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What’s for dinner? | Karl Pettit | TEDxIdahoFalls


sir you know was last fall I had the

opportunity to take one of those

spontaneous vacations and so I hopped on

a plane and headed back east with my

wife I don’t know about you but I often

take pictures outside the aircraft I

don’t know why it sent photo anyway

thank you i’ll be here till thursday um

as they flew back east we got up to

cruising altitude the flight crew does

what they normally do come out they

start working the cabin a flight

attendant got to our row and she said to

the gentleman on the aisle sir tonight

our meal our flight includes a light

meal would you care for dinner he goes

what yeah that sounds count and Isis

said what are my choices and without

skipping a beat she looked right back at

you love a flight crew with a sense of

humor I think she had a sense of humor

you never know you know if I were to ask

that question here in the room tonight

what’s for dinner we would have a myriad

of response as everything from well

we’re out tonight let’s just go grab

something fast food fine dining and

everything in between for some of us

would be like you know what let’s just

grab something on the way home we’ll

whip something up or something in the

fridge some in the freezer we’ll we’ll

make it work choices would be endless

but for a large portion of our

population here in Southeast Idaho is

specifically here in Bonneville County

and I would very Derek see a venture

that even tonight in this very room

there’s a percentage of our population

when you ask the question what’s for

dinner they don’t answer with I don’t

know where do you want to go they answer

with yes or no yes when we go home we’ll

have enough food in the fridge or no we

won’t yes we’ll have enough food for

today but tomorrow and when the kids go

back to school on Monday we don’t really

know I know what you’re thinking welcome

to the party Danny downer right but it’s

a very real real problem we have on our

community right now so we have a

perception problem in our culture of who

is impacted by poverty who is impacted

by hunger and who’s impacted by by not

being able to live the life that we

really want to live there was a study

done recently

by the United Way’s of the Pacific

Northwest and it was a it was a study

determined to look at what this group of

people is that’s really suffering that’s

really struggling this report is called

the Alice report you may have heard of

this Alice stands for asset limited

income constrained employed and what the

Alice report did for those of us in the

volunteers sector that serve in either

food pantries or shelters or other

social services identified what we

already knew what we used to call the

working poor and what it did is identify

that there’s a percentage of people that

end the state of Idaho thirty-seven

percent of our population who fall into

either poverty or Alice category and

what that means is for the example in

the state of Idaho seventeen percent of

our population is right at or below the

poverty level twenty-two percent the

remainder for the twenty some odd

percent I can’t do math at this hour the

evening that are struggling they just

they’re good hard-working folks but no

matter how hard they try they just can’t

seem to make things work I don’t know

about you but on a global scale I look

at big numbers and I you know I kind of

glaze over so let’s take a look at

Bonneville County bonneville county has

a thirty-four percent rate of folks that

are struggling to get by and folks that

are in poverty and you’re thinking

there’s no way how is that even possible

where are these folks out I thought

people that struggled with hunger and

and poverty and all this kind of stuff I

thought they were just a different group

of people and you really want to get my

I are up call them those people but

aren’t those people homeless aren’t they

the ones who are on welfare and getting

kind of assistance in programs aren’t

those people the ones who are out there

just too lazy to do anything maybe those

people are the ones who just have their

hands out and all they want to do is

have people give them free stuff I can

tell you from experience we’ve been in

this industry for quite some time it’s

less than three percent of the total

population the majority of folks who are

out there really struggling are good

hard-working idahoans in bonneville

county that’s 12,500 plus households

just in bonneville county are identified

on the alice or poverty category here’s

who they are because you’re asking

yourself that question right now well

who are these folks there in your family

they’re your neighbors their your

co-workers there are people you go to

school

there people you’re engaged in

activities and sports all throughout the

area and there are people that that you

go to church with on Sunday as a stark

reality I know but I’m here to ask you

tonight to help us fix this problem

because I believe that if we can

identify who the face of poverty is then

I believe we can make a difference in

our community I have the privilege of

being on staff at first baptist church

in Pocatello and he’s not kidding this

clicker is touchy and I get to work with

an incredible staff they treat me great

we get to do amazing things in the

community and one of the things that we

offer is the food pantry at first

baptist church it’s open to anyone in

the community who needs emergency food

assistance if they if they’re hungry we

that’s our only question are you hungry

then commend will feed you and I was

actually at the pantry this one this one

thursday is open on thursdays and a

young lady came in with her kids said

it’s our first time here now when we’re

at that like what we call the check-in

desk here we don’t ask people to tell us

their story we really don’t need to know

we’re there to serve then we’re dead

love on them were there they get them

some food and get them on their way but

people tend to verbally vomit their

story about where they’re at because

they’re nervous they’re anxious this is

a very difficult thing for people to do

to step in and ask for help so she sat

down and she shared her story she said

my husband and I were both working we

had two good jobs and then something

happened within a short period of time

we both lost our jobs and now we’re out

of work and we’ve been trying to get

jobs we’ve been interviewing but we just

can’t seem to get hired and here’s what

she said next she said we don’t want to

be on unemployment we don’t want to be a

drain on society we want to have a

decent life so she continued to say that

they have been working hard to try to

get jobs and it was three or four weeks

into this adventure and she said we’re

down to our last few bucks the money

stopped coming in but the bills sure

keep coming so we had a choice to make

the money we have left we’re going to

take that money and we’re going to put

it toward food and just hope and pray

that one of these jobs we’ve already

applied for will come through or do we

take that money and we put it over here

in the gas tank and go and interview for

more jobs and just hope and pray that

the food

through being a man of faith I was kind

of excited to hear the word prayer so

hey can I continue to pray for you while

we get you some food and of course we

did our team does an amazing job they

they they treat people with such dignity

and respect and I’m honored to be a part

of that they got her set up they got her

connected got her some other resources I

don’t know how many times they came two

or three maybe but I remember the last

time they came like it was yesterday dad

came with him dad kind of walked in he

just hadn’t had that look on his face

like things are good and he just looked

at me he goes you know what we both got

work well getting back on her feet again

we just need a little help to get

through this month but once we’re there

if it wasn’t for you guys and the

resources you pointed us to we couldn’t

have made it so we just wanted to say

thank you the next time you do see us

will be here to volunteer and they came

back a couple of times and help

volunteer in the team was amazing that’s

why we do what we do that’s why I love

being a part of the scene you see we

have folks in our communities familiar

faces that they just go through life we

have no idea what’s going on the folks

that are in this category the folks that

are struggling these folks that are

working hard to just can’t seem to make

ends meet they don’t wear it on their

sleeves they don’t wear like a name tag

that says hey look at me I need help I’m

about ready to fall off but a lot of

these families are one decision one

medical bill one crisis one job loss

away from falling into poverty Nelson

Mandela said it best when he said that

poverty like slavery and apartheid is a

man-made problem but it can be fixed

with humankind he went on to say that

you can restore dignity this way

overcoming poverty is not a gesture of

charity it is an act of justice it’s the

protection of a fundamental human right

the right to dignity and a decent life

yeah

I was talking with Rebecca restrooms she

is the branch manager at the idaho food

bank in Pocatello they do an amazing job

in Southeast Idaho for agencies and for

folks that are in this position and she

says you know I had a gentleman come in

not too long ago and he pull up in a

nice truck and I struck butts like this

and nicer than mine Aegis unassuming

fella got out of his truck and walked in

and but he wouldn’t look at anybody he’s

kind of hung his head down and I need to

see about getting food bars and they

said I’m sorry what was that he said I

took a deep breath I need to I need to

inquire about getting a food box and

then he began the verbal vomit life was

good had a good job and when things are

going well what do we do we take care of

ourselves we treat ourselves once in a

while don’t we get a new vehicle we get

a new outfit we go on a we go on a trip

we do something to make ourselves feel

special so he did but he had a good job

he had a family they were doing well

gets a phone called dad we just lost our

job wife and I both and now we’re at

risk of losing her house can we move in

with you just to get back on her feet

got a good job not a problem move in

with the addition of the family and the

family members he was already helping

the house mouth count is now at 12 not a

big deal he’s got a good job and then

the bottom falls out and a layoff

happens it’s not his fault it’s just

business we’ve heard that yeah it’s just

business but he still has the car truck

payment he still has the mouths to feed

he still has the bills that are going in

see this is the unknown face of idahoans

who are struggling they just want to

make a difference they just want a

decent life but sometimes things beyond

their control get in the way but I

believe that if we can get our head

around who the real face of poverty is

tonight we can help make a difference

fast forward that same story about

November of that year an elderly woman

walked into the food bank and said

Rebecca can I talk to you for a minute

just sure just as in my son was in a

really bad spot a while ago and he came

in here and it wasn’t easy for him

he had to swallow his pride he was

embarrassed he felt like he was letting

his family down but he came in and you

and your team treated him with dignity

and respect game a little bit of

confidence back she goes we’re not one

hundred percent we’re not where we need

to be just yet but we’re better and we

know it’s Thanksgiving and we know that

people right now in our community it’s a

hard time we just don’t want people to

be without without a turkey so she

reached into her purse she grabbed one

hundred Olive Hill want you to go by

turkeys but she didn’t know was they

were about fifteen turkey short and that

covered the bill you see sometimes we

tend to think that this is the solution

to the problem this does help in an

emergency situation it allows us

agencies the food banks all the places

that like soup kitchens and whatnot it

allows them to go and get supplies to

help people in an emergency situation

but it’s really just a band-aid food

donations and clothing donations they

really are just band-aids to a bigger

problem I believe that this room is full

of the solution I know that because I’m

watching it play out in my life as the

people i get to deal with see if you

would just offer one simple thing your

time and expertise you can make a

difference in somebody’s life you can

affect 12,500 households here in

bonneville county you might be somebody

who is just wicked good at writing

resumes you know how to fill out a

resume that’s got that winning job you

know what a lot of folks really just

want to get a better job but they don’t

know how to write a resume that gets

them there it doesn’t cost money it just

cost you time to share your skills and

your abilities for some of you could you

could help people learn some interview

skills that are just laying the job in a

moment offer yourself as a coach make

yourself available they help someone get

a better job so they can learn a new

skill so they can get a life of dignity

maybe you’re someone who just likes to

likes to just help people cook and you

just like that you like to shop you know

get involved with the cooking matters

class with Idaho food bank or with

cooking things here in town that are

offered to folks they’re low income for

people that are struggling give them

your shopping skills help them learn how

to

to bill the grocery listen to use it

learn how to cook many of you in this

room if I asked you to raise your hands

you could you could do a budget in your

sleep you say the word budget to folks

who are struggling it terrifies them

show them how to make a grocery budget

start there help him build a household

budget so they can get back into a place

where they can start looking up in the

morning and say I’m going to have a

decent day I’m gonna have a decent life

so I believe if we understand fully who

the real face of poverty is if we can

get our heads around that but I believe

that when the question is asked what’s

for dinner no longer will it be yes or

no but they’re going to ask you I don’t

know where do you want to go [Applause]

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