around the idea of

putting me into a director’s position

and of course I was honored and thrilled

but we found out later I couldn’t do

that and it wasn’t because they didn’t

want me anymore or because I didn’t want

to do it it was because someone who had

never met me far away decided I wasn’t

capable yet we have so much potential

progress coming and yet the outdated

system brings out all to a halt with a

lack of trust in our youth I understand

that we have a lot to learn but most

youth are better educated today hands on

anyways and I’m not asking for all youth

to be given a leadership role like

become a director of a not-for-profit

but I am asking for us to create

legitimate roles in our societies for

them and if you shows they are capable

and willing on a case-by-case basis let

the organization organization that works

with them decide what level of

involvement their roles can be in their

leadership another thing that I think

makes it easy for a youth goat to go

unheard is we have evolutionary science

working against us I have a secret for

you my frontal lobe isn’t quite full

we developed at least the connections

aren’t neither are those of the brains

of most people under 21 this means the

connections are made a little bit slower

social-economic says that fifty two

percent of our population is under 30

this means about fifty percent of us

have a bit of a harder time reaching our

cause and effects part of our brain but

I think that makes us dream bigger

because of it I don’t seem to get so

caught up and how dangerous it can be

for us but because you have learned

about this through technology and while

the internet we’ve learned how to work

with it creating something that could

have been a limitation that isn’t really

a limitation anymore in fact I’d argue

it’s a creative superpower when we have

the time to truly think about something

and then come back down to earth we are

able to first think without limits and

then plan accordingly so I ask of you

what could happen if we teamed up the

adults in the youth I mean I think

something pretty amazing if we brought

together the unlimited dreamer and the

highly honed problem solver when we take

the time to all listen to each other and

I mean really listen we can get on the

same level and will achieve a global

cross generation way of thinking we need

to stop sticking two groups of age and

personality where conversation owes

freely and easily because once we do

that we will be more rounded and

educated people because we’ll learn from

each other coming from an alternate high

school I can tell you that a lot of the

scene there’s a lot of stigma

surrounding being a youth we’re good for

nothing we don’t care about what goes on

in our community all we care about is

our video games I’ve heard it all up

until very recently the commute elders

within my community were genuinely

afraid of us it took years of

painstakingly planned community outreach

from the classes before my own and my

principal and teachers to gain a level

of respect with the seniors and because

of that now we plan events throughout

the year like senior team lunches where

the high school students and the

elementary students serve lunch to the

seniors and love is shared and stories

of life experience are swapped and so

much has come from that trust we’ve

formed now of course I’m not saying all

youth a perfect

and the sigmas are completely untrue for

everybody because no one’s perfect

especially not the adults if they were

certain politicians definitely would not

be in power right now thank you however

we do need to raise the bar on what we

think a youth is capable of because the

more respect we give youth the better

they were performed and it becomes a

two-way street if you give us your

respect we will give it back to you when

the seniors of my community sparked us

in this way we were driven to prove them

right p it through stopping in the

middle of the street to help them with

groceries or holding a door we just

wanted to prove to them that we are

worthy of that respect but when you

continue to label us with these self

enabling Sigma’s we don’t see a reason

to try any harder it’s just easier

sometimes to be bad if you don’t have

faith in our youth how are we supposed

to have faith in ourselves but if you

give us a spark we will be inspired to

listen to you in return and I think a

lot of good things could come from that

teamwork I have sat in on countless

community meetings listening to adults

talk over myself and other youth who

they invited there in the first place

for their opinions these adults seem

like they’re the ones who wanted to

spark us but the second we gather the

courage to speak up and it doesn’t go

with their opinion we’re easily brushed

over and ignored does he leave the youth

feeling rejected and questioning their

own intellect how can you expect our

youth to turning the caring

compassionate respectful adults if we

talked to a lot of youth through local

community conversation and skype calls

all around the world and they all have

at least one story of a time they spoke

up or against something and felt unheard

I wish I had a dollar for every time I

was like hey how’s it goin and then I

got a rant as a response it’s things

like teachers who don’t want to hear a

question they’re asking therapists you

don’t want to understand quite why

they’re feeling a certain way bosses who

don’t want to hear any way

idea because the old ways were perfectly

fine up till now and parents you just

can’t understand why their youth are

acting away they wouldn’t sometimes as a

youth it can feel like when the adults

don’t understand who they don’t want to

take the time to do that I however can

understand a little bit why it’s hard to

trust you in the past it’s fair to say

we didn’t have the best access to

knowledge which meant we got a lot of

our info from newspapers or word of

mouth this led to a biased game of

community telephone where details were

lost in fact and fiction became one safe

to say it did a pretty good job of

taking away from our credibility however

today in our new age we have been raised

in a world where we have access to all

the information we could ever need at

our fingertips I can fact check articles

with a quick stroke few quick strokes of

the keyboard I can scroll through

countless studies while listening to

podcasts like radio lab on unlimited

topics I can further my education far

beyond the previous limits through

youtube channels like scishow and crash

course i can create whole domains out of

nothing there are sixth graders far

younger than me learning coding the same

way my generation learn to speak french

only it’s far more universal and much

there’s a much greater need for it now

we have the information and the

technology giving us access to it we

have the classes teaching us the lead so

let us let us be dreamers without limits

let us fill the roles on societies that

would have otherwise been left empty

because no other person’s better suited

to fill it let us discover what happens

when these gaps in our society become

bridged let us lead let us change the

world and i do believe we’re capable of

changing the world because there are so

many of us with so many amazing ideas

and goals really there’s an army of us

we’re sitting on local action teams on

the weekend and in leadership classes

before the Sun even rises we are

approving our dedication over and over

again and still we are not being heard

and out of all the things I wish to

change in this world

that is the most important to me because

once we have done that our collective

minds will work to make the rest happen

with a fresh young perspective our

inspired youth are pragmatic pertinent

and prevalent and here like me at TEDx

today ready to create noise until we

become heard and in the last couple

seconds I have with you I just like to

tell you a bit about a district forum i

attended recently for a grade where we

helped look at what the new 9 to 12

curriculum might look like they brought

in this wonderful speaker who said

something that truly resonated with me

the past should be a place of reference

not residents so I asked him you today

tell me why are we still residing along

the preconceived ideas of what a youth

is capable of why are we still residing

in a world where our children are seen

and not heard I ask you to step out of

the past and into the future with me and

help me work to make it so that all the

generations after my own can truly be youth out loud

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